my mom is sick with breast cancer and bone cancer and 3 brain tumors.....i kno thats bad but shes in remission now and doing really well...but for some reason no matta how much i spend time with her she keeps telling me to stay with her.....no i can see when she was really sick and wantin to spend time wit me but she betta now....and this is cutting into my skool work and social life...i told her i cant spend every second wit her but the she told me that i dont respect her and that i hurt her feelings....now everytime i go to my friends house i feel bad....what do i do to tell her i need my space (i've tried sendin her flowers,and cards)--(doesnt work) help me out !PLEASE!
Wow i am really sorry my mom died of cancer and i had the SAME EXACT problem!!! but i didnt spend that much time with her i now wish i could of!! If i was you i would spend every moment with her because you never know when that time will come. if shes on kemotherapy then thats why she says you dont respect her shes just moody from the kemo dont take anything personal because if you were her you would be stressed too trying to spend time with her daughter i would too if i was sick! god bless you and your family! i hope everything goes well!!!
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**kristen**
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I have this friend and me and her decided to try a new style for christmas and summer.its kinda 80ish.We want to cut pantyhose knee length and wear a cute abercrombie skirt over it.This is for summer by the way. But then we want to wear a colorful tanktop. For shoes we want flipflops or converse. Can anyone tell me if this sounds cute?
I think you are actually making your own style thats really awesome! that means you have individuality!! not a lot of people have that! I think you should wear that because as long as YOU like it, it doesnt matter if other people dont.!! remember that!
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**kristen**
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I have a really weirdo stupid dog, lol. She bumped my head and now i have a HUGE bruise. Do you guys know how to get rid of a bruise fast? My parents and my older sister (Who's moving home today, YAY!), are gonna laugh at me and I hate it when they do. I also really don't want to go to school with the stupid bruise. Any help would be appreciated!!
-Caydee-
put cover up on it go to the drug store!!! i had that happen to me!
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well theres this guy that ive been dating for like the past 2 months or so and we both really like each other and we liked that we were dating but not officially b/f and g/f.. well ive decided that i like him enough to be with him but he says he still doesnt want a g/f and see im 14 and hes about to turn 18 ( tomorrow actually ) and about to graduate so i mean for one im jailbate or whatever you wanna call it and hes about to move on and i can kinda understand why he doesnt want a g/f but then at the same time he always says he doesnt care if i go on a date with another guy but whenever he even thinks i might like a diff guy he gets jealous and he calls me his baby and everyone associates us together so i dont know what to do -- ive talked to him about it before and hes just said he doesnt have the answers.. all he knows is that hes really grown to care for me and trust me but he isnt sure he wants a g/f right now.. what should i do? wait around or give up?
I think hes a little old for you but who am i to say that just when hes ready then he will go to you just dont wait over 7 months!! If he likes you a lot then he'll make his move. i had that same problem with my boyfirned and he asked me out 5 months later!!!and we are really close so maybe its meant to be like this but i was patient and got what i wanted!! lol GOOD LUCK!!!!
**kristen**
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I'm 6'11" 430lbs Male. I need a plan for weight loss, and i need to lose it soon. My doctor has suggested surgery, and i do not want to go there until i absoulty have to. It is literally killing me. Please give me some low cost solutions on losing weight. Thanks.
Hey I feel your pain my friend is really over weight and my suggestion is to eat less by when you feel that urge to eat, go look in a mirror and when you do eat, take very small bites and chew it for a long time. it takes usually 20 min for your stomach to say its full. your also really tall!!! wow 6'11!!! wow go to this website http://www.am-i-fat.com/ also this http://www.free-weight-loss-resources.com/
i researched but also tell your mom and dad this and see if you can go to a weight loss camp and if you can then reallllly work out
i would also exersise as much as i can. i know this is weird but when your sitting then scrunch your butt and legs and when your lieing down then do some sit ups (when your in bed) when you have free time then go in a seperate room so you dont feel embarassed with people looking at you and exersise and if you dont have a tred mill then RUN in place!! in gym do your best for you, your family and friends.!!
do this so that you dont die and think about getting that surgery its VERY necisary!!
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Does anyone know some type of food that would give me more calcium? I heard that the age i am (15) is one of the most important to get more of it. I HATE milk, and dont really like yogurt or cheese. I am afraid I might get osteoporosis when i get older. HELP!!
Orange Juice has calcium just drink lots of OJ and look on the back on the nutrition facts and it tells you how much calcium is in that carton of OJ
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well heres the deal, my parents have been divorced since a was like 3 (im 13 now). ive always lived with my mom and my dad lives over 300 miles away. i can only see my dad every-other weekend and i really don't like that. i miss my dad a lot when im not over there and im thinking about maybe moving over to his house. but i don't want to hurt my mom's feelings or leave all my friends here (but i don't think that making new friends will be a problem). ive also been having lots of problems with my mom lately...
what do you think i should do?
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Well I had this problem when my parents died. My sister wanted me to live with her and i wanted to live with my other sister. Sometimes now i want to live with my other sister. But I think you will miss your mom a lot. Since you miss your dad your going to miss your mom if you switch the routine. If i were you i would stay where you are because you have lots of friends. I would go to counsleling with your mom so you can settle your problems. Also call your dad often and talk to him about the weekend you get to hang out with him. Hopefully i helped. good luck!!!
*kristen*
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im 14/f...and the hair that i have above my upper lip has gotten really dark and noticeable...its embarassing...my mom says not to shave it, im scared to get it waxed, it hurts when you pluck it, and well is there anything else?!
Waxing dosent hurt at all i thought it would too but it dosent but get hair bleacher its available in walmart by the comsmetic dept. thats a lot easier thats what my sister uses!! it really works!
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okay.. my b/f gave me a condom just in case we went a little too far one time.. and i kept it in a little compartment of my purse that no one really notices.. well when my b/f was over today.. my mom washed that purse! and i walked in the room.. and the zipper for the area was unzipped.. but the condom was still there!! ahh omg! what could i say to make my parents think i'm not having sex?! please answer this! i'll rate 5's to anyone that answers!
Tell your parents the truth say this:
"Mom I have a condom in my purse and I want you to know this because i want to feel that we can tell eachother anything, the reason for this is, because just incase i ever think about having sex. I want to be protected at all times! Please trust me" Or if your parents are over protective then just say it was a friend of yours
but think about the truth first
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