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Masturbation


Question Posted Sunday February 15 2009, 10:24 pm

15/f/highly embarrassed
i've only ever tried masturbating once, and when i did, i just kind of pushed/rubbed my clit a lot,
but it kindof made my head feel funny (wow horrid word choice) and anyway, i felt really embarrassed after doing that.
i've never had my period either, like, i just haven't started yet, so idk whats normal and what isn't,
and me and my family DEFINITELY don't talk about this kindof stuff.
so yeah,
why do i feel embarrassed afterwards?
if i masturbate will i make my period start sooner? D:

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solidadvice4teens answered Monday February 16 2009, 7:39 pm:
I couldn't tell you why you felt lightheaded afterward. It's not something I would worry about. There's no correct way or wrong way to engage in this activity.

Why feel embarrassed? It's pretty much universal with both males and females your age. They say 90% of males do it and 78% of all females at all ages. If you enjoy it great if not that's normal too.

It has ZERO connection with menstruation and won't speed when that happens the first time either up nor slower. Your period will come when it comes. You have no choice about when and where.

Masturbation need not even be sexual. Toddlers and young children discover these body parts much like any other on their own. They may like the feeling as it feels good and nothing else. Bottom line: you're fine and don't worry.

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JustSomeone answered Monday February 16 2009, 12:02 pm:
i started masturbating when i was 15 also. i dont do it a whole lot just sometimes when i get really horny lol. and when i was 15 and 16 years old (i am now 17) whenever i would do it i also felt so embaressed and i felt like everybody knew that i had just done it! but then i got older and realized that its actually normal, and its healthy sometimes! and almost every girl does/tries it. but about the period thing, i'm not sure if it would make you start your period faster. masterbating does realese hormones, so its possible? but im not sure..

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Jasminaa answered Monday February 16 2009, 11:59 am:
I think you only feel embaressed because it was your first time & it was just something you wouldn't picture yourself doing. When you do masturbate, that's basically all you do, but then you could also like finger yourself.
Anyways.. it's not oging to make your period come sooner, whenever your body is ready for it to come, that's when it will.
But I think if you keep on doing this, that you'll get used to it, and not be embaressed anymore.

Hope I helped !

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