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I slept with my teacher I need help blackmailing him!
Well I made a very big mistake and I slept with one of my teachers at the university.he is married and he has one kid.I know where his house is.well I was trying to stop the sex so I didn't go to his office anymore and he kinda found out and he accused of me being a pervert girl that goes around to be with guys.(while this is actually the first time in my life sleeping with a married man).and he broke up with me!!!!and let me tell you though he didn't even help me a little bit when he wanted to give the grades last semester and i got an A my self!.now i am so pissed at him and i want to black mail him that if he doesn't give me a good grade this semester I will tell his wife about our relation ship.I know that what i did was wrong but he had no right to accuse me as a slut!!I mean this relation ship had nothing for me!!and I am mad as hell!!I need help!How do i black mail him??
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Take a deep breath! get some tea or coffee...take it easy...
never make a decision at the height of your passion. You will definitely regret it.
focus your energies on making a decent grade for yourself... or change your course... There are no short cuts my dear, you have to earn everything in this life.
You have made 1 mistake and you should learn from this and stop making more wrong moves.
Life is tricky- you wouldnt want, someday, if you have your kids, this to happen to you... KARMA! think that it will all go around.. so fill the world with more good so good will go back to you, Promise? you will be alright!! dont obsess about it anymrore, He knows he is wrong. that will be in his conscience and it will ruin him someday. Let God do the revenge for you, He is more powerful and creative! you will be alright! :)
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Blackmail is a crime.
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I agree with Razhie 100%
I wasn't going to answer this question because she pretty much nailed it but I just have one thing to add......
If this man threatens your education then you could let him know that if he wants to play games and put your education at risk then you will exploit him to the school. However, There isn't really any guarantee something will really happen he MIGHT get fired but I'm not sure if a Student/Teacher relationship is not allowed at a college or what as you are now of age to legally consent. You're best move would be to accept you made a mistake and move on, This is would be the mature thing to do. Don't be stupid
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So, you want to take a HUGE mistake you made, and make it worse by doing something illegal as well?
Extorting him and blackmailing him is illegal. It's a crime. It's also academic dishonesty and will get you kicked out of school.
Don't be an idiot. You screwed up and fucked a cheating asshole. It was a mistake, but now is the time to walk away, not double down.
You could tell the school. That would likely get him disciplined, maybe fired.
If you don't want to that, then you need to let it go. He had to think of you as a slut -- it's the only way he can pretend that he wasn't any abusive lying asshole who took advantage of one of his students. He called you names to avoid accepting the horrible thing he had done.
Ignore him and just do the work. Unless he is a total idiot, he already knows that if he comes after your grades you could reveal what happened. He would loose his job, and it would hurt his marriage. You don't have to tell him this. He knows.
Do your work. Earn your A and leave this disaster in your past. In the future, behave better, and you will likely get treated better.
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You seem to be doing this out of anger. By black mailing him, you'll hurt yourself, but also his family. If they ever found out they'd be crushed. Picture his kid, the person he admires, finding out he's a cheating man ho? You'll scare that kid forever. I'm not saying cheating is except able,but fighting fire with fire will never put out the rage and hurt your feeling. It will just burn you.
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First of all, your teacher has every right not to help you. You should be ashamed of yourself. You make your own grades, no teacher is supposed to help you out. He shouldn't accuse you because he is to be blamed for his wrongful acts as well, but you are just as guilty as he is. You only slept with him for your grades and that is unfair and immoral. Sorry.
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