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My Best Friend and Me - PLEASE help - I'll rate!
My best friend, since we were like 3years old, and I are in this fight. No talking at all. And I miss her. But anyways, about a month ago her and I went over to her friends new house. He just bought this house. He's 21 and it's a frat house but he's not in a frat. Anyways, we went over there and I met his roomies and everything. Now, my best friend likes this guy, we will call him C. She likes him alot. I told her I didnt like him because she said that 'he pays more attention to you than he does to me'. And I can kinda see that but it's not like im trying to do anything. And she made a comment that it's her fault. It's her fault cuz she has pretty friends and introduces them to guys she likes and they like her friends instead of her. She's a little chubbier than me but she is a great person with a great personality. Anyways, I said I didn't like C. But once we started hanging out I eventually started having feelings toward C. But I never showed them to C or even told my best friend. I wouldn't date him just for the fact that she likes him!
C calls me to come over and hang out all the time. I did one night without my best friend cuz she was supposed to go to a concert and ended up not going. So she stopped by unexpectedly and she saw me there with 2 of my friends and ever since then we havn't talked. Now, he told me I could come over, in front of her, when she announced that she was going to a concert that night.
Now my question is, should I have done that? I mean, I would have been bored outta my mind and not doing anything. I would have been at my apartment doing nothing, maybe watching T.V.. Now she wont talk to me but she will talk to C. Is that fair?
To add to this long story (sorry), she did stuff with two other guys (that I think were using her, but that's just my opinion) and she's upset that I hung out with C!! Now is that fair?
Sorry this is soo long but I really needed to talk about this!! I can rate you, just let me know! THANKS!!
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Well, it's not exactly your fault, but I think you should have told her that you were going over there. I think she felt that there was something going on and you were hiding it from her. She probably is talking to C because he doesn't exactly know about her feelings why you do. Besides she probably feels that you betrayed her by going to his house without her. It's not exactly fair, but that's how girls are. They trust their friends more than guys so when something goes wrong they put more blame on their friends. I can understand how she feels about all of her pretty friends and you need to udnerstand that too. You can't change that of course and nothing can be done. Just keep that in mind. Sorry if I didn't help.
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well i dont think its fair that shes not talking you and is talkin to C...but u have to look at her point of view..she was prolly hurt that you went behind her back and hung out wit him you should have called her and ask if its okay cause it wasnt right...and the only reason she did stuff with the other two guy is probably because she trying to get over C...or trying to make him jealous...you need to go up to her and settle everything and not let a guy get in between your friendship...tell her you were sorry for what you did and dat it wasnt right...just dont let a guy whos not worth your friendship if you really care about then talk to her and tell her everything that happened and how it happen and that nothing went down betweeen you people..hope dis helps..
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