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My name is Sami.♥ Wherever life takes me, you'll find me with a smile. Feel free to ask me anything, I will give you the best advice that I can :)
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15/f
ive had acne since 5th grade, and trust me it lot to be a hell of a lot worse. finally around last summer it began to clear up a lot, but i still get a good break out here and there.
ive tried proactiv, the 3 piece clean and clear kit, the 3 piece neutrogena kit, and now im usin oxy. but nothin seems to make it go away.
im a really picky eater, not on purpose, but a lot of food makes me near throw up (i try everythin). i usually eat italian food.
what im askin is:
1. what can get rid of redness, a house hold item, really quickly ?
2. whats a reallly good brand of acne wash/medicine that will clear up my face ?
3. whats somethin i can change in my diet or habits that will help it go away ?
Im not sure how to get rid of redness but i can tell you something that i do to keep acne away.
In the morning and at night use a cotton round and wipe your face down really good with rubbing alcohol. Then when your done put an oil free lotion on your face. This usually gets rid of my acne.
Im not sure what you can change in your diet, a lot of people are different. Some things make some people break out, but not all people.
Hope i helped =]
How can I tell one of my friend-girls that I have a crush on her without being very blunt? In other words, how can I tell my friend that I love her?
I'm 13(m)
Just start talking to her. And be like ya know i kinda have a thing for you, and see how she acts or what she says. Or maybe even start by asking her how she feels about you, that wasy if she just wants to be friends you dont have to mess anything up or have it be akward.
Hope i helped =]
Ok. so i've been texting and talking to t his guy... lets call him T. well, he's 17! and i'm fourteen. he knows how old i am though. Well, i think i like him. and we 're supose to be haning out sometime. but he thinks i'm hot and whatnot. but geeze. Even though he freaks out about age/
do you think that after we hangout, if he likes me enough... we'll settle something, and maybe date?
ps. DON'T TELL ME I'M TO YOUNG TO DATE/ HE'S TO OLD FOR YOU/ HE'LL GET YOU INTO TROUBLE.
please.
It just depends on what he likes. A lot of guys like younger girls and most girls like older guys so the odds are in your favor =]
Talk to him about your age difference and see how he feels but if he didnt like you he wouldnt waste his time texting and hanging out with you.
Hope i helped & Good Luck =]
me and my boyfriend have been together for almost 6 months. we still havent really made out. and just recently weve started giving longer pecks and way more. you understand? how do i get one of those long pecks into a makeout? and how do i get him to give me a hickey. i know there ugly. but for some reason i really want one. i never had one from a boyfriend before. what do i do? just hug him with my neck by his mouth? please give me advice were new to all this. and i want to show it instead of actually saying give me a hickey. i just want him to do it! thanks
When you guys are kissing just look at him all sweet. and then move your hair off or your neck and just kind of turn your neck towards him. Hopefully he will get the hint.
Hope i helped =]
There's this boy at my high school that I really, really like. I've never felt this way about any guy, actually. And towards the beginning of this year, I could have sworn he liked me too. We were always together, and when we couldn't be he called me on the phone and we would talk until we ran the phone batteries down. But now, he started hanging out with another girl more than me, calls me less often, and doesn't spend any time with me at school. I don't understand. Please, help me.
Me: 16/F (17 in September)
Him: 15/M (Just turned 15 on April 13.)
It sounds like he likes you a lot. But guys dont want to seem like they like you too much. If they dont know if your interested they will give up. Or maybe he just doesnt want to seem too obvious about liking you. Maybe you should talk to him and ask him how he feels and tell him how you feel so he knows and hopefullly things will change.
Hope i helped =]
Ok so i still am in love with my ex and he doesnt know it ,but he has a girlfriend and she lives soo far away , but he talks to her on the phone all the time
do you think he loves her?
He might still love her but there is no way of telling unless you ask him. Talk to him and ask him how he feels about her. And after talking for a while (if it feels right) ask him how he feels about you.
Most likely if she lives far away they wont last for long. Long distance relationships are just too hard, so i wouldnt worry too much!
Hope i helped =]
the other night my boyfriend and i were talking about what turns us on, he said when im sexy and playful and when i askd him what he meant like that all he said was anything. I still have no idea how to be sexy or playful or what he even really means by it. Any help will be great ! Thank youu !
Just be really flirtacious. Kiss his neck, whisper things in his ear. Just simple little things like that. Wearing sexy outfits can help too =] and just look at him like you want him, if that makes sence.
Good Luck!
Hope i helped. =]
If you need anything else feel free to ask again.
im 14 years old. in grade 8, about to go into grade 9. i started going to a new school last year. and this guy was just starting too, we have been best friends for the whole year now. i really like him. i told him last year, but he didnt like me back. but now i feel he likes me, but i dont want to tell him again because im afraid he'll say the same thing as he did last time. what should i do?
Maybe text him and ask him how he feels about you. Or just hang out with him and do the same thing.
You will be able to tell how he feels by the way he acts.
Hope i helped =]
What are the lifehouse cd's? Which one has the following songs:
You and Me
Hanging By a Moment
Whatever it Takes
You and Me is on the Life house album.
Hanging by a Moment is one the No name face album
and whatever it takes it on the Who we are album.
Im not sure of an album that has them all sorry.
Hope i helped =]
Ok, here goes... I guess I should tell you a bit about myself, at least the basics: 17, female, and a virgin. Great, right? Now, onto the question.
Last year there was a guy in a couple of my classes that we're going to call "Aaron." He was a year older than me but I was in his classes because I am on a more advanced track. Well, Aaron sat in my little group during math class along with his other friend, "John." I had known John from before so we all got along really well. It wasn't soon before I started to really like Aaron. Besides celebrities, he was the only guy I had ever felt sexually attracted to. It was apparent he liked me too. As the months progressed, we started being more open with each other and joking about sex. One day when we were sitting in Spanish (our table was WAY in the back), we got on the topic of boobs somehow. I made a comment like "I don't get why guys like boobs, they're just big bags of fat!" to which he retorted, "Well, if you were a guy and saw your chest, you'd be attracted to them too." With that, he cupped my boob. I was kinda shocked! I mean, we were in the middle of the classroom! Part of me thought it was strange and the other part was in heaven! It felt really good and I completely trusted him. This continued on and we made out a few times. One day, we were eating lunch and he told me to meet him up at his locker in ten minutes. We each got locker passes and I follwed him up shortly after he left. I was really happy. His locker was located by a guy's bathroom. He told me to follow him inside. I was REALLY scared to go in. The big taboo, you know? But I was so enamored that I followed him in. He asked if I would give him a blowjob. He did not pressure me and asked very sweetly, making sure I was ok. Let me tell you, I've never wanted to do anything more in my life. I was so ready for it, but in a bathroom? No. It felt so wrong. It was then that our male science teacher walked in. We were shouted at but in the end we didn't get into too much trouble. After that Aaron became a recluse. I don't know if it was because he was embarrassed, angry, or scared, but he stopped talking to me. It really hurt me and I gave up the hopes of ever being with him.
Skip to the end of this year:
We eventually made up, but he still didn't really talk to me. It wasn't until a week ago I actually spoke to him for more than two minutes. We were confined to the auditorium, setting up amps for an assembly later that day. We talked, but we didn't mention the year before or anything sexual.
Later that day, Aaron sent me a message on facebook asking if I would give him a blowjob.
I really didn't know what to say. This was really unexpected and I wasn't prepared at all. I decided in my mind that I still really wanted to do it. I liked him a lot, and this was basically for my pleasure as much as his. He wants me to do it behind our stage, in a loft that holds all the costumes after school. It's hard to find the time, but I really want to!
So here are my questions:
1) Am I really wrong to do this?
2) Should I lie to my parents so I can do this?
3) At school?!
4) How can we find the time?
Thanks for everything and I'm sorry this thing is so LONG! I'm hyped on Caribou right now and my fingers just keep going!
The fact that he stopped talking to you then when he starts talking to you again and thats the first thing he asks, that just sounds a little messed up to me but its completely up to you.
1) i dont think its wrong to do this, but it almost sounds like he's using you so be careful.
2) Well your not going to tell your parents so you pretty much have to lie.
3) Maybe you could find somewhere more suitable than at school. Plus if you got caught that wouldnt be too much fun haha
4) Just whenever you feel the time is right its just up to you.
Good luck & hope i helped =]
okay so me and my bf are gonna have sex pretty soon and was wondering why guys find it so attractive when girls swallow after a blow job..
Most guys think it feels better, and most girls wont do it so when they find a girl that will it just makes it that much better.
Hope i helped =]
I've been on Ortho Tri-Cyclen Lo (birth control) for about 4 months now and I've noticed in the last month or so my face has gotten a lot bigger, I'm almost developing a double chin and it's puffier. I haven't gained weight anywhere else. Will this go away on its own? Is there anything I can do? It is kind of making me miserable...other people have noticed too.
Well birth control makes you gain weight but it may not be fat weight it is most likely water weight and most likely it will go away.
But call your physician and ask them about it, the gave it to you so they pretty much know everything about it.
Hope i helped =]
Wel, before I ask my wuestion you should know a little about my situation. I really absolutely like this guy and all my friends know, including him. However, one of my friends that was probably the first one to know has been flirting with him A LOT lately. I told her last week if she could stop because she knows how much I like him, but she keeps doing it. What should I do?
Its a girl thing. if they know that no one likes him they dont want anything to do with him. But if someone likes it they jump on him. (not literally ha) Its just a competition thing.
Talk to her again and tell her that if she wants to be a true friend that she needs to back off.
Make your move on him, talk and flirt with him and if she doesnt back off then she wasnt a good friend anyways.
Hope i helped =]
Recently i started liking this guy and he is what you say CUTE the problem is i only see him like once a week or more when i see him playing baseball and never seems to look my way he will see me then turn away i like him and i want him to like me too but how do i get him to notice me without overdoing it please help me
Cathy
14
female
Talk to him. Maybe ask for his number and start talking to him. Maybe he doesnt know that you like him so he doesnt want to overdue it. Most guys dont like to make the first move in liking a girl. So let him know that you like him and you start the flirting. Hopefully it will change. Plus summer is here and you will be able to hang out outside of school.
Hope i helped =]
If you need anything else feel free to go to my column and ask me personally.
I've seen some clips of movies from the 1930s and 1940s where "Pussy" is used like any other English word. At time, obviously used referring to a cat.
When did it become a vulgar word?
Well its just like a lot of words. When teens are in high school they come up with silly little names for things and everyone starts saying it and it gets around. Im not sure exactly when it became a bad word but im possitive thats why.
Hope i helped =]
If you need anything else feel free to go to my column and ask me personally.
Okay, so I wanted an iPod, and my friend gave me one. It's an old iPod, about 3.5 inches high, 30GB, I think the the first Video iPod. But anyway, it has tons of songs on it, like 600, and a movie, and some TV shows, and the thing works great. I have the MacBook 2007, again, works great. So, I plugged the iPod into the computer, and iTunes popped up, and it said "Brother's iPod," because that's what she called it, and has all the music and stuff under it. I need to copy it to my actual iTunes, so that when I unplug the iPod I have the music on iTunes. So first question:
1. HOW DO YOU COPY THE IPOD SONGS ONTO ITUNES?
Second thing, the movie on there is Meet the Robinsons. It's title was this: "Meet.The.Robinsons.2007.DVDRip" I want to put a DVD I have, Lord of the Rings 3, onto it. How would I do that? Like, how would I put a DVD into iTunes?
2. HOW DO YOU PUT DVDs INTO ITUNES?
So my two questions (with the scenarios) are:
1. HOW DO YOU COPY THE IPOD SONGS ONTO ITUNES?
2. HOW DO YOU PUT DVDs INTO ITUNES?
I need this ASAP. Thanks!
usually if you plug your ipod in it will say that the songs from your ipod arent in your itunes library. So it will ask if you want to transfer them. It usually says this when you go to your ipod and refresh it.
Hope this helps! =]
My 4 year old cousin. He has been getting bruised easily. I mean he comes out of the tub, and has so many brusies. His legs are covered in them. But he says they don't hurt him at all. We asked the doctor, he said it might be the meds he's on. but it still doesn't seem right. Does any one have any suggestions??
You can call DCFS (department of family services) You can make an anonymous call and tell them what you think is going on. They go to your cousins house and talk to the kids and the parents. If they find out something is wrong they will watch the family and make sure that the family doesnt hurt the kids for them coming. They deal with this a lot so dont worry. But thats what i would do if i were you.
Hope i helped & good luck! =]
i'm waiting for my ex. and he always thinks i'm flirting with other guys, but i really don't try to..i guess thats just my way of being friendly. i don't want him to think this so how can i still be friendly with guys without coming off as flirty?
17/f
This is really hard because with the way girls are we just pretty much always come off as flirty. Even if we dont mean to. So maybe try not to talk to so many guys or dont hug as many of them or whatever you do.
Just dont giggle a lot around them and you could even try to explain this to your ex that your just being friendly and that you really care about him and you wouldnt do that to him.
Hope i helped =]
In your opinion (or learning from personal experience), what are the pros and cons of a open relationship?
Well if you have an open relationship in my opinion you shouldnt be in a relationship. i mean you can still go on dates with this person and what not but i wouldnt classify yourselves as being "together" it will just turn into a bunch of fights and its not fun.
The cons to being in one is that you can see other people and your not just tied down with one person.
But like i said i would just not be in a relationship at all and just date around.
Hope i helped =]
Me and the guy I'm with will be together for 3 years this October.. I was thinking of getting him a ring.. nothing too flashy/showy.. a simple band of some sort, preferably silver... and the problem is, I dont know his ring size and I want it to be a surprise.. so how would I go about finding that out without making it completely obvious??
Well if you wear rings just take your ring and just acting like you messing around put it on his ring finger and see how close it is to fitting him and then when you go to get him the ring tell them where the ring you have sits on his finger and they can get really close to his finger size. But if not most places have like a 14 day guarantee. So if it doesnt fit after you give it to him you can always take it back and get him the right size.
Hope i helped =]