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i saw you answered a question to someone about that website 'cashcrate.com' and i was wondering if it really works. like do you ever get checks or anything? without making a payment first?
even if you're under 18? because i am, so i can't really send a payment. but it would be amazing if i could get some cash. i saw that you were 14 so....
how much money per month would you say?
thank you!
Cash crate.com :) yes, it pays you by checks monthly depending on how many surveys you take and online things you join. Yes, the site is for anyone 14 and up, which is great for us teens who can't get a job :) ha ha. As I remember, however, it only pays you anywhere from 1-5 dollars per survey, so you have to do a LOT of them if you're looking for the big bucks lol. And no, you don't have to pay for them unless you're looking to take the survey things where you have to buy something, but those are kind of a rip off. So yes, completely free and 100% legal way to earn money online :) But like I said in the other question, I suggest opening up a seperate email for this site because they send you TONS of spam. You can open up a free gmail account really quick and easy :) goodluck! Hope I helped!
-Jessica 14/f
13 years old, girl ofcourse haha, and umm
i used to be on a diet because i wanted to lose weight, yes i lost so much weight but i dropped weight in like 2-3 months which i find good because i worked really harrd so iknow i didnt really drop weight TOOO fast,, Anyways.
its been 2 months, and when december comes its going to be 3 months, and i havnt had my period..
i heard its pretty normal..soo i need 2 knoo.cuz its worrying me, im scared if it wont come.
As far as I know diet doesn't have anything to do with your period :) Don't worry, it will come. Some girls start it early, some start it late. I know many girls who haven't started yet. I even know a 16 year old who hasn't. Even when you start it, it might be abnormal for a little while. If it's abnormal for more then a year, I suggest going to a doctor. But usually it works itself out :) It will come, but trust me, the later, the BETTER. Ha ha hope I helped!
-Jessica 14/f
And i want to stay fit, since i jus lost alot of weight, i dont want to lose or gain
well i know i might gain
since i have a treadmille at home and im always runnin like everyday or every other day so i might gain muscle, and im fine with that but can anyone tell me what speed i should go on and how many calories i should burn?
thank you.
oh and am i able to eat what i want since i work out and im active. cause i dont like holdin back if i want to eat snacks like chocalate or something .
thanks :D
Ok first of all, drink about 8 glasses of water a day :) sometimes your body thinks it's hungry, but it's really just thirsty. This will definitely help maintain the weight. When I run, I use a speed 5 and run about 2.5 miles and it burns about 400 calories. So, if your run longer, it will burn more. Try to look at the calories on things before you eat them, and do the math with the serving sizes and whatnot, and then run as long as it takes to equal whatever fattening food you just ate :) If you do that with every unhealthy food, plus drinking water, I think it's safe to say some chocolate would be fine every once in a while ha ha I mean, who can resist those bittersweet temptations? Well, goodluck! Hope I helped!
-Jessica 14/f
Okay, so, this past month my one best friend, he started liking this girl he met on myspace and facebook. She lives really close and whatever, so it's not like it'd be an online relationship if they'd date.
She had really strong feelings for him and he really likes her. She'd tell all her friends how cute he was, and how special he was, and whatever. And then she went to a party, and started talking to one of her guy friends who has a crush on her. She told my friend she kind of likes the other guy more now. They eventually met then.
Now, it elevated once again. She completely doesn't like him anymore, and just wants the other guy instead. Now my friend is in this big state of depression and I don't know what to say. I've been telling him to move on, that he doesn't need these games, but he just gets angry.
So.. What should I tell him?
Just keep doing what you're doing by comforting him :) he may have felt lead on, but he'll have to recover and move on because there are a lot of other girls out there that are probably better than her anyway :) if he gets angry when you try to talk about it, back off. Don't push happiness on him. I promise you, he WILL get over it. In the past, when I broke up with a guy, he was the one to get over it the quickest ;) hope I helped!
-Jessica 14/f
I know this sounds strange, but i was just wondering if guys actually found that a turn on or if they'd find it bizarre.
Theres this girl that does it to this guy in the movie Whatever It Takes and she was kinda slutty...but like the guy was in awe. It was really funny...just wondering if it was realistic..
Honestly, I think most guys would get turned on my ANY licking/sucking movements haha but only if done the right way....but it's kind of hard to do it the wrong way, so i'm sure it'll be fine. :) Just go with the flow.
-Jessica 14/f
I'm in a pretty sticky situation. Over the summer I hooked up with a boy and we began casually dating. Initially I viewed him as a little bit of a sketchy character due to some activities he indulged in, but as time passed we began to find that we had more and more in common. I moved to college last August in a city a little over 3 hours away from home, and I thought that we were over.
He came and visited me several times, and we became very, very close. We became official once again, and I found that I really cared about him. He's very nice to me: cooks me breakfast, gives me everything that he has, treats me like a lady. Since moving to college, however, I made a really good guy friend. At first it started out casually, but as our friendship grew so did our feelings. Now we spend literally every single day, almost all day together.
I don't want to hurt my boy back at home, and I love him very much . . . but he's broke, jobless, and far away. What should I do?
I think it would be best to break up with your current boyfriend. If he's broke, jobless, and distance is a problem, then he needs some time to figure out his life. He might be hurt, but in the end he will realize it was for the best. If he's spending all his time focusing on you, then he can't focus on HIS life, which can make it bad for your relationship in the long run. I mean, you've got a great guy that lives close and has his priorities straight and you two have a great time together. I think that when you break up with boy A, you should continue to be his friend because this will keep you two close, even though you're not dating, so that if you DO decide you've changed your mind and want him back, he isn't an enemy. Well, goodluck! Hope I helped! :)
-Jessica 14/f
Okay so I'm definately a poor college student, so how can i make mooney fast?
I know about donating blood plasma, and that is in the works,but i need more than that. and i know about selling like "gently used clothes" at those kinds of stores, but what else can I do, and i also know that I can get and extra holiday job, but seriously all this isn't adding up. And those online things are just riduculous because it requires you to dish out just a bit of money first. so does anybody have any ideas?. it would be greatly appreciated.
Well, I know an online job that actually works :) I have received money from it, and it is free, unless you would like to pay, but you don't have to. It's called cashcrate.com. It basically pays you to complete surveys and join online stuff and then sends you a BUNCH of spam, so I recommend setting up a free Gmail account especially for this website :) Go to the goodle homepage and up in the right top corner there should be a "create account" or "sign in" button :) you can take it from there. Also, you could sell things on ebay or etsy.com (if you want to get creative). Just make sure if you do this, you sell the product you make for more then it cost you to make it, of course. You could also get a job at a fast food resteraunt. My brother worked at Braum's and he got paid 400-600 dollars a month, depending on his hours, which were quite flexible :) apply and set up a meeting with the manager, then about a week after call the manager to make sure they got your application. This gives the impression of responsibility and the "want" for the job ha ha :) Well, goodluck! Hope I helped a bit!
-Jessica 14/f
http://profile.myspace.com/index.cfm?fuseaction=user.viewprofile&friendid=225479927
the paper plate one?
who is it by?
After a google search, it is by "GZA" and the album is "Pro Tools". Here:
http://www.ohhla.com/anonymous/gza/protools/pprplate.gza.txt
To all you girls out there, I have a question/scenario. Here is your chance to give some good advice to a confused man. I had been dating this girl for about 4 months. Everything thing was going FANTASTIC! I played it cool - didn’t rush anything - Just had the most amazing time together. I came over a couple of days ago and she did a complete 180 on me and said it was not working for her anymore. That’s fine, we all go through it – Here is my question: She also told me that when she realized that she loved me - she realized that she could not be in a committed relationship. How do you take that? What do you do about it? Should you do anything? She said she was in basic panic mode and felt uncomfortable in any relationship. She had been single for 6 yrs before she met me. Any advice here is good and appreciated. Thanks!
She's afraid of committment. That's it. You did nothing wrong, she did nothing wrong, no one did anything wrong. She's just afraid of being in a relationship. In the book "The Last Lecture", nonfiction by the way, the man's woman is also afraid of committment. She moves back to her house, another state away, and cuts off contact with him. He is utterly crushed. His dad tells him to be as nice as possible to her when he DID see her around and to just be very casual. Eventually, the girl comes back to him. Moral of the story; you can't CHANGE her mind, but if you stay in her life, maybe SHE will. I'm not telling you to be a stalker haha, just be a friend to her :) goodluck! Hope I helped!
-Jessica 14/f
ok im 15 female
im in a relationship and in 2 days it will be a month and his name lets say is Kris and i swear i love him and our relationship is perfect but hes a virgin and isnt ready for intercourse yet but im not a virgin and lately iv been really craving it...
today i hung out with my friend...umm...Mark and iv always secreatly kinda liked him and he was giving me a lot of attention tonight and then i gave in and he had his arms around me and at two moments in the night we kissed and then once i even was making out with him and i realized how i really like him
now i like both guys for different reasons and i dont know what to do...should i stay in my relationship?...should i go to Mark?....should i tell Kris about tonight?
......Please help me im desperate....
If you love Kris as much as you say you do, you need to tell him. If he chooses to end things, then that's his choice. If he doesn't, then you get to stay with him. It's kind of like just relying on fate. If he stays with you, you're happy with kris. If he dumps you, you can be with Mark :) it's kind of a win-win situation. Goodluck!
apparently, in the beatle's white album, there is an extra person singing lead vocals in a song ( not any of the band members.) my question is, who was this person and what line did they sing? it's a trivia question for extra credit!!
The only other person I know who had a lead part was Yoko Ono, John's wife. I'm not sure which songs she assisted in but I know she was in "Revolution 9" somewhere. Hope I helped a bit!
-Jessica 14/f
I had no idea which category to put this under. Does anybody have any tips for me so that can raise my self esteem people say that its low. Any tips please.
Don't compare yourself to others! If you catch your green monster showing, find a mirror and find something good about you and remind yourself of it over and over. You can even find something that that person DOESN'T have :) And if you do want to compare yourself to others, as mean as it sounds, compare yourself to people that aren't as goodlooking as you. I know that sounds mean, but it usually works. Just remember, what other people have is what they were born with, what you have is what you were born with, you can't change and neither can they. So, goodluck! Hope I helped!
-Jessica f/14
I have just recently started Zoloft about 3 days now and i know it takes awhile before it takes affect and i have read about all these side affects and i'm nervous about taking it because i've heard about bad expriences of weaning off the medication. I have been going through alot emotionally and My anxiety has gotten worse in the last few months but i can't really tell if it's anxiety, depression or maybe if i just have a mood disorder, somthing has gotten worse. My doctor is not very good about the situation and i have seen others and i've been trying to get an appt. to see soemone but where i live it's difficult i had to wait for almost 2 months to get the appt. that i have upcoming and i feel as if i can't wait any longer and don't know if i can wait another month before this meds work! has anyone taken Zoloft before? i have heard that it is doctors first choice and it sometimes takes awhile before you find the right meds. I know it's a common medication for this illness and just wanted to hear some feed back about it if people have taken it before. Thanks
Well, my brother took zoloft because has a lot of anxiety problems and he said it made him worse. I caught him almost committing suicide and later, when he was off the meds, he admitted he didn't know what he was thinking and that it was the meds that made him MORE depressed. My suggestion is to take it for about a month and if you don't feel any change or if you are getting worse, get an appt. with your doctor and tell him you haven't gotten better. Don't worry, just stay calm and know they are doing something to help :) Goodluck!
Mkay, so im 14 F.
And if i take a ahower in the morning I dont have enough time to blow dry and straighten to get to school early unless I get up at like 5 am (which im NOT going to do) . But is there anything I can do with my hair besides scrunching it?
My hair is medium length and light brown.
I want some cute ideas that dont take long and i have alot of products/ and can get some if some of the ideas need ones I dont have!
thanks a bunches!
=]]
Well, I always take a shower at night and then play with it when it's dry. Then I put it normal and sleep on it so it's not frizzy in the morning. So, you can scrunch it (what you already do), straighten it, curl it, crimp it, OR come up with your own style :) What I used to do (It takes a loonnngg time) is I'd straighten my hair completely then I'd take my straightener and a section of my hair and start at the top making the straightener face outwards and then alternate to inwards, to make sort of a zig zag thing :) It looks really cool and then you hair spray it and it will stay :) You can also do the same thing with braids, straighten your hair and then braid a couple small sections on the outside of your hair and hairspray it super good so you don't need a hair tie :) It looks really cool and people will ask you how you got that to stay x). Also, 2 loose braids are always in style. Put them low and on either side of your head and make them realllyyyy loose so the kind of look messy. Or a side ponytail that's low and loose. And messy buns are always in style :) Hope I helped!
i tried to post these on a photo critique website, but noone responded. so i was hoping to get some feedback from you guys lol. im just starting out and these are some photos i took in my photography class at school..
http://s66.photobucket.com/albums/h261/Briana1254/?action=view¤t=DSC_0010_copy.jpg
http://s66.photobucket.com/albums/h261/Briana1254/?action=view¤t=DSC_0016.jpg
http://s66.photobucket.com/albums/h261/Briana1254/?action=view¤t=DSC_0017.jpg
http://s66.photobucket.com/albums/h261/Briana1254/?action=view¤t=DSC_0021.jpg
http://s66.photobucket.com/albums/h261/Briana1254/?action=view¤t=DSC_5084.jpg
i wont rate poorly if you dont like my pictures, i want honest opinions. thanks!=]
Well, I like the fourth and fifth one the best :) those are cool. I would like the third one better if it was a whole leap instead of a smashed up one. Um sorry but the first and second ones just look like they were really random to me. Sorry. Overall, pretty good :)
whats the code for setting a picture as a caption?
Upload any pic you want to on tinypic.com and when you do go to the "share on:" box and click "Myspace". This will show you a list of codes to put the picture on different places in myspaces. Somewhere in there it says "picture captions/comment" or something like that. Choose if you want it thumbnail size (small) or regular size (it's regular size) and copy and paste the code :) hope I helped!
What are the affects living with a smoker who does not smoke indoors? They only smoke outside.
Little to none effects, I would guess. If they smoke outside, the smoke is outside in the free air, not boxed inside a house where it's looking for a way out so it sometimes gets in your lungs. Smoking outside won't harm other people in the house unless you're sitting in their smoke path outside, and even then it's not very harmful at all :) hope I helped!
-Jessica 14/f
When there is 1 guy that you wanna be with and they say they wanna be with you to but they wanna make there way up to dating you what does that mean?I can't stop thinking about him.I dream of him every night, is that bad,i'm wondering is he thinking of me?Why do i dream of him?Does he wanna be with me?Why do I dream of him?Is it obbesection or love?Should I ask him how he feels?I'm young but if I had to choose i'd wanna spend my whole life with HIM!I think i'm in love!But how do I react?
I think you're too young to be "in love".
It's probably just a crush.
But maybe you just like the idea of being able to say you're "in love" at such a young age.
But those are just my thoughts.
16/f
I am absolutley crazy about my boyfriend. And i think one of the reasons why is because he keeps he doesn't give me as much attention as i would like to have. Usually when me and a dude have a thing they always say sweet stuff or whatever and it gets boring but with him since he doesn't do it it makes me like him even more.
Is this weird? Also i want him to want me like i want him. I kinda want to make him jealous so he will give me more attention but im scared that he'll just be mad at me and then my plan with just fall apart.
I think you should either talk to him about it, try the guilt approach, or, as a last resort, try to make him jealous.
1. You can talk to him about it. He probably doesn't even realize he's doing it. However, a relationship in which you only like the person because you feel the need to capture their attention isn't exactly good. Maybe he isn't the right one for you? The only way to find out is to talk to him about it and see if he'll change for you and if you still like him just as much if he does give you attention.
2. The guilt approach. Go on a double date with another friend and his/her partner. Tell the guy, whether it's your friend's boyfriend or your friend, to be sweet to his girl friend when you all go out. Say sweet things out loud and act like he's having the time of his life. Now, when you're all on the date and that guy says sweet things, you can playfully tease your boyfriend and say "awwww, why don't you ever act like that/say those kind of things to me???". That'll either make him realize he's not giving you attention or make him feel guilty for not doing so.
3. LAST RESORT: make him jealous. The next time your boyfriend wants to hang out, say "Oh i'm sooo sorry! I already made plans to go to the movies with my friend (guy friend's name)!". If your boyfriend get's suspicious and starts asking questions, only answer a few. Then come up with an excuse to hang up/walk off. That'll leave him hanging and he'll be even more curious than before. If he DOES get mad and give up then that just proves he doesn't care enough about you to fight for you. I mean, you do have a good reason to attempt to make him jealous. If he had been giving you the attention you need, maybe you wouldn't have had to try to seek attention from other guys!
Hope I helped!
-Jessica 14/f
I'm catholic, I even attended a catholic school [K-2grade] I'm 13 now and I don't really believe in God. Actually I'm not that sure anymore. I would like to believe in him but I just don't. So I was wondering if there is like any proof in God. Like how do people know he did exist. Because right now I'm on the lines of believing in evolution because its the only one they have actual proof on and it makes sense. Also, I'd like to add how none of the stories are actually possibe. Like the story about that guy getting swallowed by the whale its impossibe, which leads me to believe God doesn't exist and he's jus a bunch of stories and myths.
I feel the same way, it's actually a religion called being agnostic. Personally, I find it so hard to believe because there is no proof. The person below me said there are pictures of Jesus but I have to disagree. A person in a picture is just a person. It doesn't prove that the man is Jesus or that all the stories are true. I mean, really I think it's rather odd that in almost every religion with one or more gods, the stories related to the religion are very very unbelievable. Like the greek gods, for example. It would be physically impossible for Zeus to give birth to Athena from his forehead. Like christianity, many of those stories are just plain impossible. Also, if there was a "God" of some kind, to me he sounds pretty harsh. I mean, if you've ever read the bible, God sentences the entire human civilization to pain and evils and sin just because 2 people no one even knew decided to eat fruit from a tree. Plus, God damns people to hell just for being gay, if you believe in that. I think that is stupid, he created mankind and if he didn't want people to be like that, he could have made us differently. Everything just sounds like a big story to me. I'm not sure what I believe, but I do know that I don't want to waste my life away trying my best to resist temptations and do everything right just to find out that God doesn't exist. I've also thought before, what if there is a god, but we're not worshipping the right one? Then we'd all be damned just because we didn't know any better. According to the bible, that's how it is for a lot of people. Some of those poor starving people from Africa will go to hell just because they'd never heard of God. It's like getting an F on a quiz because the teacher never taught you the material. Personally, I don't believe there is proof and I think christianity came to be as a result of boredom and imagination waay back when life was dull. Hope I helped!
-Jessica 14/f