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Hey everyone. My name is Bianca and I am here to actually help you. I've delt with alot of stuff with school friends family and relationships and so much more. And so I think I can really help people. I guess you can all me The Dr. corny I know but hey its true.



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E-mail: queenbianca2004@yahoo.com
Gender: Female
Location: Florida
Occupation: Student
Age: 16
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Member Since: June 9, 2004
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Last Update: August 11, 2008
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ok well my friend went with guy ill call a and well they didnt work out b/c she didnt feel the attraction but the problem is i think im starting to really like him but not only does he know my brothers but he also went out with one of my friends and i dont know if he likes me help

Toughy. Well your brothers are going to always be there for every boyfriend so stop worring about that. About your friend. if you really like him talk to your friemnd. you should see how shee feels about him and if she has no fellings towards him then tell her how you feel about him. Se how it goes heproblay likes you too. I hope I helped you.


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I was wondering, is it bad to eat cough drops even when you don't have a cough? In what ways?
Because I have a cough now, but when it's done and I don't actually need to use the cough drops, I still like to eat them. So my main question is, Could this hurt me and if so how?

it cant really hurt you. you just get so used to them that they stop helping the cold because your insides just think its a peice of candy even when you really need it. So try not to have them as much so they can help when you need them to. I hope I answered your question

Bianca

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is it wrong to have a crush on someone younger by 2 year
i female 13
he male 11

absoutly not. Its not a crime. you could have a crush on a 38 year old man. but in that case you couldnt date him. Just whatever you do dont let what other people say interfear in what you think of him because he moght like you to. Hope I helped

Bianca

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ok so i go on holiday on the 25th of july. i am skinny but i want to lose weight on the top part of my legs. can any one help me? will i have to change my diet?
ill rate high for good answers.

Hi. Honestly you shouldnt be on a diet. I weigh 90 lbs and Im 14. I have huge thihgs for a little girl. Every once in a while I worry but if your into guys there into that because you at least have a little bit of meet. So just dont worry about it. I hope I helped you.

Bianca

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Me and my old not quite boyfriend got in a fight because i had hickys on my neck and i said they were from one of my g/fs and he found out i wAs lying and he wont talk to me.. Should i give him a call and tell him im sorry? Or what should i do i miss him.. And i made a huge mistake..

Well first off if you know he cares for you never lie again. Second its not your fault. you wernt bf ang gf. To prevent this from happening again tell him you are sorry. And explain to him thatyou didnt know that you guys cared for eachother so much and now that you do talk to him about a comitment and becoming more than friends with bennifites. Catch my drift???...
well good luck to you and 9 hoe I helped


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i know that its really silly but when i was younger my mum could never afford to buy me a bike. Now that i am 17 i have just bought one and dont know how to ride it help!!

Hey its ok if you have a little brother or sister or fam or even neighbor give it to thm they will enjoy it.Or try try to ride it . you might have more fun then you think. hope I helped

Bianca

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ok here's the thing,
ok i'm going out with this one girl & she is madly in love with me. see i love her too but.... i also love this other girl that i've went out with. but she broke up with me. so wat do i do?
SOMEONE HELP A POOR DUDE OUT PLZ!




-thanks


Lots of times ppl are in the same situation. I was. I was so obssed with my boyfriend Josh. he liked me alot too but his sis (my bf ) got in the way. Well after we broke up I spent the night at her house like a moth later. I found outr he still liked me and the girl he dated after me. Well what Im trieng to say is stick with the one you have. Unless you know the other girl stiil feels for you. then you see who you really care for. do somethibg fast befor all 3 of you have broken hearts. I really hope I helped you!!!!

always
Bianca

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ok so my volleyball has invited the team over for a sleepover for a celebration. Im not sure if i wanna go or not. I mean the grls are really nice and we all get along and i wouldnt mind going, but the thing is i dont really know the coach well enough where i would feel comfterble with sleeping over there. But i want to. So sould i just go over there but not sleep over or what?
plz help!
i rate high.

Thats something you will have to decide. But I think that you should have like a good friend hang out with afriend at the party or get to know your coach a little better. O r you can go to the party and by the end of the night if you feel comfterable enough you can stay the night. Thats what I would probably do. I hope I helped and plz rate.

Always,
BiAnCa

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Ive been using this instant sunless tanner by NO-AD. It's in color medium and works fantastically. Im currently just using it on my bod but would like to tan my face as well. But I fear considering how delicate my face is (I break out easily) Im not sure if I should risk it. Has anyone else use a tanner oh their face? Any advice? I rate. :)

i DONT USE TANNING LOTION BECAUSE i AM SPANISH SO i AM DARK. bUT I am pretty sure its not that safe. I think you should ask a doctor or your mom or ne one who knows lots about that stuff. Its more a safty issue. Besides I could of sworn they makethe tanning lotion for the face so if it gets in your eyes or something its like a minor thing. i hope i helped Plz rate me

always,
BiAnCa

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Would Express clothing store hire a guy?? I was shopping there and really like their clothes... and I figure if I worked there I would get a really nice discount.

Well Im guessing yes because if they didnt hire you bc your a guy its sexist. An thats against the law. I hope I hrlped you plz rate me

always,
BiAnCa

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me and my boyfriend just broke up and i really cared for him and he wants to be friends and i am but i know what i did was wrong and i hurts so bad and i just cant get over him no matter what i just dont know i mean yeah i understand why we broke up and everything but it is just really hard even though we lasted 2 months and i just want to know how can i get over my feelings for him even though we are friends and stuff like that? it feels so weird not to meet him after class and i am so use to him walking with me but pllz help me really what can i do to get over him?

Hey I guess were both in the same boat. my boyfriend just broke up with me lke a week ago and it is hurting me so bad and Im so scared to talk to him. You just need to sit down and tell him how you still feel because he could be feeling the same way so i hope I helped


always,
BiAnCa

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15/f ok this is like 3 quesions but plz give me a good answer lol

1. What are signs of infection down there?
2. How can i avoid these infections?
3. What different types are there?

thanks to those who help :)

Lucky I read your questions because my mom is like a doctor and she knos all about this stuff. To answer our first question... It can be scabs flakes burning itching reddining and it will usually be noticeable or you will feel it. To avoid these infections would to be to not have unpretected sex. Always use a condom no matter what. TRUST ME LOOK UP SEXUAL TRANSMITTED DISEASES ON THE WEB AND THE PICURES WILL MORTIFY YOU!!! That is the best way to avoid getting them. To answerr yor third question... Theres aids gonarea std crabs herpes and so much more lots can lead to death. and ewww its terrible. Well I hope your safe and I hope I helpefd you. I fyou like my advice You can get more if you e-mail me at queenbianca2004@yahoo.com


always,
BiAnCa

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Well me and my 2 other friends are going to the movies and then shopping for an hour. I dont get any pocket money so I asked my mom to give me some money so I can buy things when were shopping. And she says "No, because were running out of money" But she always says I cant buy things because were running out of money, and seriously I need proof that were running out of money. All my friends are bringing at least $50 and im going to be left out...Please help...

Ok I can relate to you. I love to be out on the weekends. And I love the moves. Its six bucks to buy a movie ticket and I only get 5. Its really hard to keep asking my friends. The way I solved my problem is by doing better in school working and doing tasks for my family and only going places every other weekend. I no it sux but parents think we should only get it when we deserve it. Your mom problbly teels you that because she just dont feel like giving you money. What I do is I ask for like 10 or 15 dollars and after a while if Im good I get more so try to sweet talk your parents



hope I helped and if you like my advice I can give you more if you e-mail me at queenbianca2004@yahoo.com

always,
BIaNcA

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a while ago this guy that i used to like found out that i liked him and he said that to him he just considers me as a good friend and he said that he liked this other girl.(shes in my p.e. class) now he ignores me and avoids me like if i'm invisible. well once in a while he'll say hi. so i decided to move on since he probably isn't the one for me and when i see him flirting with other girls it gets me upset. like today he asked the girl(the one he likes) out and she said yes. and it just gets me depressed. right when i think i'm over him he pops up in my head and i get really upset. what should i do? how can i get over it?

Listen I had the same exact problem. But the boy I liked would try to do stuff with me but then go to another chick. Yor going to have to try and move on. If the love is true, hell come to you! I moved on and now i am way better bc now I have a great boyfriend and the other boy tries to flirt and he knows he cant ne more and HES JEALOUS so try and move on bc I bet there are other better people looking at you and feel the same way towards you.!!!!

I hope I really helped you and if you need more help Wb


always,
BiAnCa

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I really want to buy a vibrator... but I don't know where to go. I am 16 years old, and do not want one shipped to me, I want to go to a store. I was wondering, do I have to go to a sex store or are there any other stores that sell them?

~Kristin

Hey well they dont sell thm to minors no matter what. Nd if they do DONT GET IT IT AINT GOOD. So like get an adlut or wit try Spencers in the mall....
hope I helped But just to let you know a vib can mess with your horomone and sex will be lame

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I have this in school and I would consider her one of my best friends. She has a boyfriend and I really like her boyfriend. I don't know what to do. I have asked some of my friends that don't know her but they tell me the same thing, don't do anything. I wouldn't want to lose her as a friend so I won't do anything. But know what if they break up and he likes me? do I go out with my best friends ex-boyfriend??

thanx

Last summer I went through a problem just like that.... Its long so scroll down to the last paragraph if you just want an answer and not a story!!!lmao

I went to my bff bday party and my friend was totally checking out my bfs bro. So I got them hooked up. Even though later that night I was gonna holla at him. But I always put my friends befor me. But I became insainly jealouse of there relationship and started having him over everyday during summer. Finally they broke up. Like 2 days later we started gonig out. After 3 days he was a coward and got his friend to break up with me. I didnt really care. But I lost my bff bc i went out w/ her bro. my other feriend and a bf in one summer.....
If I could go back I would. But now they go back out and I couldnt be happier for them. And all of us are friends again.

What Im trien to say is dont interfear if he likes you that much then he would go for you.

sorry solong I hope I helped!!!

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theres this one guy in my drama class that i used to like but then hes always talking or bothering me after or during class. how do i get him to stop? ignoring him doesn't seem to help...

Well mabye he likes you too. You need to try and talk to him and see what is going on...
hope I helped
Bianca


ps
if you have snymore questions you can e-mail me at queenbianca2004yahoo.com

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me and my bf have been together for a long time now. we haven't gone very far at all. he loves me and i love him but he is pressuring me into going further. i know for sure i don't want to because im not ready. im 14. i love him tho and i want to make him happy... what do i do? he respects me and everything so its not like he is like DO IT OR I WILL BREAK UP W/ YOU i can just tell he really wants to and he asks me if i will and stuff. sometimes he tries to do stuff and i tell him to stop but he keeps trying. later i talk to him about it and he says he jsut cant help it. ill rate

Well ok. I can se you and your bf are really into each other. But you moght wanna be very cautous. He can say its a guy thing but iif you not readdy the he needs to learn no. Also ..... be careful bc one day he moght not listen at all and he could rape you or do worse. But if you do something please please be protected!!!!

hope I helped

QUEENBIANCA2004

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im 14/f...and the hair that i have above my upper lip has gotten really dark and noticeable...its embarassing...my mom says not to shave it, im scared to get it waxed, it hurts when you pluck it, and well is there anything else?!

Hey,

YES its ok. I have the same thing. See I am hispanic so I get really hairy. Just go to Wal-Mart and look for upper lip nair. all it is is a lip cream. Put it on for 4 minutes then get a wet warm towel and wipe it off. it really works. But make sure to read the directions. DONT SHAVE IT!! I have a friend who shaved hers and now she shaves like a man. And waxing doesnt hurt too much after your used to it. And tweesing is only if you have like 2 hairs. So I hope I helped...

QUEENBIANCA2004

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Dear Advice People Givers:

Hey! Ok, I'm confused. See, I'm 14 & I wanna do something REALLY bad! Like see, here's the thing though.. I'm not really sure how to kiss a guy though.. I mean.. when I got my 1st kiss, it wasnt at all wat I wanted it 2 be. It was kinda one of those "in the moment" type deals. I kno I'm just 14 but is that 2 young? And is there a "wrong" way to kiss some1? Please help. I rate 5's to anybody. So you could say something like, "Sup?" and I'd still rate you, but PLEASE give advice!!

-Stephanie-

Well hey,
No its not wrong to kiss a boy. I got my first kiss when I was 13. It was a great thing but now I wanna do more. If theres a someone out there you really wanna kiss just go for it. I hope I helped!


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