Name is Layne, age is 17, occupation is babysitter. still answering questions on here even after 3 years is awesome, right? no, just proves i don't have a life. so. if you have a question, feel free to ask it on here or you can IM me on my screenname. i can answer most questions about the categories i have listed. i don't know much about sickness or physical health, or stuff to wear when your husband just died but the man who killed him, whom you're having an affair with, is going to be at the funeral. :) have a wonderful day.
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How is the best way to be on top? I want my boyfriend to be impressed with the way I move. (link)
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first off, do NOT move with your legs. it'll get uncomfortable and slightly painful. its all in the hips. practice moving your pelvis back and forth like you're beyonce or michael jackson. thats the basic movement while being on top.
hope i helped :)
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Hello ,
I am studying Romanticism , and I am not really understanding exactly , what this whole time period is about. Can anyone tell me all I need to know about this period? Some cool facts or what not.
Thank you so much ,
Betty (link)
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oohh the romanticism period was my absolute favourite in art history. what my teacher taught me was that it was a time in europe when everyone wanted to rebel against all the "generic" forms of art and have an emphasis on facial and body expressions and emotion. most of the works of art revolved around despair, depression, stress, and dying. some people, like myself, connect it also to the baroke(sp) period in art, where everything had emphasized movement and action, even though they were standing still.
henri fuseli created a piece called "the nightmare" in which a woman is asleep and a demon is straddling (or maybe even raping) her in her sleep. this was a romanticism piece in a sense that she is being tortured while in a place where there should only be peace.
and during the wartime in europe, most of the romanticism pieces pertained to that subject. sculptures were of women and children dying and starving, and men were being attacked or were injured and weak. its very interesting once you find inspiration in it.
i hope i helped :) and if you have anymore questions, feel free to ask.
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I'm 16 years old and i'm 5' 5". How much do you think I can grow if I eat properly and stretch? And what kind of stretches can give me more height? (link)
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what age did you start your period? when girls start their periods, they usually only grow about 2-3 more inches and then stop. my sister started at age 10, so she's not gonna get much taller than 5'0. i started at 14, so i'm pretty tall. it also depends on genetics, as well. are your parents tall? grandparents?
5'5" is probably the perfect height, anyway, so you shouldn't be concerned with being taller. i was that height when i was your age.
take care
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When yoiur done with your period is it normal to cramp badly? If not what can that be? (link)
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i've found it normal for diarrhea to occur during or after my period. this can result in menstrual like cramps. also, your body may be trying to get rid or leftover blood, or just might feel sore from cramping during the period in itself.
but if it still concerns you, go talk to your doctor.
take care :)
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For some reason, I am unable to sleep. I roll around in bed for hours until its time to go to school and I feel miserable all day, unless I've had coffee or something to give me a buzz. But I don't quite crash from it either. I just don't get sleepy. Is there any reason why?
I don't believe I'm particuarly stressed either, but I'm pretty much a slacker and ignore a lot of my school work. The only real work I can do is just writing random things for myself.
Would it help to mention that over summer vacation, I pulled several allnighters or normally stayed up until 4 or 5 in the morning? I need help, please! I really need some sleep! This has been happening for about two years now, I believe, but it's really bad this time around. (link)
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this is a mental disorder called insomnia. and it can be caused by stress or depression or bipolar disorder. you may be stressing from not getting enough sleep. have you had any other symptoms? like weird eating habits or sadness? maybe loss of interest? how about high moods, like you're really happy one day and really sad or angry the next? this could be a number of things, but i can't diagnose you.
what i would do if i were you is talk to your parents (if you still live with them) and go see a doctor. they could give you medicine and they could also check to see if there's a bigger problem causing this, like depression. they could also give you medicine for that, too.
if you don't feel like going to the doctor, try some sleeping pills or allergy medicine that'll make you sleepy. see if that works.
take care. :)
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17/f
So i stayed at my friend's house this weekend with a few other friends. There were 5 girls and 3 guys. After everyone went to bed, this one guy came and asked me to go with him somwhere. Then we went into another room and we kind of hooked up. Like, we "put our hands in eachother's pants" to put it nicely. That wouldn't have been so bad, but i never even met him until that night. So i knew this guy for like, 5 hours and i let him do that. It's weird, because i don't regret it at all. But i told my friend about it and she said it was kind of wrong. I feel a little weird about it myself. I'm usually really prude and that was SO unlike me. I've never done that with anyone, idk what it was. Does that mean im like, easy? Is this normal, or am i just a hoe? (link)
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these days, its pretty normal. i don't condone that kind of personality, considering hooking up can lead to things like unexpected pregnancy and STDs, and much less, a broken heart. i've seen a number of my friends go through it, so i don't recommend that. i'd say get to know someone before doing anything past kissing. :) but if you don't listen to my advice, at least use a condom if you're going to go all the way.
take care
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20 Female. I'm so sad right now, I'm sorry if this is really long I will return the favor to anyone who can give me advice I really need it :(
So I've always had a thing for my good friend Joe (He's 18, almost 19). I've known him for about 5 years now. He was dating this girl Maria for 3 years ..his first and only real relationship. Basically she got too clingy and he started getting annoyed so their senior year in high school he broke it off with her. They still hung out all the time, obviously were still having sex and people never knew they even broke up because they acted like they didn't. I think they got back together for a little bit and then broke up once again. He tells me everything and I guess she got really annoying at one point and was like "What are we joe, are we together, what are we, tell me" And he was like Maria no we're not together but she would tell everyone they still were. I know she is obsessive!! I know it's hard for him to let go of her tho because they were together for so long and she was his first true love, they lost their virginity's to each other. But people always tell me he's always had a thing for me too but won't do anything about it because of Maria and how he doesn't let go of her. His good friends tell me that he does like me too.
Well now he graduated and is playing hockey in South Dakota, about 4 hours away from where we are. He just left Sept 5. We talked before he left, and one night he texted me asking what I was doing and then I was like Joe I have a serious question to ask you, What's going on with you and Maria are you two still together? And he said, no we have been broken up. This made me happy, I knew they were broken up and I was hoping this was the end of Maria since they would be four hours away and wanting to meet new people. I told him I wanted to come visit him one time and watch him play hockey and he was like Yeah for sure!! Right before he left I said "good luck, have fun and I'll be there sometime to cheer you on. Love ya Joseph." He said Sounds fantastic thanks Linds love ya too!
I felt good leaving it like this, I was happy! Well just tonight I look on Maria's facebook and one of her friends said, Wanna hang out on Saturday? And she said I would! But I'm going to South Dakota to see Joey! I was like HELL NO! What is going on, seriously I wanted to cry. It's only been what? not even two weeks and she's already going to see him?? I know he didn't lie about them being broken up but I don't know why shes going to see him. One of my friends said Linds don't worry she probably begged him to let her come and invited herself. I think this could be a possibility and obviously Joe wouldn't say no and I know she will give it up to him when they see each other. This just annoys me. Me, my friend and one of Joe's friends were planning to go see him the weekend of November 12th and stay the weekend there but now I don't know :(
I don't know what to do about the situation it just bugs me. What do you guys think? (link)
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ugh, i am so sorry. you must feel so confused. to me, it sounds as if he still has some feelings for maria, otherwise, he'd tell her to fuck off. maria sounds very obsessive and is obviously trying to get him back. also, it sounds like he really likes you, either as a really good friend or in a romantic way. maybe maria knows this and doesnt want it to happen. she'll do anything to keep him from meeting other girls. theres a certain bond a girl has with the man she lost her virginity to, almost an obsessive hold, where she'll do anything to keep him forever. it can get sickening, and there's nothing you can do. its between the two of them. they need to figure it out for themselves. go ahead and go on with your plans to see him. don't let her manipulate you, as well. if you don't go to see him just because she says she's going, you're letting her win! don't do that! GO SEE HIM. be merry. have fun. cheer him on, and let him know you really care about him. if maria comes and tries to grab hold, ask him to tell her that you two want some alone time. this girl sounds like she could cause some major drama between you and joe if you guys end up together. when you have him alone, tell him that maria worries you. you don't think she has a healthy grasp on reality, and he needs to have a real talk with her. thats all you can do, and nothing more.
take care, and good luck!
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Hey..I'm in 8th grade and some 7th and 8th graders said I was "thick." At first I thought it was a really bad thing, but I found out its a really good thing that they think that. I'm wondering..what your views on it are...what you think it means...Do you think guys like girls like that? Thanks! (link)
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usually, when someone hears someone call a person "thick" they think it means fat. from my point of view, "thick" just means big boned, or average. now, i have no idea what you look like and i am not trying to insult you. actually, a lot of people have told me that girls that are really thin are unattractive. even girls that are naturally skinny can look emaciated and sick, and therefore, not be attractive. you'll think that they'll break if you hug them XD i know this because i'm thin and a lot of people think i'm ill or on crack, which i'm not, i'm just skinny. i'd rather grow a few curves, myself, so count your blessings :)
take care
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I get my period and then like 2 weeks later i get this brown discharge coming out that kind of smells like old period blood near the end of my period. my periods are like 30 days apart usualy and tahts weird that i get this brown blood in the middle. is that safe/ and whats that mean when you bleed brown blood between your periods? (link)
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thats just your body clensing itself of the dried blood. totally normal.
take care
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last week i had a dream that i found out i was pregnant and i was scared at first but then as soon as everything settled i was so happy, this dream was very different from most of my dreams because i couldnt tell what my boyfriend was feeling of course he was happy because he had a smile but ususally in dreams i know everyones toughts... because i make them. well last night i had a sex dream with my boyfriend and it was amazing, a long time ago i heard something about when you have sex dreams where you can feel everything its a sign of pregnancy. so i looked it up and instead i found out that pregnancy dreams are possible signs, should i be worried? (link)
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depends. when was your last period and the last time you had sex? if your last period was three weeks ago and you've had sex since then, wait until a week after your next period is due.
but again, sometimes dreams are subconcious thoughts/wishes. maybe you want to be pregnant? maybe your subconcious thinks you're pregnant? who knows? no one understands how the human mind works, its quite powerful. one scientific study showed and woman had a dream she was pregnant, and then believed it with all her heart that she actually WAS, she ended up tricking her mind into believing she was. she missed her cycle, retained water, had all the symptoms and everything. just no baby.
i don't think its much of a symptom of for sure pregnancy just to have a dream about it. are you having any other symptoms? nausea? fatigue? urinating a lot? tender breasts? these are most of the earliest symptoms women look for.
i hope you're not, unless you want to be...in which case, i wish you the best of luck! just wait a few more weeks before you take a test. but when you do, take 3. majority rules. take care!
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So I recently had protected sex with my boyfriend. Condom and all. I'm not on birth control. I have a feeling that there was a hole in the condom but we didn't notice. I may just be paranoid but I'm not quite sure. We had sex two days after my period ended. Although strangely enough, my last period almost lasted two weeks. It's been 8 days since then. Should I be concerned? Should I take a pregnancy test? If so, when?
Thank you! (link)
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you sound fine to me. if you were pregnant, your period would be a lot shorter and lighter. and its waaaaay too soon, anyways. if you did, in fact, get pregnant, wait at least another month before taking a pregnancy test. this will give you time to hit your scheduled period, even if you're a little late. and if it doesn't happen, take THREE TESTS. majority rules.
i hope you're not, but thanks for being safe :) just remember that even when you're using a condom, don't let him cum while he's still inside you. just to be extra careful.
take care!
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i got my tongue pierced about 2 hours ago and the spit glands under my tongue havent stoped producing saliva since. i have to swallow or spit every couple of seconds. is it just because im not used to it or what? (link)
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its new to have a foreign object in your mouth that you don't plan on swallowing. its totally normal, and you'll get used to it in time. good luck :)
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I don't know what to do with him! I found out from my bff that my bf made a facebook group thing about our relationshp. I went and red a few things on it and it is personal and nothing anybody should know but us so I told him I knew he had a secret he was keeping from me but not what it was so he would tell me or something but he didn't. i kinda thought that he posted stuff and didn't think it was bad and I wanted to give him chances to say so but he just said he didnt have no secrets so i went back to read the rest and he had made it private only so now it is hidden from me.
I guess what I am asking is if he didn't think this was wrong why did he hide it when i found out? He still denies everything and now i got no proof because i cant see it anymore!!! i have been crying about this and i feel betrayed like he has a secret life on facebook or something! should i stay with him if he isn't going to be honest and still hides things?
Sorry if this is too long! (link)
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boys get confused when women say "i know something you're keeping from me" because that could mean a number of things. they don't want to admit to anything, because there is a chance that they'll admit to the wrong thing.
you need to go back to him and be more specific. tell him someone told you that he made a facebook group about personal stuff between the two of you. tell him you don't like it and it would be appreciated if he obliged to your wish and deleted it. give him a chance to be honest before you go making rash decisions.
i hope it all works out :)
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I had sex with my boyfriend and got pregnant, confirmed by 7 tests two months ago (yeah LOL i didnt wanna believe it). I have morning sickness sometimes but not too bad I don't think. Anyway I know Im going to start showing some time and get a big belly and dont want my parents to know I'm pregnant. I was thinking to tell them like right before I give birth and then they can't really be that mad because the baby will be coming so quickly then. How can I hide that I'm pregnant? I want to hide that I'm pregnant from my parents so I can't figure it out. They don't even know I had sex. Should I wear big sweatshirts and oversized hoodies? A girl at my school said it would work. I was also thinking of like trying to gain a bunch of weight so they think I'm just getting fat? help (link)
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its not an awesome idea to just waltz up to your parents one day and be like "mom and dad, i'm pregnant. and by the way, i'm in labor, so lets go" no, no, no, no. bad idea. if anything, they'll just be more pissed. you can hide it for the first trimester, but you will be showing and it wont be easy to hide. the big hoodies thing might work for a few weeks, but you need to tell them. the longer you put it off, the madder they'll be. tell them in a few weeks. they'll be mad at first, sure, but every parent would be. but overtime, they'll get used to the idea, and be able to rejoice with you when the child is born. when you tell them, be sure your boyfriend is in the room and your dad is a great length away from him. (your dad may try to kill the kid...it happens)
good luck, and take care.
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I have cramps from hell! I'm NOT a new comer to the lovely gift but it seem that if my cramps are getting worse everytime i get my period! I take Four pain relievers AND IT STILL DOESNT HELP! midol or any other mendstrule pill dosen't help! I cant take it any more! PLEASE HELP! (link)
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i know EXACTLY how you feel. i had a miscarriage or something when i was 15 or 16, and that caused some skin to be scraped off of the outerside of my uterus, which resulted in the worst cramps imaginable. iboprofin didnt help, advil didnt either, tylenol didnt, and midol took too damn long. but here are some tips i use on how to deal with this atrocity they call nature:
do not eat any cold foods while on the rag. heat helps cramps. so stick to soup/chowder/tea/coffee, that kind of stuff.
get a hot water bag. they'll make the blow less sufferable, but not completely.
go to the store and get a medication called "all day relief" this is an OTC pill exactly the same as a prescription pill i got called "naproxine". its not a "get you high" pain killer but its still very good, and works just as good as its twin, the prescription. take two as soon as you start feeling the cramps. (if you take them too early, it wont work very well) it should make the cramps disappear for the entire day. you'll still feel soreness, but thats inevitable. if you still have a few small blows that aren't unbearable but still annoying, take two advil. you wont die from an OD, i promise.
i've heard that those heat wraps work well when it comes to cramps, as well.
this is everything i do during my time, and it works well. i hope you feel better because i feel your pain, and those kinds of cramps ARE NOT normal.
if you still feel like offing yourself during that time of the month more often than the average woman, go and get checked out with your doctor. it could be something much more serious, like my condition. or he could prescribe you something stronger.
take care.
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I am losing my virginity this weekend and I know it's going to hurt a lot. I don't want it to because my boyfriend thinks I've had sex before. I've NEVER been fingered and NEVER masturbated. I never even wore a tampon. It'll really be my first time having sex in any way so it's a big deal for me to not sound like it hurts. My boyfriend already had sex with 4 girls before so he knows what to expect from somebody who isn't a virgin.
My question is what would be the least painful way to lose virginity. Like should he be on top then so he doesn't notice or is there an exercise I can do or what? Is there something I can put on me down there that will numb my vagina? (link)
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plenty of lubrication, A. a condom, B. and what i've learned is that if the girl is mentally impaired it doesn't hurt as bad. ie: if she's drunk or high. i don't know if you're into any of that, but if not, then here is some pain advice:
he should be on top. anytime you feel pain, try to cover up the moans of pain to make them sound like moans of pleasure. try to have sex in the dark. and if he says that you're "tight", explain to your boyfriend that its been awhile. he'll be able to tell that you're tight.
most importantly, try not to focus on it too much. have a movie or a song playing in the backround that you can focus on or something else to keep you from concentrating on whats happening.
take care, and USE A CONDOM. if he's had sex with 4 girls, there is a chance that you could get an STD.
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I am dressing up tomorrow and am going to wear high heels. This is the first time I'm going out with them on but don't worry I've been practicing walking with them and my mom says I'm a natural. Anyways, am I suppose to wear socks with heels? The heels are red and my dress is red and cream almost white. Should I wear like white or cream socks or red socks or what? THANX (link)
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nope. you are not. you either wear them without anything covering your feet, or stockings/pantyhoes.
i've seen celebrites wear socks with high heels and i don't know who put the notion in their head that it looks cool, because is doesn't. at all. its stupid, sorry to insult anyone who might've told you that it was okay.
but yeah, stockings/pantyhoes. skin coloured ones to tone your legs. :)
take care
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My boyfriend REALLY wants to have anal sex with me and I told him he could next time we're alone but I'm so scared it will hurt. He said he heard it hurt a lot for girls to get anal their first time. My friend said butt sex is gross and so we don't talk about it and I can't ask for advice. How can I not be so scared of having anal sex? Will it REALLY hurt? And does it feel good? I don't know anything about it really except I can't get pregnant doing it. (link)
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it will definitely hurt you your first time, very much so. my boyfriend and i were having drunk sex once and it slipped into the wrong hole. only the tip went in, but excruciating pain took over my entire back and legs. i couldn't finish the sex, and i couldn't move or walk for about 5 minutes, and that was just from the tip.
no, it will probably never feel good for you. the only reason it feels good for boys is because its a very very very tight space (and the tighter, the better) and their gspot is actually located in their prostate. since your gspot isn't located there, i doubt you'll get any pleasure out of it.
all i can say is try to "loosen up" a little bit, i'm not going to explain how to do that because i'll get booted, but use your imagination.
anal sex is gross to almost everybody except gays and pornstars, so be sure to tell your boyfriend that if you DO NOT like it he MUST stop IMMEDIATELY. if he cares about you, he won't enjoy seeing you in pain. and you will be.
have fun, i guess? and take care.
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I don't want to go to school on Wednesday because I have this presentation that is due and I haven't finished it yet. I want to convince my parents that I'm really sick so they let me stay home from school. How can I do that? I really don't want to throw up because throwing up is NASTY. My best friend pulled it off once by wearing make-up that was too light for her and made her look pale and then squirted her face with warm water to make it look like sweat. Should I try that? Is there anything else that will make it believable? Please & THANK YOU (link)
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i don't condone misleading your parents just because you're too lazy to do your homework (even though we've all done it...trust me, i'm no hypocrite) but this is what i did:
can you make it sound like you're throwing up? if you can, thats all you'll need, plus a cup of water. get the cup of water, go into the bathroom and shut the door. make gagging noises, like you're throwing up, and whenever you make the noises, pour a little bit of the water into the toilet. keep this up until you think its done the trick. when you come out of the bathroom, be sure to look very weak and tired.
or, if your parents are like mine and assume you're absolutely dying just from throwing up and insist on running you to the ER asap, you could try what you're friend did. also something else that works and concerns most parents is telling them that you couldn't fall asleep at all the night before due to a migraine. but this is a tricky thing to pull. first of all, you'll have to be sure to wake up before them and, you know, ACT like you have a terrible headache. first of all, headaches are annoying as hell and everyone knows it. secondly, parents get concerned when their child doesn't sleep. if you want to get really into the "acting" process, pull an all nighter.
next time, don't procrastinate. its not fun to miss school, anyways. catching up is a bitch. plus, you'll have to be sure and do the homework that you absolutely COULD NOT finish due to very good, very reasonable reasons.
P.S. again, i'm not a hypocrite. i've just grown out of this phase. :) take care and "feel better"
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hey im 13 female
soo ive been talking to this guy on the ps3 for about 3 months and weve shared everything about our lives. i got his cell number so i could text him from my friends phone (i dont have my own cell) and i was texting him i really was starting to like him. well my other friend star she started txting him. well she and him were txting and i just found out today that they are dating now and when she told me i was pissed bc i was gunna ask him out and ive known him for 3 months shes known him for 3 days now she keeps tlking bout him and its making me mad cuz she knows that i like him and just bc shes dating him i hate her im really heart broken im crying now bc shes my best friend and she hurt me really bad and i dont want them to breakup cuz of me but dont want her to date him either dont know what to say to her next time we tlk :'( i really liked him and i still do i really want him but now i cant have him it really sucks (link)
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Oh, jesus. This shit never ends, I promise you. she KNEW damn well that you liked him and still went after him? If that’s the case, this girl is NOT your best friend. Girlfriends don’t do that to one another, they help their friends get the guys that they want to be with. I don’t know what the case is, but here is my advice for both cases:
This is what I would do: confront the bitch! You liked this guy, you told her about him, and she does something sneaky like that? that’s bullshit. There’s no excuse for it, and she just basically betrayed you. In other words, you could say that she slapped you in the face and laughed. You go to her, tell her she hurt you. You liked him before her, you have for months. In a calm manner, explain to her how you feel. If she doesn’t apologize or give you a decent reason (don’t know that that would be, but whatever) tell her the friendship is over. that’s all there is to it. Maybe she’ll apologize in the future. Maybe they’ll break up and she’ll come back to you. But keep in contact with mystery guy. Maybe he’ll realize he likes you a lot better. J
But I will warn you; not everyone is who they say they are on play station. Even if they show you a picture, he could have easily stolen it off the internet. Its not an awesome idea to go out with someone over the internet when you havent even met them in person. Before you dump jolly-ol’-whatsherface, be sure to tell her that. Also, don’t be so quick to hold grudges. If she apologizes, accept it! That makes you the more mature person, anyway. Just talk it out, it’ll all be okay.
Take care
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