Am a bit of a wrinkly now (i was 24 on 4/9/05, but I had the best birthday I've ever had in my whole entire life!!!) but I know an awful of stuff about an awful lot of stuff!
I am COMPLETELY NON-JUDGEMENTAL and you can always inbox me with stuff you wouldn't ask anyone else @ MelanieHarvey81@Hotmail.Com
Mel xxx
"Dance like no one is watching and love like you've never been hurt"
E-mail: MelanieHarvey81@Hotmail.Com
Gender: Female
Location: Long story, born in Germany, Parents are Spanish but grew up in the UK!!!
Occupation: General Superstar and all around heroine!
Age: 24
Member Since: December 24, 2004
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How do you get rid of hemroids? im 13 and i just went to the doctor and she says i have a small one. do they ever go away? do guys care if u have them? thanks (link)
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Haeomorroids are little sacks of membrane tissue that come out of you B*****m. There is no known specific cause for them. The best thing I can advise you to do is get som cream call GERMALOIDS,,,,,, it shrinks the membrane... it's what supermodels like Kate Moss and Alicia Silverstone ise to reduce the bags under their eyes..... other than that theres nothin you can do hun.... they will go away on their own.........
TC
MEl
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hey i just wanted to kno do u HAVE to floss with braces? i never flossed before and my teeth r fine the dentist said im a good brusher and there's like no plaque in my teeth (lol) plz help! i rate high! (link)
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Yeah unfortunately you do have to floss.... you can get some reall cool flavours from the UK tho.... like Cherry-Cola flavoured floss..... I've not seen it myseld yet but apparently it tastes fantastic!!!!
TC
Mel
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does anyone know when the new tony yayo cd is coming out? (link)
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Depends onwhat ur looking 4 new cd....... a site I used to use a lot when I was 16-20 was www.thespark.com...... they will give you loads of onlie help with your homework n stuff and also have some really cool tests... like the DEATH test... it'll work out form your lifestyle and attitude now how old you'll be when you die my ID o there is Melanie4981 let me know ur results....
TC
Mel
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hello all,
I am the ten year (idiot)well thats what I call myself! since all of your advice I have found myself sleeping with him again and feeling like things will get better, I have not moved back in with him becaise I litiraly cannot afford it, and that would make everything even worse!!!but I have been off work as im sure you can imagine I need time to think, But is it not strange that every night I cant get hold of him?? i know he is with another woman am I just thick???
Today is different I am going to stay away from him because I know he is a liar and a cheat I cannot afford to be dragged back in , how the hell do i keep strong and sane in the process????
23 london, going insane ! female (link)
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Sounds like you are in the same boat as me!
I am 23 too.
Still in love with your ex - can't seem to break away and say that final goodbye!
Every song you hear applies in someway to your relationship.
You find yourself thinking about him all the time.
You still talk about him all the time and you would love nothing more than to be with him and have a perfect relationship.
You still speak/see him all the time?
Sound familiar! Thought so.
You probably aren't going to like what I say but hey this is my advice to you!
Break ALL contact. Change your mobile number, e-mail address etc etc and everytime you think about him replace the thought of him with a thought of someone else close to you.
If you can't get hold of him at night then I hate to say it but he is probably with another woman, you just don't want to see it. (I've been there!)
Just keep your head up and stay strong by knowing that if he can treat you like that then he is not good enough for you and he WILL regret it! Especially when you find someone who truly loves you and end up happy with them.
If you need a chat inbox me or e-Mail me at MelanieHarvey81@hotmail.com
Take care!
Melanie
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I livve with my dad and you no once in a while need a outfit for picture dayy orr a dance? My friends cant alwyas go with me what do i do go with my dad or stay home?? ?anyone with expierence? i rate goood! please help (link)
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Go with your Dad!
I lived with just my Dad for 2 years and on the whole he was really fun to go shopping with! (except that one time he threw a packet of pantyliners at my head (he was just jokin))
Just try it the once if he really embarrasses you or it's really boring and you hate the shopping trip then don't go with him again.
On the other hand you could have a really great time!
Hope you get a great dress and have a great time!
Mel
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When you go to the doctor just to get meds. for the flu or something...do they still weigh you? I know they do when you go in for a physical or a check-up but what if you just have the flu? (link)
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Not unless you ask them to!
If you go with flu, a virus etc etc then they may take your blood pressure but I've only ever had my weight taken when I'm haveing my 6 monthly check-up.
Mel
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My friend Ray introdcued me to his best friend Jason. In the beginning Jason and I got along fine, everyone thought he was interested in me. But soon Jason started asking me about other boys.. whether I liked them or not. It wasnt really any of his business so I would just respond to him without really answering his question. Now all of a sudden lately Jason has been extreamly rude to me. A friend of mine seems to think Jason has the hots for me and is upset Im talking about other boys. I think he's just plain rude. Other opinions would be nice. I rate. (link)
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I think he is probably jealous!!
From what you have said I think he likes you and trying to find out what you think of other guys is a way of sussing out if you are interested in any of them!
Any yeah boys that like you do tend to be rude/tease etc.
It's one of the first signs of love!!
You said however that you think he is just plain rude!
If this is the case then I would tell him that you don't like the way that he is being towards you and that if he doesn't quit it then you don't want to be friends with him anymore!
Hope it sorts itself out either way!
Mel
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My boyfriend and I have been going out for about 2 and a half years now. We're both in college, and we're about half way across the country from each other, so I only get to see him a few times through out the school year. I'm going home in about a month to see him, and I want to do something special for him, but I'm not sure what. Any ideas? I was thinking about spending the weekend in a hotel, but that can get kind of pricy. Our parents won't let us sleep at each other's houses either, so in order to spend the weekend with him I'll probably have to get a hotel. Does anyone have any other suggestions as to what I could do? Or what else I could do in addition to the hotel? Just to show him how much I care about him? Thanks a bunch (link)
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I am pretty sure that it won't matter what you do as long as he gets to see you!
You could (depending on the weather and whereabouts you live) go camping and have a midnight picnic and sit and talk and stargaze etc etc.
This would give you privacy (depending on where you camp)
Get him to build you a fire (men like poking fire s with a stick - makes them feel all manly!) and just be close.
Hope you have a great time whatever you do!
Mel
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I purchased a pair of jeans off ebay on February 19, 2005. When they arrived, I was dissatisfied with them and requested a refund. On March 6, the person emailed me back saying they recieved the jeans and would send me a refund the next morning. After a week later, I emailed them back asking where the refund was. They said they never recieved the jeans. I emailed back saying I did send them the jeans. Today, I got an email from ebay saying I never sent payment! How is this possible if I recieved the jeans and requested a refund??? It's almost a month since I purchased these jeans and the refund isn't here! What do I do? (link)
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That so STUPID!! GRRRR I hate dishonest e-Bayers!
How can they say that you haven't paid for the jeans if you have them there and want to return them!!??!!
I would get hold of a contact at e-Bay and scan in some proof that you sent the money order and that it was cashed then send it to them.
If they ignore it then maybe you could contact SquareTrade.com these are the people that look into e-Bay disputes.
Hope this info helps and hope you get your refund!!!
Mel
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Does anyone know if it's possible it increase the size of your breasts without gaining weight? I know that if you gain weight your breasts will grow larger (considering it's all fat tissue anyway). But I'd like to increase the size of my breasts without gaining weight. Is this possible? Thanks, I rate. (link)
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There is no real way to vaastly increase you bust size naturally.
The only way i've seen it happen is in pregnant women, which probably isn't a good idea.
Also if you try and put on weight it amy not work as different people put the weight on in different areas.
You don't say how old you are but if you are under the age of 18 then I wouldn't worry about it.
My boobs were quite small and odd-sized (lol) until I was 18 now they are just fine!
I would not worry about it as anyone who is only intrested in your chest isn't worth bothering about anyway!
TC
Mel
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Okay, so I eat good, I have gym class every day so I exercise5 times a week for and hour and a half, yet i'm still pretty fat. I mean I'm not obese. I'm about 150, but I'm 5'8. Al my friends are really skinny though so in comparison to them i'm huge. I don't want to hurt myself with an eating disorder or anything and I don't have time to exercise anymore, but what can I do? (link)
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You sound like you are in pretty good shape to me. You are tall so you are bound to weigh a little more than the average person. If you didn't you would look like a baeanpole! NOT a good look!
There is nothing healthy about being really skinny, guys don't like bones poking out of girls!!!
Just make sure you eat a healthy balanced diet and you will be fine!
Mel! x
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Hey does anyone no if it is normal to not loosse all your baby teeth.. im in 7th grade and i still have liek 5 more teeth to loose. All my friends have lost all of their theeth, so i dont no if its normal or not! (link)
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It's ok don't worry!
Lots of people still have some of their baby teeth until thier adulthood!
As long as it is not affecting your helth and it is not making your teeth all wonky then don't worry about it they will drop out of thier own accord soon enough!!
Take care!!
Mel
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What is meterosexual, and is that a bad thing for a female who is trying to date one? (link)
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A guy who is Metrosexual is a guy who is heterosexual but takes pride in his apperaance, has feelings, is sensitive etc etc and can come across as a little gay,
They are really cool! They are always look smart!! And they are great fun!!!
Mel
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i'm trying to name my new kitten that i got a few days ago.
She's a simease mix, does anyone have a good name to name her? ( It's a girl! ) (link)
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My friend cat is calle Cuffor!
As in C for cat!!
If you want something more elegant (she is a siamese after all) what about Topaz?
Hope you find a good name for her!
Mel
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I have dark brown hair, it kind of looks black. People say I can't dye it blonde, but I kind of want to since people believe they can stop me. My skin has a natural tan, if that matters. My friend said I could dye my eyebrows to match. What do you think? (link)
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I don't think you should dye it blonde!!
Dark hair looks sooooo much nicer!!!
:o)
Mel
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I just found out that this girl i know is about to die because of cancer. I dont know how to handle it. someone please help me!! (link)
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This is going to sound really odd but just treat your friend like she never told you she had cancer.
So many people with terminal cancer are treated with kid-gloves and yeah ok they are dying, if there is nothing that can be done about it then you should help your friend live the BEST life they can while they are still here.
Instead of treating her as if she is dying treat her just as normal. Where you can do all the things you normally would and make sure she enjoys the time that she had left.
I know how hard it is I lost my Nan to lung cancer and it's one of the hardest things to watch, but try and make their life as full as possible while they are here, cos there will be plenty of time to grieve and cry for them when they die.
Take care and if you need to talk Inbox me.
Mel
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Hi...
I am about to get my braces off and i dont know why but my orthodontist does a lot of stuff to your teeth like 3 weeks beofre you get them off and they are so sore and i am having to wear 5 different rubber band in 5 different places and they are just really sore and i was wondering if anyone knew anything i could do to make them feel better besides eating ice cream because i am on a diet.
Also, anyone who has had there braces off, i have heard it does hurt and i have heard it doesn't hurt. Does it? Does that polishing thingy feel weird?
Thanks for any advice!
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Take a few painkillers before you go.
It doesn't hurt when they pull them off and it doesn't hurt when you have them polished but your teeth are sensitive for a while after.
I would reccommend using a toothpaste for sensitive teeth and steering clear of really hot/really cold food for a couple of weeks.
It does feel really good though when you get them off.
Hope it all goes ok for you!
Mel
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When a guy puts his arm around a girls waist do u think the girl should put her arm around his waist or like his shoulders?? (link)
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It makes no difference - try both (obviously not at the same time lol!)
See which is comfiest for you!!
Mel
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I really don't know what to put this quesion under. But here goes..... does anyone know where I can find the screenplay Mean Girls?? I need it really bad so if anyone knows where I can find it, that wuld be great. I sorta need it A.S.A.P.!
Thanks again,
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Try using MSN search of Ask jeeves they will probably come up with something.
If not then they'll point you in the right direction!
Happy searching!!
Melanie
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Im trying to find a good book to read for school project andi cnat find one .... i've recently been reading books that involve drugs and relation ship.... and i like well really anyhting fiction that isnot fantsy, science ficion. or non-fiction PLEASE HELP
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"A child called It" is a really good book, but an even better one is a book called "Hannahs Gift"
Here is a bit about it
Every once in a while a book appears that is so special, it is destined not just to be read but to be cherished, to be passed from one reader to another as a precious gift. Filled with wisdom and grace, Hannah's Gift is one such book. Within its pages, Maria Housden shares the transformative lessons in living she received from her three-year-old daughter, Hannah, who brought courage, honesty and even laughter to her struggle with cancer.
It is a really touching book, it has really funny bits, really sad bits but most of all loads of inspirational bits.
It also has a website and you can contact the author through it! The website is WWW.HannahsGift.Com
Anyone else that reads this post go there too, it's a really special book.
Melanie
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