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Okay, about two weeks ago, I told one of my really close guy friends that I liked him. I thought I did because I knew he liked me ALOT too.. He would do anything for me, etc, so I thought that I liked him too. So I told him. But now Im seeing that I really dont have those kind of feelings for him at all. I feel horrible because he seems so happy now because he thinks I like him back... I dont know what to do :-/ I really dont want to talk to him about it because its really messed up.. any advice on how to handle it without talking to him? Thanks in advice. (link)
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Well theres no way to avoid hurting his feelings. You have to be straight with him and tell him. If not it'll hurt him more in the end. Things like this sucks i know. But theres no way to escape this scenario. So just be honest and tell him about it. Other wise things could ge intense n ugly.
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there's this guy in my school who seems to dislike me . maybe i'm just being sensitive , but sometimes he repeats what i say in a funny/mocking way .he teases everyone , but i have this feeling he doesn't like me . maybe i'm too sensitive , cuz i don't like it when people tease me or make fun of me . how should i respond to such things ? ( ps : i don't know him that well ) (link)
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just laugh it off and when hes alone jus ask him if he dislikes u. i had the same problem and it turned out he did it to everyone so dont stress especially if u havent given him any reasons not to like you
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My friend always cuts himself on his wrists and throat n evrything.. i always try talking to him and he say's he'll stop.. but he keeps doing it and cutting himself more. I don't know what els to do..if he has nobody to talk to he might kill himself..but what can i say that he might actually listen to!? (link)
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You need to tell someone...A counsleor a doctor a teacher. Thats a serious issue and he needs help most deffinately and he may get mad at you for it but hell get over it especially when he gets help.!jus please do me a favor and dont take this lightly and tell someone FAST
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My brother is gay and a lot of people will always mention about it. They make fun of me because he's gay.. They keeps sayin Ohhh Your brothers GaY!!! and sometime's it doesn't bother me.. but other times it does. Surprisingly, most people are cool with it and say he's the coolest person they ever met.. what should i do!? (link)
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well in our society today theres not really anything you can do. But if people would make comments jus be like " yeah so? " even if it does bother u pretend it doesnt. As long as hes comfortable with being gay then you shouldnt care about what others think.
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i cut myself today.... I cut bc my bestfriends mom is dying from a disease called lupis..and she cut herself reall badd bc of her mom... and her dad and step-mom treat her like crap... and now my teacher saw her arm and called DYPHS on her... and now she might get taken away and idk whut 2 do.... please help me.....
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I had a similar situation with my friend but she was taken away. And i was dissapointted but there is NOTHING you can do about it. Every thing is very secretive. The only thing you can do is sit back and take it day by day and see what happens. I wish the best for you!
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My husband and I were talking the other day and he said that if he died he would not want a funeral. I was shocked. Of course he should have a funeral, it's a great way for family and friends to say goodbye. I feel it is more for the family of the deceased anyway. He disagrees, and is shocked that I would not respect his wishes. Who is right here? And if he did die, what are we as a family suppose to do? I would like the love and support of my faamily. (link)
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Well the only thing u can do out of love when he dies is respect his wishes...or your always gonna have that thought in the back of your head wondering if you did the right thing. You may not understand it hes a man lol...but id do what hewished for . maybe he even has reasons hes not telling you
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i've been together with this guy for about 4 months. every time he comes over, he's looking to get some ((if you know what i'm sayin')).. if and when i do something, he goes off and flirts with another girl in front of me the next day. a month ago, me and this guy got into a fight, and he wanted to go and be with a girl i really don't like.. and he ended up staying with me. last night, we got into another fight. and he said he was close to leaving me, and the only reason he didn't leave me is because the other girl didn't want to. and my friend told me the girl likes him now, and they were flirting and stuff during lunch today, and he acts like nothings wrong. i'm afraid to talk to him because i'm afraid hes going to hurt me..! (he likes to threaten people) please help me! i don't know what to do/say to him. (link)
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You dont need him get rid of this creep...sound like hes with u until another option opens.So break up with him before he has the chance to do it to you! You deserve better no girl deserves that emotional abuse...really move on n find someone better! hope i helped
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If you were a 16 almost 17 girl, (maybe some of you are haha) then what would your dream gift be to get from your boyfriend for Christmas? I am stuck on what to get my girlfriend for Christmas, please help! :) (link)
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a nice necklace or a bottle of my fave. perfume!! or jus something like a CD or a DVD
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I told a guy I would go to the fall homecomming with him but a week before I got caught sneeking out and got grounded. I told him I couldn't go with him anymore, then a couple days later my parents said I could go with him still. So I call him and and I asked him if he still wanted to go I could go with him, if not it was cool. But by that time he had another date. I really feel bad b/c I couldn't go with him and yes, I know it was really immature of my to sneak out. One of my friends said he thought it was rude of me to tell him I could still go with him...I don't get it, but should I appologize to him about not bieng able to go with him? I havn't talked to him in 2 months...thanks
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Yeah sounds like he is just mad that he got his hopes up when you knew you couldnt go. Maybe he really liked you and it kinda embarassed him and he got mad because you could have prevented it. Just talk to him and apologize and all.Sound like his ego was hurt a little bit
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okay so yea my andmyboyfriend are goin to exchage christmas presents this year but i have no idea wut to get him. im thinkin about like taking him to the mall and hint him on to wut i want.. lol but everytime i ask him wut he wants hes just like "baby your everything i ever want" or like he says "well i have eerything i want" and stuff like that but i really wanna gt him a present and i knoe he wants somthing lol but he is just shy to say wut he wants so please help he is a 14 yearold guy plays football,basketball, wrestling, and track. but dont tell me to get him a football or any other sports equipment. i wanna get him sumthing that will be really sweet.
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get him a nice necklace or watch or a DVD of a seasons of a show he really likes!....or some of his favorite cologne. Or you could be really creative and give him a mistletoe hat n kiss him whenever he puts it on lol its silly but shows you care...hope i helped
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my best friends boy friend tells me who to be and tells me this and makes fun of my bffls friends..look> B-arri-g-o-80: okay ill just keep my trend going then grow a few inches and tell kelly to drop a fewpounds
my friend kelly is a little overweight.im really short.. what can i tell my bff to tell him to stop with out getting a into a big thing over it? (link)
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Woah this guy is out of place and obviously have no feelings for others. I would talk to my friend about her boyfriend hes a creep! and if she doesnt see how rude he is to you then your better off with out her. You dont need to listen to that kind of stuff. He needs to be put in place. If he doesnt like you or your other friends then he can atleast keep his mouth shut...hope i helped
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I lost the love of my life because he faught somtimes, but the real issue is- my parents won't let him be around me- i can't even talk to him!.... what do i do? He loves me so much and i love him too, we want to be together but my parents won't let us..?! help me please (link)
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Well i would say jusr give it time. Time heals. If its meant to be it'll happen. It doesnt seem like u have much say in this situation or you cant really do any thing. Your parents are doing what they think is best for you and i can see their view.Just take it day by day and things will be okay...hope i helped
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My mother bought me a beta fish (a Japanese fighting fish) and I have no idea how to take care of it. I got a book on how to take care of it, but you have to decode it (meaning I don't understand a word of it) The local veterenarians don't really know how to take care of these fish because not alot of their clients have fighting fishes. Does anyone on Advicenators know ANYTHING about these fishes? Do you know any sites where I can find information? (link)
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Just put it in a nice clean bowl with room tempature water and add fake plastic things like beads n stuff to it.Then you go to a store and get beta fish food. Never put more than one in a bowl theyll kill eachother. Theyre very territorial fish. If you really want them to show their colors put a mirror or another bowl with another beta fish in it next to it. Theyre colros show more then
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Hey there is this guy and he told my friend that hed go out with me if i hed sex with him...Im a virgin but i REALLY like this guy....what should i do? (link)
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one word....NO....dont give ur V CARD up to this creep youll regret it...tell him to get a life....ur better than that
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