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Q: my cousin is really overweight she was over earlier this night and she was telling me about how she wants to kill herself because ever one teases her about how fat she is. its really hard for her to find clothes and she feels like she shouldnt be alive i guess. shes only 14 in 9th grade and weighs im guessin 230. she hates bein around people cause they always pick on her, and she hardly goes out of the house and last year she hardly went to school because of it. can you guys help me out by giving me some excercizes she can do or what not to eat? and should she see a doctor? because they think she might have thighroids or something. thanks. also how long would it take her to lose like 35 pounds?
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Put her on a diet. I know of a no carb diet that works really good! I lost 10 lbs in one week and 2-3 lbs every week after that. If you want more information on this diet jut leave a message in my inbox. Also, tell her stop eating junk food, drink water not soda, and tell her to start walking! Good luck:)
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Q: well i have a problem.. i like this guy alot.. like so0 much.. hes really str8 to chill with and weve chilled alot buhh i dont know.. he likes me buhh he wants to do shit with me b4 we go out.. he thinks i will cuz i did things with these 2 guys this summer which was jus a hook up and having fun..buhh as for me and him.. i dont wanna do anything with him yet* or until we go out cuz i dont want him to see me as a grl to take advange of..and juss a hook up.. i want him to see me as a gf.. and he knos im not a ho so wats rong? i dont kno if its like he needs to try me out to see wat hes gettin or rele want to b with mee.. does this make sense to any of youu..?!
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Just tell him that you want a relationship with him and the other stuff will come later..it looks as if he just wants some..so he might not be that good for you.
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Q: I have a cingular sony ericsson T226, and I was using the composer feature to customize a ring tone. I got it the way I wanted it, then I attempted to "add effect" and since that time, it ruined the ring tone, and any attempts to make a new one, due to the fact that it makes all the notes the exact same pitch.
I cant find how to fix it and I'm needing some serious help. I cant stand to live with that screaching much longer.
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You can go to Cingular and ask for help but for now just change your ringtone:)
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Q: ok well a while back my "best friend" went behind my back and we weren't friends nemore well now we r again but we arent best buds again but we're still rlly good friends and we even made a pact to never fight over guys!! and now i like a guy that she likes and she said if i triy to git w/ne guy that she doesnt even know but thinks is hot or likes that she wont be my friend nemore and i told her 2 remember the pact n shes like w/e and so now i liek this guy that she likes and i dont know what to do? she is makin me soo mad and all over dudes 2! what do u think?
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She broke the pact...you can like any guy you want to like..she shouldent make u not like him.. obviously shes not a real friend
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Q: ok, don't say my friend is a fag or anything just because he cut.. i don't wanna hear it... but i've been really mad because, i was talking to him, and he quit cuttin for about 3months, but then while i was talkin to him, i told him something, and he said "brb" then when he got back, he told me that he had cut himself because of me.He said he was just looking for a reason to do it, but now i feel really guilty. IDK what to do, hes not online a lot so i haven't talked to him, so my guilty concious grows each day. I'm mad at myself because 3 months ago, i was the reason he stopped cutting, now im the reason he started. Can anyone give me advice on what to do right now? i don't like the feeling of being guilty, but i can't talk to him...i need a way to clear most of my concious about this, cuz its really disturbing my sleep and life in general..
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Wait wait wait, editing my answer
what did you tell him? go say sorry(and mean it)!
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Q: ok i have a name in xanga but i want to put music on it... and make it look nice any1 got any good answers???
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Go to www.xanga.com/xanga_music. Right Click the song you want, go to properties and get the url link . Then go to your "look and feel" page. Scroll to the bottom and add the music. If you want help with making it look nice leave one in my inbox with your site so i can check it out and help you.
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Q: Hey..okay well my problem is that i really really like this guy...he is really hot,got a good personailty hes really fun to be around...but I heard that he only goes out with punk girls which im not..and im not just about to change who i am for a guy but i really like this one!!..i mean i talk to him and hang around with him...but i dont kno what to do!!!
So my question(s) is: 1.what is your idea of being punk?
2.if he just goes for punk girls....how do i try to get him to notice me without trying to be too punk?
3.do you think there will ever be a chance if i keep trying?
Thanxs girls...luvs you lots
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You said you heard he only goes for punk girls..how do you know for sure unless you try? Talk to him, get to know him and if he likes you for you then great. Punk or no punk you can still go out with him if he likes u..
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Q: Does anyone know a website where I can earn my high school diploma at home for free?
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Try looking for "Free high school diploma" under Google..or something like that. Good luck!
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Q: ok, I just recently dumped my bf of three months. I'm 13/f, and I felt really bad about dumping him. I had thought about it all the time. On the school bus he acted fine, but I could tell he was hurt. I also heard a nasty rumor about him. (it's soo gross) But I kind of dumped him for that, and feel so rude. So at the dance, he asked me to dance, I said sorry for dumping him. We danced, and it was awesome. We're back together again. So...
1. Did I make the right decision?
2. Should I believe the nasty rumor?
3. WILL SOMEONE HELP ME?
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You did make the right desicsion and no you shouldent believe the rumor. Just talk to him about the rumor and ask him if its true. Dont believe other people..
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Q: Hey i was wondering... when am I supposed to get arm hair thats actually brown and underarm hair.. i mean im 14/m and most of my friends have at least a little... when is the normal age for this..
Admins please don't delete this I really am concerned...
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Different times for different people. because we all mature at different times and stuff.. Sooner or later you'll start getting hair..
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Q: In the "Your Space" style on advice columns where it says "Home, View Feedback, Ask Question..." How do you change the highlight color? Right now mine is a really dark purple and I don't like it!
Thank you so much! =)
xoxo liddylflirtx3
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By changing your colors in the "column settings" to where it'll look good:)
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Q: i was just wondering, what's a "redneck" ?
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I dont really know the exact meaning but its a person that's white and racist..thats all i really know...
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Q: Okay, I like this guy a lot.. and he's mixed. That doesn't bother me, but a lot of my other good friends are rednecks! That's like the only kind of people I really hang out with. I used to be a HUGE redneck, and was really racist... but I'm not anymore, because there's no point in that. My friends are friends with him, but they wouldn't go out with him... what do I say to my friends? I don't want to lose them, because they're awesome.. but I really like this guy, and if I have a chance to go out with him, I want to. I just don't want my friends to say rude things about us and make fun of me... What do I do? I'LL RATE!!
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If you like him, go out with him. And if your friends make fun of you then dump your friends because they should be happy for you and understand that not everyone is racist and that interracial relationships are not bad.
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Q: Hey...im 14, a female, and just started the 9th grade a few weeks ago, there wis this one guy everyone was always talking about...all the girls from my middle school thought he was just SO hot but the girls from his middle school don't really care for him...well of course I had to fall for him...i've gotten a lot less shy when it comes to guy but I still have that "barrier" so like i got his sn and started talkin to him like the 4th week into school...I never really knew what to say to him b/c I didn't know him very well at ALL. (I love guy friends...and I wanted him to at least be one) Like he kinda seems to flirt with everyone ya know? but he flirts with me alot when i'm around him, it's akward...it's like i can't tell if he means ir or is just leading me on...the thing is, is that he doesnt really know me that well or how i behave or ne thing like that so i guess he doesnt seem to comprehend that i dont just want a "more then friend" thing outta all guys ( even thought i wouldnt mind one with him ;) ) so he kind assumes i guess that i'm just always "pushing myself on him"...one of his newer friends is like my best guy friend (even though me and him are having a shaky realtionship right now) and so like at lunch ill go and sit with my "best guy friend" so i can sit with him (no one knows that though! lol) and i just get so many mixed signals...but oh yeah...i'm white and he is too but he thinks that i date black boys and like them and all and I don't but idk for sure if he understands that or not or just like messes with me just so we have something to talk about ( ihope you understand what i mean by that, like just so that theres something he can say to me...i just had to add that too)...anyways, but...yesterday night my friend (in 10th grade) had a party and he was there too...and i found out from another friend that when he was standing with these like 3 or 4 other people he said something along the lines of that i liked him and was like "obsessed" with him...and that just really confused me! b/c i know i say that kinda stuff about people when i want ppl to know that this one guy likes me, i guess to brag in my own way or something but idk what guys mean when they do it! (he said this at like the middle of the party) but then he was like flirting with me towrds the end of the party...) idk if he just does that kinda stuff (like flirt with me and all) b/c he knows ill do it back or has figured out that i like him, but im just so confused and would love to knwo what to do! the thing is that i dont treat him any different than any of my other guy friends and dont talk to him more and in a diff. way...so thats why i said he just doesnt know how i act very well...i just dont know why he would say that i was obsessed! it just makes me feel so stupid ya know! im just so used to like recebtly all these guys that i go to school with and good friends with sayin how i could get ne one and then he comes along and is just kinda thrown in that circle and i hope he's not going to mess it up! im not going to lie i would love to have him! but...i just wanna know how he sees me! like if i really do annoy him or if he's just saying somehting differnet on the outside then on the inside ya know? and i also said that he's gettin tight with my best guy friend and he better not tear me and him apart! :-/! gosh im just so confused! just can you tell me what to do, if i should just not talk to him so he doesnt keep on thinkin im obsessed or w/e...any advice what so ever is welcome! please help me in any way you can! and i know this is a mess so hope ya can understand what i mean! ya may needa think long and hard about this response! thanks SO much! i just had to tell somebody! :-) im really really sorry its so long i just couldnt make it short! hope you arent upset....
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I think he doesnt like you since hes telling everyone your obbsessed. And since he knows you like him he's just flirting to lead you on. So forget him cuz sooner or later he'll hurt you..and it'll suck so get away before he causes any damage.
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Q: I see people at parties, or at the movies, or just see them talking and I get jealous because they're in such a good relationship and I'm not in one! I don't know what to do... I always think maybe I'll get a boyfriend soon, but it never happens... How to I get the people I like to notice me, and how do I get closer to having a relationship??
I'll rate!
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hey thats normal...I do that too cuz it sucks not having a bf. Theres nothing you can really do to get guys notice you except for doing "stuff" with other guys but thats not good cuz then they'll just use you. I know it sucks but be patient and sooner or later a guy will ask u out:)
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Q: Im 13 n in 8th grade n my bf(7th grade), who ive only been going out with for a few days, supposedly really really likes me.But it doesnt seem like it. Whenever he is around me it seems like hes pushing me away. Is that normal for guys to act like that? What should I do???Thanx.
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He could just be really shy. Since he "really really" likes you maybe hes afraid of doing something wrong when your around and then you breaking up with him. Just talk to him and be like "I really like you and you've been acting shy latley..whanna talk about it?" Hopefully he'll open up and talk. :)
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Q: does n e one know good ways to relive stress...i've been through a lot latley and i would like to know if there was n e thing i could do to help myself get over it!
MUCH THXZ
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Go to a party, hang out with friends...the beach is relaxing..sex is a really good stress-reliever but if your only like 12 or something dont do it...but if you have a bf/gf then yea lol
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Q: im a big christian. very religious--but the guy that i like, and likes me, is jewish. i know that sounds dumb, but seriously, i dont know how my parents would feel. what should i do if he asks me out?
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First talk to your parents. You guys arent getting married..Just going out..so I'm pretty sure they wont mind. I think you should go for it, but dont bring up religion when you guys are talking because that'll start fights and stuff. But if your parents disapprove just be friends..and flirt l0l
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Q: heyy.. i just rote bout tha xanga.. well yeah.. i tried.. and it worked.. but like.. only when im editing it.. like.. it doesnt do it when people look at it though.. look.. its thys.. www.xanga.com/LyTtLe_hUnNy_bUnZ can u look at it and tell me if u hear anythyng? cuz yea.. or tell me how to make it where people can hear it?
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I dont hear anything. If you trust me enough with your password I can do it for you. You can always change your password after I do it for you too..just aim me at sherry7pchik if u want to
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Q: im a 15 year old girl and i rub my vagina every day intil i orgasm...is there something rong with me?
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Nope, a lot of girls do that. I heard Its actually better than sex plus more safer. So nothings wrong with you. Dont worry! And the reason why you havent heard of girls doing it is cuz girls dont talk about it...but guys do cuz u know guys are guys
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Gender: Female Member Since: August 11, 2004 Answers: 2243 Last Update: November 9, 2020 Visitors: 124972
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