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Before I say my question I would like to say thank you for people who are reading this now and I need advice FAST!!!!
okay hear is the story
I REALLY like this guy A LOT and i talk to him about everyday even though we go to different schools. ( he is one year older) and I was talking to him yesterday and he said ( on the internet) that he was going to ask this girl ------- at his school to be his gf and they made out a bout a day before.. But I almost like broke down when those words popped up!!! But he leads me on ALL the time and says " ur soo hott" and " i cant wait to i see u " and stuff but, I do not want to be competing against a grl for him because what if I am ending up hearting him if he likes ------ a lot?? So.. I do not know what to do?? Today is the day I find out if the girl says yes or if he didnt ask her.. soo please give me advice befor I say something stupid!!!
thanks xoxo

it seems like he likes you as a friend, probably because you guys dont go to the same school. you seem hurt by that, but maybe if you guys hung out more, he'll change his mind. wait & see how his relationship goes with her. juss because they made out doesnt really mean anything & plus maybe he'll start liking you if you guys hang out more er maybe she doesnt like him that way & they wont go out. dont tell him how you feel unless they arent involved er anything. it wouldnt be fair to her, and you probably wouldn't want that if it was the other way around. if it doesnt work out between them, go for it & explain how you feel.

-hope that helped!♥

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hey everyone my harvest moon dance is coming up! its kind of like a homecoming but you see i need a dress.. and most people wear a short dress .. like a fancy coctail dress. well does anyone know where to get a really cute one? or like some websites to look at them? oh and whats 'in' for dresses? i was thinking like either a light pink and gold one or a brown and gold one .. is that like too cheesy? thanks everyone! xO!

i'd definately go for either deb or JC penny.

http://www.debshops.com/fashion/ViewInCat.asp?CatID=40

thats the deb site & then there's jc penny

http://www3.jcpenney.com/jcp/categoryall.aspx?CatTyp=FEA&DeptID=597&Dep=Women%27s&CatID=32403&cmCatLevel=3

thats jc penny's homecoming shop

-hope that helped!

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I put on my application that I was a stay at home mom, is that a good idea to put that on the application or not.

you want to be honest, but that might not be exactly what they're looking for. i don't think you made a mistake though, because you should be honest in what you put, incase they find out you lied.

-hope that helped!♥

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so theres this guy who likes me, or used to like me. not to be mean, or shallow, but hes like really ugly. and he gets on my nerves soo bad. also, he just likes me because he thinks im "hot" w/e. he always asks for hugs and stuff, and he really bugs me and i seriously wish he'd just leave me alone.
then theres this other guy i like. i just met him this year and like during the 1st week of school i kinda caught him looking at me sometimes and i was like well he is shy so maybe he likes me and is too scared to say anything? but then i think i was just making it all up in my head cause he doesnt seem to even notice me now.. i dont sit near him in any of the classes were in together, & i really like him but i dont know how to just start talking to him w/o looking stupid..

for the first guy, that's always annoying. juss don't make it seem like you take interest in him & he'll eventually juss leave you alone. for the second guy, try talking to him. he could juss be too shy to tell you how he feels er try to talk to you. you might need to make the first move in this situation. start trying to talk as friends & then go places to hang out.

-hope that helped!♥

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OKay evrsceince the 6th grade i've hung out with a girl named Chelsea . And dont get me wrong she is my freind its just everytime she want's to borrow something she never gives it back and i don't wanna say anything cause im afride she wont like me and she is KNown as MIss POpular


cAN ANYONE HELP ME?

tell her that. she'll understand & that way you won't lose your stuff.

-hope that helped!♥

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OKay evrsceince the 6th grade i've hung out with a girl named Chelsea . And dont get me wrong she is my freind its just everytime she want's to borrow something she never gives it back and i don't wanna say anything cause im afride she wont like me and she is KNown as MIss POpular


cAN ANYONE HELP ME?

tell her that. she'll understand & that way you won't lose your stuff.

-hope that helped!♥

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OKay evrsceince the 6th grade i've hung out with a girl named Chelsea . And dont get me wrong she is my freind its just everytime she want's to borrow something she never gives it back and i don't wanna say anything cause im afride she wont like me and she is KNown as MIss POpular


cAN ANYONE HELP ME?

tell her that. she'll understand & that way you won't lose your stuff.

-hope that helped!♥

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My best friend and i like these two guys who are also best friends and they like us. Well on monday the guy i like madeout with me and the guy my best friend likes madeout with her. Now my best friend is telling me that the guy i like wants to make out with her. I asked him and he said he wants to see whos a better kisser. so w.e then my best friend said that he likes her but not me he just thinks im hott but in the past my best friend has lied to me. and we werent friends for that but now I feel bad because i dont want to believe her but i feel like i have to. I dont want to believe her because i dont want it to be true. :( I really like this guy and he keeps saying oh what ever im done with this *hit and I dont care BElieve what u want to believe and now im so confused!!! please help me!!!

that situation seems like crap to me. no offense. he obviously is a jerk even if you do like him. no good guy says "i wanna see who's the better kisser" that's crap & you know it. you should be with someone who juss likes you. she seems shallow for doing that. don't get me wrong, its part her fault too. if she really was your friend she'd lay off him since you like him, & if he really was a good guy, he'd lay off her since you guys are friends, plus you like him. you being 'hott' isn't a good reason to like someone & that's probably why your friend likes him. i think you should juss let him go & find another guy, er juss not hang out with her. i dont think you should believe her, because of situations before. so juss talk to them both.

good luck!♥

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Ok me and my ex broke up last tuesday. yesterday me and him got into a big arguement and now he hates me. but now I miss him a lot and i dont know what to do anymore.. I dont want to miss him but its hard not to because hes my next door neighbor.... and yeah, so im lost. he has a new gf and not to sound concided but he went from a girl (me) who is rated about a 9 to a girl who is about a 4 or 5 and I picked on him for that but im just really jealous and i have to walk home with him every day!! HELP ME!! what do i do?! we used to argue everyday because i used to say he doesnt care but i realized he does!! omg im really confused!! please help and what can i do to get him back?!

Signed,
i miss him.

ex relationships are difficult. since you guys aren't dating anymore, you can't really try to get back together since he has a gf. try to ignore him as best you can. i know you probably don't want to, but you guys are exs so if you talk to him a lot, you'll want to be with him more & that shouldn't happen. i don't think ex relationships work out that much anyway. basically you're exs for a reason. don't be jealous. he might juss be making you jealous on purpose er maybe he'll see that she isn't the one for him. try to look for someone else so they can keep your mind off of him. if he truly cared about you, he wouldn't automatically find another gf. juss relax and go with it. you guys can be friends, don't get me wrong, but try not to talk all the time. it will help you in the long run.

-hope that helped!♥

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ok so i ve got iritis or rather uvitus or sumfing like that and ive been told thats its really rare to have it at my age im 14 but i asked my doctor if i can go blind and he said its a serious condition so im so scared its unbelievable and i dont no what to. i get a really bad hewadache nearly every day.

my question is
if you have any infromation on this condition PLEASE HELP ME IM FREAKING OUT ill rate 5's for decent answers

sorry to hear that. i found a website that can tell you a lot about it-

http://www.apagrafix.com/patiented/iritis/iritis.HTM

-hope that helped!♥

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OK im the one who wrote about the MCR concert.

All I want for my birthday is to be able to go to my birthday. its seriously ALL i want. My mom says I'm forbidden to go even though I'm paying for the tickets. She said theres no way I'm going to a rock concert even though thats the only kind of music I like. So my moms like "all she wants is to go to the concert I forbid to let her go to" and my dads like 'I know what you need to go to is boot camp" and I didn't even say anything. I really want to go to this concert and thats seriously the ONLY thing I want to do and what I want for my birthday. What can I do for my parents to let me go? I'll be 14.

hmm i guess they might think that 14 is a little young, but wouldn't you be going with a group of people anyway? you did ask your dad so that's being responsible about it. it isn't your fault if your dad doesn't want to go. try having them trust you by doing different things. extra chores & stuff. i don't really understand the whole 'boot camp' thing, but they probably juss said that to scare you. maybe if you get a larger group of people to buy tickets, they'll be okay with it, because usually larger groups are better. if you seriously can't, then don't worry. maybe your 15th, er definately 16th bday would be better for a MCR concert. try coming up with different solutions about the concert. do you know anyone that's an adult that could come? someone else's parents? something around that. juss be respectful about it.

good luck!♥

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im not sure if my BFFs still like me or not. when im around them separatley, they're really nice to me. but when im with them together, they only talk to each other and ignore me. i feel really left out and dont know what i should do. please help!

try talking to them about it. since you guys are good friends they should treat you like you are. i know what you mean though, because a lot of people act different when other people are around. i'm really not sure why, & it's definately weird. talk to them about it, & if they still act weird towards it, then try to hang out with a different group of people.

-hope that helped!♥

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hi me and my friend want to go on a trip that we got invited to, but we know money's probably gonna be a issue, so does anybody have fundraising ideas? like babysitting, etc.

carwash!! they're fun, a lot of work but fun. make sure you guys plan it good. you know, signs & stuff, supplies, etc.

-hope that helped!♥

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well i like this guy named camron and he likes me but the reason he won't go out with me is because he wants me to be more "open" if ya know what i mean. well it's not like he's pressuring me and i'm not talking about sex here. but see i don't know how to make the first move to makeout because i REALLY like him HELP!~!~~!~

you should do whatever you're comfortable with. don't worry about the makeout thing, because if you aren't ready, don't. it's not a huge deal though. it isn't like sex er anything. i think that if he truly likes you he'll juss go out w/ you no matter what. tell him how you feel & try to ask him how he feels too.

good luck!♥

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ok so there's a guy i know and we flirt a lot when we're alone. both have bf/gf. When we're around them or other people we dont but i know he's thinking about it and so am i and it feels kind of resricting.

we'd never cheat or even go out if we were single probably but i need to know how to like, get all that sexual tension out without feeling guilty about flirting with a guy who's not my b/f! PLease help, i'll rate high

you have to see how you feel about your bf. if you loved him you wouldn't think er flirt about this other guy. it seems that you don't, so maybe you guys shouldn't be dating. it's difficult, but you want to be committed to one person unless your relationship w/ eachother has different boundries. next you should talk to the guy you flirt with. maybe he doesn't want to break up with his gf, maybe he does. basically you need to sit down and talk to both, probably not at the same time =)

good luck!♥

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Alright, my boyfriend and I are about to have sex, but they say it helps if you "pop your cherry" before having sex. Do you know of any methods for "popping your cherry"? I am a female and I am 17.

well..i'm not sure EXACTLY but a lot of things can do it. certain jeans, riding horses, sports, etc. idk any 'methods' er anything lol, but there's a neat website w/ a whole bunch of question/answer things.

www.coolnurse.com

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ok theres this boy in my school whos in 6th grade and im in 8th. hes really shorter then me to. i dont have a crush on him but theres just something about him and i cant get him off of my mind, what should i do?

maybe you should juss try to be friends with him. that doesn't mean you like him, but it could. if you don't want to like him er you don't really wanna see if you do, try not looking at him & almost ignoring him. it'll go away though.

good luck!♥

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ok there is this guy who rides my bus and he is a year younger then me.(he looks a year older then me) but i allways got the feeling he liked me and then a few days ago i saw him looking at me and he grinned and i grinned back. and after that he is always looking at me and i look back and we always smile at eachother and talk and we have really good chemistry and stuff. well annyway today someone made a fag joke and he got really quiet and started acting weird. like, he would look at me, then when i looked away he would turn around really quick and when i turned back around, he would go to staring at me again. and he just kept staring at me like i was glowing or something. so im really confused because he knows im streight because i talk about guys all the time to my friends. but im thinking he might either be gay or whatever. i dont know. could some peoplez tell me what they think? thanx i rate

since you guys talked before, try getting different conversations started. probably about bf/gf convo's would be best. i mean, juss because he seemed offended er like idk something about being gay, doesnt mean he is. maybe he has a close relative er friend that is gay & doesn't like when people joke around about it. he could be gay though, but probably still wants to be friends with you. obviously don't go out asking "hey are you gay" but you can say "hey do you have a gf?" er something like that.

good luck!♥

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me and my boyfriend where currently going out for a year at 17 months when he said he anted to take a break.. we currently were doing a long distance relationship .. any ideas on how i coudl get him back.. and we still talk everyday soo far and he still tells me he loves me but he jsut wants to not have a girl firend for his senior year and wants to be more focused on school and baseball and friends.. please help me try to get him back please..
i will rate high for any advise

give him some time & space. sometimes that's juss what guys might need. if you guys really feel that you really like/love eachother then try to make it work. i dont think there's anything you can really do to get him back, but you can talk to him about it & explain how you feel. juss let him know.

-hope that helped!♥

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Theres this new kid this year. Hes a sophmore and im a freshmen. Well i kinda really like him .. a lot. Hes on my bus, in 2 study halls, language, science, and 4 outta 6 lunches. Well i liked him. And im like really shy around him but usually im really outgoing. Only today in lunch .. i was like .. Hey yooh, got a pen ? .. he sits at the table next to me =) Like .. next to me ! Hehe .. but anyway. I like him and I really dont know what to say to him. The only things hes said to me was answering something i asked my friend and he asked what my name was . Ya .. so like .. i have study hall with him monday .. and me and my friend might go up to him ( he sits alone in that study hall) and be like .. You look lonely , want us to sit with you ? IS that a good idea ? Well im sorta frieds with this girl who he sits with / i guess theyre friends.. but i go to a lot of sports games like volley ball and so does she. Do you think i should tell her i like him so she can tell him to go to the games? and then we can hang out outside of school. Becasue lots of people go to sports so ya know . Ok well i dont know what else to say so any other tips or advice youve got id love to hear ..

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yeah! tell that girl that so he'll come too. hmm yeah juss say like "oh hey we saw that you were sitting by yourself, can we sit here" if you say "want us to sit with you" it might seem like pity er something. make it seem like you really wanna sit there. try to talk to him about random things. sports, school, etc. it'll work out.

good luck!♥

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