Member Since: August 20, 2011
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Last Update: August 20, 2011
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I'm a 13 year old girl, almost 14 and I haven't had my first kiss yet. I've had boy friends and guys Ive liked that have liked me but I haven't had my first kiss yet. I like a guy a lot, he's really close to me and a great friend! We talk all the time and I can tell him almost anything. The thing is, he doesn't know I like him. He's kissed a girl before gut regrets it and he once told me he'd rather it was me for his first kiss. I want it to be but I haven't seen him in a while, so when I do I feel like I'll be shy. And if he doesn't how do I make the first move? And how do I get more into a comfort zone with some one you like? (link)
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I'm 14 and I haven't been kissed. You probably know people who haven't been kissed but they're just lying. Your no longer friends if you think about him this way. You need to tell him if you think he won't make the first move. It sounds like he likes you. A way to move to a comfort soon is to find a place you hang out in a lot. Since you both are there anyway it should feel normal. A way you could make a move is to just tell him. Call him say you need to talk and meet at the place you are normally at. ( make sure this isn't school because if he says no witnesses are a bad idea) Tell him you like him and wait to see his reaction. If he says he doesn't like you then chocolate heals all wounds. I know this is a scary thing to do so you should just do it where you feel ready.
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Hey
I am about ten weeks pregnant. Me and fiance stil have sex. After that I turn to get cramps. Is it safe for us to be still having sex? Will this affect the baby? When can we have sex and when should we stop?
Will be looking to the responses
Thanx in advance!
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No there's no way having sex affects the baby because the uterus is too far away from the cervix for his penis to affect the baby. You still might want to see a doctor. Why risk it?
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Well I made a very big mistake and I slept with one of my teachers at the university.he is married and he has one kid.I know where his house is.well I was trying to stop the sex so I didn't go to his office anymore and he kinda found out and he accused of me being a pervert girl that goes around to be with guys.(while this is actually the first time in my life sleeping with a married man).and he broke up with me!!!!and let me tell you though he didn't even help me a little bit when he wanted to give the grades last semester and i got an A my self!.now i am so pissed at him and i want to black mail him that if he doesn't give me a good grade this semester I will tell his wife about our relation ship.I know that what i did was wrong but he had no right to accuse me as a slut!!I mean this relation ship had nothing for me!!and I am mad as hell!!I need help!How do i black mail him?? (link)
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You seem to be doing this out of anger. By black mailing him, you'll hurt yourself, but also his family. If they ever found out they'd be crushed. Picture his kid, the person he admires, finding out he's a cheating man ho? You'll scare that kid forever. I'm not saying cheating is except able,but fighting fire with fire will never put out the rage and hurt your feeling. It will just burn you.
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My girlfriend is so bipolar its ridiculous. I'm not sure if she actually has these mood swings or if she just acts like it to get a reaction out of me. its so random, we'll be talking about something and she will all of a sudden say bye or i don't wanna be with you anymore when an hour earlier she was saying how she wants to be with me forever and wouldn't leave me for the world. She says some mean stuff when she gets that way and i just ignore it and don't say anything back. i'm sick of her doing it and breaking up with me 50 times a day but i don't know how to get her to stop. i feel like if i broke up with her because of it she wouldn't try to get me back she would be ok with it because she always says i deserve better than her and if i left her i'd be better off. I want to be with her so badly but i can't deal with these mood swings all the time they are ridiculous (link)
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She seems to be a little insecure with your relationship. If this is just a way to make you react you shouldn't have to put up with something like this. If this is just her then you might want to seek therapy or a doctor. She seems to be in a extremely upset mood most of the time, and she puts herself down. These are signs of having a low self esteem. There could possible be a dramatic event that has occurred in her life or is happening right now. This could also be a hormonal upset. before you suggest this you might want to talk to her about troubles she's having at work, with her family/ friends, and her childhood.
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