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mad at her should i be
hey im 13 female
soo ive been talking to this guy on the ps3 for about 3 months and weve shared everything about our lives. i got his cell number so i could text him from my friends phone (i dont have my own cell) and i was texting him i really was starting to like him. well my other friend star she started txting him. well she and him were txting and i just found out today that they are dating now and when she told me i was pissed bc i was gunna ask him out and ive known him for 3 months shes known him for 3 days now she keeps tlking bout him and its making me mad cuz she knows that i like him and just bc shes dating him i hate her im really heart broken im crying now bc shes my best friend and she hurt me really bad and i dont want them to breakup cuz of me but dont want her to date him either dont know what to say to her next time we tlk :'( i really liked him and i still do i really want him but now i cant have him it really sucks
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Oh, jesus. This shit never ends, I promise you. she KNEW damn well that you liked him and still went after him? If that’s the case, this girl is NOT your best friend. Girlfriends don’t do that to one another, they help their friends get the guys that they want to be with. I don’t know what the case is, but here is my advice for both cases:
This is what I would do: confront the bitch! You liked this guy, you told her about him, and she does something sneaky like that? that’s bullshit. There’s no excuse for it, and she just basically betrayed you. In other words, you could say that she slapped you in the face and laughed. You go to her, tell her she hurt you. You liked him before her, you have for months. In a calm manner, explain to her how you feel. If she doesn’t apologize or give you a decent reason (don’t know that that would be, but whatever) tell her the friendship is over. that’s all there is to it. Maybe she’ll apologize in the future. Maybe they’ll break up and she’ll come back to you. But keep in contact with mystery guy. Maybe he’ll realize he likes you a lot better. J
But I will warn you; not everyone is who they say they are on play station. Even if they show you a picture, he could have easily stolen it off the internet. Its not an awesome idea to go out with someone over the internet when you havent even met them in person. Before you dump jolly-ol’-whatsherface, be sure to tell her that. Also, don’t be so quick to hold grudges. If she apologizes, accept it! That makes you the more mature person, anyway. Just talk it out, it’ll all be okay.
Take care
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