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Hiya! My name is Chi-Chi, and I'm really easy and good at talking to and making new friends. School means everythig to me because I hope to make it BIG! I Love GOD (yep...I'm a Catholic-Christian and proud of it!) and shopping at Abercrombie&Fitch, Hollister, Delia's, Urban Outfitters, American Eagle, Forever 21, H&M, Nordstrom, etc. just makes my day :) I'm exciting and crazy and act wacky at most times, but hey-I don't like to be boring. I'm also super random :) Having a good time is my specialty, and I enjoy cheering people up. I would say that I give good advice as well as many other people on this site. If you have any questions at all, feel free to ask and I'll answer ASAP. I really do love when I get messages in my inbox because I feel that I am up to the job to answer your question the best way possible. Well...enjoy my site, and make sure to tell others about it. I'm outty. PEACE.
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I'm 22, my boyfriend's 24 and we've been going out for 2 yrs. After the first year the dating had significantly decreased. He's excellent about calling me everyday as if we were married! However he has this thing about not taking me out and I've sorta broken it off with him before last summer about it and he begged me for another chance. He still seems to cling to the notion that he doesn't want to spend the night defending me and worrying about me. Nowadays it's starting to take it's toll about how i feel. I know he loves me but why doesn't he want to take me out? Friday and Saturday nights he works in club management, then he calls me over to his house about once a week, we're intimate, it's cool, we hang out but that's it! I brought up how i felt recently and he says he's been (for 3 weeks) looking at various gov't job offers I understand he's busy and I'm a busy too! but as the saying goes: if u want something bad enough you'll make time for it right? (and i don't mean booty calls) I was hoping I could get advice on how to go about getting some chivalry back into the relationship!
From my opinion, I think that if he's s busy then you should call him to arrange a date and tme for when you guys could go out. A very romantic thing for you to do on that date is maybe take if to the places of your first date, or just set up a romantic picnic along the beach or something with candles and sweet scents. I wish you the best of luck!
Do colleges look at just your last 4 years of high school? Or do they go beyond that?
Hey. Well, there are really good colleges that look at like 2 years of your highschool (Sophmore & Junior mainly), the classes you take, your scores on your SATs and SAT 2s, internships, etc. But they don't look into your Middle School years or whatever. I hope I helped!
I went on a blind date today and it didnt excactly turn out the way I wanted it to. Well for starters, I had agreed to meet him at a local coffee shop with the couple that set us up. He was late and when he did show up he didnt look too happy when he saw me for the first time. He didnt offer to buy me anything to drink or eat, and the whole time we ended up talking about his friends or his business. He didnt ask me any questions about me or my personal life or interests, which indicated that he wasnt too crazy about me. We all talked for about a half hour, and when the couple the introduced us had to leave, my date looked at his watch and said he had to go. He never offered me his number or asked for mine. He actually looked like he couldnt wait to get out of there. The other couple looked surprised and thought we would have stayed longer. My friend (the wife of the other couple) I think felt bad and invited me over to her place afterwards.
Is it just me, or was my blind date really rude? I don't understand what I did to make him act like this, the whole time I was polite and engaged him in conversation.
Any feedback will be appreciated. I rate high!
No worries-you're date was totally a rude jerk. I mean, even if you guys didn't have any interest in one another, he could of at least asked about you instead of ranting about his personal business. Don't worry-you did nothing wrong...just don't be bent up about the whole ordeal. I hope I helped!
Okay tonight i was suposed to go see a movie with my boyfriend and some of his friends. By the way Im 15 and hes 16. The movie was rated R and I told him to get his parents to go ahead and get them in advance. But he didnt take my advice we get there and we buy tickets to another movie. Well then the movie i wanted to see ... they were checking ticket. Now Im pissed because I really wanted to see this movie and Me & my bf were the only 2 who didnt get in. He should have listened to me right??
Should I really be this pissed?
Hey. Well, I think you were totally right. If he had listened to you then yeah, you guys would have got to watch the movie. But hey-it's over and you've got to forget about it. What's done is done, and you definitely can't change the past. ITS NOT GOOD TO HOLD GRUDGES! He made a careless mistake...don't hate him just for that. Forgive him now, and he'll learn from his mistake, so that the next time he'll actually listen to you. I hope I helped!
what are some reasons (good please i have to write a paper for english) that teenagers think they are old enough to face the challenges of parenthood?
Hey. Well, this is a really interesting topic to write about-you're lucky. You're right, teens do feel like they can relate better to their child because of close age which is usually true since what their child is going through, they can help them out because they've probably been through it.
Teenager also believe that they are mature enough to face the challenges of parenthood because they think they're grown. It's like most of them (us teens-but I'm nowhere close to pregnancy) are extremely hard-headed and stubborn that they'll block out all the negative factors of getting pregnant at such a young age, and they'll have a child to prove everyone wrong who had doubts in them, and they'll fail at raising a child on their own anyway...which is why they get help from a parent, pregnancy home, etc. Teens also have children at young ages for someone to love them since they don't have love.
I hope I helped!
I love living where I do but my mother wants to move away. Not far, but where I am I can walk right into town and I like that. The area is really nice too. I'm not leaving behind my friends or anything as I will stay at the same school and I have a couple of friends living in the town my mum wants us to move to. It's also walking distance from the train station.
Basically, it's not too bad but I can't feel good about it because I really do love this area. Does anyone have any tips for making the move happier/making me see all the good points of it?
I say that you think of all the negative things of the area that you're living in now that you're about to move away from. This helps me in scenarios kind of like this because if I really want something or what somethings to stay the same and not change but I have no control over the situations, I think of its negative points because that way I won't feel like it was that good anyway. You can also visit that area when you like since where you're moving to is not far away. I hope I helped
Well , i really like this guy in 7th grade, but the thing is I'm in 8th grade. I don't really know him that well but i really like him.
I know him well enough to like ask him out, but i dont want to yet.
I know some of my friends would give me a hard time about it but i know his friends wouldn't.
Should i ask him out or not?
I rate high for help
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>torn
You shouldn't pay any attention as to what negative doubts your friends have to say about your relashionship with him. If you like him, then go for it. Your friends don't think for you, you do. Who cares if they don't approve of it. You are an independent person, and you can't let them make dicisions for you. I hope I helped!
I'm a 27 year old female.For the first time in a long while I'm actually happy to be single. I have my own appartment and a part time job, and was thinking that if I was dating someone I probably couldnt affort to have all the nice things like movies, cd's, and nice furniture, because I would be spending it on my bf. I was also thinking how nice it is not to have the responsiblility of looking after children. A lot of the ladies I work with at the store have kids and they are always so stressed out. I have it made- I only answer to myself and can come and go as I please. The money I make is spent on myself and doesnt go to pay for anyone else.
I am selfish for feeling like this? And is it just I phase? I want to have a family SOMEDAY, just not now. I'm having too much fun!!
I definitely don't think that you're being selfish at all. If you feel fantastic being single, then that's great. Not everyone enjoys being dependent. You're an independent person, and that's totally fine. When your time comes for you to be in a commited relshionship in which you have kids, you will. Nobody is rushing you into anything, and you shouldn't be hard on yourself about it. Live freely until you feel you want a soul mate and loving children in your life...it does feel good knowing that you don't have responsibility over others or that you're free of stress. I wish you the best of luck!
I cant tell if im just falling hard or im in love...I really like this guy..hes all i think about..I go crazy on the days i dont see him and i do nothing all day cause im thinking about him. He makes me nervous when im around him and the little things that he says can either make my whole day make me really upset. You know if its a cute comment it makes my whole day and vs aerus. (sp) . I cant picture myself with anyone else but him and i dont like anyone but him , i have turned down guys cause i like him and it seems no one compares to him. Anything bad that about is just goes over my head and i dont notice it. So heres the part im confused about..am i in love or is it just a crush..plz HELP im realy confused!
ILL rate 5
Telling by these signs, you are totally in love. I mean, if he's all you can think about and the little things he says and does either make you or breaks you, then it is definitely not some little elementary school crush. It's not even puppy love. It's true, pure love that is special and delicate, meaning that it shouldn;t be manipulated or played with. What I
m saying is that because you have such a great love for him, you should ask him out or something because he seems like the one and you don't want him to get away without you even trying because trust me-you'll regret it. I wish you the best of luck, and I hope you find true love with him and that everything works out for you!
hey everyone. need some help.. well im goin to a party tonight for a friend who moved away but is in town now.. i dont know if this is just like a chill party or like dancin. you know? so i was thinkin of just jeans and a cute top.. but now i dont know bout hair.. i was thinkin either a cute messy bun or completely straight. anymore ideas.. the outfit is not dressy so nothing dressy. if you could give me a link too that'll be great
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--tosha
A messy bun would work. Or you could wear your hair straight or in a ponytail. Either way, if it's a dance party, your haair will be held up to keep it out of the way while you're dancing, or if it's a chill-out and relax party, it would be an effortlessly and cute look...and you don't want to try so hard. I hope I helped!
what perfume is out that smells good?
Well, I have the "Very Sexy For Her" perfume from Victoria's Secret, and it smells really good. It's a hot pink color, and costs $22. This is for a good price because it has a lot of perfume in it...trust me, I know! I hope I helped!
when do american eagle usually have sales on their hoodies? and how much are they usually at?
Well, American Eagle has sales once and a while. They really have sales most of the times but on different things, but they also have clearance sections where hoodies and other things are on sale. You can go to this website (American Eagle Website)":
www.ae.com
I hope I helped!
Alright my family has a really hard time with fighting. When i was little it would get so bad it would become physical. Just a fiew nights ago it became physical again but thats beside the point. I was wondering if you guys had any tips on how I could keep my temper down towards my parents.. Is there anything I could do to control it?
This environment that you're in is not healthy for you. Physical fighting in your own home is the main cause why you have this uncontrolable temper. You probably can't control the fighting of your family because that's how they behave, but you can try and lessen it and calm them down. You've got to teach them though because it seems that they can't fight without being physical and that's horrible because you're not finding a solution to the problem. Get it thorugh them that they can't solve a problem without using their hands. If a problem comes up, instead of them all bickering at once, they can take time one-by-one and tell their side of the story. Therfore, you guys can reach concensus, in which you guys form 1 agreement, about how to solve the problem. Also, whenever a fight comes up or someone gets angered, that person or persons can seperate from eachother and just go outside and get some fresh air for a while. It will help them calm down and clear their head of negative thoughts. Make sure that no one goes to bed mad. Squash the situation first, because then they'll feel relieved and can have a good nights sleep. This is not impossible. This can work if everyone has the drive to participate...you just have to store it into them I hope that everything works out for you and your family and I hope I helped!
Well as usual.. Me n this guy like each other... AlOT!!! like alot alot! && well me n him are really into each other but we go to 2 diff. high schools. We talk alott butt I have been grounded nhaven't been able to. I know he still really cares for me, but how can we make this work until I get ungrounded?! Please help! Give me any other advice as you want.
You and this guy sure do have something special. Going to different hig schools is hard because you don't get to see echother as often as you like, especially when you're grounded. Maybe you can change anything. Maybe you can't see him everyday. So what. You shouldn't turn such a special relashioship away just because it isn't fitting the both of your needs. If you do end this, you will regret it, and you don't want to take that chance because that feeling is horrible. Make it work! Try not getting into trouble so that you guys can see eacother more. Also, you guys could set up special dates when you guys have the time. That would keep a good vibe between you two. I hope eveything works out for you and I hope I helped!
I am known as a tease! && I hate that rep! How can I change it?!? Becasue I am losing alot of my good friends over it.
If you don't want that rep, then you'll have to prove it to people. Many guys don't like to be teased because they're not into the whole "Playing hard to get" thing that women love to do. But saying that you're not a tease won't be enough. You've got to show them. Try and stay commited to a guy. DON'T BE A TEASE OR PLAY HARD TO GET! I'm not saying that you have to be easy either Stand you grounds. But you shouldn't just pick any guy to show people otherwise, because then you're playing with their hearts. You know what they say...Actions speak louder than words. I hope I helped!
im really confused right now. i went to be last night knowing that my boyfriend loves me im making good money and im doing good in school. but this morning i woke up and my heart, not like litterally like i was having a heart attack. but like someone had broken my heart and i was very confused and i havent really figured it out. its like all day i couldnt smile i couldnt find a reason too. when my boyfriend called me i was very short with him and kinda rude. and whenever he'd say he loves me i was just like o ya love you too. and thats not me. im usually totally lovey dovey. im really afraid he is going to think somehthink somethings up and i dont want him too because there isnt anything wrong with us at ALL. I just dont get it :-/. im really thinking its because my dads five year reunion is coming up not like a high school or friendship reunion but the reunion of his death. and it seems like its always harder when its a 1 year or 5 year or 10 year anniversary you know...so this year im really sad. this whole month has been horrible. everything i think about makes me cry music makes me cry, laughing makes me cry and work makes me cry. my heart hurts so bad its like aching...its horrible how do i make it go away...uhhhh what do i do? why do i hurt like this? gezze this sucks.........
I think that you're hurting because you don't feel complete. Having a boyfiend who loves you, making good money, and doing good in school is not enough for you. You're dad's dead and you miss him. That's regular. You're a person who expresses love, and you are thirsty for more. You can't take away the pain fully, but you sure can relieve it for as long as you want. You need to be around loved ones right now that are positive and that won't break you down. I'm sure if you're father were still alive, he wouldn't want to see his daughter hurting like this. You've got to stay optomistic, not only for your family or your father, but for yourself. That's the main thing that will help you recover. Keep your father in you heart, mind, body, and soul. Reminise over the good times you had with him. If you can't remeber it's o.k. Don't beat yourself up about it. Maybe you could ask your mother or someone else that was close to him, and talk over the goods things about your father. Don't push your boyfriend away. You both need eachother right now. If he's there to comfort you, you will have a good abundance of support, which will keep you going. Keep you head up, and try and think only good thought. You may not get it at first, but along the way you'll realized that you're dad wanted you to be happy. I hope I helped!
ok well here it iz..i have been going out w/ my bf 4 a month now n i really do like him its just that he always wants 2 b w/ me n he gets mad if i go sumwhere w/out him or sum like that...well now my best friend wants 2 hang out because we didnt in such a long time even if we see each other in school every day its not the same u no, but wen i told my bf he said well i donno what about me?..ok i hate when people tell me what 2 do but i still hate 2 be mean and i dono what 2 do cuz my friend is mad at him since he is "controlling" like she says.!. ugh im confused i donno what 2 do but i dont wanna hurt either 1s feelings..hellp
You're friend's right. This guy is super controlling. You're caught up in pleasing him that you haven't realized it yet. I know you care for him very much and that you don't want to hurt his feelings, but this relashionship is not healthy. You've got to be your own person. You don;t have to do everything with him. You need to spend time with your friend, because special friendships like that will benefit you in life. But you also need to know that you can't please everyone. Tell it to your boyfriend straight that you want to be with him and you like spending time with him, but just not all the time. He's smothering you girl! You have to be able to be your own person, not someone controlled by her boyfriend. I say you tell your boyfriend that you want to have a social life too as well as being with him. If he's a good boyfriend and cares about you and your feelings, he'll understand! I hope that everything works out for you and I hope I helped!
16.f...My good guy friend, also on my tennis team with me, started to like me over the summer. He like talked to my bff about me, to find out if I liked him? Atleast that's all she could/would tell me. We went on like 2 dates to a movie a couple months ago but I decided I wasn't that into it. So, it's been a few months and I'm successfully tried to not talk to him as much so not to lead him on or anything. But I just found out that he still likes me hardcore-his friends call me and are like "do you like jared?" UGH it's just really annoying. So, now i really just don't like him in that way and now *partly bc of his friends calling me, who by the way i have never met* well, I just don't know what to do. I thought we had moved passed that but boy was I wrong. What should I do?!
I understand how you feel. The best direction for you to approach would be to just call up Jared and tell him that you don't like him like the way he likes you. If you explain to him that you want ot keep the friendship that you guys share, I'm sure he'll understand. You can't just get into a relashionship to fit the needs of someone else. You have to do what is right, because the #1 thing is for you to feel comfortable. If you don't want to be in a relashionship with him, ell him directly either face to face, calling him, etc. There;s no way him, his friends or anyone else can force you to be with him. I hope eveything works out for you the way you hope and I hope I helped!
Well, this is kind of confusing. My best guy friend (bob) have been friends since third grade. We can tell each other everything and we laugh all the time with each other. I have liked him on and off a lot. When I like him I try to tell myself "it will never work, and if we broke up would we be able to be friends"? Well he stayed the night (slept downstairs) and my friend Kaitlyn was over too. We kind of flirt a lot, you know push each other around, just that kind of stuff. Well I think we both like each other, it would be lying to say we didn't. DO you think it would be stupid to go out and ruin our friendship
I think that you should go for it. Yeah, you may have some doubts about having a boyfriend/girlfriend relashionship with him, but sometimes you just have to take risks even if it doesn't go your way. Don't walk away from having a relashionship just because of what you think what will happen in the future. Go by what's happening now-not later. It's obvious that you guys like eachother and you have already figured that out. Go out with him, you've got nothing to lose. I hope I helped and I hope everything works out for you!
i worte these peoms ,about mark and my best best best friend kayliegh .people are saying that hes cheating on her and they've been only at the time been going out for three days.mark swore that he wasnt but i never ever belived him i fallowed my gut and didnt trust him .people like casey is talking about how hes not and im saying he is she says she doesnt kno who to belive now so shes still going out with him .she asked mark if he was and he said no and she didnt even belive him im not sure what to do kick his ass or be there when mark breacks her heart i told her ill be there when he breacks it ill be there to pick up the peices
You are so right as to followig you gut because most of the time you turn out right. If you have the feeling that he's cheating on her, sick with that because if you ignore that possibility, it might be too late and he'll break her heart where it might not be fixxable. Ask references as to who might have seen him with other girls, and you could ask his friends, people in his classes, or people that live by him if he's cheating. I hope I helped and I hope that you find out the real truth!