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My name is Stefanie.
I took my first breath 18 years ago on June 1st 1988 in a hospital on Eglin Air Force Base.
My hair is brown and my eyes are bluish green.
I reach to the sky at 5 feet 7 and a half inches.
I am a substitute teacher at Satsuma High School in Satsuma, Alabama. I LOVE it.
i LOVE music more than anything.
I dont know what i would do without my friends.
I just got out of this really long relationSHIT and I'm looking for love in all the wrong places....
I am a Freshman at Faulkner State Community College studying secondary education in U.S. history.
I love oldies and country... classic rock, some punk, 80's music is the bomb.
I'm addicted to shopping.
I like being outside when its cold.
I actually like hurricanes. Just not the whole chaos and mass destruction part.
Im usually not very good at school, but I've been doing better this year.
I have one BEST friend, but i have a whole bunch of people that i call good friends.
I dont like to just hang out with one person. i like to hang out in groups.
Family means a lot to me.. i try to visit my family as much as i can
I plan on moving out on my own in May, and im terrified.
i like meeting new people. so if youre bored or something, just send me a message or something and we'll chat. you can also find me on myspace at www.myspace.com/classicrockergirl
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okay i'm doing this project and we need to knoe when were ever going to use math like when we grow uo and stuff. well i want to be a professional basketball player and i was wondering what kind of math would i need to know for that? thanx

um..simple adding should be all. adding up points and stuff..its not difficult math, thats for sure

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I'm 14 i have bluish green eyes, long dark hair, and tan skin. although i have been told by guys that i am pretty, they all say they could never date me because of my body. i am 5'8 130 LBs (a size two pants) with a size B cup. i have never met a guy who liked tall girls. i am starting to get selfsonscience. HELP!

honey, dont be selfconscious at all!! most people would KILL for your body. just give the boys time..theyll come around. soon youll have to beat em off with a stick.

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well..i really like this kid..and he asked me out one time and i said no because i didn't really know him and everything. but now i know him and i REALLY like him. he knows i like him and he tells me he still likes me..but he hasn't asked me out again and he flirts with EVERYONE..and he know it makes me upset but he still does it. what should i do?

um..tell him? maybe hes afraid youll turn him down again. just tell him that you really wanna go out with him. he prolly feels the same way, but hes too shy.

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My brother got in some mess with some people.They are the type that do drugs have gone through lost of shyt in life.Well my brother did something and they took it very personal and came down to our house and began yelling at the door.but we have a gate so he couldnt come in but he was real ruff he also came with his older brother; i guess thay wanted to fight.Well the younger one which is 17 busted out with im gonna kill you or something like that and that boy is known to have a dangerous background.im really scared i dont know what to do.im very confused my brother tells me not to worry but how am i not suppose to.plz help me!ive thought about calling the police but i dont think i can go through with it until that boy took some serious actions.

you could call the police, and maybe they could put a restraining order on him. if he does have a dangerous background, then you shouldnt have a problem getting one. if he hasnt been in serious legal trouble before, then you may have a harder time getting the order. the police are basically gonna tell you youre on your own till he does something. just make sure your brother watches his back. never let him go out alone. hey, dont even let him be just you and him. i dont think these ppl would have a problem hurting your brother with you there. they may even try to hurt you. just use common sense. be careful. and if this creep keeps harassing your brother, then get someone in authority to help you.

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UGH!! everyday before cheerleadin i always put on loads of deorderant on!! and i put perfume on...but my stunt group is always complaining about someone having B.O.! and i think they are all saying its me!! but i dan never smell anything when they say it smells...and i dont get how it could be me cuz i wear sooo much deoderant and sweet pea perfume. UGH!! its getting soo aggravating....does anyone know of any really good deorderant!!??? and fast!!??

wear like old spice or something. i know, its for guys, but it smells so good!! plus, its strong enough to cover even the toughest of BO. just use it at cheerleading if you dont wanna smell like a guy all through school.

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My gym shoes.. both pairs.. smell really bad.. i wear socks all the time.. and i have tried putting dr. scholls powder in them.. and odor eaters shoe spray.. but they just make them smell worse.. does anyone know a way to TOTALLY get rid of the horrible smell in my shoes?

Thanks!

p.s. I tried 3 different perfumes too.. still didnt help!!

dr. scholl's foot lotion. its made to work like deodorant. it feels really weird when you put it on, but then when it dries, it feels like a powder. and if that doesnt work, you may need to drink more water, or go see a doctor or something.

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i have had a friend for a very long time. she tries to control my life and everything i do. i cant have a life becuase of her. if i do anything without her she get furiouse and plays a huge guilt thing on me. i dont have the courage to tell her, but i cant stand her! she is constantly taking over my life, and my mom doesnt even want me to be friends with her. i dont know what to do, please help!

get the balls to tell her to step off. your life is YOUR life, not this crazy bizatch's. just tell her youre sick of her. she might not be your friend anymore, but at least youll have your life back.

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hey ive been going out with my boyfriends ernesto since may 15th and i really like him.. but he always ditches me for hsi friends.. he never even thinks about ditchin them once for me.. it really makes me sad and i dont know what to do i always tell him it hurts me and hes like im sry ill stop.. but he keeps doin it.. he never really talks to me in school and we dont really have a real conversation.. i know i should dump him butt ill probably regret it:-/

If you think you'll regret dumping him, then you should definately NOT dump him. Next time he tells you hes going to do something with his friends, say something THEN, not when he gets home. Say, "Um..youre doing it again. Are you trying to hurt my feelings, or did you not listen the last time i told you it hurt?" Maybe you should bring up a few of the times hes done this to you. Maybe if you show him that not only does he do it, but he does it a LOT, he'll get the picture. If that doesnt work, then maybe you should be a little more aggressive. Tell him that if he doesnt stop, then you think you might just break up with him. If he doesnt care enough to respect the way you feel, then maybe you should break up with him. But maybe if he knows how close he is to losing you, he'll get his act together. I hope everything works out for you sweetie!! Let me know what happens. ~*stefanie

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my mom is starting a clothing line and wants me 2pick the name but i have no ide of what it should be!!! its going to be sorta like baby phat....that type of clothing for girls/women....any ideas?

call it NotPhat...to contridict the "baby phat" label. sry..i thought it sounded kindda funny.
Maybe she should name it after you or sumthin...use your middle name and/or the middle names of your sibblings..sumthin personal so you can look at it and be like.."my mom designed that"

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uhh..ok this is really dumb...Ok well a week ago I had a dream that I had sex with my teacher...he is like 48 or something and I'm in the 8th grade and now when I'm in his class day dream about it...I mean its gross because he is ...my teacher..but i dont want to tell my friend because they will think i'm crazy! what do i do and what does it mean?

theres this song i think you need to listen to..its called "Hot for Teacher" by Van Halen. Go turn it on and daydream about him all you want.

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My cousin is pregnant (she's married and she's 25 so you don't think she's like young and a whore). Everyone in our family is having a hard time to figure out names for the baby. I'm pretty sure it's going to be a boy, but to be on the safe side, can you give me really cute baby names? Besides Michael, Emily, Lisa, Jaquelene, Joy, Jonathan, Julie, and Jason? Because Joy and Lisa are her sisters, Jason is her brother, Jonathan, Julie, Michael, and Emily are her cousins (Emily is me) and Jaquelene is her daughters name so we don't want to have any kids with the same name in our family. She's not that great at naming. She was gonna name her daughter Fern. I'm sorry if you're name is Fern but honestly, a fern is a plant. A flower is MUCH prettier than Fern. Sorry if that was offencive to anyone on here named Fern!! Thanks so much if you can help me!

Girls names
Audrey, Madeline, Jillian, Nora, Heidi, Carolynn(or Carrie for short), Jaimie, Piper, Lenore, Carli, and i kindda like Leilani(its hawaiian for heavenly flower) as a middle name, Sabrina, Brooke

hey, dont feel bad about Fern as a name..my neice ashlee was almost named Zephryn Wind or Mandolin Wind..they make no sense, but my sister in law thought they were cute at the time. we were so happy when she settled on a nice normal name Ashlee Shay Marie

Boys names
Christopher, Parker, Keagan Zane(it means firely little man), Jonah Miguel (my stepdads family is Puerto Rican..thats my cousins name..i love it) I could give you all of my brothers names, too...
David Ryan, Nicholas Aaron, Skyelar Joseph, Damian Blayne. And i have two nephews- Parris Jacob and Matthew Bryant-Zachary
hope i helped more than bored you!!

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what is adhd?? please help me bc my ex bf has it and every1s like YOU WENT OUT WITH A ADHD BOY?!!!

adhd stands for Attention Defficett Hyperactive Dysorder. Theres absolutely nothing wrong wiht ppl who have ADHD..it just means they have a hard time concentrating or sitting still..maybe they have to take ritalin or strattera..but no, there is NOTHING wrong with this guy.

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ok lets start at the beginning! my friend's sister's ex boyfriend is staying in her house until he finds a place/job whatever. so the sister doesnt stay there shes in college and last night he got really drunk and my friend was the only one in the house.. he came in her room and he fingered her. she doesnt know what to do someone give me advice to give her!! thank you!!

Go to an adult and tell them the whole story. Get her parents to get him out of the house immediately. Whatever you do, dont just let it go. Get help and get something done about this dude. Sounds like trouble to me.

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omg...i cant even sit still to write this!! I am so cruching on this guy at my school. I swear, everytime I see him, i just wanna run up to him and give him a big smack on da lipps. I love hanging around him, and i love just having evryday conversatons with him!! i lOvE evrythang bout him; the way he walks, the way he stands when he opens his locker,hmm..Im goin crazy just thinkin about him!! bUt i guess my butterflies are whats stopping me from telling him i think hes soo pErFeCtT!!! pLeAzE hElP mE wItH tHiS oNe lAdIeS!! well, i guess if youre a guy and you know how you would like be told youre soo pErFeCtT, you could answer me too! aNd pLeAzE hUrRy..i dOnT kNoW hOw mUcH lOnGeR i cAn tAkE tHeEsE bUtTeRfLiEs!! :-*lUv YaLL!!

Ok, seriously, calm down. Take a few deep breaths. If youre really gonna tell this guy what you think, you dont need to do it while your hyperventilating. Write him a note or something if you cant chill, cuz if you run up to him and be like "OMG, youre so friggin hot" and jump on the poor man to kiss him, Im thinkin he may not be too thrilled. Just explain to him how you feel about him. Maybe you should tell him you think he's perfect..it never hurts to flatter someone. Just dont overwhelm him. Write him one note and then if he writes you back or talks to you and hints that he likes you, then write another note and go into more detail how highly you think of him. Let everything go from there. If it works out that he feels the same way, then congrats. If he lets on that he just wants you as a friend, then sorry. Break out the ice cream and depressing romantic movies. Just be cool...dont freak him out. Hope I helped. Good luck.

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Well, theres this guy that Ive been liking for a while now. All of my friends know I like him, and most of his friends know too. Everytime I talk to one of his friends, they'll say something like "ooo, guess what? _______ says he likes you!" or some other thing like that. Are they trying to tell me something,like what he says when theyre hanging out, or do you think they are just immature teenage boys? I really want what theyre saying to be true cuz i really like this guy, but i cant help but think theyre just teasing me. Please tell me what to do about these dorky guys!

I know how you feel! I really hope these guys are telling you the truth, cuz that would be so unfair of them to tease you like that. All you can do is go to the guy and say "Hey, so and so said this, and i just wanted to know if it was true, cuz i like you a lot." and if he says yes, then congrats on your new hook up! and if he says no, then open a can of whoop ass on your immature friends. Good luck sweetie! I hope it all works out!

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I'm getting my braces off in about a month. I just wanna kno what it's like, if it hurts or not, stuff like that, so if u ever got ur braces off, tell me what happens and does it hurt?
Thx.
Much love,
Erin

What i remember about when i got my braces off is my swollen gums!! they felt like they were over my teeth. and it takes a while for the swelling to go down. but no, it does not hurt. it actually feels great! to run your tongue over your teeth and not have it get caught on metal? its hella awesome! and congrats to your beautiful new smile!!

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ive just started doing pot this year and i feel that ive becoming addicted to it now. When i did it for the first time i told myself that i wouldn't get addicted, but now its so hard not to do it. Most of my friends do it and when im around it i just wanna smoke it up with them too. What should i do?

First, get some professional help. Go to any adult you trust and tell them you need a reference to a treatment program. While you are getting help, make sure that your "friends" know that you cant hang out with them. If you go in and get your help and then continue hanging out with them, youre just gonna end up lighting up again. I hope you get the help you need!Good lucK!

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My friend and i used to be really close but lately shes been ignoreing me alot and its really hurtin my feelings.. what should i do!

Just go to her and tell her that you feel that she is ignoring you and you feel hurt. Maybe youll find out sh ereally wasnt igoring you, she just had a lot on her mind and will try to not make you feel left out. Hope it works out fo ryou.

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One day, me and my best friend(a guy!) were just hanging out at my house, and somehow we started talking about what we liked in guys or girls, and we just kindda were like, "you know, were perfect for each other!" so we kind of hooked up right then. We were kising and cuddling at first, and then we started making out. And i dont just mean a lot of kissing and moving your head...this was very passionate and intimate. i was in HEAVEN. I thought he was going to be my knight in shining armor..but the next day it was like nothing happened. i called him to see what he was doing, and he told me he was getting ready to go out on a date with this really sleezy girl from another school. After about 3 days, he called me to tell me that they were dating. i was devestated. he truly broke my heart. It has been three months since they got together, and he just called me to tell me that they broke up. I have worked so hard to get over him, but now i have a chance to be with him. Is he even worth it? i mean...what if he hurts me again? i dont think i could handle that. Please tell me what to do! Take him back or Leave him in the dust?

Leave him in the dust, baby! He aint worth a second glance, let alone second chance. Tell him he blew and to hit the road!

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Alright I was at my friends house n she was talking to my friends brother n he said tht his brother said tht my friend was sexy then he said tht kevin said tht he likes my ass and my tits n then i was just grossed out n i think hez making it up but i dunno n i feel very diffrent n i dunno why cuz i was going out w/ this kid for like a week n then i dumped him....n i just feel strange does anyone know what is wrong with me right now?

ok, having a guy tell you those kindda things has got ot make you feel dirrty. next time tell him to shut the hell up. i dont know why you broke up with you bf..maybe you felt guilty. but theres nothing wrong with you, you just feel violated.

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