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Um, is there like an actual way to play darts? Or do you just throw them really hard at the board? If there is an actual way...what is it? (link)
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Well, the point of the game is to get a bulls eye and aim the darts in the middle of the board. There's an art to throwing the dart, but truthfully I don't know what it is.
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i was sitting in class and then all of a sudden this guy in back of me said crack kills and i had no idea what he was talking about so i was like "i don't do crack" and then they started laughing and it was about 5 days later that i realized it meant my buttcrack was showing. i feel like sugh a loser i don't know what to say and they make fun of me for it like everyday!! (link)
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Just make a joke out of it. Be like I know you liked it, don't lie. There's always going to be an embarrassing moment you just have to make a joke out of it. They'll stop making fun of you when something funnier happens.
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Ok, well, let me start off by saying i'm a 7th grade girl. Today at lunch this kid named derek passed me a note and said it was from my friend brian. I took one of my girl freinds, tara, to the bathrooom and read the note. It was really orny and soft....it read, "Roses are read, Violets are blue, sugar is sweet, and so are you......will you go out with me?". My friend tara started cracking up while i was numb and shocked from the note. I threw it in the trash and ignored brian the whole day. Now, me being quite popular (not rele popular, but popular as in knoing everyone in our grade and tlk to them and hang) and brian being shy and non-social. It's really weird and almost gross that he asked me out.....i rele don't know how to tell him that i don't want to go out with him at all so that he on't get embarrased and i won't get embarrased. Pleask tell me what i can write to him so he on't get hurt.
Thank-you so much for the help (link)
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What you just said was really mean and hurtful. It's a good thing that he didn't see that because you made yourself seem as if you were too good for him and you sound conceited. I guess just tell him that you just want to be friends and leave it at that, but I'm glad you're not going to be with him because he seems too nice for you. Sorry if that is harsh and not the advice you wanted to hear, but the way you talked about him was wrong.
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ok i am an awesome bball player but i get nervous when boys come and watch me play.. im afraid they will laugh if i miss a sot or somthin....what should i do...help me and FAST (link)
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Just play like you normally do. Most of the time guys think girls can't play, so use that energy as motivation instead to prove them wrong and make you play better. It might not work because every person is different and need different things to help them get over being nervous or need their own motivation, but I tried. SOrry if that's not the advice you want to hear.
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okay theres this guy that likes me.. and i used to like him. I sit with him evryday at lunch. Hes so controlling. I cant stand it anymore. All my friends say i should ask him out or he should ask me but i cant stand him anymore.!! Seriously. He really bugs me!! i turn my cell phone off just so i dont have to talk to him at night. He asks whats wrong with my phone, i tell him i couldnt talk anyways or that my older sister was using my phone and it went dead. That was true Wednesday Night tho. Yesterday in the note he rote me.. he told me.. "Dotn make any plans for Saturday night. We're doing something. What we're doing i dont know.. but"
See i cant put up with that anymore.
What can i do?
Please help me...
Christine (link)
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Don't lie to him because then he'll keep tlaking to you and you're leading him on and that's not fair to him. Just tell him that you don't like him being so controlling and that you want to be asked to do something not told. Just let him know that you make your own decisions and you will decide if you want to do something with him on Saturday or not.
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if you had the opportunity to have sex with someone you weren't dating but have hooked up with a lot over the past few months would you? i guess im just wondering because everyone says sex is supposed to be a "special" thing you share with someone you love. I think i'm ready but i'm not even dating the guy let alone love him-so if i think he is the right guy to have sex with is he worth the risk? My friend told me, "if you like him don't do it, if you don't like him then go for it"
also on a side note-if you were my friend would you lose respect for me if i made the decision to have sex?
thanks a lot yall :) (link)
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I would lose respect for you. If you don't love him and you're just doing it because you're horny, then I guess it's your choice. I understand her theory and think it's good that she said don't have sex with someone your serious about because you'd get attached and you might not stay with that person.The only thing is sex is supposed to connect people so no matter who you have it with your always going to remember it especially if it's your first time. For your first time have it with someone special, from there maybe decide if you'll do the random hook up thing even though I don't agree with it. I think if you do it with some random guy, it will be worthless and you'll regret it later on. I can't really say though because I've never had sex so you might not want to listen to me. I just know as a friend I would wonder about your morals if you were willing to have sex with some random guy just to have sex.
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How do i move on? i broke up with my boyfriend because i was pissssed off at him cuz i found out shit about him that he didnt tell me himself. He was trying to get back with me but i didnt want to even though i still have feelings for him. Now we dont talk and i want him back!!! but i cant, so how do i move on? what are things that i can do to heal my broken heart? (link)
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There's nothing you can do to fix that. Time always heals and just move on to some other guy. You'll realize that you didn't like the guy as much as you thought you did.
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one of my best friends is really going down hill. lately she has gotten really deep into drugs and drinking. it is not like her at all. lately it seems like she wants me to be mad at her and she gets really mad when i try to help or tel her i understand and am not mad. has anyone got a suggestion or have gone through a similar situation? (link)
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She probably gets mad at you when you say you understand because she doesn't think you understand. I don't know if there is anything you can do. I guess just talk to her (which you have probably already done) and listen to what she has to say. Sometimes problems are too big and have to be brought to adults attention. You have to decide the severity of the situation. You wouldn't be telling on her or anything you'd just be helping her out. Sorry if this wasn't any help.
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Okay hey
well, I have this really big crush on my chorus teacher. and this isnt one of those eww god these ppl have problems kind of things so dont think that. But anyways. im 16 and he is 26. He is really really cute and he is just so sweet and funny, and REALLY flirtatious. A lot of my friends see that. I even tlak to this guy online and stuff. and he blocks EVERYONE unless they are on his buddylist, and he put me on it. Anyways... I think about him non stop. And if i have a problem, then he is always there to help me out with it and everything. and if i am faking a guy problem thing, then he is always there to help me out. A lot of my friends say that they seriously with no doubt in their minds, think that he likes me but he just wont say or do anything becasue of his job. And everyday it seems to get more and more serious about him. And now he's all telling me to stop hanging out with my friends and everything becase they are bad influences( he said this after i asked him to help me with singing lessons) and that felt like soemthing a bf would do. And i would do anything in the world for this guy and its really serious... What do i do?
-Shakenya (link)
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Well, considering that if you had a relationship with him it would be illegal, then you shouldn't do anything with him. There's something off with him if he's willing to be flirty with a student who is 10 years younger than him. Possibly your getting the wrong signals from him and he's just being a good teacher opposed to flirting with you. I don't know I just think you need to find a guy in a closer age range. I'm not trying to be negative about the whole thing and I'm sorry that it's not the advice that you want to hear, but it's what I think.
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Ok the deal is that there is a dance this friday and me and sum of my friends are going to eat afterwards, but this one kid is coming that me and my friend just cant stand!! He is SO immature and is always acting like a 10 year old, we have tried everything to keep him from going be we have run outta ideas, then, I found out that he had ISS and never told his mom, i was gonna call and tell his mom but i got him insted, so now i cant. And now the other guy thats going with us dosnt want him going either. Please give me some advice to keep him from going with us!!!!!
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Truthfully, it's not your business to tell his mom that he has ISS. If someone else has invited him, then there's no reason for him not to go. If you don't like him so much, then avoid him and don't go with him. I mean the only thing you can do is when you go with him tell him when he's pushing your buttons. Sorry because I know that's not what you want to hear, but it's just his nature and he'll grow out of it. You can't really keep him from going with you.
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i have one friend that seems to be mad at me and my other friend and we have asked her if she is mad at us and she says no. My friend and i dont know what to do. We really want to be friends with her but i just dont know what to do (link)
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Well, if she says she's not mad, then she obviously doesn't want to talk about it and you can't do anything. Just let it pass and see what comes out of it. Sorry if that didn't help.
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theres this guy that im kinda friends with (im a grl) and on the way back from one of our classes i could walk with him n stuff cuz he walks alone and so do i but i dont know what to say to him because i dont realy know anything about him besides that he goes to my hebrew school. what could i say to him? ill rate! thanx (link)
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Talk to him about anything, but probably something that happened at hebrew school or the hebrew teacher because that's what you guys have in common. Talk about music or sports or school or teachers, talk about anything. If you really want to talk to him, then you will find something.
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My best friend, since we were like 3years old, and I are in this fight. No talking at all. And I miss her. But anyways, about a month ago her and I went over to her friends new house. He just bought this house. He's 21 and it's a frat house but he's not in a frat. Anyways, we went over there and I met his roomies and everything. Now, my best friend likes this guy, we will call him C. She likes him alot. I told her I didnt like him because she said that 'he pays more attention to you than he does to me'. And I can kinda see that but it's not like im trying to do anything. And she made a comment that it's her fault. It's her fault cuz she has pretty friends and introduces them to guys she likes and they like her friends instead of her. She's a little chubbier than me but she is a great person with a great personality. Anyways, I said I didn't like C. But once we started hanging out I eventually started having feelings toward C. But I never showed them to C or even told my best friend. I wouldn't date him just for the fact that she likes him!
C calls me to come over and hang out all the time. I did one night without my best friend cuz she was supposed to go to a concert and ended up not going. So she stopped by unexpectedly and she saw me there with 2 of my friends and ever since then we havn't talked. Now, he told me I could come over, in front of her, when she announced that she was going to a concert that night.
Now my question is, should I have done that? I mean, I would have been bored outta my mind and not doing anything. I would have been at my apartment doing nothing, maybe watching T.V.. Now she wont talk to me but she will talk to C. Is that fair?
To add to this long story (sorry), she did stuff with two other guys (that I think were using her, but that's just my opinion) and she's upset that I hung out with C!! Now is that fair?
Sorry this is soo long but I really needed to talk about this!! I can rate you, just let me know! THANKS!! (link)
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Well, it's not exactly your fault, but I think you should have told her that you were going over there. I think she felt that there was something going on and you were hiding it from her. She probably is talking to C because he doesn't exactly know about her feelings why you do. Besides she probably feels that you betrayed her by going to his house without her. It's not exactly fair, but that's how girls are. They trust their friends more than guys so when something goes wrong they put more blame on their friends. I can understand how she feels about all of her pretty friends and you need to udnerstand that too. You can't change that of course and nothing can be done. Just keep that in mind. Sorry if I didn't help.
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Ive been trying so hard to loose weight for so long now. I work out my stomoch and legs and arms. I diet..The only thing i drink is water. Im eating healthy. I just dont know what to do anymore! No matter how hard i try the pooch of fat on my stomoch and my love handles just wont slim down! I dont know what to do anymore!! Can someone help me?! Is there some kind of toomer in me or something?! I NEED HELP! Thanks! (link)
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You don't have a tumor, that just might be your body shape. Accept that and wear things that are flattering to your shape. Keep exercising and running and eating healthy. It might just take time for it to come off. Do crunches every night because those help with your stomach the most.
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ok well i just made a new friend and her name is samantha. well anyway shes really really nice but shes only 13 and shes already gave some guys head! and this was when she was 12. well i know that shed do it again if she found a hot guy at our school but i really dont want her to. we're not really that close so i cant tell her what to do right now. what can i do about this? (link)
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You can't tell her what to do. She'll do what she wants. If you guys aren't that close, then her actions shouldn't matter too much anyway. If they do, then maybe you shouldn't be friends with her. Just talk to her about how you feel about it and maybe that'll change something. Sorry if I didn't help.
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ok well theres this guy at my school, lets call him joe, and hes liked me since 1st grade! i dont know if he does right now because i havent talked to him in a while but anyway i like him now just completely randomly. i dont want to tell my friends cuz theyd think im stupid cuz i never talk to him but i cant really help it.last year he had his friend ask me out but i said no because i was at a dance and i completely misheard what hed said and now i feel really bad. i want his sn but im afraid to go up to him randomly and ask him for it. i dont think he has one anyway.but i dont get to talk to joe because i never see him as school. what can i do about this? (link)
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That's a hard one. Do you have any classes with him or anything? If you do, start talking to him about that maybe or something and slowly get to asking him for a sn to answer any more questions you have. He'll probably wonder why you all of a sudden decided to talk to him(which is a good question) so tell him the truth except for the part of you liking him. If you figure out why you do want to talk to him, it might help move things along. Sorry if this didn't help at all.
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Gosh, how can I make myself STOP procrastinating??? I mean I've got it bad. I come home from school and don't even start my homework till' about ten at night or after. I get on the computer...eat...clean my room...shower...anything but do homework, and it's making my grades suffer. If I would just start studying for tests a few hours earlier, I would do so much better. Any tips? (link)
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Try studying a little bit at a time. Don't do everything all at once. Try doing one assignment and then take a break and do something else. You are the one that decides to procrastinate, so you hae to really want to change your ways for them to actually change.
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Hey there. I started dating my best friend a while ago, you just moved here from Toronto, and he doesn't tell me a whole lot about his life back then. Anyways, we started having sex a couple of monthes ago. I'm on birth control so we don't use condoms, because we both hate them. Anyways, in october i got two infections, and was really sick for a week. I couldn't get out of bed, and i was in pain. I had an yeast infection and urinary tract infection. I went to my doctor, she gave me a lot of medicine. whatever, i got better, continued on with our way of things. Anyways, now in december, i seem to have another infection. I'm thinking it might be yeast infection but i don't know. It's different. He says he hasn't had sex before me, but with all these infection that i get, could he have, or could it be my birth control? (link)
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Guys lie! I'm not saying he did, but you can't always believe what a guy says. You should have both been tested before you had sex just to get everything out, but it's too late now. You should test both and make sure what's going on.
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my dad was recently laid off from work (he was the manager for the propane department of a co-op). he decided he wants to go back to the job he had before that, which was an EMT(emergency medical technician). the problem is that he left that job because he had a lot of depression problems when he couldn't save someone. should i still encourage him to go back to that job? (link)
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It's not your job to tell your dad what to do. He is the adult and should be left with that responsibilty, not you. Encourage him to do whatever makes him happy, but don't really make a specific suggestion on what he should do.
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Brother gets away with everything.
Parents don't ever listen or care, if i ever tried to talk to them they went all phycologist-like. They blame me for things i didn't do, and yell at me when my brother gets upset over little things i do.
Cousin doesn't understand anything and thinks i'm too young to be having problems and that i'm making them up.
My friend K has started smoking cigarettes and doesn't see what the hell is so bad about what she's doing and thinks that by trying to stop her friends from ever smoking or drinking she's doing something right and that she acts like she understands everything because she thinks she's been through the most shit in her life. I need to find a way to get her head back on and stop her smoking.
E and Matt ignore everything that goes on in other ppl's lives and get too caught up in their own problems. I love Matt to death but sometimes he isn't the best friend i know he can be, i know he thinks so, but i can only truly talk to him sometimes bc he gets mad so easily.
AM needs to grow up and learn when to shut up and let it go, she's too nosy and immature to deal with her friends problems, so I need to find a way to tell her to grow up.
AX likes me and pushes me to tell him stuff and get to me. I need to get him to stop this, i care enough that i dont want to hurt him, but he makes me feel like i cant go out with ne1 bc i know it will hurt him. I need to get him to back off.
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Well, with you little brother that's how it is with everyone so you just need to get used to that. I don't think I know one little brother or sister that doesn't get away with whatever they want. That's also how parents are and cousins too. You can't change your friends way of thinking. If she doesn't care about her health, then she doesn't care. You can't fix everyone's lives and yours too. It doesn't seem like your too happy with some of your friends, so try and make new ones that you won't complain about or criticize. I'm not trying to be mean when saying that, but it's the truth.With the guy that likes you, just tell him that you don't like him that way and he's going to get hurt eventually anyway. You can't keep everyone happy.
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