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Q: I am bored out of my mind I've been at the computer for hours mostly because i'm waiting for this guy to sign on but he wont and I have nothing else to do besides this and watching tv im SO bored please give me ideas!!

watch tv, watch movies, cook something interesting, draw, paint, write a story, walk around your block, take pictures of random things and make a collage, clean?, take your old clothes and cut them to make cute new ones...

hope this helps- :)

Q: hey um i like this guy and he has a girlfriend but he said if he dumped his girlfriend he would go out with me but he said he didnt lie me enough to go out with me!!!!!!! so should i get over him or keep tryin???????????

Girl, get over him. Why would you keep going for someone who said that he didn't like you? Plus, it would just cause drama with his (ex)girlfriend. Find a guy that adores you, and you'll be much happier. Also, this guy doesn't seem like he'd be very loyal to you if he told you he might go out with you when he was still dating this other girl. Just find a guy who you like and who likes you back... trust me, it'll happen.

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Q: I think somebody already asked a question like this, but here I go anyway.

I am about to turn 15 years old in September, and I am in all honors classes this year in highschool. I also want to be in Drama. I was thinking maybe this year I could look for a job. Would that be too much on my plate for one year?
I am also wanting to take tennis lessons and workout after school.

I heard that honors classes hand out alot of homework, but I really want a job because my parents are never willing to pay for certain things, and I dont blame them.

Should I cut down on my after school to-dos?

Wow, you sound just like me. I'm about to start my sophomore year, and I just turned 15. I'm taking a 'zero-hour' class before school, and I have cheerleading after school (all honors for core classes too). I would no way consider having a job in addition to all that, even though I would like to have one. But, if I DID consider it, I would say to get a job where you would only work for a few hours on the weekends.

Trust me, you'll want your down time for relaxing so take advantage of your Saturdays and Sundays. If your up for it, though, get a weekend job. And, if you don't like it, you can always resign, and it wouldn't be that big of a deal.

hope this helps- :)

Q: how do you report people ? im not planning on reporting anyone. but if its nessary id like to know how to. just in case but i probally will never have to. but how do you ? ill rate 5's for people who give nice answers and are helpful

It's really easy. Under the 'Miscellaneous' on the left side go down to 'Report Abuse.' If your confused the link is here:

http://advicenators.com/abuse.php

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Q: I'm not allowed to have a boyfriend until im 14 or 15. is this fair? why?

Don't worry about it, really. 14 or 15 is a good age for a boyfriend, but if your younger than that, the relationship isn't much. Just have fun as a kid and enjoy that time when you don't have to worry about if he's going to call you back or if he's cheating on you with someone else.

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Q: what does toning your butt mean? like does it mean getting a bigger butt?

Toning is to get rid of the fatty stuff on your butt. Certain exercises help tone and shape the muscles as well. It actually would be making your butt smaller..

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Q: is there any way to find someones screen name if you just have there name and address? if so... where???

Yep, there is. When you have AIM open, go under 'People,' then 'Find a Buddy,' then to 'By name and Address...

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Q: Does anyone know what Johanna from the Real World is using on her hair in one of the episodes. It curls her hair but it has 3 circular rolls?

Yeah I saw that too and thought it was really cool. I found a website that sells them for you so you can order one offline if you want. I'm sure they also sell them at beauty suply stores also...

http://www.folica.com/Hot_Tools_Profe_d1043.html

hope this helps- :)

Q: i go to a school where sports mean alot..i have tried a bunch of differnet sports..but none of them work for me..i am tring to stay in shape..but i havent as much since i quit my last sport..i really want to try out for a sport this year..any ideas of which one i should pick..i'm not to good at sports ..but i'm detirmned to do this!

Is there golf? It sounds kind of dorky maybe, but that would work. Or, you could consider track and field because it can appeal to a variety of skills. If you're good at jumping, you could do the high or long jump, and if you enjoy running, you could always compete in the mile run.. Just find something you enjoy! And, try everything because you never know what you could be good at!

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Q: How do you get rid of hemroids? im 13 and i just went to the doctor and she says i have a small one. do they ever go away? do guys care if u have them? thanks

Hey I did some research for you. You can get rid of the minor ones at home. Take 3 10 minute baths a day in clean, warm water. Afterwards, apply a cream that you can get at any conveinent store. But, if it doesn't get better in 1-2 weeks, I would suggest going to see a doctor.

And yes, of course, they will go away. Do guys care about them? Um, I wouldn't specifically mention that you have one lol. If you are sexually active, then I suppose they would care. I wouldn't suggest having any kind of sexual intercourse though while you do have a hemorhoid (sp?). It just seems weird to me, but do whatever makes you happy. =P

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Q: Ok, I want a treadmill, cause i luv running.
The thing is, i'm not rich and from the looks of most treadmills they're REALLY EXPENSIVE!
Does anyone know of a treadmill website or something that has cheap treadmills?

Haha, where do you live? We're actually selling ours lol. But, you should try Oshman's or even garage sales. They would have pretty cheap ones, but you have to make sure it works good. Also, keep an eye on the classified section!

good luck- :)

Q: Hey guys I was wondering does anyone know that website, it is just for teens and its free samples to like certain stores, and it gives away free things that just came out and the companys want opioins on..I'll rate 5's for a good site or 2

http://www.beinggirl.com
http://www.teenfreeway.com
http://www.teenfreezone.com

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Q: I seriously need some help.. last night my little sister (10) must have gotten a hold of some scissors because my hair is completely chopped... the night before last I colored her hair green (shes a bleach blonde) and I guess she did that to get me back.... WHAT DO I DO?!?!! my hair is so short and uneven... it was down by my lower back...any help would be appriciated!

definitely go to a salon so they can even everything out! They can also make it look not-so choppy. :/

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Q: could anybody give me some really good rock songs?

thnx so much :)

holiday and blvd of broken dreams by green day! theres also scars by papa roach and untitled by simple plan..

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Q: 13/f

ok my friend and I are going to babysit together. What would be a good price to have parents pay for our babysitting? there is 2 of us and we both need money. but also we cant charge too too much cuz then we wont get any bizness. also, is there anything else about babysitting i should know?

♥

the price depends on the number of kids and the ages of each kid. it would be kind of pointless for both of ya'll to babysit just one kid because you would probably only get paid $5 an hour and then you would have to split that. for two kids, you should get paid around $7 an hour.

also, know that if the kids are older (7-8) then they can probably entertain themselves more so than a 3 year old. if you are give special instructions, then definitely follow them, but i'm sure you'll do fine!

good luck- :)

Q: Can you change you name on Advicenators with out having to make a new accout and without having to pay?

sure you can change your AIM or yahoo screen name in your advicenator profile. but, no you cannot change your main name. (ex. i could not change my MHScutie87 without getting a paid account)

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Q: Okay, well I've been going to a workout camp for three weeks, and already I see great improvement in my speed, strength, and endurance. The only thing, is that WHILE I'm working out, my back sweats really bad, and completely soaks the back of my shirt! It seriously grosses me out and it is not too much fun when you're stuck with a wet shirt for a lot of the day. What can I do?

hey it does suck but baby powder really does the trick! pat it on your back and rub it in if you can. also wearing gray really shows so i would suggest not wearing that color =D

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Q: Is it true that hair grows twice as fast in the summer? and i know it grows half an inch a month,but if it was summer then would it grow and inch a month? my hair is a little lower than my sholders,its summer now so how much will it have grow at the end of August? [[i got it cut i in mid- late june i think ]]

hey, um i don't think that hair grows any faster in the summer than during any other time. but your hair should probably grow between 1-1 1/2 inches from the time you got your hair cut up to august.

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Q: 17/f
Alright, i feel silly asking this question but sometimes i feel weird that my boyfriend is a bit shorter then me. I love him very much and he loves me back even more and a feel like this could last for a long time. Should i talk to him about this (but i guess its not like this is going to change it) or what should i do? Am i stupid for feeling like this?

hey yeah it's not good that you feel that way. if you really love him, it shouldn't matter! i wouldn't talk to him about it because it will probably hurt his feelings. you really just need to get over it and love him for the way he is! it may not be what you want to hear, but it's the truth.

hope this helps- :)