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Hooking up
17/f
So i stayed at my friend's house this weekend with a few other friends. There were 5 girls and 3 guys. After everyone went to bed, this one guy came and asked me to go with him somwhere. Then we went into another room and we kind of hooked up. Like, we "put our hands in eachother's pants" to put it nicely. That wouldn't have been so bad, but i never even met him until that night. So i knew this guy for like, 5 hours and i let him do that. It's weird, because i don't regret it at all. But i told my friend about it and she said it was kind of wrong. I feel a little weird about it myself. I'm usually really prude and that was SO unlike me. I've never done that with anyone, idk what it was. Does that mean im like, easy? Is this normal, or am i just a hoe?
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hahahaha I'm sorry but no youre only a hoe if everyone finds out, and its not like you has sex... Youre seventeen! Live a little! And the person below me is probably a parent or at least an adult and they don't know the definition of slut in todays world. And if they're reading this right now: sorry to break it to you but boy girl skeepovers are common... Its safer than driving home wasted wouldnt you agree? Parents probably didnt know and yeah I'm not saying its right but it's not a huge deal. I had one last weekend... No one had sex and no ones hurt.. Don't worry so much :) you're fine.
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You're 17 so I'm assuming you still live at home with your parents. I also assume your friend who had the sleep over is living at home with her parents. How, may I ask, is there a sleep over with 5 girls and 3 boys? Maybe I'm missing something, but I find it extremely difficult to understand how your friends parents and your parents would even allow this, for the reason that you are writing about right now! Of course this is going to happen! How can it not happen? This is the age when these things happen and all the more reason for the parents to not allow a compromising situation.
It is my opinion that this sleep over should NEVER have occurred. The adults in this situation were completely negligent and have laid temptation at your feet.
You are not a whore, but if more situations like this occur, the temptations will only get stronger and stronger until you are completely compromised. Stay home and don't go to any more sleep overs that include boys. You don't need to set yourself up for another encounter where some boy is trying to get into your pants. Are you easy? Only you will know the answer to that in the future.
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these days, its pretty normal. i don't condone that kind of personality, considering hooking up can lead to things like unexpected pregnancy and STDs, and much less, a broken heart. i've seen a number of my friends go through it, so i don't recommend that. i'd say get to know someone before doing anything past kissing. :) but if you don't listen to my advice, at least use a condom if you're going to go all the way.
take care
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