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Embarassed by his friends
I like this guy and he knows it. We dont know eachother that well. My situation with him is really uncomfrotable because once he found out from my friend he told all his friends and now they stare at me. One of his friends(I swear to god this boy is gay and wants my crush) is ruining every chance that i even had with him. He shouts out "there she is!" "or go say hi" or "Oooohhh" or something equally stupid.Well at first it was cute b/c he would just stand up and smile at me and he was always blushing now its pretty lame cause his friend even got tampons then threw it at my crush and yelled "its from your girlfriend". Now its harder to talk to him he still looks at me but so do all of his friends and it makes me nervous he is never ever alone. If i even come near his one really annoying will definately embarass me. What should i do? Also I have no idea what to say to him so if you could give me some tips in case i ever do get him alone.
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i hope taht i can give you the answer your looking for. first off, i know its hard - but you just gotta forget about his friends. they are stupid and just immature jerks. and some guys take jokes too far, and thats what it seems they are doing. maybe the next time they like throw tampons at him dont be afarid to let your anger out. yell at them, let them know you mean buissness, "dont you guys have anything better to do!?" or whatever. if they keep doing it, then you have to act like it doesnt bother you. they will prolly stop then because they are doing it just to annoy the both of you, but if it doesnt bother you - then whats the point. [ sorry that was confusing ]. another reason they might be doing it, is because maybe he likes you. and they are teasing him. maybe you should just ask him to meet you up somewhere [ like at your house, a local diner, movies, mall ] where its just you two and you can talk. talk about what you guys like to do, and your favorites and stuff. just get to know each other. then maybe casually bring up about his friends and if it means anything. or ask him who he is liking at the moment. and as for talking to him, all you can do be just be yourslef. and be natural and relaxed. oh, and make sure your confident - guys LOVE that. good luck hun.
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