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Ok, so there's this guy I've went out with twice for only a few weeks. The first time we went out, he dumped me after a week. The next time, I dumped him because he was acting weird around me.and i totally regret doing it. He's ALWAYS on my mind. He calls me occasionally.. and we talk online whenever he's on. I can never get him out of my head. Other guys are soo easy to get over but this one is so hard to. what should I do?! (link)
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well i think you should ask him out. it doesnt sound to me that you never talk, or that he doesnt like you anymore. but also asking him how he feels about you. and telling him how you fell about him.
xO. jessica
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Hey im gunna move next door to this hot guy and im gunna put in a pool and so i wanna make sure i have a nice body incase he sees me swimming so if you have any diet tips or workouts for stomach, legs, or butt i would appreciate it very much
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theres a lot of workouts you can do. for cardio if you have a treadmile or elipticel anything is good. if you dont have either running if your going to be putting in a pool swimming deffetly. any sport. for toning situps, crunches, oblique crunches, crunches with your legs in the air or flat on the ground. leg lifts for inside and outside leg. for the but the doggie style its where you go on hands and knees and bring you leg out and in like a dog how the piss lol. if you dont really know how to do it properly on tv they have workouts find one that you like and it could work. or bye a workout dvd. im 16 so i basicly use my eliptical and all the muscle stuff i told you. my sister uses workout dvds.
xO. jessica
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I just got my period last week. When will i start to notice boobs and a growth spurt? Not to sound discusting but my nipples do hurt .. (link)
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well my boobs started growing before my period, and some people are still totally flat like 3 months after they had it so it all has to do with how your body changes. and there are a lot of side affects lol to getting your period like stomach aches head aches cranckyness feeling tiered. being bi-polar [wich means happy one second mean the next]. boobs hurting back hurting. but you get used to it.
xO. jessica
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Hey everyone. Well over the summer I started wearing makeup everyday, but my mom said that once I go back to school she doesnt want me to be wearing makeup everyday. Does anyone have any ideas to make myself look prettier besides wearing makeup. And for the guys out there, if im 13/f and wore makeup everyday..what would be your opinions on that? Thanks! I'll rate! (link)
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well im a 16 year old girl right.. and started wearing makeup like at 12 but not on a daily basis. you can use face washes and scrubs to enhance your skin. and as for the makeup you dont need to wear mascara, liner, bronzer, blush, shadow that kinda stuff everyday but like i wear coverup like alot or concealer. but for like 13 you can wear that and some lipgloss. if your mom doesnt want you wearing it "to" school you can brig your makeup and put it on like before your 1rst period and take it off like after your 6th lol but your probobly not guna do that lol.
xO. jessica
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I want to baby site but my mom says im to yungh and she dosent want me at other ppl hoses what showed i do ? (link)
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well... it depends how young are you. also you can bribe her bye saying all my friends do it and stuff like that. but also you can take babysiting class like at hospitals or other places they hold the classes.
xO. jessica
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okay.. im sure you all know that the destroyed jeans look like... & anyways... i usually buy my pants like that .. but i bought a pair of pants like that today.. that didn't have the destroyed look.. & i reallly like these jeans .. but i want to add the destroyed look to them so i can wear them to school tomorrow. anyone have any idea how. k. i need to know asap. i'll rate.
k.thx.goodybe. (link)
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well it depends any jeans that are stretch wont work because the cloth is really thin and string. if its like abercrombie hard not stretch denim than its a good ripping type. but im not sure how.. sorry =[
xO. jessica
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iwent rollerskating one night and i met this guy. he asked me my name and then i asked him his. the next time i saw aat skating he gave me a hug and said hi. then my friend said she had his number and that she would give it to me. i called him and he said he couldnt talk. then i called him the next day and he didnt answer. then from then on everytime i called him he wouldnt answer. on the first day of school i saw him i went up to him and he said he didnt know me and then just walked away. i saw him at a party recently and i said hi and he just shrugged his shoulders and walked away. what is his deal and why is he being such a jerk. i know that he knows who i am, but hes being such ajerk to me. please guys and girls help me out!!! (link)
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personally if it were me i would forget about him. if a guy hugs you one day and is a total jackass. not worth the time, if he wont give you some. if he tries to explain listen but remember how he toyed around with you. if e is truley sory than well.. its your desision.
xO. jessica
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I'm looking into becoming a vegan. does any one know of any vegan brands with non dairy products. I'm also looking for some vegan dishes to make.
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well my grandmother is a vegan. she eats tons of fruites & vegitables. also anything soy or tofu.
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um, i am a virgin and all. and thats kinda the problem. most of my freinds arent virgins, and i get made fun of. even my father had sex when he was like 12. and its driving me practilly INSANE! im sixteen years old, and i "enjoy" myself almost daily. i am speaking the embarassing truth. one of the minor reasong why i bought a computer was so i could look up porn. and i tell myself all the time ill stop "enjoying" myself once i actually have sex. and thats put me at ease for awhile. i mean, other that that i ok, besides sucking my thumb.one time, a prostistute was asking if i wanted a good time, and as sad as it may sound, i was saeiously considering it. and thats when i knew i had issues. so the actual question would be: do i have problems? is this humane? shold i go out and see a shrink? please, this took alot of courage to admit this, so, please,dont judge me. (link)
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if your question is, "is this normal". most deffinetly. just because your still virgin doesnt mean you always going to be. its most deffinetly humane to be a virgin at 16. most people lose their virginity at 16-21. some people rush into it faster than others. should you see a shrink.. if you think you need one but from my perspective no. because im 16 to and like thats still kinda young. i may have lost my virginity but i think i rushed into it. so dont think your any diffrent or outcast because you havent had sex yet.
xO. jessica
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Ok see im 13 and im normal weight for a 13 yr old girl, but it seems like all the boys in my grade are smaller.. i mean literly smaller than me- shorter and less weight. i don't no what the " deal " .
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well boys don`t miture as fast as girls. and if your at a normal weight you have nothing to overlook.
xO. jessica
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hey i wanna tone my tummy so its like flat...ive started doing twenty sit-ups a day is that enough? and how long until i will see a change in my tummy? thanx...xxx
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thats always a good start but there are more options. like doing cardio can help burn the fat around the muscle so it would help tone it. also doing oblique crunches would help.
xO. jessica
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im sure everygirl has the problem but i am confused me and my bf were at a party on the golf course and there was the bench like away from everyone he asked if i wanted to go up there with him and i said yes...so we went up there and all he did was sit there and barely even talked...i was kinda let down if u know what i mean.. but finally he started to talk and all of our freidns came up there being there nosey little selves........it seems like im making the first moves ..... i know he likes me but how or what can i do to make him come out of his shell (link)
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it`s a good thing that he invites you to do that because he is willing to be open. he is probobly shy or confusted on how to do the first move or what to say.
xO. jessica
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i heard that if you put toothpaste on your pimple overnight, the next day it because less red and smaller. do ya think colgate works well ? (link)
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i`ve tried the toothpaste trick it doesn`t really work. what it does is it dries out your skin but not the pimple.
xO. jessica
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hey!! im not fat but ive got a little blubber on my tummy..well its not flat..and i want to loose it in three weeks before school any ideas how..quick and easy..if i run everyday will it help? (link)
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any type of cardio can work and light crunches/sit ups can to.
xO. jessica
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hey, im 4'11 and im 104 pounds. i think im fat, but all my friends say im really skinny. ive got some blubber on my stomach and my thight are huge. can sombody tell what might help with my stomach and my thighs, or is that a good weight for someone my height. thanks sooo much. i rate too (link)
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well my friend is 5'0 and 109 and her doctor told her to gain a little weight. so your like at perfect weight but if you really think its that bad you can to crunches && oblique crunches and leg lifts. also light cardio like jumping jacks, sports, dance, walking-running on tredmill.
xO. jessica
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okay so i am around 5'3 and i weigh around 130.. i have stomach fat and i have been doing crunches for a long time and they dont help that much.. my question is, what can i do to lose this stomach fat? (link)
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well see crunches replace fat with muscle if you do enough of them. doing enough crunches can burn off fat but it wouldnt do much on losing weight because muscle weighs more than fat. so any cardio can work, sports, dancing, walking, running, jumping jacks. really anything can work for cardio as long as you stick to it for more than 5 minutes.
xO. jessica
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to lose stomach fat, is walking the same as running? im not very good at running and i really want to lose my stomach fat so can i just walk? will walking help me lose my stomach weight? (link)
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doing any type of active exerise like walking or running, anything will help. but it wont just lose stomach fat but fat everywhere. walking doesnt burn as much as running would in a 30 or 20 minute time so you would proboly want to do some walking about 2 times a day rather than running 1 time a day.
xO. jessica
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i went out with this guy like 5 months ago, but we broke up after 1 day because this girl from my school started a rumor that i was using him even though i wasn't, but then 2 months ago, he asked me out again and i said yes, and now we're still going out, but i don't really like him anymore because i got to know him a lot better and now i know how he really is. i was going to brake up with him yesterday, but before i did, he gave me all these presents and said that he was so glad that we were going out again, and that he hopes it lasts really long. and he still sort of doesn't know if i used him or not, and if i just brake up with him right after he gives me all this stuff, then he's gona think i just used him again, so what should i do? should i wait for like a month or something so that it's not right after he gave me all the presents and he doesn't think that i used him, or should i just go ahead and just brake up with him? i don't want to wait because i don't like him, but if i don't wait he'll think i just used him, and it'll also hurt his feelings because he's liked me for 2 years now and he's been trying to get me to go out with him ever since.
please help, i rate high for peeps with good answers!!! (link)
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well for starters you can call him up and tell him to come over or you come over to his house cause you have to talk. but bring the presents. you can tell him that you appreciat the gifts but you cant accept them. if he asks why you can tell him because you dont feel the same way he feels about you. or you dont think that its fair that he thinks of you in a stong way and you dont think you giving him the appreciation he desirves. or you just dont think that you dont feel you can have a long comited relationship with him. [if your wondering how i got these dump lines.. ive used most of them lol]
xO. jessica
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i have this thing called hyperhydrosis, which is when you have really really really sweaty hands and sweaty feet ALL THE TIME, and even if you wipe them off on something, they don't get dry, they just stay wet. my boyfriend keeps asking me if we want to hold hands, and i keep making up excuses and stuff because it's really embarassing that i have sweaty hands, but i don't want to keep having to make up excuses every time, because he asks a lot, and he's already starting to get really suspicious and everything. please help me think of a good excuse that i can use everytime, or tell me if you think i should just tell him about it. if you think i should just tell him about it, then tell me how i should say it.
i know this might seem like a stupid question, but please help, and i'll rate high for good answers!!! (link)
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if he truley likes you, you can explain to him your problem about sweaty hands. and if he gets mad just tell him that you thaught it would embarase him and you. but for excuses, you can tell him that you have a rash or maybe wearing gloves?
xO. jessica
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All my friends seem depressed expecially my one friend who talks about "Killing her parents with no remorse" on her xanga. Im really worried for her. Thing is, she says she would do it but I know she wouldnt. She talks more about suicide and how terrible her life is. Her life really isnt bad, her parents just have really strict limits which I know can drive a teen crazy. She doesnt seem to know that there millions of kids out there with way worse situations than her who make it through everyday. She keeps repeating it alot probably for attention (Maybe shes asking for help, I dont know) Im just really not sure what to do anymore... (link)
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well.. for the complaining about how horrible her life is, you can talk to her about how bad your life is.. even though it might not be. talk to her about your problems that dont seem as bad as hers. and how she is so lucky that she isnt going through what you are. and compliment her all the time. for the "killing her parents" thats scary, i have to admit but you can explain to her how much she would miss them wonce they are gone. of she ever had a pet that died and she missed it show much remind her of that but then tell her that killing her parents would be double the pain she would feel.
xO. jessica
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