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Q: What is a gynacologist? What do they do?

Gynacologist AKA gyno deals with women's private parts (the one down) and with babies and stufff. Like if you have an yeast infection you go to a gyno and if you think yur preggy you go to one also

hpe i helped,
Jamee

Q: I am possibly thinking about going on an airplane in the near future and would like your advice/opinions about Airplanes. I would like to know who has been on one, How do you like flying, What do you love about Flying, what do you hate about flying and what advice you would give to me if I were to fly. Feel free to answer my question and really good advice in great detail will get a 5.

Flying is rather exciting! It's a joy actually and I think the best part is being above ground and seeing clouds!

The worst part is jus the chewing of the gum and the feelin of lift off....but after a while u LOVE IT!

Q: how much do nose jobs cost, and what is the youngest age you can get them? say 14?

It depends on what you want.

And I think the age doesn't matter...I saw a 15 year old on dr 90210 get a nose job....u jus have to get a parent to agree and sign..
however if they don't you'll have to wait till 18

Q: When i was 6 i was put up for adaption..and i lost touch with all of my brothers and sisters. Well one of my 5 siblings was also put up for adaption after me. I recently found her on myspace and i sent her a message..and im nervous like she was on today and i sent her a message but she dosent answer its like she dosent even care..what should i do??

much lovee
lila

Well your not sure she got it...so if she has an e-mail e-mail her! I hope ya'll are all good and reunite

Good luck

Q: I think I'm going gothic and I'm terrified of what's becoming of me. I dress like it now and I listen to the music. I LOVE the music and I HATE the rap. The only thing is I'm scared. I don't want to be one of those suicidal people that everyone is scared of but I can't go back to being a prep because then I wouldn't be myself. What do I do!?

Not all gothic people are sucidal and want to die and cut n stuff. You van be urself and not be labelled

Q: what age should you start wearing makeup ? & what grade ? lol .. & do you have any recommendations on what company to use when you first start using makeup ? please i/m me with the answer . my screen name is YELLOW FRUiiT x3 . thanks !

You can probably start using makeup at around I would say 15 goin on 16. I think using a light powder and some lipgloss however can be used at 13 or 14.

Starting of grade 10 probably would be the best time. Alot of guys tell me they hates girls who wear makeup when they're 14 and 13...so I guess 15 going on 16 is good!

My mum always use revlon and covergirl. Sorrry I don't have AIM!

Q: my school does assigned seating for lunch period. somehow, the past two times they've assigned new table groups, i've sat with one of the same girls. the entire time ive had lunch period with her, i've never seen her eat more than an apple, or occasionaly she nibbles on one of those 100 calorie packets. when i've asked her about it, she always said she's already eaten, or she's not hungry. she isn't a skinny girl, and she doesn't seem to be losing any weight. still, this doesn't seem healty. i'm not sure what to do, or if i should do anything at all. please help!

I'm pretty overweight and I do this basically 2 out of 5 days for the week.

I don't think she have an eatin problem because maybe she just feels comfortable eating that amt of food...or yeah maybe she's on a diet

Q: is there anyway to improve my running so and can get faster?? i'm an outfielder for softball and the only way i'll be able to start varsity is if i can cover more ground any help is appreciated

I totally agree with the person below. Any trainer will infact tell u u must build up ur muscles in order to be a fast runner.

There is this girl in school..who is a national runner she's relly fast and wins all running activites, her last year at school :( and well she trains about 2 hrs a day and stuff. You should do leg exercises and then you can also do some treadmill to make sure you're comfortable with the rate you're running and you don't damage something

Q: I'm still in love with my exboyfriend but I know he doesn't like me anymore but the thing is i CAN'T get over him! I've been trying for over 6 months and I just burst into tears when we had this conversation on the computer...

him: i hav a question
me: yess?
me: whats your question?
him: i love u but here is my question can we put clip art on our project
me: lmao yeah
him: not love love but u no
me: lmao yeah

WHAT SHOULD i DO!? PLEASE HELP ME!

Ok so he doesn't like u...but he's sending u that? Are you sure?

Ok so if he doesn't like u build a friendship with him...so ya'll will be friends and you know he's always there..but not as a bf as a best friend (that's what i did)

But if he truly likes u...remember what he did you...or why ya'll broke up. If it's serious just be friends but if it's something petite and can be mended (not him cheatin) give it a nex shot!

Hope I helped

Q: lately, i've been under a lot of stress. most of the pressure is coming from my parents. knowing the fact that there is no room for mistakes in my parents eyes pretty much explains it. and lets put it this way: they take away my cell phone if i get a B on my report card. not only are they juicing me academically, but sports are a big factor too.

every week day, from 2:30 (end of school) to 5:30 in the evening, im property of the school track team. i know its fantastic for my health but 3 hours of pure running? not my idea of a fun sport. plus it makes me go home every night with a sore, sweaty, and tired body. it has taken away basically everyday that i used to hang out with my friends also.

im one of the main flyers for my cheer squad too. in a way it is important to my parents that i stick with it. they say that if i get a scholarship for cheerleading, they'll buy me a nice car. psht. bite me.

well when i get home at 5:30, i have approximately 1 & 1/2 hours of homework/studying per night. my parents have very high expectations for me. yeah i know they care about my future but commmee onnnn.

everything is on high alert for them because im a teenager. it seems like a lot more things are stricter too.

after the homework i prepare everything for the next day (pack my bag, pick out my clothes, take a shower, etc). i know thats my choice, but my morning schedule is very hectic.

in the past week i have made some outstanding grades. i even got into honors classes for next year. the thing with my parents is they'll say "good job, im proud of you... now study for your history test tomorrow"

sorry to make this longer but my weekends are just as packed as my weekdays. i have been loaded with babysitting jobs because my parents and i have good backrounds. anyway, i get at least 2 jobs per weekend (usually on friday and saturday nights) and usually around the same times (5-10 or 11). the money i can live with, but with my schedule, why would i ask for more work?

so i need some advice about dealing with stress. my parents are a little unreasonable so please dont tell me to have a talk with them. we're not that kind of people.

i will rate as high as it gets. thanks, appreciate it.

I understand you being not able to negociate with them! My mum and grandma are just like this when they're ready!

My mum and grandma (althought they have their days) did give me one very important advice lesson that is relatable in this problem :

"IT'S YOUR LIFE!"
I'm not trying to be rude to your ffolks or u but I think it's youre life and what you want to do is up to u! The studying is needed but the extra track...u don't need it and from the souonds of it you don't seem to be headin in a track job !

I think you should drop what you don't want and enjoy a little free time! HOWEVER STICK WID UR SCHOOL WORK!!

Anyway hope i helped

Q: okay a friend really wants to get a laptop uuhh and he's getting apple and does anyone knows like a good model like he asked me

what model is that laptop??

and i totally dont get it so can anyone tell me a good "model??" pleeeaaasse and make it fast I NEED THAT ADVICE :-D

I don't quite understand what you're saying but if u want a good brand for laptops I'd say either dell or sony. Sony's the best I think but it doesn't come cheap! I'd say Dell is also god cause I have one and it never crashed...it only got a virus and that's because of my stupidity!

Q: i have known my friend for 12 years now and we do everything together,she has recently got a boyfriend and is completely leaving me out. im always with her cos i have had trouble at school so shes my only real friend there,i feel completely alone.
Shes ok somedays but other days she will plan to meet me at lunch and then never turn up,its really upsetting me and i dont know what to do! nicole jane, 13

This same this happens to me...well right now! The problem is that i'm 14 and she's 15 going on 16 ssoooo i knew it would happen. Anyhow jus talk to her and make the best of everytime ya'll spend together.

Q: This question has been asked alot, but mine's a bit different. I need a dress for my 8th grade dance, it needs to be nice, somewhat dressy, bun not like, dressy dressy like a prom or anything.. if that makes sense =\

Any websites with cute AND affordable dresses?

My friends bought a dress from this site:

http://simon.com/mall/showlink.aspx?url=www.debshops.com%2fhome%2fdefault.asp&returl=http%3a%2f%2fsimon.com%2fmall%2ftenant_details.aspx%3fID%3d177%26TID%3d45965

Go to dresses on the top of the page and you can go too tea party dresses or any other sections....

they're relly pretty and pretty cheap ($50 and over)

Q: i have these white ring/circles on the bottom of my feet. theyre small and theyre juss white, not gross & they dont hurt. it seems like they are open sort've, not bloody er anything, its juss white skin inside of it?? i cant really explain it. its kind've hard if you touch it. you could feel that its there. there's a base to it. does anyone know what that is?? im curious, because ive had em for awhile.

thanks!!

Is it a korn? That's like when ur shoe is too tight for you? You can get any thing ffor it in a pharmacy like korm plasters.

Q: Is there anywhere to find cheap & cute prom dresses? The prom is this weekend & I really need to find a dress quick!

Some of my friend told me they got their dress from this site...um go to dresses and tea party dresses or anyone you want :

http://simon.com/mall/showlink.aspx?url=www.debshops.com%2fhome%2fdefault.asp&returl=http%3a%2f%2fsimon.com%2fmall%2ftenant_details.aspx%3fID%3d177%26TID%3d45965

I duno how fast u get it or if u have too go to the store but they're relly pretty and they're cheeap!!

Q: Everytime I ask a question i get about 3 answeres and then at the bottom of the question this gets put:

Note:This question was deleted and will not be shown on general search pages.
If there is a reason entered by the moderator it will appear here:
This question was given the lowest rating by at least five level I moderators.

Why does it do that? What does it mean.?

5's for anything.

There's something called moderators. There are 3 levels right and they are allowed to rate questions. If 5 mods give you a :( (sad smily face) or a :| (plain face) you're question can be rated.

This kinda means you have to have a pretty good question and state it in a good way.

hope i helped

Q: My ex called today to say “happy easter”. We dated for 4 months, he dumped me, and it’s been 3 months since the breakup. We go to school together, have lockers next to each other, and have the same friends, but somehow we’ve managed to ignore each other. We were at the same small party last night, and he smiled at me a few times across the room, but I thought it was just coincidence. Why did he call? He has a new gf, but I think they might have broken up. Any insights into what he might be thinking or trying to do would be much appreciated.

I think he jus wants to be friends. I called my ex last night too and said ahppy easter. Well we're more relly good friends and he's my ex...n im his um ex ex ex! Lol i mean he had 2 gfs after me.. Anyhow I think he just wants to be nice and be friends...why don't yah return his call and tell him happy easter if u didn't!

Good luck

Q: kay well heres the problem

i feel like im living a lie! Im not tyring to brag or anything but my social life at school is good! i have the greatest friend and i laugh all the time and stuff.. im pretty well knownd specially for being happy and laughing all the time!!

but the lie is that im not.. I HATE myself! i go home a cry myself to sleep almost everynight! its because of what my brother did to me! i have flashbacks and he still bothers me and when he touches me and when i think about it i break down and cry!

i mean i used to cut myself! I DONT ANYMORE! and the thing is like it gets soo bad at home that i wanna comit suiced BUT I DONT WANT TO DIE! i just want the pain of what im going threw at home to stop!

it makes my stomach feel all weird and makes me sick to my stomach and its feels hard to breath!

am i depressed?? should i see like a therpist??

because like suiced I DONT BELIEVE IN but its on my mind alll the time!

and there is no way at school people could no about this! it would be like the BIGGEST SHOCKER are school well the people who know me has seen

what do i doo!!

please i need some advice!!

I feel sorry for you!
The best advice anyone on this site can give you is that you need to see a therapist. You can get a free one iff u want at a crisis centre or through a school counsillor. I think you should go and see one...and if u don't want your parents knowing tell them you're takin some afternoon activity and go and see one!

Q: Ok, so I was just on MSN and this guy (grade 11) I really liked asked me(grade 9) to go to the movies. I asked my parents if I could go and they said no because they don't want me to date and he's too old. What can I say to change their minds? I badly badly want to go with him. Plus, i know I can totally trust him because I work for his parents and I met him through work.

YEah either get him to meet your parents( more like your parents meet him) or have a group date. Go chill with some of your friends...but carry him too

Q: I have a lot of hair all over (hereditary). Is there any way to remove hair permanently from home?

No you can't have it removed permenatly unless it's laser and that's costly plus it's not home.
You can however:
Shave,
bleach,
wax,
use removers, etc