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How can I show a guy that I like him without being too obvious?? Because I think he may like me, but I don't want to get turned down incase he doesn't (link)
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I was in a similar position a short time ago. I was pretty much in love with this guy who I thought liked me- and so I asked him out. And he said yes!
This is what I did- i called him and I asked him to go and see a movie with me.
He didn't call me ever again- but hey! it was worth a try.
it was mainly because of how busy he was with his IB program in school.
good luck.
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im in desperate need of help. i know this isn't very modest but up until now there was nothing noticably wrong with my body but tonite when i was getting n the shower i noticed i had stretch marks on my rear. i cried for about half an hour while i was showering. i dont think there is but is there a way to make stretch-marks disappear or fade. also, what can make more stretch marks appear, is there anything i can do to prevent that. and lastly i've been running for 10 minutes a day every day for about a month. will that cause stretch-marks. please help me. (link)
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The only person who would be looking at your rear is a partner when you're in bed.
And, chances are- he won't give a damn that you have stretch marks because he loves you.
So my advice to you is not to worry or get upset about this.
Don't be critical of yourself. God made you just the way you are, and he had YOU in mind since the beginning of time.
besides, there could be worse things to happen to your body.
For example- you could be ME! (5'2" and 173 pounds!)
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15/f
Okay. This is going to sound very weird...but how on EARTH do girls in my school show off their cleavage so damn MUCH? I mean...it's like WHOAH CLEAVAGE MUCH!??!....is it the kind of shirts they wear? Or do they just push themselves up? O_O (link)
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Well i was an early bloomer so i've had quite a bit of cleavage to show off since i was 13.
but these are the factors that determine the amount of clevage:
breast size
kind of bra (padded-ness and push-up-ness)
lowness of top
and that's all.
forget them though if you show off your cleavage it makes you look like a complete slut. (trust me- it's not a good thing. i learned that when i was about 14)
you don't have to have your breasts hanging out to have people see that you have a body!!!
whenever i see a girl with her cleavage showing I think "oh my GOD no one WANTS TO SEE THAT!!!!! i don't care that you're a 38DDD!"
hope i helped.
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I need help ASAP!!!! My track meet begins at 5:30, and my hamstrings are really bothering. I had shorts on becasue it was sort of warm, but my coach told me to put on some long pants. I now have them on, what eles can I do to get them right, they feel tight. pLEASE Help! thank u in advance. (link)
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Are they sore?
if so, then try stretching them out if they're not liek excruciatingly painful.
I'm a dancer so I deal with sore hamstrings a lot of the time. If they hurt too badly to stretch, get in a really hot bath and try to stretch them after that.
hope i helped.
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i need to know the name of an upbeat song without words. you know like the ones they play at magic shows or something like that? what are some of the names of those songs? (link)
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the song "in the mood" by some composer is pretty good...
or get some instrumental version of a song that has a good beat (such as Lady Marmalade from Moulin Rouge)
or get an instrumental version of "Everything's Coming up Roses" from the musical "Gypsy".
that sounds pretty magic-show-ish to me.
hope i helped :D
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ok im 16/f and my bf 16 we have been going out for almost two years..ok well when he fingers me i cant seem to umm well moan i guess. I know he kinda wants me to and i want to too i just cant like how do i make it more pleasureable to myself? is there anything he can do to make it better? and what can i do to make myslef moan?
thanks (link)
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Do you masturbate?
Because, if you don't, you will have a more difficult time in bed with a partner. (as you have probably noticed)
I started masturbating at 13 and achieved my first orgasm as soon as I turned 14...
I use a sonicare toothbrush (the flat end- not the brush) on my clit. It gets me to climax soooooooooooooo quickly.
But if that's too odd for you then try fingering yourself until you teach your body to respond to touch. (because sexual responses are pretty much learned reflexes)
eventually you'll orgasm once you learn how to "push your erotic buttons".
have him kiss ur clit after you're really hot and bothered..... just experiment.
hope i helped.
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I get my period every 2-3 weeks instead of other girls who get it every 3-4 weeks and everytime it comes it always hurts so bad. I am so fed up with it, not even extra-strength Midol is working anymore, how do I get my parents to put me on birth control, or to get the pain to stop... (link)
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Possibly try calling a doctor yourself and explaining your whole situtation- including how they won't let you go on birth control but the pain is unbearable. like call patient first.
Also- if you get 30 mins of rigorous exercise during your period you will not have cramps at all. (unless you're an unusual case)
hope this helps
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i think there's something wrong. its as if i have forgotten how to cry. nothing phases me anymore. i dont show any emotion just laugh at everything at school. at home all i want to be is alone. i dont eat unless im totally alone and i dont watch tv unless alone. after school i come home and 'hide out' as my mother calls it in my room. i think about the way ive made so many mistakes and how i wanna roll back time and how i deserve so much punishment and how i should be perfect and need to lose weight. anorexia right now. i need help just tell me whats wrong or what i can do u think.? inside im so dark and want to nearly kill myself sometimes but the outside of me shows nothing. i cannot CRY! (link)
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I hated that whole "not being able to cry" thing when I suffered from it a few months ago. You actually sound JUST like me a few months ago. (exept for the whole anorexia thing)
Here's the bottom line: you are severely depressed. You don't need to see a doctor or anything- they'll just give you some crap that won't help you in the long run. Get 30 mins to an hour of exercise a day (i'm talking about REAL exercise- like sweaty, hardcore stuff that gets your heart pumping fast) and start taking a multivitamin EVERY SINGLE DAY (i'd reccomend "one-a-day women's"). eat more in general.
You also MUST change your outlook on life. Try to think of the good things in life in general- that is the first step to overcoming depression.
Do things that you enjoy if you feel like you just want to go into your room and cry but you can't- do something fun. anything. it really doesn't matter what.
get enough sleep every night.
I truly hope this helps- just remember to keep holding on because the purpose of life is to LIVE. if you are living- you are already fulfilling your purpose. Try to live every day to the fullest. You are only here while you're here.
p.s:
if you do not already have faith in a higher power, I suggest you become a Christian. you'll be happier if you have a real realtionship with the lord Jesus Christ. (think of Christianity NOT as a religion, but as a RELATIONSHIP.) it might take you a while to figure out what that means if you aren't already saved. (by God)
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ok im not that fat i weigh 100 pounds and im 5'5
im 15 years old though i do want to shed a couple pounds
wight isnt the issue what im aiming for is a healthier lifesyle
my questions:
what excersice burns more calories
how do you know how many calories you are losing
how can you shed some inches and keep them off
if and when yu drink green tea does it temporarily boost your metabolism or does it just make your metabolism faster than it already is ?
do sit ups reduce inches or do they just build muscles
i have some gronchy cellulite under my ribby cage and above my belly bbutton *that needs to go
*how
thanx in advance ....
(no im not anorexic ppl that say tha are so anoying uggh!.)
i want to live a healthier lifestyle
and im not where i physically want to be
*keep it zen baby !
thanx again in advance! (link)
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OH MY GOD
you are not "fat" or "overweight" at ALL! if anything- you're the exact opposite. at 5'5" you should weigh about 150 pounds. not kidding.
you seem like you might be developing anorexia.
sit ups- they build muscles which end up decreasing inches unless u have like a really fat stomach like mine (but you don't).
take a vitamin every day
do weight training to gain muscle- it will help to keep you fit longer in your life.
oh- and try taking dance classes. they give u that "zero percent body fat but one hundred percent muscle" look.... over time and if you have intense enough training.
take ballet.
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I'm looking a song and the lyrics are like..."I'm curious what you're thinking of. I'm curious if it's me." and then at the end she repeats "Did I ever give up on you"
Does anyone know what song this is?
PLEASE HELP!! (link)
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type those lyrics in quotation marks in google and see what comes up. :D
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my hair, i love it but i want it to tone down A LOT sometimes. its nice to feel like i have that big poofy curly hair that everyone envys but sometimes what i really want is for it to be straight or wonderfully wavy. what all can i do to have the perfect straight hair? like hair wash or straighteners or other hair stuff and if so what would it be and where could i find it? For wonderfully wavy hair? and again like hair wash or straighteners or other hair stuff and if so what would it be and where could i find it?
i have really natural blonde medium length hair that is really curly and sometimes i think i might look like a poodle! oh no. im tired of straightneing my hair for 4 hours to get it perfect anything else that can help? sorry for so many ?'s ...im 14/f thanks (link)
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The ONLY hair straightener that works is the "Chi". You can find them at most hair salons and they sell for a little over $100- but it is WORTH it. It's amazing.
The only thing that will get my perfectly UN-straight hair straight.
you could also buy some relaxing cream and put it on your hair after u wash it but while it's still wet and like comb it in with ur fingers and then dry it with an ion-powered hairdryer (i got mine at target for like $15) and straighten the sections with one of those circular brushes (i think they're called spornette brushes)...
hope this helps!!!
don't lose hope- i have the worst textured hair ever and it's really thin but it looks thick sometimes and other times it looks all limp.
so be thankful that you have that nice poofy look. haha.
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how do you gain the will to do something? i wanna stop like eating too much but like its hard to get the will. alot of times i eat extra just cuz the food tastes good.. how can i stop this? im a kid and i dont wanna get obese.. now im just overweight i think.
and what can i do to make my tummy, butt, thighs, ankles, arms, etc smaller? lol basically the whole body. but my arms are kinda muscular too..
13/f (link)
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You need a really good incentive- and that should give you the will to work towards it.
I have had a lot of incentives- For this one character that I was cast as in a summer theater production I felt like I wanted to lose weight- and I did lose 10 pounds before opening night.
I then lost 10 again for this other audition that came in september (so i'd lost 20 pounds in a period of about 2 1/2 months total)
You might find a boy that you want to ask out to a dance and you'll feel like u want to lose weight for that.
Just have a reason- and whenever you feel unmotivated just think of the reason.
I HOPE THIS HELPS- AND GOOD LUCK WITH EVERYTHING!!!
just ask me if u have any more questions :D
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k so i have like "speed bumps" or w.e. and like they are itching like at randome times but when they are itchy theyr realllly itchy. some one told me that when your boobs itch that means there growing. is that true?? (link)
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Have your breasts stopped developing?
If they haven't- yes, it could mean they're growing... I remember having itchy boobs for the 2 years when mine were growing.
good luck with ur boobs :D
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I'm trying to find something outside of just going to school.I don't like the social aspect of it and I hate all of my teacher's methods.In fact,I'd feel better just teaching myself.Other than dropping out or being homeschooled,what are some alternatives? (link)
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See if there is a "homeschool academy" in your area...
Homeschool academies are usually christian organizations that teach classes to older (like middle/hs age) kids who want a happy medium between flat-out homeschooling and public/prep school.
That's what I'm doing now- i hate it because they patronize you (but it's better than my PREP school that i used to go to)
its like taking non-college level college classes.
you could research unschooling too... (though I doubt you'd want to ruin your future by doing that)
But there's really only public school, prep school, homeschool, homeschool academy, and independant study (which you could research too)
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but I must warn you: homeschooling DOES have its flaws...
Ok think of this: in public school you hate running around all the time and dealing with social pressure. (this option is MUCH more stressful than homeschooling)
In homeschooling, you're bored out of your mind and you have no one to talk to, and all you can do is sit around on the internet all day and all night and do nothing. you'll be crying a lot because you are so lonely and you feel like a hermit who has been rejected from the world.
but personally i'd still choose it over public/prep school. but i guess it's just a matter of opinion.
Oh, and PS: whenever you go out in public you'll be liek "OMFG- BIRDS! THE SKY! THERE'S A PERSON OVER THERE! OMFG!!!!" because you never see people so you'll get really excited whenever you do. (it's not that bad though)
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13/f im 5'4'' im 120
what should my weight be
am i over or under weight
where could i get the scale
what exercises sould i do (link)
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If anything, you could stand to put on a few pounds...
but you are at a PERFECT weight and i bet you look really pretty and anorexic and perfect.
lucky you i'd die to have your weight.
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Hey
For my birthday, I'm going to a fair with a lot of friends. Then friday's for dinner. It should be really fun. The boy I like is coming and it makes me a little nervous. I really want him to like me and I'm starting to think he does. What can I do? (link)
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This is all you can do-
Be his friend but don't overdo it. Just talk to him like he's one of your girlfriends... (i mean don't be like "OMFG HEYYYYY mr. cute guy" because this will scare him really badly.
Smile a lot too.
if he ever needs help with anything make sure u help him.
be really sweet. he might end up liking you.
Trust me i know this from life experience.
i have an adorable bf now by doing the above.
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when guys have sex for the first time , why do they always cum quickly?
I mean im sure they have masturbated before..
And since they cum so quickly , would it still be enjoyable? (link)
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Yeah- it really doesn't matter that much how quickly they cum.
It's probably just the sensation of having a pussy against their member for the first time that makes them cum so quickly the first time around.
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hey,
well i'm going to a sleepover, and we probably won't sleep, but ths morning my period came again and i thought it wouldn't till the 26th but its still irregular. and i was just going to wear a tampon because odds are we won't sleep that much and i think if we do sleep we'd go to sleep at like 3a/m and i have to leave at 10. so that's 7 hours. so i think i'll be okay. but what are some suggestions on how to handle this. just wear a tampon and change it ever 6-7 hours? because i refuse to wear a pad to a sleepover eww. hah
thanks~! (link)
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I've been to plenty of sleepovers with my period- i've even had it arrive in the morning after the "sleeping" part of the party. I was fine- I just grabbed a pad out of my purse when no one was looking (or you can just bring it in there with you or shove a thin pad into ur pocket beforehand) and ran into the bathroom and changed it. It's not like people are going to be watching you- lol.
This whole menstration business may seem awkward to you at this point- but I swear to God it's not unusual for someone to be having her period at a sleepover.
Bring pads/tampons with you.
and don't worry- YOU WILL BE FINE!!!!!!!
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OK people have been asking if im depressed and I sont think I dont think I am....
I sleep A LOT and i know its not healthy but I just dont want to get up cause life sucks and theres no point for me to be here.I also eat a lot but im bored but it feels like i ALWAYS hungry so and i thought depressed people dont eat but people have told me diffrently.I stayed back last year and this year in school has been nothing and I hate it so yeah im sad in school but with my upper grades friends im happy and smiling but without them im frowning im really sad and ughh. I also cry alot in bed not even meaning to. I havent thought about suicide... but ive pictured life without me in it and it doesnt seem any diffrent but i wanna know if theres any way to see if im depressed before i tell my parents so they think im on something{kidding}like any sighs like achy body- which i have- never happy- yeah know things like that (link)
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You are depressed. But it might come from just being unhappy. You are obviously not happy with your life. It's probably because you stayed back this year. If you don't like that- it's normal to feel sad.
You might want to try staying more busy. That helped me with my depression- which i still have but it has decreased some.
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Okay i'm talking about singing here. If you're an alto can you become a soprano with vocal lessons? (link)
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the truth of the matter is- ALL WOMEN are sopranos. you do have those notes in your range-you easily can go up to a high E (the phantom of the opera note if you are a fan). You might feel more comfortable in your cheast voice because most people naturally are. With vocal lessons- your range will increase and your head voice will be strengthened, enabling you to sing soprano.
I was actually in a similar position.
hope this helps.
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