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okay ive known these girls for a very long time but this year we started to be best friends. we always did stuff with each other and had sleepovers every weekend. but lately they both have been getting mad at each other and they both turn to me to either invite over without the other or for advice. i feel uncomfortable because i don't want to get in the middle and i want to keep both for friends. i want to be as close as we used to be. how do i make that happen? help! (link)
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spend time with each seperatly they may not get along but if you do there is no use throwing away a good friendship plus why are they mad at each other maybe if you try to solve the problem or atleast figure out what happened you can mend ur friendship.hope i helped!
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okm my best friend is mad at me because im goin out wth this guy that i really like alot and she thinks im making a big mistake.
should i break up with him or will she gradually begin to stand by with me and my decision (link)
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your friends tend to know you the best why does she dislike him talk to her about it and if shes just worried about you id think about it but if you really like the guy then i say stick with it for a while but guys come and go if shes a really good friend make sure you hold on to those theyre hard to find. hope i helped!
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is it normal to get a cold in the summer? because i think i have one i have a really soar throat and my nose is sooo stuffy! also what can i do to help get my nose unstuffed? (link)
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alot of people do its perfectly normal go to ur local drug store and look for some antibiotics for your nose or ask someone like a friend for a good brand that helped them. hope i helped!
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Does shaving your legs make your skin rough and make the hair grow darker? I've been using many other products like exfoliators that don't work, and my parents refuse to buy me a hair removal cream because of the excess of chemicals. I want to shave my legs, but I don't want the hair to be coarse and dark. Is this a myth? Should I shave? My hair is already really dark, because I have black hair... (link)
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it can get darker and thicker but if you shave often enough it wont matter just shave when ut starts to grow back and get darker . hope i helped!
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well see last year i had a HUGE crush on this guy and then i stopped liking him because i thought i could nva happen. Then at the end of the school year he started walked with me to my math class everyday and i started and still do talk to him online for hours and we talk about everything. then the other night he sleptover in my brothers room and right in front of my brother we were fliritng iwth each other unitl 3 in the morning then the next moring he tried to wake me up by thrwoing things at me and we chilled until his mom came to pick him up. but the problem is hes one of my brothers best firends..do you think he likes me? or that anything would happen between the two of becausehes my brothers friend? (link)
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i think that reguardless if he hangs with your bro that you should atleast try to get a friendship out of it and who knows that friendship could lead to something more. hope i helped!
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iok yesterday i went to my friends house and she told me there was a guy that looked like a guy that i used to like and had the name of my ex. so i wanted to see him.. nothin else. but then my friends cousin hooked us up and i dont even noe the guy i would have said no but her cousin told him i liked him. the problem is he is 20 and i am well 14.. he didnt care about the age but i have a clsoe guy friend that i like a lot we are planning to hook up we just have to find a way to see each other more. (he lives 15 min. away) and my friend is 15.. i want to give this guy a chance because he was all sweet to me but i think the only reason why he asked me out was 4 my looks. but we were taking pictures and he had his hands all over me and he didnt even noe me. here is what i would like to noe:
*should i give him a chance? if not how can i break it to him but still wanting to get to noe him better?
*should i tell my guy friend about this?
i want to tell my guy friend but he thinks i dont like him which isnt true i tell him i like all the time and he does the same to me..
thanks! (link)
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i wouldnt hes 20 ur 14 he may not care about the age thing but alot of people who care about you will and just tell him the age thing is just too weird for you and that hes moving to fast bc hes all touchy feely i dont see why its any of the other guys business but if you want to tell him go ahead and if u know he likes you and you like him make the first move were capable of askign guys out too just tell him how you truely really feel. hope i helped!
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what age/grade will your friends start to act more mature, and start being more than just someone to laugh with. you know, when will it be easier to find that one true friend, cause i'm pretty young, and i dont think anyone is that mature enough that they are the kind of friend that will give you a shoulder to lean on when your sad, or you can call anytime just 2 talk, you know that kind of stuff. does anyone know what age> (link)
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usually when you enter middle school you start to make the friends who are always there for you towards high school though is when you really know who you can and cant trust just be careful who you hang with people have a tendancy to change if its a guy friend though wait until highschool they tend to take longer than girls. hope i helped!
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Hello. I am 14 years old, and have secretly been cutting for 3 years. I have never told anybody before, but I am wondering if I should. Would it be in my best interest to get help?
I have a lot of trouble trusting people,though.
Any advice would be appreciated.
Thanks (link)
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yes you should tell someone cutting isnt good your addicted if youve been at it for 3 years there are sooooo many other ways to get over stress or depression besides causing yourself pain that may leave scars fine someone who has always been there for you and you should consult someone like a doctor or your parents your parents love you theyre there to take care of you because they love you and want whats best for you. hope i helped!
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hey, so me and this guy want to be kind of like friends with benefits and do stuff but not sex you know so if i gave him head would i have to use a condom? he has gotten head from 2 other girls and for both of them it was their first time and i have never given it before and yeah anyt tips? can he really have any stds? i hear guys dont like it with condoms so what should i do (link)
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u cant get pregnant or anything from giving head but you could get an std if you dont want to take the risk of getting an std than dont do anything!hope i helped!
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There is this guy that was my best friend last year. We always used to do stuff together and have fun but over the summer he got distant. At the beginning of the school year, it was fine. But then we stopped seeing each other for awhile becuase we weren't in any of the same classes. I always waved to him in the hall and sometimes he waved, others he gave me a dirty look and walked away. He has changed a lot, now he is very selfish and goes for girls by there looks. He is mean to mostly everyone and he changed so much. At the beginning of the year i had a crush on him and he understood but he wouldn't go out with me because i wasn't pretty enough. Now he won't even be my friend anymore. I miss him sooooo much how do i get him back? I'm sick of crying over him. (link)
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guys can be the biggest jerks if he doesnt want to be your friend anymore dont worry and get over that pathetic waste of a guy if hes so shallow hes only into appearance and has an attitude problem you dont want to waste your time with him. ever heard of a thing called karma? well i think that eventually this will all catch up with him hand hes gonna end up all alone just dont dwell on it and try to make some new guy friends. Hope i helped!
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ok i just got back from my 5 day cheer camp and we stunted almost 24/7 and i am really sore! i've taken advil to try to get it to go away but it doesn't seem to be working! i can barely walk and pick things up its so bad! what are some good ways that you guys use to help the soreness go away? thanx! (link)
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rest your body has been over worked if you can stretch before you go to bed and when you get up that will cause you the least pain but if you cant do that than i suggest talking to your mom about going to the doctors there could be something serious like a pulled muscle or something just dont over work yourself!
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Can i ask seriously. When people come on this. Do they answer questions genuinely to help people and hopefully help them through a tough patch or whatever; or do they do it for ratings? It makes me mad when you see a confused person askin a serious question; only for it to be answered by someone. Who at the end makes it obvious(or seemingly) that they don't care byu saying "please rate"Ok i know they jus want acknowledgement and appreciation. But if the person is willing to or want to im sure they will. Why do you ask or say things like this? I really don't know so any answers are appreciated.
Anthony (link)
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some people think the advice columns are a huge joke i for one take it pretty serious when i answer a question or i dont answer it. if i dont know what to say to someones questions i dont say anything i do get high ratings however but i dont ask for them just trying to give genuine unique advice if you have any other questions please ask them and ill try to answer the best i can. hope i helped!
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Last night I slept over one of my best friend Maries house and we were just talking and stuff, but then we didnt even ask we just started to do sexual stuff and saying dirty stuff, kind of, like half laughing it off. Im a girl. And so we fingered eachother and rubbed eachothers boobs. It felt really good. But, I wanted a guy to be there with us more than anything. Im confused. What was last night? Am I a lesbian? Or bi? Or straight ?? Im confused. And is last night normal for 14 year old girls to do? (link)
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if ur still into guys your atleast straight maybe bi if you have emotional feelings towards any girls then yea ur bi dont worry guys dig that and im 14 too for people now in 2005 yea its pretty normal just dont worry your only 14! hope i helped!
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what is STD? i have seen people write about it on here and i don't know what it is is it short for aids? or something? (link)
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sexually transmitted disease like aids hiv etc. just make sure if you get involved w/ someone know that they are clean and be safe! hope i helped!
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Hi,
I have a problem with this guy i like. i don't know if he likes me but my friend told him i like him. i never said anything. i did find out that they do im each other and talk about me. she said he will ask me out but i don't know. then he finally asked me out. i said yes. the next day i found him making out with my sister. i walked over to him and i said excuse me? then he ran away. we havn't spoken for 3 days. what should i do? i am 15 and a female. please help me. (link)
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alot of guys do things out of pity bc they feel sorry for you dont accept pity or cheaters they cheat drop them like a hott tamale they odviously dont care about you if they are making out with your sister guys can really suck sometimes but dont get stuck with losers like that you know that you can do better! hope i helped!
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What is the best energy drink to buy besides red bull? Does starbucks double shot give you alot of energy? (link)
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monsters are really really good my sister and i love them you may or may not like them experiment and find something sutable for your taste!
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I was just wondering what to say to my boyfriend he is 18, to compliment him. Without making him feel weird. Like he always says im beautiful and things like that, but I always wonder how I can make him feel as special as he makes me feel but without making him feel like less of a man or somthing like that...any idea? thank you (link)
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my friends boyfriend is 18 too if theres something about his physical appearance you just love compliment him say hes got amazing eyes or you love his smile or humor guys love it when they get compliments as much as we do! hope i helped!
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k so like the other day there were like these 2 guys n they came over to tell me about there religen and stuff n they were like jehovan witneses and i was like screw you n my mom got really made and shes makin me go 2 there church n stuff even tho im like totally not diggin that whole religen thing n stuff i m like a relly ahrdcore satanist n stuff and they shouldnt be like pushin this religen stuff on me right??? am i like wrong for this? (link)
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religion is something we choose that cannot be forced upon us if you feel like church isnt for you than church isnt for you no1 can live your life for you or make decisions for you. hope i helped!
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Ok, i had a boyfriend and we were totally in love, but we barely saw eachother (once or twice a month) because we both went to different schools and were in all honors and ap classes (aka TONS of hw). In the end he ended up breaking up with me because "I love you, but i really cant b attached to someone right now." We still ended up being best friends, but about a week ago he told me that he had never told his mom about us breaking up, and i asked him y. He told me that it was because he still loved me (after 2 months), and that he could never take down the picture of us that i gave him for valentines. We're going to the same school next year, and he wants to get back together then....should i go for it because i love him...or just not put the used gum back in my mouth? (link)
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see how things go when you get back to school who knows once your at school together you could have some classes together and get to see each other alot i think if he still loves you and you love him that you should go for it! hope i helped!
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their is this gurl that i met on the internet and i think i rlly love her im 13 and she 25 but she thinks im 21 she says she really loves me but we are supose to meet in a few days n i duno what 2 do if she rlly loves me it shouldnt matter that im like 13 right? plz help me. (link)
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if your lying its not you she loves its who your pretending to be she loves alot of the time one lie about your age can lead to a chain of lies and that just makes things worse be careful and if things get too out of hand block any way of speaking to her block sn and email its for your own good. hope i helped!
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