Q: I recently started liking someone, and they want a relationship out of our friendship. This would be my first boyfriend probably, and i don't know what to do. I'm not scared, im just really shy and just nervous about it. He has autism, but it sort of/sort of doesn't affect much. I wanna just be friends for a while. But i don't know what to do. Any suggestions? Cause this is like a first time thing for me.

thanks :]

Q: I have stopped using conventional, drugstore tampons, since I heard that they have harmful chemicals, like rayon, and use bleaching...I wouldn't want to have contact with either.
I now use natural, 100% organic cotton tampons, which are fine, except for the fact that all of them have a cardboard applicator. I understand that natural means natural, so no plastics...but is their a natural tampon with a more comfortable design? I don't mind using cardboard tampons, but I noticed that it's hard to grip the natural tampons during application.
If any of you know of the most comfortable organic cotton tampon, please let me know.

Q: how do you schedule a college interview? or if the college is far away?

Q: Ok I'm super confused so maybe someone can explain this to me! Let's say a boy is 17 and in your state the law is a 17+ person can't date a minor then can he have a 15 year old girlfriend? Because I was reading that there are laws that when your like 17 and up you can't date minors but what about teens around the same age with only a couple years difference? Thanks so much and I will rate everyone who helps me! :D

Q: When guys ask me if they are good kissers I have no idea what to tell them! Usually I tell them yes and everything because I don't know what else to say... but how can you really tell if someone is a good kisser or a bad kisser? Thanks!!

Q: Hey, i know this is like so many other questions but i really want an answer. ok so there is this boy who is really hot and seems really nice and cool. i know hes smart too. he rides my friends bus and her bus is in front of mine so i always go over and talk to her. well hes pretty good friends with her and will talk to me when we're talking and so like all 3 of us talk togther. He flirts with me and told my friend he likes me and thinks im hot and stuff too. I like him and he likes me the problem is we dont really know each other. thats the only time i see him in the day and its like for 5 min. max a know a bit about him but not really. if you know what i mean. i would really like to get to know him more. hes on another school on campus because hes not in my grade so i cant see him before class or anything either. what should i do??? my friend says i should come to her house because they're neighbors but what else? i dont know if he would want to go to the movies or sumthing w/me and my friend because he doesnt know anyone else in our group. i dont care if i hang with his friends but what should i do so i can hang out with him more!!! and how should i get him to hang with me like should i invite him or ask him to the movies with me? when u give me answers please tell me HOW to ask him or get him to ask me or whatever. im really attracted to him and def. what to see him more and get to know him better. i asked for his AIM but he already told me he's NEVER on and he isnt. Thanks you so much and i will rate EVERYONEs helpful posts!!! :D

Q: Sorry. might sound stupid.
15/f,

okay. im a soph in highschool and i have known this girl since 3rd grade from day 1 i have absoulty hated her. last year during freshman year she thought that i was her friend. the few reasons why i absoulty hate her is because she basically brags about herself (because shes rich) and basically is stuck up. shes not pretty at all and not a lot of people like her. my friend karlee hated her too. so we would always say how much we hate her and stuff. ive been in her class in 3rd 4th 5th 6th 7th 8th 9th grade. this is teh year shes finally not in any of my classes. so i think okay good now i can just like not talk to her anymore and mind my own business. She comes up to me last friday with my friend karlee right next to her saying, Sarah what is wroung wtih you blah blah blah we use to be best friends last year and now you dont even talk to me (in my head im thinking yeah okay best friends?) and shes like reamber that time in marketbasket when i waved to you and i was like yeah and i waved back.. and she was like well my friend said that you rolled your eyes. im shy to tell someone how i feel so in my head i was like it could have been to my mom or even i could be haveing a bad day you cant just blaim stupid things like that her friend could of been lieing. and honestly i didnt roll my eyes. well anyways, she was saying that i talk shit about her (which i dont) and all this other stuff and that i always give her dirty looks and i never give people dirty looks as much as hate them. and now my friend karlee is friends with her. so all i just said was it wouldnt happen again and i went off and i was so fustrated and stuff. so it was a big mistake and i told this girl but she ended up telling basically everyone. big mistake. well anyways this girl came up to me at lunch shes friends with this girl that was spazzing on me and she was like did you tell kerrie ( the gril who told everyone ) if that girl yelled at you and i was like yeah kinda.. and it was a mistake and after like shes all bugging me if im mad at her and everything. so i told my friend vickey who is a really nice friend. she texted karlee and said " listen karlee i dont think your being a good friend to sarah because the time when she needs you the most your hanging out with that girl you should tell her to stop and if you dont i will" so after that she told off that girl i froget what but shes at one of my lunches and i jsut go to the libary then. and i dont know if i can do anything im like confused if she didnt say anyhting i think that things would have been fine. karlee gives me dirty looks in the halls she sits with that girl at lunch when im there and thats when i go to the libary she doesnt sit with me at my other lunch she sits with some other girl. so she only talks to me in one class that she has no one else to talk to. i dont know what to do. is seh not being a good friend i dont really like this girl who yelled at me so i could care less if were friends or not but ever since she ssiad something it has causes so much stuff. i know this is really stupid but. can i do anything?
thanks for reading. sorry for wasteing your time.

Q: i need to piss someone off and say fvck you.

what should i do?

Q: I need to do a National History Day project for school. We can pick any topic, as long as it didn't happen in the United States. The theme this year is 'conflict and compromise'.

I really like ancient Greece and Rome, maybe something with that? I'm not sure of specific battles/conflicts from those periods, so that's why I'm here. Any ideas would be greatly greatly appreciated. Thanks so much in advance :)

Q: So I'm going to a party and I need a halloween costume. I'd prefer something more slutty than scary and I can't afford to buy a costume. What are some ideas? Celebrities, costumes I can make out of clothes...anything...

If it makes a difference...almost black hair, dark brown eyes, very pale, 5'9 (so heels aren't the best idea), medium weight.

Q: okay lately i learned from a friend that a really close teacher/friend of mine was a lesbian. She hadn't wanted students to know but she confided in teachers and told them not to tell ANYONE! But my friends mom, who works at the school and is a teacher, told her daughters all about it and how she went to her gfs home town to get married to her. Then my friend blabbed it too me. Now im furious and i hate my friends mother for being so unprofesional since i know how that could ruin someones career. But the mother also happens to be my scout leader and i have to see her tommorow. how should i handle this?

* by the way don't bother telling me that my friend had the right to know: its none of their buisness and the teacher has worked there for 18 years.

Q: My boyfriend and I dread to discuss going off to college being that I'm not really sure where I want to go but I do want to attend school some where near him. I want to know is it really possible to continue a relationship after high school, like really? I've heard stories like, "you can't do it", "it'll never work" but I really want it to work with my boyfriend and I because i love him. If you love someone can't you make things work? Please help me because I really need help right now. Thank you in advance!

Q: when you're making out,
are your lips in between eachother
or on top of the other persons lips?

Q: title says it all

Q: ok so i've(im 20) had a crush(he is 20) on this guy for 7 years and i just told him recently how i feel . we talk all the time at least once a day. but the prob. is his best friend(is 19) whom i have no interest in what so ever has a huge crush on me its to the point of obsession and the guy i like used to date my little sister. he is the same age as me though, he just think it be weird to be with me after dating my sister and i also believe he dont wanna hurt his friend's feelings. up till three days ago i thought we were just friends thats it but then he started say he wanted to " Sleep with me" i accidently sent the message to his friend, who says he is just messing with me. but he confroted his frend(my crush) online last nite and i was talking to my crush at the time and he(my crush) said that his friend was asking why he(my crush) was hitting on me . my crush im'd me saying that he could get himself out of trouble with his friend. he told me what he told his friend he said that he was using reverse psychology on me then laugh about it with me. i said twice well he(my crushes friend) dont have anything to worry about its not like u have feelings for me right? and he said he knows what im capable of and he likes u. WHAT SHOULD I DO ? DOES HE LIKE ME OR IS HE JUST MESSING WITH ME? PLZ HELP

ok so im going to see my crush tomorrow at the football game, only prob. he is coming there with his ex gf and i just found out they watched tv together today.but he says that she was sending him mixed signals. so question one should i even bother going to the game? if i go should i just ignore him? or should i steal his attention? and what should i do to be unforgetable? how should i dress,act,etc? man im confused

Q: I really like this kid. I havent really talked to him a lot. We have 2 classes together, which are gonna change on Monday. So, I dont know if we will have any other classes together.

But yeah,

In PE, we were playing volleyball. When we had to get into the lines, I wanted to stand next to him, on the front row. But, his friend got in between us, so i just went to the back line. Then i looked at him and he looked at me and told his friend he wanted to go on the back line. ( next to me ) Which made me feel grrreeat.

At lunch I can see him sometimes looking over at me. And same goes as with my other class.

But, is that like a sign of him liking me?
All my friends say it is. and that he does like me. and I should go talk to him and whatnot.
I think if i KNEW that he liked me, i could so totaly go over and talk to him.



And, Im also friends with his friend in PE. I talk to him all the time. And the other day i stupidly told him i liked his friend. So he said he was gonna go tell him. and I started to freak out. Cause i dont want him to think im a freak or anything. And i was almost sure that he did tell him, and today the guy i like didnt really look at me or anything. But then when i got to talk to his friend, he said he hasnt told him yet. Which made me a little happier. And that eh would tell him tomorrow.

SO...
In PE was that a sign? and do you think that his friend should tell him? I dont want him to think that just some random girl likes him. :/

Q: hey i have a little black dress similar to this
http://us.st11.yimg.com/us.st.yimg.com/I/edressme_1966_21926110
same length and everything except that mine is low U-shaped in the front. i was wondering what costume i could use it as for halloween. i have these knee highs similar to this
http://www.thisnext.com/media/80x80/35C142C3.jpg
but only it's red,grey, & black.
& i also have this fairy halo that looks like this
http://images.buycostumes.com/mgen/merchandiser/12947.jpg
only the crown part is white & fuzzy & the ribbons are white silver & blue.


what can i do to put them together? what should i add on to the dress to make it less plain? and what make-up should i use?

THANKS IN ADVANCE.

Q: I've got loads of assignments, 6 weeks in College and need to get them done for Christmas. My lecturers are telling us to do them NOW! Like an hour a day atleast. However, when I get up to do work I find distractions like consoles, music, guitars.... Help me please!

Q: 16/f (sophomore)

NOTE:: if you dont feel like reading me vent for a paragraph skip down to the question

mk so this past month in school ive been trying to make new friends, but it hasnt worked AT ALL. i want to have friends that will laugh at my jokes at the right times, also friends that arent too clingy..or friends that will talk to me when things are serious. i know in my heart that im not shy, im actually majorly outgoing with EVERYBODY. for example, on my school sports team everytime i try to talk to someone i feel like im being snubbed..and i feel so worn down because of it and it makes me feel as if its my fault for being too sensitive. they are all nice people too. thought it would be EASIER to make friends when i got on a sports team but apparently not! :((

right now i feel stuck and i feel like crying/pulling my hair out in frustration because i really wanted to make fun friends this year but it's mid october and i have no idea why ive made not one good friend!!! =[[[ sighh i feel like crying. honestly. ive been in this school district for 8 years and even though i am crazy outgoing and i join lots of clubs and im smart and i have interests and im on sports teams i have not made more than 10 good friends. like what the fuckkkkkkkkkkkk!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! WHY ME???

sorry that was super long haha. its just my way of venting! anyway my real question is..if someone i want to be friends with makes me feel kinda intimidated should i stop trying or keep trying to talk to them even though im afraid of talking too much?

thanks.

Q: I am looking for advice on a rape victim, keep the kid or not?

16 YEAR OLD GIRL.

Really, it's not the child's fault, they didn't ask to be killed because they were concieved wrong right?
But then again, having the kid will be a daily reminder, and ruin her future.

WHAT WOULD YOU DO?
ANY ADVICE?



Thank you for the time!

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