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Hey, my names christine, and if you need any help or need a question awnserd feel free to ask me! you can e-mail me to! ... well theres not much to know about me exept im in the 8th grade, im mature for my age, somewhat tall... i love animals, im usually really funny, i suck school, and im wierd, so i pritty much fill all catigories, AND YES I SUCK AT SPELLING! so feel free to ask me anything!

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i have this friend and we get in fights all the time and i love her to death but it seems like were no supposed to be friends but i really want to be friends with her...whast should i do

-to hate or not to hate-

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Sit down and talk to her tell her how you feel. and if she doesint listen then you diserve a better friend!

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I made out with my boyfriend last night and my older brother walked in on us (we were in my room with the door locked but my bro just has to stick a penny in the door too twist it.. if you know how those work yeah)... He came in and got really really pissed and started yelling at my bf (which made him leave), My brother had me in tears, he acted like he was my parents he was yelling at me and everything... I mean all we were doing was making out just sitting there not even laying down or anything. Im 14 and hes 17 but he was sooooooo mean and he told my parents so now im grounded for a frigin MONTH!!! I was so pissed at my brother and he said he didnt want me too turn into a slut (wth all we did was makeout) So this morning he was in the living room and he told me my bf called and my bro told him he wasnt allowed to call my house anymore... WHY IS he taking this so out of proportion.. I started crying again so i told him i hated him and that i wished he would die and burn in hell... :( That got me grounded for even longer but i didnt mean it :( Ive tried apologizing and he wont listen too me. Does anybody know how i could apologize too him and handle this whole situation all together because if not i could lose my BF.. because hes not allowed over here and my parents say i cant see him :(.

I can under stand why he was mad, he probably thought you were doing more than you did. tell your bro your sincierly sorry, you understand why he is mad and you wont do it again. and if that doesint work then he has got a serious grudge that should blo over in a few weeks... or months. hope this helps.

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ok well im 17 and me and my boyfriend met like a month ago at my friends grad party and we just hit it off and now we are an "item". THe bad thing is that he lives in detroit which is like an hour and a half from where i live so we never get to see each other but we talk almost everyday on the phone.we love each other but im just scared to lose him cause i finally found someone worth loving but long distance relationships never work out from what my friends say but i want to know how you guys would handle being in a relationship like mine. thanks

Well, if you feel it is not working, then try to meet him someware in the middle of u 2, like a mall or a movie theater. hope I helped!

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oK..My mom and dad just split up about 3 months ago and like they decided to just get a divorce after the year ((im pretty sure)) so they are dating other ppl..and like this guy that my mom is dating..we have all thought they should date forever..but anywho..and so they went on there first date tonight and like i REALLY like this guy cuz hes really nice to my my sis and my MOM and like I feel like I'm not being right to my dad b/c i like this guy so much but i REALLY love my dad and so and I being not fair or right to my dad..HIGH rates for help!!!

PLEASE HELP!!

I think you are doing nothing wrong. Your dad (and mom) made the decision to get a devorce, so you are doing the rite thing, and it makes your mom happy to have someone againe, so I hope this helps. :D and remember, dont feel bad. your dad is always your dad, and its ok to like the other person to.

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well for my year 9 school formal we are having the theme... 80's retro recycle...so im not really sure what 2 wear? like i want 2 wear a dress but like what style goes with that theme, i have no idea about fashion so some help would be appriciated.. just a few suggestions!! thanks xo

Ask a parent for some sugestios, they know everything. You could also look it up on the internet. sorry I couldent help more

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my older sister just had a baby. and me and my mom have been taking care of him. and now that i've had experense with babys. i think im old enough to take care of him my self. but everytime i ask my sister she says im not old enough. i feel she dos'nt trust me. i feel she dos'nt think im responsble. i mean she babysat infits when she was my age. how do i convince my sister that im old enough and responsble enough to do this

i'll rate 5s for good answers

make a list of resons for your sister, and explain each of them in a very detailed descripton, then find some way to prove it to her. I hope this helps! =D

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Whats a good idea for a first day of school outfit? im going to be a freshman. dress code doesnt really exist. im skinny/thin. brown hair. green eyes. i have kindof a preppish/casual look. i like to wear jeans. money isnt a big issue. i just need ideas. makeup ideas are good too. and i dont wanna look too dressed up.

Word t's are in and are hilarious! or a tube top with genes or capries, and a cute fashinable purse!and I would ceep the make-up all natural for the first day.

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I'm getting my belly button pierced either today or tomorrow and I'm really kinda freaked out. Some people tell me it dosen't hurt at all and some people tell me it hurts like hell. Is it different for everybody? Has anyone gotten their belly button pierced and they piercer got it crooked or something? Thanks!

I havent gotten mine pierced but I do know it is different 4 every body... who knows it may not even be noticed. lol, I hope this helped

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ok my boyfriend and i have been going out for 2 years and he thinks im going to leave him. everyone hes gotten close to has left him but i never will. i dont know how to make him see that i wont. i love him way to much and if i was going to leave him then i would have when he lied to me about something. but its also getting me nervous because i dont know if he wants to take a break or anything, and i dont want to ask because im afraid of his answer. what should i do? please help. i rate.

well, I would gather up my thoughts and go talk to him. Explain that you would never leve him. and looking from his point of view may help ceep a stronger relatoinship. I hope this help's, good luck!

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I have volleyball tonight and im a nervous wreck!! becuz the commisioner for my school volleyball is coming and its kind of like a tryout thing but have of my grade will be together and then half will be on the high school juniors team and im a sophomore and its like an advanced thing and i am like really excited but then im nervous too. What is a good way not to get to nervous and do bad at the sport????

well just do what you can and know you are doing your best and you should be fine =) hope this helps!

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I've had an eating disorder for a couple years now. I start to get over it during the summer, then it all comes back like nothing ever happened during school. It's so bad that my clothes actually fit alot looser on me at the end of the day, that's how much weight i'm losing. But i dont' realy care. My question is, i need something to keep me going. I don't care what, but it's gonna have to be something that is like a normal drug (not a bad drug..but you know what i mean) that just..gives you a high or something. I just need ideas because i've almost fainted before and my friends know what's going on. I just need a way to stay awake and feeling really good so they won't realize. Any suggestions other than start eating again?!?!?! I'll rate high and sorry cuz it's so long.

well if you get cheked out by a doctor they will sugest a pill.

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Ok, I'm homesick of my home away from home ( cape cod Mass.) the problem is I live in las vegas :-(
Any ideas of how to get over this?

Well you could e-mail and write to friends and family. you could also find things that will ceep you busy and ceep your mind off of things... clubs are a great way to ceep you busy and you could also find a hidden talent along the way!

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I want to make dinner for my boyfriend. I'm an ok cook but not really great or anything. Does anyone have any ideas of a nice meal I could cook that would be pretty easy to do? I'm not looking to make frozen pizza or anything, I really want to do this right.

Ask him to list a few foods he likes and see if that help's.

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My mom is really riding my case about getting a part time job since I am planning to wed next year. I would have a job if I didnt have 18 hours this semester. that is a lot of responsiblity. Its not like this will push the wedding back It would just get me more details on my big day. I want her to back off but she is my mom how do I tell her?22/f

I would sit down and talk to her, if she doesint listen, try geting a job over the internet. I hope I helped! =)

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just tonight my stomach started to get all weird and stuff. i almost feel like i'm like 9 months pregnant and the baby is doing a gymnastics routine inside my stomach and then it'll stop and i'll get these cramps that make me hunch over they're so bad. i haven't gotten my period yet and was just wondering if these were menstrual cramps or just a bad stomach ache?

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It may be your period. But check with a parent to be safe! =)

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when i do my crunches, i get headachs afterwards. whats up with that?

Most likly blood presure, but if it is your blood pressure, then I would get it cheked out by a doctor.

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ok not too long ago i put a question up about my b/f but after breakin up with him i took him back and everything is goin fine except...my dad dont like him cuz hes blak and he wants me to dump him..but i dont know what to do?

well, you should always respect your parents, unless they are being extreamly unfair. But if you sereosly like him then I say why not ceep him? (hope this help's)

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What is the real difference between a friend and a "best friend"?

Well best friend's are people you can fully trust. people who you can tell anything. (hope this helps) =)

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the other day i met this guy.. all of my friends knew him.. and i had heard alot about him and i finally met him. he was soo sweet.. hes been talking to me online and stuff. and.. he doesnt really like to date girls that go to other schools (i go to a different school than him) and i think that if i saw him on weekends and school vacations and stuff..if maybe it would work out. he seems to like me.. either that or hes a huge flirt. but i really need to know what to do

Well, if I were you, I would probably give it a chance! I mean, you never know when you will find mr. perfect! =)

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Okay well i have this friend. and we are liek bff..lets call her Mariah*, and i have another friend...lets call her Tina*. well Mariah* HATES Tina* and whenever she finds out me and Tina* hang out, she gets mad at me. I dont wanna have to Hide being friends with Tina* and i dont wanna lie to Mariah* cause ik adventually she'll find out. what should i do?? *and dont tell me to just sit down and talk to Mariah* because there is no reasoning with her. she would KiLL me. no joke

Well I dont want you to take this the wrong way, but if Mariah* cant accept you being friends with someone else, then she isint being a very good friend to you.

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