Member Since: August 21, 2011
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Last Update: September 19, 2011
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I asked you to read that response so maybe you wouldn't have to deal with what I am.
I got HPV and herpes from being fingered. I will probably never have kids because I did that.
I only got fingered by two guys in total, and I got these for life. I can't even have sex without giving them to somebody else cuz condoms don't stop these. :'(
please make smarter choices than I did, and your casual answer to my old question suggests you are making now. And please, the next time someone asks on here if it is ok to be fingered, tell them you know somebody who got STDs and has been told she won't have kids because of it.
I hope it isn't too late for you like it is for me. :( (link)
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Wow. No one told me the consequences of that before...
thank you so much for letting me know.
Can you tell me what the symptoms are?
I'm sure i dont have it, but .. i just want to double check. ya know?
I appreciate this so much. xxx
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My question was asked 6 years ago. Go back to it and read "Peeps'" answer. After you have done that, answer this and I will tell you why I asked you to.
Thanks. (link)
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mmkay, i read it.
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In your opinion, is 13 years old too young to be fingered? If you really can't get any STDs then what's the harm? (link)
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I'm 14 too. I get fingered by my boyfriend quite a lot. I mean like, today I got fingered by him too. But I was ready and it was his choice. Sometimes I wonder if he hopes for something in return (if you know what I mean) but i know im not ready for that. I love being fingered by him (im not a slut, I love him. I don't care if people say 14 is too young and you can't know what love is etc etc). The first time he asked if he could do it. I was ready so I said yeah. He said tht if it hurts at all I need to tell him and he will stop immediately. The whole time he was gentle and it felt amazing, didn't hurt at all...... Until he wanted to try two fingers. I am um... Pretty tight... So that did hurt, but I told him and he stopped just like he said he would. We have tried it once since then and it didn't hurt as much, but it still did so he stopped again. Ive made it very very clear i will not have sex until at least the age of 16 (thats the legal age in england) So as long as you know that he loves you and isn't just in it for the sexual activity, and that you love him and are 100% ready I think you should go for it. I love it a lot. But if afterwards he tries to pressure you into giving him a HJ or BJ or something, don't do it until you're definitely ready. I don't think you are too young at all. It's really quite an opinionated question. But yeah I hope this helps somewhat x
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