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my friend is masically the coolest one in our little "group". Anyways, everyone loves the expressions she uses. She says things like "OH BABY" and "come on noww". Anyways, are there any expressions that I can use that are kinda cute/clever/funny? THANK YOU SO MUCH. %% thanks %%
achi mama (i thnk thats what it is)
speak in some english and some like spanish everyoen loves when i do that.( mucho gracias = thanks very much ... por favor = please )
simple stuff like that [=
and ps. you accidently posted this question two times, so if you could delete one it would be excellent so we dont croud up the question section [=
well my school's having a bbq for all the graduates/ seniors. it's going to be a lot of fun , a dj, games and all of that. my question is....what do i wear?!?
i was thinking of scrunching my hair, but i have no idea what to wear, it's going to be around 80 degrees tomorrow.
help pleasse =]
shorts, and a cute tank maybe? i would wear shorts and a t shirt and bring a hoodie for the night depending on if it's gonna be cold. and i would wear flip flops [=
14/f. My bf is coming to visit me in august and he is also 14 and we were thinking about having sex. and we really want to and he's the kind of guy i could see myself spending the rest of my life with sense we've been dating for about 9 months. But i really dont wanna take the chance of getting pregnant. What should i do? i no we would use a condom. so dont tell me that. Am i too young? i dont think i am but some ppl do. HELP!!
don't if you dont we have. . .
one less teen mother.
one less person with an std.
one less unwanted baby.
one less stupid choice.
one less regret.
one less 'slut'.
edit - i wasnt being an ass. you asked if you should i told you reason's not to. i didnt sugar coat my anwser.. which means i was doing what i came here to do. help kids like that who think their ready, when their not. you asked if you should. obv. not if your asking us. and if its from the last thing i stated i put quotes around it for a reason. that's what people will call you. trust me.
What can I do to get over my strange newfound jealousy of my boyfriend watching porn? Before, I never had a probelm with it, but lately I have. I don't know what my problem is.
i think you're jealous because your not the one exciting him. if you're not a virgin i would say talk to him about sex. im not saying DO IT. im saying see if theres ways you can excite him since. . . you are his girlfriend.
im looking for a wesite that will tell me the possabilities of what my child would look like.
my man is black/mixed (white mom black dad) with brown eyes....
im white with blue eyes...
please help.
thankyou
no way to know. its the luck of the draw basically.
Can you still tan if you put sunscreen on? I need to make sure I don't get a burn, but I hate being so freakishly white!
SPF 30 should do the trick [=
so will SPF 15.
i cut. i'll plain out say it. i've been off and on it for about 2 years. I also burn myself when i cant take it anymore. my mom thinks that i dont cut anymore.the only reason i did it before was because of my step dad. he used to abuse me when i was younger and my mom did nothing to stop him because she thought Me and my sister were lying.i got a councilor that i cant see anymore and my parents dont bother to get me another one. my dad picks my sister over me all the time so im falling through the cracks and cutting more and deeper.what should i do?
been there all you have to do is say i can get through this. i used to cut and its what i did you just have to stop before you hurt yourself.
www.kidscrisis.com
go there for online free counseling. just sign up.
*i didn't know what castagory this was*
i can't remember...
is a french kiss the same as making out with a guy?
thnx =]
pretty much , making out is usually very long though [=
-brittany.
I have a photobucket, but it is so slow for my computer, so I want to find another site, but I don't want no one else to see my pictures, kind of like how photobucket is set up. What websites are good?
well there is www.tinypic.com but anyone can see your pictures but its not a thing where you sign up so it would be random. and no one ever finds mine, also www.imageshake.us now i've never used it but im sure you can figure it out.
-brittany
I have this thing on my forehead. I don't know what it is. It hurts when I touch it. It's up my my hair line. It's small, but VERY red. Any ideas?
ance. nothing horrible i get acne all over (i hate it) but get clean & clear morning burst - the yellow one. and get stride x its what i use and it controls my acne so it would get rid of that pretty easy and it would clean your face from getting anymore. and dont like pick at it or anything your face will jsut turn red.
-brittany.
i really like to run, i'm short so i can run fast, in fall when i play soccer myt endurence is good but i can't run far without huffing and puffing. i want to be able to run the mile run for our school fitness test in a good timev(ive past it the last 3 years but not like i would like to) any tips? also what are symptyoms of athsma? cause i might possiably have it
well when i play soccer i get like that i think it's because we're changing directions so much. going for the ball on one side of the feild then the other side and your having to switch alot. and then when i run the mile for school im fine because im running one way.
sorry but this is all from personal expirence. and if you do have athsma go to the doctor get an inhaler (i have 2 different kinds which helped a little with soccer) there nothing scary just a puff and vwalah you can breath lmfao :D
-brittany.
I feel kind of ridiculous asking this, but it's really bothering me. Today I was wearing a denim skirt and the zipper fly was stuck for some reason. I was wearing a long top with the skirt. Since the zipper fly was stuck and unzipped, it was kinda sticking out, forming a little bump in my shirt in that area. Hopefully I explained that so it made sense. But yeah, anyway... what would you think if you saw someone with that happening to them... I just hope I didn't look like a complete idiot.
well i'm a total idiot and would be like 'um... wtf.?' but im pretty much positive no one looked down there and saw it. dont worry even if they did its not like it looked like a boner or something major lmfao. sorry im really wierd lmfao.
-brittany.
I really want to do something creative with my pictures like these :
http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v313/fyora_akgw/l_e6a9dec5ac7bdc7f7aeb07b2c6b3f4ae.jpg
http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v313/fyora_akgw/l_18a0fbad7a6546e6d73290b16d319ccf.jpg
(Hopefully you can see them)
Cause frankly, my pictures are just too boring and I think those are really cool!
Probably need a special program but I'd also like instructions on how to do a few different things
try using photoshop
i would be able to give you instructions. but a girl i know always puts her name on pictures with the font having like zebra stripes and stuff for the backround and its really cool. just mess around with the photoshop.
-brittany.
ok ` so my brother . he`s 28 , got 2 kids & a new born bbabyy . hes obese & my uncLe died of a heart attack because he was obese . & he is Like that greatest brother ever ` he works ALL the time & trys to take care of the boyz to . & his wife Kerry doesnt do shit around the house or anything . so its Like aLL on him ..... i wanna teLL him he needs to do sumthnig but i heard you cant heLp someone to do sumthing unLess they also put effort in to it . i just dont know wat to say to him , im scared he`LL take it the wrong way . or just get pissy with me ''// i Love him so much , yaLL just dont know ` & i dont wanna Lose another Loved one for sumthin that can be done
so PeoPle PLEASE help me . think of sumthing to say to him with out just plain out comin on strong .
Thanks .
say.
' ____ i love you. and i really care for you and i dont wanna loose another loved one you mean so much to me, but your weight is becoming a problem to your health look what happened to out uncle, your the best big brother and i dont wanna loose you'
or something along those lines..
-brittany.
kay, well i like a boy. and was on my bus this year. we got close. but now schools over idk how to ask him out. i know where he lives. and his#
12/f
your too young for this site...
does anyone know how to remove a henna tattoo? like is there anything you can use at home to remove it? i got one today and it smudged i just want to clean it up a bit.. any suggestions? thanks
soap and water and scrub. this will take a few days prob. but hey it'll get cleaner or whatevre sooner.
-brittany.
everyone seems to peirce there own lip
like instead of going to a person
so im think i might do it
but im scared that theres liek a specail vain that you can pop like you have in youre toungue
and you can die or whatever
so is there?
and is it safe too
im not stupid
and iwill the needle and everything like that
but do i need to worry about anything?
save yourself the agrivation and worries go to a place. if you dont you can get infected and ruin your gums and teeth and you really dont want that when your 40 because when you were 16 you wanted a piercing. (those were random ages) if you do though make sure you have everything sterile or it will more likely be infected. seriously though its easier going to a place. and their really not ALL that expensive if you ask me.
-brittany.
15/f. I've never had a boyfriend before. And looking around me, I see people who have boyfriends. And it kind of tears me apart. I want to have a relationship like that with someone. I want to be close with someone. But I don't know how to go about doing that...getting one. I'm sometimes even embarrassed at the fact that there are 13 and 12 year olds who have had boyfriends, and those who've changed them many times. Do I care if he's older? No. I just really want one. Going on 16 and entering the 10th grade, I feel as though I will never get one. Is being smart a turn off? :( I wouldn't consider myself ugly either. But my self-confidence isn't that high. I don't have many real friends....which is why I want a boyfriend. Any help and advice would be very appreciated. =] Sorry for making it so long.
its never too late. your saving youself alot of drama though. your waiting for that one i think. and being smart is a total turn on for guys i think. im pretty dim-witted and most guys think more low of me and that im easy - dude im 13! its a hard feeling knowing that there are people younger than you having something you dont have trust me i know the feeling. Alot of Guys like the girls with looks and brains and you said you have both so theres nothing to worry about. your fine. your just waiting for that one boy who sweeps you off your feet. and dont go out with someone just because you feel like you have to. i still remember my first boyfriend and i know i always will, you know its that one boyfriend your almost for sure to remember. just dont make a bad descion and i know you'll do fine. as for your friends. if their not real their not worth your time, and dont have a boyfriend to make up for that. i really hope you dont go out with someone because you feel like you have to. good luck.
- brittany.
My boyfriend's dad is in the hospital & it seems to be something serious. He's been there for days and I've been trying to help and talk to him. He tells me not to worry and to focus on myself, not him. We've barely talked the last coupld of days. I feel really bad & I love him more than anything, so of course I want to be there for him. Does he just need space right now?
just give him space, hes going threw something really hardd when hes ready to talk he will, and he'll open up to you alot.
well i know this is gonna sound stupid but anyway... whenever me and my bf get together, we look at each others cell phones to see who the other person has been calling/texting. (we dont actually admit thats what we're doing, but thats what we do). well yesterday we got into a fight over it. he got mad because these 2 guys had been texting me. ok now these 2 guys are really nerdy and theres no way i'd ever like them, and my bf knows that. so it was stupid for him to get mad. on the other hand, my bf had made all these calls to this one girl amanda. amanda is really pretty and shes also a big slut, so that made me really mad!! he said he was just prank calling her, but whatever. he said i have no right to be mad at him for calling girls, when i text other guys. well, i guess... but there's a difference here, right? the guys i texted are harmless, but the girl he called is anything but. plus those guys texted me first and i just answered to be nice, whereas my bf is the one who called amanda first. am i wrong to be mad about this?
yes. i know its intimidating to know hes talking to a town slut or whatever but he chose you didnt he? and hes wrong to. your just texting you both need to have a talk about trust, you guys can have friends of the opposite sex.