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im confused


Question Posted Saturday August 20 2005, 12:10 pm

im sure everygirl has the problem but i am confused me and my bf were at a party on the golf course and there was the bench like away from everyone he asked if i wanted to go up there with him and i said yes...so we went up there and all he did was sit there and barely even talked...i was kinda let down if u know what i mean.. but finally he started to talk and all of our freidns came up there being there nosey little selves........it seems like im making the first moves ..... i know he likes me but how or what can i do to make him come out of his shell

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rikatree2375 answered Saturday August 20 2005, 10:20 pm:
Try giving the guy some time. He might have been having a bad day, that's all. Just don't worry about it because i'm sure he wont do that again. As a gurl, you can only do so much to get this guy talking. He'll have to come out and really make the first move. I'm sure he will, just give him some time and don't worry so much. Hope i helped, and good luck!!!

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amandaNbecca answered Saturday August 20 2005, 5:03 pm:
be your self infront of him and mabe he'll come out of his shell make sure you tell him to be his self infront of you cause if he cnt be himself with you the relationship isnt worth it if tht doesnt work go on group dates with a lot of his friend he has to be himself infront of them

best of luck becca and amanda
ps make sure you right in our feed bak!!

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NotMeanJustHonest answered Saturday August 20 2005, 3:49 pm:
Heres what you do: slam him up against a wall and scream, "LOVE ME IDIOT." Haha no....but really just get to know him better and tell your friends to bug off.

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kaylasays answered Saturday August 20 2005, 3:32 pm:
Hey,
Ive had boyfriends like that before. Maybe he is just keeping his distance. He could be worried that if he tries to make any moves on you, you'll push him away or something. I think that if you start putting some moves on him...he'll realize what kind of things your ok with and stuff and he'll feel more comfortable moving in on you.
<33 kayla

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brunettecutie answered Saturday August 20 2005, 2:59 pm:
maybe you should tell him how you feel about him. he might like you back but he might just be shy to tell you and shy to talk to you. i think he pulled you over to talk to you but as soon as he did he he got shy... you know? (well thats boys for you, confusing.) but i think you should just tell you how you feel about him. you never know, he might feel the same way.

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brunettecutie**

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shrink2be answered Saturday August 20 2005, 2:27 pm:
tell him to his face!
only one of two things can happen

he likes you back
or
he doesnt

personally, i tried it, and
it turns out the guy had liked me forever
but was to shy to tell me

so
if it turns out he doesnt
its really no tragedy.
cause at least you'll know

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jj_u_i_c_y answered Saturday August 20 2005, 2:19 pm:
it`s a good thing that he invites you to do that because he is willing to be open. he is probobly shy or confusted on how to do the first move or what to say.

xO. jessica

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orphans answered Saturday August 20 2005, 1:02 pm:
the more and mroe you guys do things together he will start being comfortable making the first move

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