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how do you know when sperm enters your vagina? do it seep back out?. if sperms is on the outside of your vagina can you still get pregnant?

You will feel it inside. It can come out if u squeeze it out, but not all of it. And you can still get pregnant if you have some left in you.

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Is it bad if you have had sex but your cherry didn't pop?

If you had sex, chances are that it "popped". Remember it's just a layer of skin that breaks so it probably broke without bleeding. It happens.

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Hi I'm 13/f

Ok first i wanna say that my mom is one of those old fashioned moms and she thinks that tampons "pop your cherry". I strongly disagree with her. so i Googled it, and what do i see? A bunch of girls saying the same thing! So i guess what I'm asking is how do I tell my mom that what she thinks is not true?
Thanks to any answers in advice!

You can't really tell her that it's not true. And your mom obviously knows more than you do. They do rupture your hymen. I don't think you can convince her otherwise. Sorry.

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Hey,
So most people go on about wanting to loose weight and theres always diet tips in magazines. But the thing is I'm the opposite-underweight.
Anyone know any websites to give advice about building up muscles mass?
Thanks :)

exercise builds muscles.
Work out and drink protein shakes. Also, eat really healthy so you don't waste time trying to burn fat because really, you want to gain muscle.

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Why do I throw up when I'm on my period?

Happens to me too on the first day when I don't take medication. It's cuz of the pain mostly. It's nothing to worry about, but I wouldn't make the throwing up a habit everytime I was on my period. Try your best to avoid it.

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I found my bf cheating on me whit my sister. I told him its over but he just kept asking me to have take him back what should I do I mean I want to but he cheated Help “
U. I am a girl and I am 14

Wow, don't take him back. That's not good. I'm almost 20 and trust me, you don't need to be dealing with this kind of pain at your age right now. If your boyfriend and sister cannot have the decency to respect you, especially your sister then you really need to set things straight. Your sister should have never done that to you. Don't go back with the guy, he doesn't deserve you.

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what can i do to prevent my face from getting oily throughout the day? i wear a loose powder oil free foundation, but at school by around third period my face is super shiny and its AWFUL. does anyone have any ways to prevent and any quick fixes for my oily skin problem?

You could use those oil removing sheets they sell at drugstores, I always did. But I started using the Clinique 3-Step system because I had bad acne due to oily skin. I still have oily skin throughout the day, but the sheets take it away. The sheets are the easiest but to prevent dirt build up, try the Clinique 3 step system.

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This girl in my high school (Who nobody likes because she's a complusive liar), had her pictures taken and somebody was pretending to be her on Tumblr.

Like they used pictures of her face, but with a completely different name, age, life story, etc.

Well she freaks out and she was telling everybody how she was on the phone with the police for 3 hours with the police until 2am the night before because of it.

And I was thinking, "Really?"
Like, can you even get in trouble for that? I can see somebody getting in trouble for using the same name and stuff, but really?
Seems a little over-the-top when you can easily report the account with a proof picture and get in deleted.

Btw, she's not lieing about the fake profile because a bunch of people saw it, including myself.

Yes, you actually can. And they have ways of finding out who has tapped into what computer and done it, depending on how far she's willing to go for answers. If you know something or are a suspect, sooner or later, it might get around to you. But I really hope you're not.

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Hi, Recentally me and my boyfriend had sex.. We have been together for 9 months now and hes never pressured me for sex but then we decided that we should.. Last time we had sex he asked me if i would like him to 'cum' in me..
I didn't know what to say so i pretended i didn't hear him.. Now its bothering me.. and i don't know if i should let him or not...
any advice ?... please...

You were already nervous about it to begin with. Dont let him pressure you. I dont think you should because you're REALLY running the risk of pregnancy but if you can handle it, then go for it. lol

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Hi there. My partner doesn't want to have a child with me yet. We've been together 3 years and we raise my daughter together (although she isn't his biologically). We met when my daughter was 6 months, she's now 3 and a half. We live together and I would like for Amy (my little un) to have a brother/sister. He doesn't want one yet. Its a problem as he says he doesn't know if he loves me yet. He's a lovely guy, and I'm very happy with him, he's a great dad to my daughter. The thing is, every time he says he's not ready I get cross, why not? He is raising my daughter as his so he's already being a dad. my daughter biological father sadly died in a car crash before she was born so he's the only dad she has known. It makes me sad that he doesnt love me, we've been together 3 years ad he lives with me and I love himn very much, I tell him so. I just dont know what to do, I dont know if I'm being selfish or expecting too much and should give him more time or if I should expect better for myself. Why am i with a man who doesn't love me and doesn't want any children with me? He says he cares for me deeply, I know this is true but its not enough and I'm just getting angrier, i feel used by him and let down. I'm sick of feeling rejected, its not doing me any good. I'm totally lost any advice would be much appreciated :-)

He does care about you since he is taking care of your daughter. But I believe he's more committed to the child more than he is to you. It's understandable that you're going to be angry everytime he mentions to you that he's not ready. Considering you've been together for 3 years already, he should be thinking about it. I would say to stop asking him for a while and see how he reacts to you. Try other ways of seeking how much he loves you, rather than pressuring him with a child.

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help, me and boyfriend have been arguing a lot lately and he's just being extremely moody all the time. we live together. he used to say i mean the world to him but lately he's been saying, his son comes first no matter what and i asked him don't i mean anything to him, he replied by saying,'' my son comes first, how could you ask you mean nothing''? guys please help me, i don't understand what did he mean by this? if i'm right i reckon he's bored with me. thank you all.

It doesn't mean that he doesn't care about you, but his son is his main priority. You on the other hand can take care of yourself while his son can't. He never said you don't mean anything to him. Imagine if you had a child, not with him, but you were also dating someone. Who would be your number 1, him or your child?

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I am 16 and female. Today was my first day of senior year. Today, my teacher's told me all about how I should be applying to colleges already and how I need to apply early to get on the top of the list. However, I have yet to take my SAT's. I have been reading up on a job I would like to pursue and that is an ultrasound technician. I would like to work with soon to be mother's and tell them about their children. I feel like the job would be so happy, however, I do know that some parts will be sad if there is something wrong with the child and I am willing to deal with that. I would like to know if I could go to any University for that job or if I should go online and take courses or if I should find a medical school in my area and attend there? I really have a lot of questions. Should I be stressing already that I didn't do this year? Do I need to take my SAT's before I apply anywhere or can I apply and send my scores in after they are taken?

Well, I'm in college and I've already went through what you have so hopefully I can help. Now that you're a senior, starting taking the SAT's AND ACT's. Trust me, do both. And take them as many times as u can, and try to improve your score each time. I recommend practicing from the "Offical SAT Guide" book. I think the cover is blue, or it used to be. If you want to be an untrasound technicial, you have to first attend undergrad school and major in biology/pre-med. You don't get into the technician part of the job right away. You can also major in biomedical engineering as well. When you decide on a school, talk to your advisors and see what they tell you. You cannot attend medical school without passing an MCAT exam. It's basically a medical school entrance exam which consists of subjects you need to take in your undergraduate year like biology, chemistry, physics and organic chemistry. And they are really tough and competitive to get in. You have to send your scores at the same time you apply. And you have to give them your final school transcript, so make sure you request to have it sent as soon as it becomes available from your school, after all your senior grades are in. The quicker you apply, the faster you know you've been accepted. Good luck, and if you need to know anything else, feel free to personally inbox me. :)

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I'm thirteen, turning fourteen and I have NO privacy. At all. Ever since I was nine, she thought it was funny reading my journals, going through my cell phone, blocking websites like YouTube and games websites. It's ridiculous. It's a crime to close a door in the house, even if I'm in the bathroom or changing in my room. My parents never knock, and always barge in. I found it necessary to protect my iPhone with five different passwords. My two sibs come in my room, use my stuff, ruin my homework, draw on my walls... It's ridiculous. I don't think the "open doors" thing is really working right now! I NEED MY SPACE!

Hun, my parents always told me that for as long as I live under their roof, everything I own is theirs. I don't understand the Youtube site, but game sites could have rated R games on it. As for your siblings, you need to tell them that you don't appreciate what they're doing, especially when they draw on your walls, which is uncalled for.

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according to my mother. She may disagree, saying I put words in her mouth but this is how I perceive it. I am 20 years old (female) and am only living with her (my parents are divorced) because I cannot afford to move out and am still in university. I feel as though she holds a lot of things against me, like the things she does for me (cooking, a roof over my head). She says I'm selfish, self centred, I only think of myself. I'm not really sure if this is even worth putting up as a question to be honest. I just don't know how much longer I can deal with being told how horrible I am. Yes, I get into fights with my mother, I'm 20 years old. I don't wish to be living at home but I'm a full time student and working part time doesn't pay all the bills. It's my fault. On top of this I put a lot of pressure on myself and don't view myself highly to begin with. We saw a therapist for 2 sessions and I told her tonight I wanted to go back and she said she didn't want to see a woman who tells her I should be able to do whatever I want. I'll admit, I don't treat my mom with as much respect as I should. I'm supposed to just respect someone despite the fact that they are always upset with something I've done (like letting a bowl soak in the sink). I don't clean up to her standards, I do nothing to her standards and she often says "I'd love to see what your place will look like" - how can you say that's just a statement? It's clearly meant to imply she thinks I will live in filth and squalor, although I keep my room very neat. I just feel as though this is once again all about me, because I'm selfish, right? I honestly don't know how much to even write because according to my mother I've "got it good" and I don't realize how lucky I am. Maybe I do. Maybe I'm just a horrible, spoiled person.

Hey hun, I'm 19 and my parents tell me that all the time. They do wonder how I'm gonna live, and how I'm gonna survive and how far my attitude will take me in life and whatnot. My parent's don't really believe in therapy so that's out of the question. If you think there's a problem with your mother cooking for you, then why don't you try to cook for yourself sometimes? My mother yells at me to make food for myself sometimes when I don't want to eat what she cooks or when I'm hunry at an inconvienient time for her to make it for me. I am always told really negative things as well, but I put it all behind me because one day, in the future, I don't have to hear it anymore. But, little as you might think, these things really push you and give you some motivation to be better in your future without realizing them. One day you're going to be cleaning your house to your best and you'd be thinking "if only my mother could see me now." While you might think you're doing things to spite her, in reality, you're doing exactly what she wanted you to do all along. When I'm 20, I wouldn't be paying the bills either, I mean, I'm still a kid, I'm not an adult and I go to school, to be educated, like any student in elementary, middle or high school. And EVERY mother would get upset if you don't do dishes when they want you to do it. Trust me, I've been yelled at so many times when I leave it there overnight because I was apparently too "lazy" to wash it when I was done. Trust me, these things, little by little help you in the future. Just try to do your best to please her without making yourself unhappy. You're not spoiled, you are just soft-hearted. :)

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okay i'm 12 and i need braces i went in today to get x-rays and the mold done btw the mold felt funni and i almost gaged but they said come back in on the 31st and we will put in spacers and imediatly i got scared. so my question is do spacers hurt when yo get them put in?

When they're immediately put in, they do hurt. And they will hurt for about a week or so. Try to bear with the pain and it will be hard to chew. Trust me, the results are amazing after your braces come off, but this is a very crucial step and you have to take the pain. Sorry. I went through it and so do a lot of people. You'll have amazing teeth and smile in the end, and that's all that matters! :D

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Im 17 & my boyfriend just turned 20. My boyfriend that ive only dated for four monthes is talkin to his ex girlfriend again that he dated for four years. They broke up a month before he got with me and they lived together. The first two weeks we dated he broke up with me & said that he just couldnt stop thinking about her and he was gonna see if he could get back with her cause they always use to break up and get back together. But they didnt this time and sge said they could be friends but me and him got back together & I said they couldnt. Now im pregnant with his kid. I deleted her off his facebook & he added her back sayin he wanted to talk to her aometimes to see how she was doing and that I disnt understand how he feels because theyve been together for four years. He said he would not cheat on me but he wants to be friends with her. But I know you cant be friends with someone you dated for that long. What should I do? End it? Please reply!! Asap :/

You have his kid, so you have to consider that and overall, if your boyfriend is a decent guy then allow the kid to be in his life. I don't think you can control the idea if he wants to be friends with his ex. I know the feeling of paranoia, trust me, but I think you shouldn't end it without proof that he is truly cheating on you. Maybe he really does want to be friends. I mean, his ex can't be nothing in his life. She was once the woman he loved, and she will always mean something to him, but some people choose their ex's to have a positive or negative meaning. Your boyfriend chooses to have a positive meaning with his ex. Don't do anything rash, especially since you're now pregnant.

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BB cat started killing animals this March. Barb got him from the SPCA when he was a kitten 7 yrs ago, he spent most of his time in the closet, coming out only to eat. He has cleaned the hair from his nipples and wants to eat all the time. He has killed a bat, rats, mice, birds, and gofers. Earlier this week he dismembered a mouse and yesterday he killed a humming bird. If we try to keep him in he breaks things, claws the speakers, the doors,the windows, and cries loudly all night until we let him out. What's going on, why is he acting out!

You really need to neuter your cat as soon as possible before his behavior gets worse and it becomes natural for him. Take him to a vet to see what's going on with him because he could possibly be suffering from something health wise that might cause him to act out. It might make him want to prove to himself that he is able to be just as fierce as any other cat, even is he's housebroken.

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Well I made a very big mistake and I slept with one of my teachers at the university.he is married and he has one kid.I know where his house is.well I was trying to stop the sex so I didn't go to his office anymore and he kinda found out and he accused of me being a pervert girl that goes around to be with guys.(while this is actually the first time in my life sleeping with a married man).and he broke up with me!!!!and let me tell you though he didn't even help me a little bit when he wanted to give the grades last semester and i got an A my self!.now i am so pissed at him and i want to black mail him that if he doesn't give me a good grade this semester I will tell his wife about our relation ship.I know that what i did was wrong but he had no right to accuse me as a slut!!I mean this relation ship had nothing for me!!and I am mad as hell!!I need help!How do i black mail him??

First of all, your teacher has every right not to help you. You should be ashamed of yourself. You make your own grades, no teacher is supposed to help you out. He shouldn't accuse you because he is to be blamed for his wrongful acts as well, but you are just as guilty as he is. You only slept with him for your grades and that is unfair and immoral. Sorry.

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I was wondering, how do I turn my boyfriend on through kissing? We have been going out for 8 months and I'm 16.

You can use your hands and rub them up and down his body.

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does best buy give a discount when buying a laptop with a student id? if so how much?

why don't u just go to the store and ask lol they're probably gonna give you better help than us. :)

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