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Im 18 years old..born & raised in northern va. I love to have fun with my girls, and ofcourse love to shop. Im a goody goody and damn proud of it! Feel free to ask me any questions, thats what this website is for : )

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My boyfriend's birthday is September 14th, and I dont know we're so alike and things like that but I still am so lost on what to get him for his birthday.

It's his 16th so I dont want to just be like "OH HERE" and hand him something stupid. Plus, Im gonna try saving up but i just hope im not limited on money and all that stuff. But yeah.. any ideas? HE LOVES MUSIC. Stuff like slipknot, system of a down, korn.. and all that. You never see him without his mp3 =)

ill definitely rate high for great helpers.

get him a tshirt of a band he likes..or a dvd of their music videos. guys always love cologne...i love VERY SEXY FOR MEN from victoria secret..it smells real nice. oh and guys always appreciate the south park dvd

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oh i just got a new top that is white and i have baby black jeans. will it look nice together?

yeah black jeans look good with anything...

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how do i change my xanga icon?

click on PUBLIC PROFILE button...then on the side again it will say PROFILE PICS....click on the icon you want to display on your xanga page

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Me and my dad are making a family website so we all can have personal infromation and or use it to upload pictures. Not all of our family is well computer smart so does anyone have a website that i can add a html code that wil let them search their computer and upload picture to teh website auto mattticly? A Correct anwer will be a 5+ and if you just try it will be a 5, i am desprate!Thank-You to all!

freeimagehosting.net

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what are some really good, smudge proof, long lasting black eyeliners?

and what is a good mascara that you can layer and it gets like clumpy and cakey? i like that look.

and what are some tips for putting eyeliner on tje upper eyelid? i've never done it before.

and one more question, is liquid eyeliner really worth the hassle, and if so could you give me some good ones?

thanks. i rate 5's

the best kind of eyeliner is the middle eastern one that u buy from foreign stores called KAJOL or HASHMI SURMA. it works real well, its waterproof and lasts forever. revlon liquid eyeliner is also great. when you apply liquid liner on the top lid, at first i had to put my elbow on the table to keep my hand still enough to put it on and after a while I got use to it and now I put it on in just a few seconds perfectly.

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Ok, I've been going to private school for 9 years, and for the first time I will be going to public. I'm really freaked out. Is public school really as bad as everyone says? I mean do people like actually get beaten up and raped? and how do I protect myself? How do I know who to hang out with? Please help me.

public school is fun, you'll meet tons of new ppl and make lots of tight friends....you wont be beaten up or raped unless maybe you live like in a ghetto school...but if you live in a good county, nothing to worry about.

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what are some good ways of getting rid of pimples? like what are some good products so my pimple will go away like REALLY fast

pro active works real well...all my friends who used it had positive results but its not guranteed to work in less than a week

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okay well i like this guy.. and i totally think he kinda likes me.. but im tooo scared to ask. plus if he liked me he should be the one to ask me.. . well like whenever im near hin he doesnt move away and well is that a sign he might like me. and like he gave me this bracelet so i was like yay! but that might not mean nything.. so what should i do pleaze help me how do you tell if a guy is in too you. should i like maybe hug him cuz were good friends but i dnt know how he'll respond!! help **i rate high..**

well maybe you could get a friend to ask him what he thinks about you? if he gifted you a nice bracelet, that means he does like you but it doesnt have to mean he wants to be in a relationship with you

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what do you get a guy(14,15,16) for his birthday or christmas?i have absolutely no idea what to get them. :/ suggestions?
-thanks

cologne...i recommend VERY SEXY for men from victoria secret..it smells real nice. a jersey, a top from abercrombie & fitch....ooo and these days...guys love getting the south park dvds for presents lol

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how do you get people to subscribe to you and leave you comments on your site? for xanga..

just tell your friends your site addy and they will come and subscribe 2 u & leave u comments, if they have a xanga..if they dont, then they cant.

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ok well im not fat or anything but i want my stomach flat by when school starts and so i need to lose 5 pounds..does anyone have any good suggestions.. oh and i do workout .. i run 2 miles 4 times a week and do some weight stuff but i need help with what to eat annd when to eat

i rate VeRyY high =]]

curlups/situps will really help your stomach

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my boyfriend's birthday isn't until september, but i want to put a lot of thought into his present. i have no idea what to get him. please give me as many ideas as you can. he is a huge sports freak, so it could have to do with sports maybe or anything else. thank you soo much.

get him a jersey of his fav sports team. guys always love cologne...try VERY SEXY FOR MEN from victoria secret..that smells incredible.

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i was outside for a while a couple nights ago and now my body is covered in mosquito bites. how can i stop them from itching and make them go away and not scar? i got bitten like this last year and my legs were covered in scars for a really long time. i have a ton on my feet and my feet scar wicked easily.

dont scratch them they will def leave a scar...go to target or something and ask them for a cream you can put on so they wont itch as bad

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ok im skinny but i have big and flabby thighs. Does anyone know any GOOD excersise to make your thighs smaller and less flabby?

I rate high!!!

the wall exercise...when u stand against the wall and form as if you sitting in a chair ..do it couple times a week for atleast 3 minutes each time and i heard the thigh master is good too

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Hello,well, i have a boyfriend right now.And u see i can't have one right now.and i don't know why i'm almost 16.my mom doens't care,but my dad...oh..he's like SO jealous.he doesn't even want me to have friends (boys),and do u think this is right,what i'm doing? I hardly see him,well i talk to him everyday on the phone while my dad isn't looking.BUt i don't know what to do. thankz for your help.
Brenda

your dad is just like that becuase he is worried about you...most likely, he trusts you, he just doesnt trust the guys. i think its best not to sneak around your parents back because one, they love you so much and they are only trying to do whats best for you and second, if you do happen to get caught, they will be very heartbroken & dissapointed. you might just want to talk to your mom, let her know whats up and ask her advice.

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Hey! I'm 130 pounds,and 5'3,and i was wondering is this too fat? Well, some people say i'm not fat,but maybe they just say it too be nice,but i don't know.I sometimes see my self kinda'of fat in the mirrow,but there are days that and don't.it's maybe the clothes i wear.I don't have a big belly. Just kinds large thighs,and butt.Thanx for reading this.And hope yall give good advice.
Brenda

some girls naturally have large thighs & butt. im 5'4 and i weigh 135ish but I have a lil bit of stomach, but below the waist im big. its all good dont worry bout it, if you feel good about your body, thats great. if you dont, then work out a bit and tone up your body

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How do I make my ex-boyfriend jaulose so he would come back to me? or should I just want untill he comes to me what should I do help.

i dont thinking making him jealous will make him come back...he will prob just dislike you more. be nice to him...talk to him...let him know how you still like him...maybe then he'll come back

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I want to put multiple songs on my xanga--but don't know how... I'm so new at this. Please don't give me your screenname because I can't IM you(if you don't mind). Thanks in advance!

you need the code...i have it on my xanga xanga.com/desi_kudiz ill email the code to you if you want but its too long for me to put on this

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I've had an eating disorder for lets say longer than a year. (anorexia) I finally got over it this summer. I'm worried about school though and how my friends will react because i wasn't eating lunch all last year. Will they make a big deal out of it and will i end up starting it ALL OVER AGAIN????? I RATE HIGH

dont care about what other ppl say about your eating habits. i eat ALOT and my friends laugh at me...but i laugh as well cause its not a big deal. dont worry about last year, now that you're eating healthy...if they're your friends, they will be happy for you...that your healthy again.

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one of my friends is kinda higher class then me and she lives in my neighborhood thats how i know her. she goes to a private school and has an ipod, a tv, 2 computers, a palm pilot, has gone through 4 cellphones in the past 3 years, and got a laptop in 3rd grade. she gets Louis Vuitton and Coach and Prada. I gt some stuff like that too but not like her. her parents give her oney when she goes to the mall and my parents don't i kinda feel weird when i have like $20 and she has like $100. is there any simple jobs around the house i can do to get spare money? i do my laundry and feed the cats and change their litter... (sorry so long)

okay lemme tell you, first of all, its really not that normal for parents to give kids $100 every time they go to the mall...at all. I live in a rich community, and even here, parents are like...go get a job! and kids have to pay for their own cars. but yeah, you could babysit for kids around the neighborhood, that is easy money

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