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How do I make the first move, and not be so shy?
I'm a 13 year old girl, almost 14 and I haven't had my first kiss yet. I've had boy friends and guys Ive liked that have liked me but I haven't had my first kiss yet. I like a guy a lot, he's really close to me and a great friend! We talk all the time and I can tell him almost anything. The thing is, he doesn't know I like him. He's kissed a girl before gut regrets it and he once told me he'd rather it was me for his first kiss. I want it to be but I haven't seen him in a while, so when I do I feel like I'll be shy. And if he doesn't how do I make the first move? And how do I get more into a comfort zone with some one you like?
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I'm 14 and I haven't been kissed. You probably know people who haven't been kissed but they're just lying. Your no longer friends if you think about him this way. You need to tell him if you think he won't make the first move. It sounds like he likes you. A way to move to a comfort soon is to find a place you hang out in a lot. Since you both are there anyway it should feel normal. A way you could make a move is to just tell him. Call him say you need to talk and meet at the place you are normally at. ( make sure this isn't school because if he says no witnesses are a bad idea) Tell him you like him and wait to see his reaction. If he says he doesn't like you then chocolate heals all wounds. I know this is a scary thing to do so you should just do it where you feel ready.
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shyness is really hard to just get rid of and getting into a comfort zone even harder but what i have found helps is just to take a deep breath completely stop my mind from thinking about what could happen and just do it the more you think about a situation the harder it gets to actually face it especially for a person who is very shy trust me it works just to do it and not think twice about it im a very shy person but once you just get out of your comfort zone a little you will start being less shy.
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