I am totally honest i tell it like it is and if you dont like it im sorry but im not going to sugar coat answers to make you feel better i want to tell people the truth and tell them what i think is right so if you find that what i say is mean or not helpful just give me a low rating and move on but please dont be rude after all i did answer you question even if its not what you wanna hear just take the time to appreciate. Feel free to message me thank you :) (L)
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Today I realized that my social security card, driver's lisence and bank card are all gone. None of them are in my purse anymore and they're the only things missing. My purse is either next to me (even at home) or locked in my locker at work. The only time I can think of that I didn't have my purse right by my side is when I was at a friend of mine's house a few days ago for a bon fire. It was me and my boyfriend and her and her boyfriend. I contemplated leaving it inside or taking it out with me but figured that I was with my friends so it was safe. My friend went inside because she had been fighting with her boyfriend and that's the only time that I can think of that my purse has been around someone else and not me at the same time. I feel horrible for thinking that she could have taken them from me but there's no other possible way that just those 3 things that are the most important things I had in the purse are all missing at once. I called her and asked if she had seen them and she immediately said that she had just cleaned her entire house even scrubbed the walls and didn't see it anywhere. She then went on to talk about how she had just recently lost her credit card and Id as well. I don't know what to think right now, any advice? I already canceled my card but don't know where I should go from here. Someone has my social security number right now and all I can think about is all of my student loans! Any advice about what to do about the missing items or about my friend would be greatly appreciated. Thanks (link)
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Well i guess you should tell the police about your social security card because you really need that or go to the office where you got your security card and signed up for it and talk to them im sure they can help you out.
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I am a 16 year old female. There is a guy I like but he hardly talksto me sould just forget about it or should I talk to him more? (link)
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You should talk to him because if you dont you wont get to know him and besides if you dont you might regret it later on so defintely go for it. :D
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my boyfriend and i have been dating since the beginning of march, but we only became offical on sunday. i really think we were so much closer when we were "just dating" i wont even let him kiss me around ppl now. he is also abnormally obsessive as in he shows up everywhere, he is even totally whipped already and i hate that. i do really like him and i dont want to breakup but what can i do? im not happy being his girl i even try to avoid him. i dont know whats up with me can anyone help? hes only a freshman and im in my second year so i also feel weird about age and he also has barley anyy expeirience which i have alot of i guess and us talking is akward. but what else could it be? (link)
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I think it was better for you before because nobody was watching you or talking about you just basically nobody knew about your relationship so there werent as many expectations unlike now where you have to make sure your relationship lasts longer so people dont think your a hard person to date or w.e so dont worry about what people say or do if you really like him then just forget about everything around you and just concentrate on him but it seems to me your just not really into him anymore in which case i guess the obvious and best thing to do is to break up but before doing that just give it one more chance try getting more comfortable and reminding yourself that hes your bf and hes deserves a little love from you and if still things dont seem to get better just break up its the best thing to do. GOod luck :D
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I am getting closed to 18 and I have never had a boyfriend. Now, it seems kind of weird, but I have no problem with it. I've had plenty of shots, but I'm not rushing anything and dont plan to waste time with the wrong guy. {I'm very picky.) My family, on the other hand, makes it seem like a big deal, when it's not. They are always asking me why I haven't brought any guys home, etc. My younger sister, who happens to be a huge slut, made this ridiculous remark that I am a lesbian. Now her and my parents joke about it. And sometimes I think they really think that. (Which I'm not. I'm totally against that stuff and they know it.) Whenever my sister and I get in fights she's always like "Atleast I've had a boyfriend." I know I'm not experienced and stuff..but there's no one I'd want to go out with at the moment. I've already explained this to my family, but they still get on my case about it. I used to be able to ignore it easily, but now it's hard. I already have a low self esteem, and they arent making it any easier for me. Any suggestions? (link)
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Thats terrible that your family is treating you this way but just think of it this way atleast when you meet a guy it will be extra special because he will be your first and the relationship will be the most special and besides from my experience a lot of girls who have there bf at an older age are going to be in a longer relationship because the guy will be more mature unlike young guys who only want sex and are more likely to be teen dads so i say your lucky i wish i hadn't dated until now btw im 18 now too i would have saved myself from all those idiot harmonal guys who just wanted me to have sex with them trust me your lucky you saved yourself a lot of heart ache.
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My boyfriend broke up with me about a month ago. He was going through a depression and cut off all connections with everyone. He says he needed time alone and that he was no longer happy with anything. First he stopped talking to his best friend. Then all other friends, then he broke up with me. I tried to still be there for him and told him to call me whenever he needed me. But after a couple of weeks of roller coaster emotions and not being sure if he was going to call or not, i decided to end the whole thing. He kept telling me that he will come back one day and that I just need to be strong and move on for now. So thats what I told him that I needed to move on and not to call me anymore unless things were going to be different. he told me he didn't know if he loved me anymore. because he doesn't know how he feels about anything anymore. He said that his depression was getting worse and needed to find jesus. So we said our finally goodbyes last week and haven't talk since
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we were really in love and didn't have a bad relationship. Even planned marriage
he was in a depression when we were both in freshman year. He stopped talking to all of friends then too and then later regretted it and tried to get back in contact with them a year later when we started dating.
we are both seventeen and are in our junior year of high school. We were together 9 months but have know each other for 4 years. We liked each other freshmen year but he became very depressed because he was backstabbed by his friends and his first love cheated on him. He cut off all connections with everyone at school then to. He moved schools our 10th grade year. We didnt talk all school year but I texted him out the blue during summer and we began to have a relationship. He tried to get back in contact with the friends he cut off because he regretted doing that to them.
I REALLY MISS HIM AND IN YOUR OPINION DO YOU THINK WE WILL EVER TALK AGAIN?
he was my best friend and i was his. We talked about everything
Please do not tell me i need to just move on. Because i am doing that. When i am ready to date again. I will do so. But I just really want him in my life again... .. or do you think it would be weird if i wait a couple of months give him his space... then call him to check on him?
i will do anything to have him in my life again... even if its just as friends
& please excuse any misspelled words and my grammar I wrote this in a rush..Thank you in advanced (link)
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I think you really have no other option but to call him because like you said your already moving on and you dont think he will call you so therefore your only option is to call him and ask him how hes doing and if he wants to maybe hang out or something im sure once he gets more comfortable with you and starts to realize he does like you maybe you guys will get back together.
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My entire family favors my younger sister over me for everything. She always gets all the attention, gets to do more stuff, and is handed stuff. On the other hand, I have always had to work for what I want. Now, my sister is 15 and my parents are getting her a car in a few months. And I'm 17 and I havent had a car yet because my parents are making me pay for it. They pay for her cell phone bill which is $50+ and they won't even get me one for much cheaper. I've always had to pay for my stuff, and its getting annoying how everything is being handed to her. With the stuff she gets in trouble with, she doesn't even deserve it. (link)
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Maybe you should talk to them about this just have them sit down and talk about all this im sure they will reason with you and will treat you the same. But i think the reason they treat a little differently then you is because shes younger and maybe because shes just been spoiled since the beginning so ya dont take it to heart i dealt with a similar situation and i always hated it but i talked to my parents and they actually understood and made my brother actually work a little harder for everything and now were pretty much treated like equals.
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Some places I go and use my debit card, they ask for an ID. I usually show my permit ID, but I lost it. So is a school ID fine as well? (It has my picture and name.) (link)
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Ya a school id is good enough but you should still either find your permit or get another one made.
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What is that piercing called when it's right above your lip off to the side (kinda where Marilyn Monroe had a beauty mark)? (link)
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its called a monroe piercing
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I've noticed some people's myspace pages say "You cannot view this person's profile unless you are added as their friend" or something like that. Well I checked out the FAQ & I can't seem to find out how I can get my page protected like that. Does anyone know? (link)
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Usually if you go back to setting and under privacy it should have it listed there to make your page private just click on that and ya thats it. I hope this helps :D
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What is your opinion on PDA? Does it bother you when couples at school kiss? (I'm not talking about making out and getting all over eachother.) What do you consider acceptable to do in public and what should be saved for behind doors? (link)
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I think PDA is k as long as its not harsh making out and getting all over eachother because thats too much but just kissing a little and hugging and just holding is fine and thats not not that bad but ya overdoing it annoys me and im sure a lot of other people but ya making out and stuff should be done privately. Hope this helps :D
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I just started going out with this guy. He knows a ton of people and is always giving like 10 girls hugs left and right everyday. And sometimes he even kisses their heads/foreheads and tells him he loves them. I'm guessing he's just really, really good friends with these girls, but a lot of girls like him and he does this with so many. Is it wrong for me to get mad at him for this? I don't see anything wrong with hugs, but it just seems like hes all over some of them..and he does this right in front of me. I'm new to relationships, so I don't exactly know if this is considered acceptable? (link)
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Hugging is okay but kissing and saying he loves them thats not especially if your his gf so i think you should sit him down and talk to him about it and tell him how it bothers you and im sure if you talk to him he will understand and stop. Good luck :D
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My mother has a strong fiery personality and will always be on top of things at all times, and I always wish I inherited that from her, but instead I got my dad's personality. Quiet, shy, very very nice, but very meek i guess.
And I hate it! I have a lot of confidence but when it comes to other people I can barely manage. I always am told that I am TOO nice. My boyfriend takes advantage of it and I always end up being the one apologizing in fights for no reason. Recently I have been fighting to get rid of it, stand up for myself more, be mean once in a while. But its SO hard. And I don't know how to do it because I say I will, but my problem is that I don't think most people are evil on purpose, and I understand their point of view, so its hard for me to stand up to them and be firm. I understand everyones reasoning I guess. I hate it though. I am tired of always backing down. How can I change???? (link)
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Honeslty who cares what people say you are who you are and you cant chnage your personality to fit in if you totally feel like someone is taking advantage of this you need to just stick up for youself just stand up and say hey you cant do that and if you feel like its happening way to much then just dont trust people as much just stick with the people who do love you and know you and obviously if those people love you they wont take advantage of you and those who do kick them out of your life. Basically you cant change entirely but you can make a few adjustments just think things through when they happen and react and express youself once you start doing that you will find it easier but the first step is to do something about practice it in the mirror if you have to but dont let things just fly by because sooner or later those things will break you. GOod luck :D
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What are some low carb snacks that I can buy at Walmart or Stop and Shop?
Thanks :) (link)
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Ideally, a low-carb snack should have protein, healthy fat, and some fiber (so the best thing would be to have some raw veggies with your eggs or jerky). Some that i eat are
Special K bars
russel stover chocolate bars
oranges
yogurt
frozen fruit bars
graham crackers
1 slice of bread with 1 tablespoon of peanut butter
3 cups of light popcorn with no butter or salt
apple
half of english muffin with 1 ounce low fat cheese put in toaster oven and done
1 cup strawberries and 1/2 cup low fat cottage cheese
grapes
crackers with peanut butter
sugar free pudding with banana slices
sugar free cereal try whole wheat cheerios there awesome
carrots and light ranch dressing
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where can I find a thrift store in miami so i can buy emo clothes? (link)
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bargain box
goodwill
sobe thrifty
red white and blue thrift shop
consign of the times
these are the only ones i could find check them out im sure they will have something you are looking for. Good luck :D
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I took both my EPT (English Placement Test) and ELM (Entry-Level Mathematics Test.) Prior to taking this, I knew I didn't have to take the ELM because I'm in an AP Statistics course. But the university's website didn't say I was exempt. But I took it anyways, even if I was exempt from it. Anyways, I ended up getting a really bad score. The week after I took the website told me that I didn't need to take the ELM. Do you think they will look at my score and put me in a remedial math course, if I wasn't suppose to take the test anyways? (link)
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I dont think they will look at your score if you didnt really need to take they will probably only look at what you really needed but you should probably set up a meeting with the university counsellor or call in and get more information about it so you can be sure its probably the best way to go about it so that you know for sure. Hope i helped :D
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alright me and my boyfriend have been talking about marriage on and off..nothing serious just if we would ever get married one day. he says that he would marry me right now if he had the money. i personally think that is a lame excuse but i dont want to hurt his feelings. i dont want a big wedding or anything. all that would matter is at the end of the day we would be husband and wife. so is he really worried about the money or he just stalling? (link)
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K well to figure this out think back did he start the wedding talk or did you if he did then it really is about money but if you did and he kinda just went a long with it then i think hes just stalling because either hes not ready or he doesnt want to also think about his actions when the wedding subject would come up if he looked a little unsure or just uneasy and stutter or w.e if this is happening then he just isnt ready so before coming to a conclusion just think about all of this and you will get your answer and then from there make a decision on how you want your relationship to go. Good luck :D
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I have been dating my boyfriend for about a year in total, although we took a long break during the summer and fall of last year. We have been going strong again since the new year 2010. The way we got back together was all him. He told me he couldnt live without me and he changed since we last were together. And he has changed. Because of past relationships he was very closed and at the sign of the very first fight he would call it quits. I'm the longest relationship hes had. I love him, and he loves me, or so he says. For the first two months it was bliss. He was the sweetest most amazing boyfriend in the world. He built up all these expectations in my head. But after that? Nothing.
It's like either he doesnt love me anymore or he forgot how to show it. I dont understand why, but now hes getting to a point of not even being considerate of me. Like last night, one of his friends came from out of town and he told me hed go to dinner with him and his friends. I said okay no prob, and he said hed call to let me know what was up later. I went to sleep eventually and he calls at 4 in the morning saying hed been bar hopping and drinking and if he could crash at my place since his house is much farther. Naturally I didnt want him drinking and driving so i said okay. but i was very uneasy about the whole thing especially since he wanted us to always tell each other what we are doing at all times so we dont worry. He gets mad at me for only telling him hours in advance that I was going out with friends instead of days in advance. Then he does things like that. I told him i didnt like it and he apologized which is fine but I mean its just things like that and the fact that he used to talk to me everyday and send sweet messages and bring flowers and tell me really sweet things, and now its like im on a low maintenance plan, only doing things he thinks he has to for me not to be upset.
I asked him what was wrong and he said he was cautious because he's never been in a relationship like this before and he feels like itl end any minute. I have endured a lot with him and helped him get over his issues and I'm still here, and I assured him I'm not going anywhere, but it doesnt seem to make a difference. He's still inconsiderate and selfish. How can I help him be sweeter without flat out telling him? I tried that and it hasnt worked... I'm not happy like this anymore and I feel like i deserve more effort from him :/ it really makes me feel like he doesnt care about me anymore, although he swears he does...
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K well first of all talking is the only way to get through to him so you need to sit him down and talk to him about everything your feeling and what he needs to do to make things better and if he doesnt listen or still seems like he doesnt care then maybe he just isnt the right guy because if he truly loves you he will try to work on himself and try to make things better and if he doesnt seem to be doing that then you need to let him know that either he starts to put in an effort or you have to break up. A lot of guys feel like if they put in all there effort at the starting of the relationship they dont have to work as hard afterwards and thats obviously not true which is why a lot of relationship dont last. Hope i helped :D
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hi i dont know if this is a silly question but i just wanna know...Can soccer or football boots shrink instead of stretching?? (link)
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I dont think they can ive never heard of it atleast i know you can stretch them but i dont think you can shrink them.
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I'm 5'6" and weigh 120 lbs. I'm really happy with my body, except for my love handles. I've been starting to run for 20 minutes everyday but what other ways can I burn the fat on my love handles?
Thanks! (link)
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dieting helps as well and you dont have to do a crazy one just cut out sugary and fatty foods for a month and that itself will make a huge difference and drink lots of water especially when you get cravings it cuts the craving and fills you up and instead of eating every 3-4 hours like doctors tell you just eat when your hungry which i know a lot of people will say thats bad but its not it will help you lose weight because your not eating when you dont have to and running for 20mins is good but try doing power yoga or get a cheap eliptical bike or go to your local gym and go up to 100 calories on that and that will for sure have you seeing results in the first month. Trust me i have been doing this and i have already lost 20 pounds.
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how long is it going to take me to get a tan?
how long does it take to get a tan in a tanning bed and how long does it take to get a tan in the sunshine?
Is one way better than the other? I heard that one way you can get skin cancer and the other way you can't? Is there a safe way to tan and if there isn't is one of the ways safer than the others?
Thank you! (link)
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dont go to a tanning bed its dangerous instead try this self tanning lotion its awesome it looks like you went to a tanning bed but you didnt and its cheap too ive been using this for about 3 years and people always compliment me and ask me where i get my tans and all that so heres a link to the website where you can purchase it
http://www.sunlabsonline.com/Scripts/prodView.asp?idproduct=21
and heres a video from someone who has used it and loves it she basically explains its benifits and how to use it and what it looks like trust me you will be amazed heres the link make sure to check it out
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nrq7-ChUMKI&playnext_from=TL&videos=HPxDzbv2tVE
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