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obese . ok ` so my brother . he`s 28 , got 2 kids & a new born bbabyy . hes obese & my uncLe died of a heart attack because he was obese . & he is Like that greatest brother ever ` he works ALL the time & trys to take care of the boyz to . & his wife Kerry doesnt do shit around the house or anything . so its Like aLL on him ..... i wanna teLL him he needs to do sumthnig but i heard you cant heLp someone to do sumthing unLess they also put effort in to it . i just dont know wat to say to him , im scared he`LL take it the wrong way . or just get pissy with me ''// i Love him so much , yaLL just dont know ` & i dont wanna Lose another Loved one for sumthin that can be done
so PeoPle PLEASE help me . think of sumthing to say to him with out just plain out comin on strong .
Thanks .
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say.
' ____ i love you. and i really care for you and i dont wanna loose another loved one you mean so much to me, but your weight is becoming a problem to your health look what happened to out uncle, your the best big brother and i dont wanna loose you'
or something along those lines..
-brittany. ]
Dear Love My Brother,
i understand how you feel. my aunt was obese and she went to the doctor and they told her if she didnt get a gastric bypass then she would die.. :(
if him or your parents mention anything then why dont you say that youre worried about him and you love him very much.. maybe you can get him to join a support group or talk to a doctor about a gastric bypass also.. idk if a gastric bypass would be the best for your brother but just incase i warn you that post-surgery can be dangerous.. good luck with your brother and i am so sorry about your uncle.. ]
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