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I need a way to lose weight really fast like 2 weeks...How can i do this???

Not eat.

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I shave down there and when it starts growing back...and I try to shave it hurts sooo bad and bleeds. Does anyone know any tricks or anything that will work? I've tried nair and it dosn't work. Thanks soo much for your help!

Well, if no one is is going to see down there, just wait a few days till you shave again and it wont hurt. Its just that the hair is too short.

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ok this is my first time having my period n ive had it for 5 days already and my mom told me its only suppossed to last 3-5 days and the longest shes ever had it was for 7 days. please help me , clue me in on whats going on!!!!! thanks sooooooooooo much

sincerely,
troubled girly

Its your first period, they are always a little different than the rest. Its totally fine. Now if it last for like two weeks then go to a doctor.

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im gonna have a presentation in front of class.. im kinda shy and i was wondering what i can do to overcume my shyness and not be so afraid

Just remember that everyone else in the class has to do the same presentation, and that more than half the kids wont even listen.

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I'm korean and im going to High School next year. Well im kinda a slut so I was wondering if people will make fun of me ..and what do i need to know for becomeing a freshman

People wont make fun of you for being a slut... the guys will love it.

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in the summer i get freckles all over my face. its really annoying my face is more pale then tan. i look bad without coverup.. i dont like coverup because its cakey sometimes and thick and expensive..and also melts off your face. are there any alternatives to get rid of or cover up freckles?

I think if you just wear sunscreen it should keep them away.

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I'm litterally sitting here crying my eye's out because of the boy i love and have been going out with for almost a year now. I don't understand him he tells me he's change when sometimes he shows it then he goes back to his dickless self. God he keeps calling "Rosy" we'll say and "Rosy" in this situation will be my mom and I'm not gonna get into that but she's just a judgemental, annoying, mother ever she's always there which all moms should be. But holy shit god he makes me cry almost every night. And I can't stand it. Breaking up with him is not in the question. I'm not going to we have been on and off so many times and I'm not putting that shit at risk. I'm just so pissed off tell me how like I can avoid the tears and just grow up and stop crying about every damn thing. I'll rate if I know how.

Not dating an ass hole is a good way to stop crying.

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well my boobs are really far apart will they ever grow together so i will have some clevage??

i rate 5's

Depends on your age. But just wear a push up bra aka the great thing in the world.

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Sep. 11th, wil be my bf's and my one year anneversary and i want to make it really special, but i have no ideas about what to do. Im going to be 16 before that time, but i dont know if i will have my license yet or not, anyways, i dont want to have sex, and nothing sexual, but i do want to make it romantic and something will that will we will remember forever, we live in saint louis, MO please i realy need some sweet ideas, thanks in advance, i rate high!!

Picnic.

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What's something special I could do for me and my boyfriend's 3 month anniversary?

Blowjob.

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i'm a 15 year old girl and i love to masturbate. i do it at least 2 times a day. do you think that is bad? i also like to look at porn, especially girls. do you think its weird for me to look at girls instead of guys even though i'm attracted to guys?

Its not bad or weird. And why would you want to look at naked guys anyways they look odd without clothes, when girls have beautiful bodys. So its not bad, your just horny.

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Well, I have been VERY depressed lately about different things. My dad makes me really mad. I'm tired of being depressed. I can't get to sleep at night. I hate it. My best friend is wonderful and she tries to help me. But nothing works. EVER! I feel so bad because she tries her best. I love her so much for helping me. I'm just.. I don't know. I'm always sad. I need help. And I can't afford some REAL help, if you know what I mean. SO.. Does anyone have any advice?? I will rate 4s and 5s!!

Chocolate. It has the same effect on the brain as coke which will make you happy. Also Jolly Ranchers.

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ok well my dentist told me i will need braces for my lower teeth. and my mom promised she will get me invisilign i know its a bit expensive but i dont wanna wear braces.and now my mom said she isnt sure if she can aford invislign.and i dont wanna wear braces in high school.waht should i do?

Do you know how many people wear braces in high school? A lot. So big deal. Get over yourself.

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this is stupid but i'll give 5's. if you want to get motovated to do something like work out everyday or practice for a sport everyday does anyone have any ways that they get motovated for something like that? thanks in advanced

Give yourself a reason to do it. Like you want certain guy to notice you.

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Sorry, i didn't know what category to put this under. lol, okay my question is, if you dont know how to put a tampon in, and you're NOT on yor period. Can you still practice to stick one in you? Because I'm going to a party soon and I should be getting my period soon. And I'm going to have to swim. And I just need to know how to put a tampon in. So could I practice, while I'm not on my period? What would it do?

Go too http://www.beinggirl.com/en_US/pages/yourperiod.jsp
and look around. They used to have a video on how to put it in and everything. I'm not sure if its still there but just check it out.

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I AM A COMUMNIST, AND I CANT FIND AN ANSWER..
PLEASEEEE READ ! IM SORRY FOR THE LENGTH, BUT THIS IS SERIOUS !!


Okay, my sister has these bumps on her breasts, around her nipple and that hurt.. well only when you apply pressure.. and she wears 2 bras and sometimes a tanktop.. or sometimes more layers... and she thinks its because of all the pressure because whenever she wore just a shirt went down a little.. and i really dont know, she's had it for like 2-4 monthhs.. and she has mono too.. and has had it 4-5 months.. and i just really feel the need to help.. ohh and she hasnt started her period and her breast just started to grow.. breast cancer couldnt be given thru heredity because no one in our family has had it.. and im just really scared for her and this is serious !!

Why does she wear two bras?

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this might sound really weird but im so horny all the time and i cant help it and i want to get a vibrator or dildo or something so i can use it haha is there any where to get them for cheap that my parents wont know and also i find myself thinking about girls like doing stuff with them i dont know why i think of guys too but its just weird and i dont kno what to do so yeah ill rate high

I'm pretty sure you can't buy one unless your 18 because you have to be 18 to go into a sex shop.

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A lot of my friends smoke. This means that whenever I hang around with them they are smoking and they often offer me cigarettes. I have always said no because I have my priciples but recently I have been smoking with them. I found that it was quite relaxing and I liked it. I really don't want to do it anymore but I enjoy it and as my friends do it, it's tempting. How do I stop before I get too addicted?

Ah, stop smoking them.

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do u think my ex-boyfriend would get jealuse if I hag out with a guy that likes me and flrits with me in frount of him?

He might get really 'jealous' if you spelled correctly.

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im goin out with sumone right now and have been for 3 months he askes me if im ready to have sex but i have no clue what to say because im scared and at a young age (14) my body feels like its ready but i dont know if i am he says hes ok with whatever my choice is!i want to but i dont know if its the right moment sometimes?what should i do go on with it and deal with everything or forget about it???please i need some advice?

If your having doubts it means your not ready. You'll know your ready when you have no doubts at all and everything just feels right.

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