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I'm Kelly. I'm 15. And I have experienced a lot in life. I love helping people, so i decided to get one of these a while back. I don't come on a lot, but maybe I will start more often. I also answer questions with honesty, and how i would work things out. I have delt with a lot, and i probably have had a problem similar to yours. So, why not give me a try, and hit me up with a question?! If you want to actually talk to me - feel free to IM me, to ask me a question or just to chat- I'm pretty much always on.

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On one of my mySpace pictures, this guy wrote "Rawr! that's hot *tssss*" I don't get the "*tssss*" Is that supposed to be like a sexy cat noise, or does it mean "Rawr! That's hot---no"



hun, its a compliment. its supposed to be like sizzle. like your hot. dont be worried. i doubt think its supposed to sound like a cat either. hah

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me and my boyfriend fool around alot... I keep my pants on most the time and he stays in his boxers most the time... but say he's in his boxers he cums and my pants get all wet could I get pregnate...

VERYY VERY RARE. i highly doubt it will happen. like everyone else said, the sperm dies when it hits the air. and its not even in you, its just on you causing your pants to be wet.

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ok so does birth control make you gain weight or not?? does it make your boobs look bigger? what can i do to make my boobs bigger beside a breast implant? thanks ill rate high

birth control wont make your boobs bigger. and you may gain a little, but its a very small amount if you do. i dont think there is much to make them really bigger, but theres things you can do to make them appear bigger. to make your boobs look bigger, you could always try a padded or push up bra. or those plastic rubbery things, that you up in your bra. good luck

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maryland's genneral area code is a 301 number, and i got a 240. basically, if i call someone they charge me long distance. this is because i ordered it over the internet, so they screwed it up. is there anyways i can change it i'll die!

wow, thats really wierd. and sucks. so you should deffinitally get it changed soon. i think you should just go to a local phone company [ whatever your phone is, you know verizon, cingular ect ] and asked to get your number changed. explain to them what happened and more then likely they will change it. good luck

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okay, so i have curly and frizzy and not very shiny hair ..does anyone know a good product for straightening? something that can get it unfrizzed and straighten and make it shiny if possible? i need something that really works, please help! i will rate highh!

try the kiwi products. mainly the blow serum. i use them and they are great, i really reccommend them. you can get them at a buncha salons and such and also order them online. what you do is when you get outta the shower, you can towel dry it a little so its damp. then put some in your hands and rub it in your hair. then you can either air dry it, strighten it, blowdry it, or whatever. it also helps save your hair from like split ends.

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heyy whats the name of the song that goes, "that hoes fine but this ones a killler".? thx for the help

well, two songs have those lyrics in them. they are both by the ying yang twins though. its in shake and salt shaker.

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KVAN ish my penguin =].

Heck yes. MMkay...have a good break.

*♥
MC

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okay so there's this guy. i sorta like him. i wanna go to the 8th grade dance with him. but h's the type of guy who is really flirty and such. he always tells me how much he loves me and i would really like to go to my 8th grade dance with him. but it seems that he wants 2 go 2 the 8th grade dance with pactically n e grl. but the only problem is this guysis like my friggin brother. but i love him more then that. help? ♥

seems like you liek him more than you think. he may be a major flirt, and he might be honest about you though. maybe you should just casually ask him like whos hes going to the dance with. and when he says "no one really" or whatever just be like "oh same. we should go together.*smile*" and you can always just go as FRIENDS. nothing more because nothing is wrong with that. but yuo can also go as something more as well. jsut see how things go. maybe yu go together as friends and leave as something more. theres nothing wrong with liking a flirty guy. as long as hes most flirty with you. i say just go for it, and since he doesnt have guts, ask him to go with you yourself. dont be scared! just have fun with itt. good luck.

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heyyy.im 15 years old.and im a girl.ive had my period for 3 years now.but this month i didnt get my period.and i am kinda worried.do you think its normal?does it ever happen to you?

well if you are sexually active then its because of that - and you might be pregnant. but if your not, then it could be normal, and it might not be. since you have had it for 3 years, it has most likely gotten on a regular schedule, but it might not be. and it might be changing. if you are really concerned you can always go to a gyno and talk to them about it. but i wouldnt really worry too much if i were you. it will prolly come..

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hi im 15/f and i just wanna ask you is it normal to have hair on your belly and on your lower back just above your butt.?and what can i do to take them off?? shave?wax?my mom wont let me wax..wat do i do!!

yyea, thats pretty normal. shaving is always an option but it might be hard on your back and stuff and those are both REALLY sensitive areas, so i dont reccommend that. maybe you should try the nair lotion or something. the only bad part about it is that it smells. its painless and its not waxing.. or shaving. its like dummieproof. hah good luckk

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i am 14 and i like a 16 year old, but i will turn 15 before he turns 17. he's my sister's friend, but she's really annoyed with him right now, she keeps telling me to stay clear of him. my parents think he's irresponsible. so i guess i really have two questions for you, first of all, is he too old for me? secondly, im afraid of upsetting my family, but i really like him, so should i just hang out with him anyways?

this is a toughy. and its all really up to you. as for him being to old for you, he could be, but really two years isnt that big of a difference. just at this age, it is. it pretty much sounds like your whole family is against him and that must be hard. maybe you can try getting your sister and him friends agian, so you have more oppertunity to see him. because if you sneak around, and get caught- then everyone will be really mad and upset with you. if you are afraid of upsetting the family, then this might not be sucha good idea. but like i said, its really up to you. imagine if you guys snuck off, but then you got caught. what would your parents reaction be? they wouldnt be too happy right.. and what would your sisters be? he would be mad because she told you not to. is he really worth risking all that? good luck,,

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I like this guy and he knows it. We dont know eachother that well. My situation with him is really uncomfrotable because once he found out from my friend he told all his friends and now they stare at me. One of his friends(I swear to god this boy is gay and wants my crush) is ruining every chance that i even had with him. He shouts out "there she is!" "or go say hi" or "Oooohhh" or something equally stupid.Well at first it was cute b/c he would just stand up and smile at me and he was always blushing now its pretty lame cause his friend even got tampons then threw it at my crush and yelled "its from your girlfriend". Now its harder to talk to him he still looks at me but so do all of his friends and it makes me nervous he is never ever alone. If i even come near his one really annoying will definately embarass me. What should i do? Also I have no idea what to say to him so if you could give me some tips in case i ever do get him alone.

I asked a few columnist this question still looking for a descent answer you seem pretty good with advice =]

i hope taht i can give you the answer your looking for. first off, i know its hard - but you just gotta forget about his friends. they are stupid and just immature jerks. and some guys take jokes too far, and thats what it seems they are doing. maybe the next time they like throw tampons at him dont be afarid to let your anger out. yell at them, let them know you mean buissness, "dont you guys have anything better to do!?" or whatever. if they keep doing it, then you have to act like it doesnt bother you. they will prolly stop then because they are doing it just to annoy the both of you, but if it doesnt bother you - then whats the point. [ sorry that was confusing ]. another reason they might be doing it, is because maybe he likes you. and they are teasing him. maybe you should just ask him to meet you up somewhere [ like at your house, a local diner, movies, mall ] where its just you two and you can talk. talk about what you guys like to do, and your favorites and stuff. just get to know each other. then maybe casually bring up about his friends and if it means anything. or ask him who he is liking at the moment. and as for talking to him, all you can do be just be yourslef. and be natural and relaxed. oh, and make sure your confident - guys LOVE that. good luck hun.

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dear kelly,
Can hair under your armpits be blond?

uh, i think it can. but im not sure.. i gess it kinda all depends on the natural hair color you have, and how light/dark it is.

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im goin to the pistons game next wed i think n i need some ideas for a sign. any ideas????

wow, you are so lucky. i just came from my second one this week. heres some ideas my friends came up with and some i saw there..
*PISTONS ARE HOT, HEAT IS NOT!
*PISTONS PUT OUT HEAT
*THE HEAT IS OUT
*SHAQ GET OUTTA THE WAY, I CANT SEE THE GAME.
*SACK SHAQ
*I GAURENSHEED THIS VICTORY
*DWANE WADE IS OVERPAID

sorry, thats all i can think of right now. ill edit when im not so tired.

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I got this awesome bag thing for my birthday yesterday, and it`s way too big for a purse, so i was wondering what i sohuld use it for.
http://www.ae.com/web/browse/product.jsp?rcid=womens&scid=cat90052&sscid=&navroot=womens&productId=0427_7380 I got mine in tan

aw, thats cute =] maybe you can try for a sleepover bag [ carry your pjs & undies ] , any trip to carry goodies but not clothes [ candy, ipod, ect ], beach bag, you could always wear it as a purse [ big purses are in ! ], im not sure exactly how big it is- but maybe a backpack for school?

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Okay..,

My friend told me that she is pregnant ......

2 days ago she told me that they had unprotected sex and that he came in her for the first time.

can you really see on a pregnancy test after 2 days that you are really pregnant?

thx

no, you cant. theres always symptoms you can look for but i doubt they would show up after only two days..

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ok do you know how to get rid of the flab on your belly??? last week ive eaten salads, drank water and a few weeks latr i notice my stomach looked kinda flat then after 2 or a week it looked fat again.? thanks ill rate 5.

oy, everyone has that little annoying flab that they wanna get rid of but dont know how. but besides eating right, you also have to do excersizes that burn a lot of calories, such as running. keep up with your good eating habits though.. good luck

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I have dark brown hair that looks red-ish int he sun, Drak brown eyes, and tan skin.

How should i do my makeup, like what colors, style and everyhting i ahve no idea what looks good on me. Also what color clothes look best with my skin color.

MAKEUP- deep matter earth tones and jewel colors liek hunter green, dark grey, beige and brown will bring out your eyes. coral and plumb colors work good to accentuate your cheekbones. experiment with your lip color. your skin tone is very versatile and and since your brunette with like a reddish tint (in the sun), anything from pink to red will look great on you. top it off with lip gloss for extra staying power. bronzing powder dusted over your forehead, nose and cheeks will give you the ultimate sun-kissed look. CLOTHES COLORS - THE BEST- sharp, stark and clear hues. intense, rich colors, like black, navy blue, red, and hot pink
bright white or icy pastels, like cool blues, pinks and yellows. THE WORST- earthy tones and subdued colors like beige, orange and gold. light-medium browns and some camel. [ i have answered questoins like this before so i copied my answer. ] good luck

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ok im a 15 year old guy and i have a friend who is also a 15 year old guy and another friend who is a 15 year old girl. im sure you can tell right away that this is a love triangle story. Me and my friend (male) are really tight we hang out all the time. we are opposites according to girls im loud and not as cute, he is shy and "really hot". there is a girl that we hang out with all the time. i really like her and i have for awhile, she kinda shows affection towards me but not enough for my to ask her out. people have been telling my friend (male) that she likes him, but she denies it. i think she does. i really wanna go out with her and my friend (male) says he is gonna date her. nobody knows that i like her. what should i do in this situation? (sorry if its confusing)

no, dont worry. its not confusing. i got it. uh well maybe you should start by telling her how you feel. then maybe try telling your friend. or tell your friend first, then her- with the order, its pretty much all up to you. but i think you should end up with both of them knowing. when you tell your friend, tell him you have liked her for a while so he doesnt think that you are trying to steal his crush or whatever, and when you tell her, just be honest. and be relaxed, and YOURSELF. good luckk and if you need anything else, leave one in my inbox!

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Ur 13....? You look like ur a full grown adult. You look hot and spicy. You look modest and angelic. Don't worry, I'm not hitting on you, I'm a straight 13 year old female. I just like to give compliments though.

yeah, i am. haha. thanks.. ♥

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