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Jealousy of Porn.
What can I do to get over my strange newfound jealousy of my boyfriend watching porn? Before, I never had a probelm with it, but lately I have. I don't know what my problem is.
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Porn is highly addictive. Is your boyfriend using it more and more? Is he wanting sex with you less because of the porn fascination? If so, then he may be getting addicted. This is a huge problem for a lot of couples and has even led to divorce. It is normal to be turned on by nudity and sexual acts, but it is not normal or healthy to replace the doing with the viewing of sex. Tell him how you feel and judge by his response. You cannot tell him what to do, but if your feelings are less important to him than watching porn, I'd say leave him and his hand.
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i think you're jealous because your not the one exciting him. if you're not a virgin i would say talk to him about sex. im not saying DO IT. im saying see if theres ways you can excite him since. . . you are his girlfriend.
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This shows that there is something else about your relationship that is making you insecure. Tell your boy to lay off the porn and concentrate a little more on you. Participating is way better than watching!! (THIS IS ONLY IF YOU ARE OF LEGAL ADULT AGE AND IN A COMMITTED RELATIONSHIP - USE PROTECTION (THERE ARE STD'S AND PREGNANCY RISKS EVEN WITH PROTECTION)REMEMBER THAT YOU ARE LINKED FOR THE REST OF YOUR LIFE TO WHOMEVER YOU ARE INTIMATE WITH - DON'T LET IT COME BACK TO HAUNT YOU.
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Try watching it with him?
Porn is something a couple can watch together, if you're of age, try watching it and recreating the scenes - hours of fun to be had by all!
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