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can a 5 inche penis satisfy a lady? plz answer this question only by talking about size without any other aspect like foreplay etc...
regards. (link)
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The top 2/3 of the vagina is a dead end street with zero nerve endings. Most women don't achieve climax from intercourse itself. Also 5.5 inches erect and 3.5 flaccid are what medical practitioners say is average size. You have nothing to worry about.
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im 16 & im a size 32A bra. im not by no means flat, but im not exactly a B. im pretty self conscious about it .. but do the majority of guys not like small boobs? (link)
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If a guy doesn't like you because of your stature, physicality or the size of breasts then screw him. Only immature types care about size and forget about a person's personality.
Some do in fact like bigger breasts than small ones but aren't about to judge someone about it or lose out on a relationship. Just be happy about who you are and don't sweat this stuff as it's stupid to. The proper guy won't care at all. He'll be too smitten with you and taken by personality.
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15/f/highly embarrassed
i've only ever tried masturbating once, and when i did, i just kind of pushed/rubbed my clit a lot,
but it kindof made my head feel funny (wow horrid word choice) and anyway, i felt really embarrassed after doing that.
i've never had my period either, like, i just haven't started yet, so idk whats normal and what isn't,
and me and my family DEFINITELY don't talk about this kindof stuff.
so yeah,
why do i feel embarrassed afterwards?
if i masturbate will i make my period start sooner? D: (link)
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I couldn't tell you why you felt lightheaded afterward. It's not something I would worry about. There's no correct way or wrong way to engage in this activity.
Why feel embarrassed? It's pretty much universal with both males and females your age. They say 90% of males do it and 78% of all females at all ages. If you enjoy it great if not that's normal too.
It has ZERO connection with menstruation and won't speed when that happens the first time either up nor slower. Your period will come when it comes. You have no choice about when and where.
Masturbation need not even be sexual. Toddlers and young children discover these body parts much like any other on their own. They may like the feeling as it feels good and nothing else. Bottom line: you're fine and don't worry.
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umm........ icut myself and i dont no how hazarddis it is to health can u plz tell me (link)
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"Self-harm is listed in the Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders (DSM-IV-TR) as a symptom of borderline personality disorder and depressive disorders. It is sometimes associated with mental illness, a history of trauma and abuse including emotional abuse, sexual abuse, eating disorders, or mental traits such as low self-esteem or perfectionism, but a statistical analysis is difficult, as many self-injurers conceal their injuries." (wikipedia)
"The relationship between self-harm and suicide is a complex one, as self-harm behaviour may be potentially life-threatening, with or without suicidal intent. [2] However, attributing self harmers as suicidal is, in the majority of cases, inaccurate.[3][4] Non-fatal self-harm is common in young people worldwide[5] and due to this prevalence the term self-harm is increasingly used to denote any non-fatal acts of deliberate self-harm, irrespective of the intention.[6]" (wikipedia)"
If you want to get better you need to tell someone what you have been doing and get diagnosed and helped by a psychiatrist as this is not going to stop otherwise.
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17/F
I have known "Ashley" as an acquaintance for a couple of years. Last semester, we had an art class together, and we gossiped and talked a lot because we didn't know anyone else. I was never really close to her at all. However, at the beginning of the semester, I was very kind to her and invited her to hang out once in a while. I don't know how it happened, but now she won't leave me alone!
For instance, I invited her to my friend's swim meet, and she keeps calling it 'our thing' and she acts as if it had always been our thing (even though i used to go alone). She's constantly inviting herself to places with me. Like, today I had a movie date with my best guy friends, and she tagged along without bothering to ask any of us. I don't mind, but sometimes I'd like to bond with my best friends and when she feels left out, she mopes and tries to drag me around and play the pity card when she shouldn't have invited herself in the first place. My guy friends are getting annoyed with her too, because she's constantly trying to be their friend and tries too hard. One of them said, "It's actually creepy how much she tries/wants to be like you." She also has crazy mood swings and when she feels left out, she thinks everyone's out to get her and that everyone's being bitchy towards her (when in actuality it's more of a "don't tell everyone someone's private business" sort of thing)
I'm getting SO annoyed, but i don't know what to do. I don't want to hurt her feelings, but she is not giving me enough space and I feel suffocated, and I'd hardly consider her a close friend. (link)
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There's two things you need to understand. First of all, this person has severe social problems and a lack of skills. This could be from a learning problem or something else.
Secondly, you're the closet thing to a friend she's ever had. Everyone else has likely treated her like shit up to this point. Why else would she get clingy and upset when not included?
Sometimes being blunt but not attacking her is beneficial. Explain that you don't mind hanging out sometimes but at other times you need space and time to be with friends you don't think she would get on with.
Tell her what people are saying about her behind her back and how her lack of social skills is bothering them. She may think you are being mean at first but if you point out what she's doing wrong that turns people completely off it will help her. Offer to help her privately and leave it at that. Don't kick her in the teeth but do get this out.
Also when it comes to going out and your plans arrange it privately via Facebook or something when you don't want her there. You don't have to be her friend but do include her now and then as she may need that more than you are aware. She could be depressed, suicidal, psychiatric issues etc. One friend is what she wants.
She's chosen you for some reason. Learn from her why and discuss what's going on with her to act like she does. She's lost without a map on the social highway and needs to learn to navigate and fix mistakes before everyone turns on her.
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i have a friend whos like a hardcore christian but she tells me that she masturbates to porn...i know its pretty normal for teens but she says its really hard to stop...shes still a virgin and plans to stay one and is really a nice girl and im the only one who knows about this...she feels so bad everytime she does it though...what should i do to help her stop or to make her feel better about herself?
shes 16/f (link)
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Aside from porn being for adults only she's not doing anything wrong. Masturbation is considered normal by society and doctors. Stats say 90% of males do it and 78% of females. The number may be higher as females are more discreet about talking about it.
It doesn't matter what a person's religious beliefs are either. Her bond with God is forever and well established. Her conviction is solid as is her devotion. Nothing has changed nor will. God won't turn his back on her.
Let her know it's normal no matter what beliefs she has about God. None of that can change. She's still a nice girl etc. etc.
The only time it's bad is if it's all she wants to do and uses it in place of a social life. As long as that's not happening than she's fine. She won't face eternal damnation anytime soon ;)
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I like a guy in my school, I'm not sure if he likes me but it's possible. He doesn't know I like him. There are a lot of signs he does like me but a couple of things make me skeptical about it. But the fact of the matter is whether he likes me or not I get completely discouraged over little things and completely lose confidence in myself, and lose confidence that I'll ever have a chance with him. I know I should go with my intuition because he has shown several signs but one little thing happens and I'm totally upset. How can I feel more confident about myself, around him, and in the possibility of him liking me or ever liking me? (link)
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You need to reach way into your past and ask yourself where this lack of confidence comes from. Did someone say or do something to you that made you unsure of yourself and lack confidence even for small stuff? Be brutally honest with yourself.
Once you figure that out and drop it and move forward you'll be fine. As far as the guy goes go for it and see what happens. All signs lead to him liking you. Even if he says no he'll respect you for trying as girls don't usually do the approaching.
Hold your head high. You're no better or less than any other girl or someone else. Just believe in yourself and the qualities you have to give. Definitely chuck out of your mind all these negative thoughts about confidence once you figure out where they stem from.
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16/m yeah so um yesterday i forgot me and my girlfriends 6 month anniversary...i love her so much, im just really bad with dates...but i also forgot our 3, 4 and 5 month =/ she says its ok and that she understands but i feel horrible...i only see her 2 times a week because she lives in a different town but im seeing her for valentines day and i want to do something amazing for her to prove to her that i do love her and im sorry...any advice?
im on my sisters account btw... (link)
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Get her something nice for Valentines Day and forget this monthly anniversary garbage. I don't know people who actually bother with that or gifts or text messages.
It's not how adults operate. All that matters is the 1, 2, 3 + year anniversary. Forget the monthly ones but don't screw that one up. If she says it's fine to not acknowledge or remember month anniversaries than believe her. She means it.
Forget being sorry as I'll be blunt it's stupid. The other problem is we don't know her at all so we can't tell you what to get her as a gift.
I would talk to her friends, sibling, mother or other girls you know about what she's wanting or they think would make a great gift. I'm sure whatever you'll pick will be fine.
Stop sweating the small stuff. Your fixation on monthly anniversaries suggests you are insecure about the relationship and of her rejecting you. You need to ease up or it will eventually piss her off. Be yourself, buy a gift and let life unfold with chips falling where they may.
Bottom line, worry about Valentines day, be yourself and drop the insecurity and monthly anniversary nonsense. If she ain't worried about it you shouldn't either.
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Where can I buy degrassi seasons 1-8 or 1-6 at least, for a good price? i would also like to put them on my ipod, so where can i buy a cheap high-quality dvd ripper or something like that? is it possible to buy them all on itunes and burn them to blank dvds? any ideas are appreciated. please dont leave something like 'dvd ripping is illegal' because i dont really care. (link)
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Amazon has them. Put in keyword: Degrassi and they'll all come up for purchase on DVD.
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i have a friend and he is my best guy friend and i had a thing for him awile ago, he knew i did but he was dating someone then. Now he is not,so i wanna get him a gift for V-day,but i don't waht to think i like him becaue i don't. should i get a gift or not? (link)
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You say you don't (like him) but deep down you know that's not true. There are lingering feelings there. If he was "just a friend" I doubt you go so far to inquire what to get him either. It's okay to still have those kind of feelings as well as feelings of not liking him simultaneously. It's called hormones and they can be a bitch ;)
What to get him? Well a card expressing how much you appreciate and value his friendship is key. What music, books or other things is he in to? Does he have a hobby where he collects something? Maybe you can find something sports related. Don't make this complicated when it isn't.
You should consult his friends or his mother or sister if he's got one. They'll have ideas. Definitely focus on what he likes and get him something. You can even get him chocolates or a gift card if all else fails.
The major problem in asking us is that we don't know him or your history. I'm sure whatever you can think of will be well received. Try making him dinner or taking him out. Yes, even friends do that as a special thing.
What if he thought you liked him? It wouldn't be that bad and maybe it would turn into something great. You cannot control what people think or like in terms of the gift or the symbolism. If it comes down to a conversation about that let him know what you feel or don't feel.
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my boyfriend is very worried about this, whenever he ejaculates his left testicle rises so far, its like going up in his body and he has to manually move it back down, after he ejaculates he complains his nuts hurt, does anyone know what this might be?? or have it?? or heard of it? anything would be helpful since hes very worried by it, thanks
oh he had a Hernia about a year and a half ago, they had to put a screen in him, just in case that helps
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He needs to get a referral to a urologist. They can figure out why he's in pain every time he ejaculates and what if anything is wrong with his testicles rising up and dropping like that.
He should mention the hernia to his family doctor and this specialist. Nothing sounds right about any of this. Definitely have him book an appointment to have it seen to. Try and get him to recall how long ago it started.
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13/F
I cant stand my body! When I was in elementary school I was a little over weight until 7th grade when I got a litte bit taller then everthing sorta evened out and now Im in 8th grade and Im rapidly getting bigger. I have hypoglycemia, which is just a big word for low blood sugar, and Ive had to add carbs to my diet. But I went to the hospital last month because I was having muscle spasms, which havent gone away yet, and they weighed me and I had gained about 30 lbs. in 2mths.(since I started adding carbs) Ive kept the same weight for 3 yrs. (125) and now Im about 150. I have these huge strech marks on my thighs now and I cry everytime I see them. Ive tried dieting but I can never stick to anything. I love water, and I exercise everday in gym. Ive stopped eating so many carbs and I tried to stop eating my normal amount which is usually no breakfast, a calzone or nachos with cheese, milk and a cookie and dinner. How do I lose this weight? Its like no matter what I do I keep gaing weight! Thank you so much. (link)
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Talking to the doctor is the RIGHT idea. Ask to speak to him/her alone and tell them what you stated here that you hate your body, have tried everything and are miserable because of it. They can show you your BMI and the weight you need to achieve to be and remain healthy.
Tell him/her that you have no idea about calories, what to eat, avoid and that you exercise and don't get anywhere. They will be able to provide you with a diet plan and even better a referral to a nutritionist who can show you how to eat, portions and a lot more to combat your medical condition.
The doctor absolutely NEEDS this information as it is essential to help your hypogylcemia. It may in fact be negative to your health if it isn't disclosed and or dangerous as it's going to screw up your blood sugar for sure.
If your mom's the type to say "We're working on it." to the doctor CORRECT her and tell the doctor the way you feel and do not fear repercussion. It's stupid to suffer with a problem in silence than to say something.
Also, breakfast is mighty important and not to be skipped. If you wake up late have a normal breakfast. It gives you what you need for most of the day. Don't do anything about your weight without a doctor. That's why you aren't succeeding as it needs to be in a controlled manner. 2 pounds a week is safe.
Spill your guts to the doctor and never mind what mom thinks. Do it privately if need be. Remember it's you that is struggling here and not her. Reach out for help if you can get it. That's wise.
Your eating habits and weight affect your illness and blood sugar. Your doctor will want to know what you have to say. Why? They can't help unless you give them something to work from.
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i skip school, a lot. this week i skipped monday, went in late tuesday, went wedensday, thursday i left after lunch, and today (friday) i didnt go at all.. this is a normal week to me. i dont think this whole semester i havent skipped ATLEAST a half a day a week. my mom gets really mad at me and she yells at me and threatens to take away my phone and car, she already took away my computer, but honestly the yelling just makes me not want to go more. i just dont have any motivation to go.. im 17 years old and i know its important, so dont tell me how its important to finish highschool. i know it is! and i just pretty much feel like all i need to do is pass and ill be okay because i already am going to a community college after highschool for 2 years and i know my grades dont matter for there. i just really want to do better though! i tell myself every week that ill do better next week. i wont skip next week. but then i just wakeup and im super tired and i just donnnnt wanta go to the stupid place. any helpppp plzz?! (link)
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What makes you think that your grades in high school don't matter to community college? They matter a lot as it tells the program head who's a good student or not and can cost you an acceptance.
The transcript comes first and then they look at your talent and whether you fit. You're fooling yourself if you think otherwise. Those interviewing you for college can also go and talk with anyone at your school or references to get the goods on your academic history.
You need to shape up and WAKE UP to the fact that you'll be 18 and an adult soon. You're now in charge of your own life. You need an education to get a job or advance in life.
Don't think for one second that you'll get into any college with what you are doing now. Skipping constantly will come back to bite you in the ass. Just passing with a 50 isn't good enough.
What you need to do is start viewing your education as just as important as your next breath. Then you'll set your alarm daily and actually GO. Have a fried pick you up and make sure you go to all your classes. Hire yourself a tutor and devote 1-2 hours a night on home work, do all the assignments.
Even when you don't want to be there remind yourself that you'll never get a job at a food court if you don't get a diploma. Always remind yourself what you're about to lose or f--k up in your life when tempted to ditch school.
I also think you need a professional adolescent therapist or even a shrink to help you motivate yourself and get your life on track. I also think your mom should cut you off of more and be difficult until you learn to care.
That's the bottom line. You say you care and want to change but do you really? Nothing's going to happen or change unless you want it and keep pushing until you get it. How bad do you want it rather than going to the mall or hanging out with people who aren't headed anywhere. What's you goal? Where do you want to be?
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15/f
okay, so today my friend jon (who is my ex-boyfriend also; we broke up about a month ago) told me that he is basically addicted to internet porn and that he masturbates all the time. and that he actually did it so hard that he hurt himself to the point where he couldnt walk, and that's why he missed school yesterday. when we were going out he seemed to rush things alot and now im so relieved that i didnt really do anything with him (we only kissed).
now im really, really grossed out and i dont really know how to act around him. part of me is extremely grossed out that i even went out with him, and the other part of me wants to try to be friends, even though i sort of know it will always be weird. what do i do? (link)
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Tell him that you found what he said to be offensive and gross. Let him know that while you once dated it doesn't mean he can share such info. Tell him you wish he wouldn't and would rather be left alone in the future if he continues this behavior.
Let him know that you don't consider him a friend right now but it could change if he "grows up" Also, I would tell him NEVER to say those things to any girl he knew. It can make him dateless. Maybe he thought he was cracking a joke but needs to earn what isn't appropriate.
If you do wind up friends it would only happen after his behavior and maturity changed. I gather that's why you dumped him. You might want to tell him that and about other things he does that are unattractive and turn people right off. It may be the best thing anyone did or said for him.
I'd be grossed out too.
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I am 17 years old, a virgin, and I have a best guy friend who I have known for 6 years and fully trust. We have A LOT of history together and recently I've been really wanting to have sex. I know he wants to also, we've talked about it. He is sleeping over my house on Saturday night, and I think it's going to happen. I am really excited and not at all nervous, only because it is with him.
I am just wondering, what you all think of this? If you have any tips or suggestions that might be helpful? because i dont know a whole lot about sex.. (link)
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The best thing you could do is wait awhile longer. This way you can investigate other methods of birth-control to be used along with condoms to protect yourself. You don't want an accidental pregnancy.
At the same time you could get loads of fact sheets, books and other info so you feel ready and know or have an idea or confidence of what you are doing. Don't just let sex happen as that leads to bad experiences.
This doesn't need to happen on Saturday. Take your time and really talk to him about this before doing anything. You might both think that your friendship will remain in tact but once sex happens it changes everything about how you view each other. What if one person feels it was a mistake and the other doesn't?
I would figure out where the friendship was going first and if it will become a relationship with sex involved in it or not. There's not much more anyone can suggest except for be careful and THINK. Thinking ahead keeps you out of trouble.
Also, I should point out that it's against the law in all states for anyone under 18 to have sexual relations with an adult or someone under 18. I learned that here. It doesn't stop you from doing it but if you are make yourself educated on sexuality. Not knowing anything about sex and then jumping into the deep end can be disaster.
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ive been hung up on the same guy for about 10-11 months. we dated twice, broke up, and now we're together again. i love him so much.
but lately, we've been spending almost every day together. and sometimes he gets hyper and obnoxious. and during those times, i cant wait to get away from him. but then i feel bad and get depressed. but THEN when im away from him too long, i get even more depressed because i miss him so much. and then i get happy when i see him, and then he gets hyper again,...and its just a big cycle of love bipolar.
what should i do?? i dont want to talk to him about it because i dont want to hurt his feelings, and i think the only problem here is that im either too picky or serious, and i want to just have a normal relationship with him. what can i do to fix myself? (link)
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Bipolar disorder is when an individual has delusional thoughts or psychotic psychiatric episodes. They also have mood swings going from severe depression, elation, and back down to crashing.
They also usually hear voices and hallucinate. Once on medication they may feel depressed one moment to elated the next and back down. This is called rapid cycling. If they're just hyper without any delusional, grandiose thinking or ideas it's called hypomania.
If he has this disorder than understand that it's NOT his fault nor can he control it. Learn to roll with the punches so to speak and accept it as part of being around him.
Talking to him won't help unless he can explain how the disorder affects him and yourself. You would be hurting him otherwise. Talk to his mother, his siblings etc. for tips on dealing with him and it.
This leads me to my next point hyper, obnoxious, immature etc. do not a bipolar person make. That's the farthest thing away from what the actual disease is all about. I should know as I have it and have dealt with it for 6 years.
If he's just behaving badly tell him that the behavior bothers you, embarrasses you and makes it so you can't tolerate being with him at times. He'll get the picture as sometimes you have to get tough to show someone how their behavior irritates others. There has to be something you like about him that draws you back. Mention what is to him and work together.
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Hey , im 13 yearsold , well my moms currently disapointed & upset with me because im in 8th grade and i am failing atleast three clases and shes affraid i wont pass high school , in english i have a 66 in math i have a 56 and im not sure what the heck i have in spanish but that's besides the point, i don't wanna be looked at as the flunk out of school loser who does absoulutely nothing
with her life , i don't wanna be stupid forever , what should i do ? Help me please =( (link)
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Is this a new trend or a long standing one with school? If it's a constant problem with the majority of course it's likely not your fault. In that case you should be tested for a learning problem and see if extra help allows you to succeed.
In the event you are failing for other reasons consider the amount of effort you are/aren't putting in. Devote 2 hours a night on homework and ask for extra help before you get in a rut. I would also find someone to tutor you and bring your grades up. Aside from that there isn't much more you can do besides joining a study group or starting one.
No matter what you aren't a loser. Let people think what they want about you. It doesn't make it so. Consider the source of the comments.
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okay soo me and my bf see eachother every two weeks if i'm lucky.. and there is four weeks in a month so i see him about twice a month.. well i want to see him more... like when i'm at my dads house on everyother weekend... { thats why i can't see him on those weekends}. my dad is really over protective.. he yelled at my ex who at the time we had been dating for about two months.. for us holding hands.. just only that! well my dad found out that my current boyfriend went on our first date to the movies.. he freaked! (my little brother told) well i wanted my dad to eventually meet him.. but thats ruined because when my dad has an opinion about someone it doesn't change! and at that time when i went to the movies with him.. it really wasnt supposed to be a date.. it was as friends.. but it turned into one.. how do i turn things around with my dad... he is one of those dads who have to be " the king" and thinks that he is " royalty" and he thinks that to make people listen you have to.. scare them... well.. yeah.. my dad is scary.. alot.. and well help!! (link)
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Have your mother talk to him or lay into him as the case may be. You both need to point out to him that it's a fact of life that you need to be dating boys. It's normal for a young girl and that she feels you are ready and dating the right person.
As long as he can see rather than be told you are mature and responsible that's fine. Holding hands is childs play you ought to point out people your age have gotten pregnant, done all sorts of stuff neither you nor him are interested in at your age.
Have him meet your boyfriend on your terms. Have his family invite you and your father over and even your mom. Once he sees that everything is fine with him and his parents he'll loosen the reigns.
Have your mother tell dad that he needs to respect your space, choices and even if he doesn't like it boyfriends. And above all about the yelling etc. to lay off and show the same respect to him.
You could also get his mother or father to bitch to him by phone about how he treated so and so or this boy before and how they like your daughter but expect more from your father when he's a guest in the house.
He doesn't have to like your boyfriends and you don't have to tolerate how he thinks. He's trying to protect you but he needs to let you go or you'll never grow up. Maybe he feels he's lost you already to your mom through the divorce and doesn't want to let go of you emotionally.
Talk to him about that and what's bothering him when it comes to you. It's not about boys-it's about you and him. Trust me on that. The boy is just another thing he thinks tears you from him.
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so 17f
I masterbate, never had sex, but do watch porn. Is watching porn bad? I never really understood if it was or not. Sometimes I feel like I am betraying god, other times I say to myself I am not doing anything bad. opinions, anything please! (link)
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Porn is really meant for adults. Having that you're almost 18 and not a teen nor someone younger. It's not an accurate depiction of sexuality either or responsibility.
That said a lot of adults of all different beliefs watch it. If you feel it's against yours and your values don't. If you watch it it can't physically harm you or mentally at this point but can/will for minors who are too young and not meant to view it.
Are you betraying God? Hardly. Whether you masturbate frequently or watch porn it can't change your relationship with God. It's either solid or it isn't. Also females of all ages roughly 78% of them and 90% of males masturbate. It's normal, safe etc. Doctors have said as much repeatedly in media.
It's not always a sexual thing either. People do it because it feels good, relieves stress or is comforting that's so of many young people. It becomes sexual much later and is UNIVERSAL with teens. So, relax, you aren't doing anything wrong if the majority of people are doing it.
When it comes to porn if you could wait until you are 18 that's best. What would your parents think if you were watching it or acquiring it? When you are an adult you can make the choice to see it or not. Minors shouldn't have access to it.
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Is it really bad to masturbate? I really really really want to. I have not had sex and plan not to until marriage. But I really need masturbation. Is it bad to masturbate. Even if its only every once in awhile. Like every month or every other month?(I havnt masturbated since november) (link)
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It doesn't matter if you were Christian or worshipped Greek Gods. It always comes back to the same old thing. Pediatricians and other doctors will tell you that this is a NORMAL behavior.
It doesn't even have to be a sexual thing, Many younger children, toddlers etc. do it for comfort. Just like discovering fingers and toes they learn it feels good. It's pretty much a universal thing with teens of both sexes. Statistically it is said that 90% of males do and 78% females of all ages. I believe but don't quote me that that's from Masters and Johnson.
Your bond with God is firmly set and can't be wiped out because of this. You won't go to hell, go blind or suffer for this no matter what they say. You're a Christian and always will be no matter what you may do sexually. You can't change your status there as his bond is solid and never fades.
Bottom line is that people of all creeds, beliefs, races, ages do this and it's no big deal if you do. It's normal, you can't hurt yourself etc. etc. If you enjoy it continue doing so if not than don't. Above all don't feel any guilt.
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