im sure everygirl has the problem but i am confused me and my bf were at a party on the golf course and there was the bench like away from everyone he asked if i wanted to go up there with him and i said yes...so we went up there and all he did was sit there and barely even talked...i was kinda let down if u know what i mean.. but finally he started to talk and all of our freidns came up there being there nosey little selves........it seems like im making the first moves ..... i know he likes me but how or what can i do to make him come out of his shell
amandaNbecca answered Saturday August 20 2005, 5:03 pm: be your self infront of him and mabe he'll come out of his shell make sure you tell him to be his self infront of you cause if he cnt be himself with you the relationship isnt worth it if tht doesnt work go on group dates with a lot of his friend he has to be himself infront of them
kaylasays answered Saturday August 20 2005, 3:32 pm: Hey,
Ive had boyfriends like that before. Maybe he is just keeping his distance. He could be worried that if he tries to make any moves on you, you'll push him away or something. I think that if you start putting some moves on him...he'll realize what kind of things your ok with and stuff and he'll feel more comfortable moving in on you.
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brunettecutie answered Saturday August 20 2005, 2:59 pm: maybe you should tell him how you feel about him. he might like you back but he might just be shy to tell you and shy to talk to you. i think he pulled you over to talk to you but as soon as he did he he got shy... you know? (well thats boys for you, confusing.) but i think you should just tell you how you feel about him. you never know, he might feel the same way.
jj_u_i_c_y answered Saturday August 20 2005, 2:19 pm: it`s a good thing that he invites you to do that because he is willing to be open. he is probobly shy or confusted on how to do the first move or what to say.
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