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not sure what to do
hey ive been going out with my boyfriends ernesto since may 15th and i really like him.. but he always ditches me for hsi friends.. he never even thinks about ditchin them once for me.. it really makes me sad and i dont know what to do i always tell him it hurts me and hes like im sry ill stop.. but he keeps doin it.. he never really talks to me in school and we dont really have a real conversation.. i know i should dump him butt ill probably regret it:-/
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If you think you'll regret dumping him, then you should definately NOT dump him. Next time he tells you hes going to do something with his friends, say something THEN, not when he gets home. Say, "Um..youre doing it again. Are you trying to hurt my feelings, or did you not listen the last time i told you it hurt?" Maybe you should bring up a few of the times hes done this to you. Maybe if you show him that not only does he do it, but he does it a LOT, he'll get the picture. If that doesnt work, then maybe you should be a little more aggressive. Tell him that if he doesnt stop, then you think you might just break up with him. If he doesnt care enough to respect the way you feel, then maybe you should break up with him. But maybe if he knows how close he is to losing you, he'll get his act together. I hope everything works out for you sweetie!! Let me know what happens. ~*stefanie
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first a guy should NEVER ditch his girlfriend for friends! thats not right! u deserve better! just remember theres always some one out there that can treat u right! better than that n e ways! second if he's with his friends n ur there he should talk to u the most! if he picks his friends over u thats not good! u can get better
*hope i helped
xoxo-ashlyn
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That sounds just like me and my boyfriend.All you have to do is gain the confidence to go up to him and his friends and start a conversation.Maybe you will think his friends are cool and they will think you are 2.So then you will hang out ALOT more.But if when you go over there and start talkin and then he says somethin like "well were gonna go now" be like what about me i never talk to you you should hang out with me too".But if u dont like him all that much give him some more time and keep on trying to start conversations then if u really want to dump him .DUMP HIM!
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That's kind of the same situation as my friend is in right now. She's even thought of dumping her boyfriend but she thinks that she'll regret it later. Tell him again bluntly that it hurts you and that you two should spend more time together. Maybe you guys just need to talk it out and figure out wat's up. He may just be a litle shy in some way or afraid. I mean, with one of my exes that's wat happened but then we figured out that we were just shy around each other. I dont know if i helped much but that could be the situation.
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DUMP HIM! And don't regret it because if he doesn't talk to you in school or have real conversations then he isn't a good boyfriend @ all. If he keeps doing it then he doesn't care enuff about you and you've been going out for a long time. So if he still does it smthns wrong. If you really like him then you probably will regret it. But hes just not worth regreting it. NEVER go out with a guy that doesn't treat you right. And you'll get over him eventually. It'll be hard untill then but you'll get over it and everything will be ok
=) HoPe I HeLpEd!
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If he ditches you for his friends he is not some one you should trust. If he says he will stop and he doesnt it is not worth it! I think you should dump him and find someone who will be true to you. You desearve better.
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I wouldn't dump him. Maybe he is just having trouble understanding your feelings. I have a boyfriend, too. Guys are guys...they'll never change. You have to give them their space. You must let them be with their friends, as long as they give you equal share. Suggest a special day just for you. It works. Good luck!
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4 get about him if he cared about u he would respect ur opinion on it and spend more time with u
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Don't let him ditch you. Sit him down and tell him, if you ditch me again it's over. I might regret it in the long run, but I deserve better than some ignorant loser who always just leaves me to hang out with his friends! This same kind of thing kind of happened to me, and I almost regret not breaking up with him! If he's ditching you and never talking to you at school, the whole relationship is pointless. If you break up with him, I bet it won't hurt as much. Yall can still be friends, I'm sure. And then maybe one day he'll ditch his girlfriend for you! :) Hope I helped. -Manda
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