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Hi!My name is Melissa.I'm from G.I. New York.I love being able to help people and giving advice.I'm usually the person who people come to for advice and i'm always glad to be there for them.If you just wanna talk or if you want advice you can IM me.UnLuckyWishes3.I'm really into sports and love to play basketball.I play JV voleyball and Varsity track.

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What's ways to get people back - like TP them and stuff like that i need answers FAST =O nothing to bad tho-- just stuff to do to their yard or house or something any ideas??X3 the kers

You could TP them or spray paint thier lawn or something.Thats nothing bad but it might annoy the crap out of them.I dont really agree with payback though, so sorry if i couldnt think of anything good.

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my best friend was on a chat room and met this guy. and she told me to put him on my list also so we both can talk to him. anyways he was calling her his boo and sayin she was fine and all. well him and me talked last nite for like 4 hrs. on line. and i like him and he said he likes me. and my friend doesn't knwo yet but wat should i do? i dont want to hurt her. but i like him.

I would tell your friend that you like him too.I mean it may hurt a little but i dont understand why she would be mad because i mean if you liek him too its like she can disagree that she lieks him.Just be careful if you've only meet the guy online.Hope i helped.

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okay well my bf has a bff they went out before me and im kool with her but it's like she spends more time with him then i do and then there is another boi that is also his bff and all 3 of them hang out im kool with all of them but they make me feel so left out and i guess my bf is trying to keep me in there group and i can talk to them but sometimes i feel like wut am i doing here or something and then when i hang out with my bff friends they r all hispanic and i am 2 but im more in the speaking english side and they treat me well.but my bfs friends dont really like them but they have no problem with my bf's friends and i guess im kinda in the middle but wut im asking 4 is should i just go away when all 3 of them r talking so i wont feel left out or hang out with my bff friends but half the things they say i barly understand but they treat me well its just where ever iam i am left out somehow....help me plzzzz

I couldn't really understand all of it , i'm sorry if get this mixed up.Wheny our with al three of them just try and speak up into the conversation and see if that works, if it doesnt just try to telly our boyfriend and friend that when their all in a conversation you feel left out sometimes.For your group of maybe you could ask one of them to help you learn some more of the words if any of them speak english.sorry if i couldnt help.:/.

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What does shady mean. like when someone says thats pretty shady or ur shady?

It means your pretty low on your actions or words.

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ok and mine is sk8erbabe1028....u can IM me whenever cuz I just tried to IM you and it said u were unavailible ok.well ttyl..and thanks again

no problem but dont forget to tell me how it goes friday.

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my boyfriend called last night and asked me why i haven't called him all summer. the truth is that i have called but i can never get through. so he thought i was mad at him, but i wasn't. at the end of the coversation we broke up. we had been going out for three months but we never saw or talked to each other. and techanically i shouldn't of been dating him anyway because my parents set the limit at 16. so now that we're not together, i think he's mad at me. its really confusing. what happens now? did i lose him as a friend as well as a boyfriend? if you can help me then please do. thanks.

If you dont try to talk to him you could lose him as a friend.Try giving him a call and tell him you wanna be friends and you dont want to lose him as a friend.Tell him what happened.Hope it works out.

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I've decided that I want to give my EX another chance.. But whenever I talk about him.. everyone in my family starts sayin that I don't need him and that he's not worth it..I haven't changed my mind on giving kevin another chance.. I just wanted to know if anyone new how i could get my family to forget about the things that kevin has did to me and how i could get my family to like him...

*~Needing help~*

I'm not sure if your family will forget what did he, but try adn tell them all of the good things he does for you and how happy he makes you.Hope i helped.

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is it better to wear tampons during your period if your a cheerleader or pads??? plz help!

Definatly tampons, with any sport that has alot of movement its alot better to use tampons.Sudden movements can make huge spurts of blood.hope i helped.

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how do i tell a friend that i think im to old to hang out wit them in the nicest possibleway??? plese help!

Just tell them that youn feel more confrotable with people your age because can relate more.hope i helped.

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Ok well thanks for the advice but like i said for ur feedback i can still eat but i can eat much at all and if i eat more than like 4 tbls. of somethin ill throw up and i really think im startin to get sick but I can't tell my parents cuz they just don't understand and if i tell anyone else they will just tell my parents or make me go to someone to get help and i don't want to go a hospital or anything...I just want to get healthy again and well i just don't know what to do so if you would can you plz give me your aim,yahoo,or msn s/n so we can chat?

Hey my screen name is UnLuckyWishes3 on AIM.

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I have been talking to this kid Rob online for a while now and we like eachother.. and were both from the same state and... my cousins friend Jack who is also my sorta friend i have been around him alot is Robs best friend.. and thats how we started talking.. wehave never met but we want to sometime... should i meet him.. i mean i know were the same age.. and i know hes safe since hes Jacks best friend....

what do I do..


and do u think its bad that i sent him a pic of me?

It's not bad if you sent him your pic. as long as your positive he's your age and safe.And aslong as you know that you should go meet him but bring some friends just in case.hope i helped.

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Well lets start off my saying im 13/f and I weigh 155.I use to weigh 165 but then I stopped eating and I lost 10 pounds and well not eating isn't very healthy for you body and ive tried exercising with correct eating and that still didn't help so I just completely stopped eating and I think I over exercised.I would exercise 3 or more times a day for an hour or more and well I know im going about this the wrong way.I hate the way I look when I look into the mirror and I hate when I go shopping and nothing fits.Im a size 13 in Jr.'s clothes.Most ppl tell me that Im just exagerating about how big I really am and well I might be but if you were in my position you probably wouldn't like the way you looked either.Anyways to get to the point I need another way to help myself to lose weight or to gain self-confidence and be happy about the way I look without becoming anorexic.I can still eat so Im not completely anorexic yet so I need help before I get to that point.If anyone has any advice once so ever plz give me it.And I think Im pretty and all but I just hate the way my stomach looks.So plz help.I'll rate good so plz just help.Thank you.

-Unhappy and Depressed about my weight

I had been in your exact same case last year.I had weighed 152 and i was 12 and then i became anorexic and i went down to 102 in a month and it lasted for another two-three months until i got help from my parents and doctors.I gained weight back so thats a good thing.You could ask your parents to maybe go to a local gym to work out.You dont have to stop eating junk food and or anyother food just have smaller portions of them and thats what really works.I had talked to my doctor and she said thats actually the best thing to do.Even just going on 1-2 mile walk and walk a couple times a week with a friend or something to help not concentrate on how long.I'm really happy you asked because you didnt want to go anorexic.hope i helped.let me know if you need anymore advice.

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Okay...I know a lot of people ask what they should do if they're bad dancers and mostly they're told that they just need more confidence and that they can't be THAT bad. The thing is, I'm REALLY bad, and I'm not just saying it. There have been dances at my school and whenever I go I feel really stupid when I'm out there dancing because I know I suck at it. My boyfriend wanted to take me clubbing once and I had to make up an excuse because I didn't want to embarrass myself! Is there any way I can improve without taking classes? Or is it something that you sort of have to be a natural at? I don't want to have to avoid dancing situations forever! (okay, I'll stop with the drama) Anyway, any advice would help. Thanks!

I know this is still taking classes but if you have a friend who's a good dancer you could ask them like to privately help you on dancing.You shouldnt feel embarrassed though, dont feel bad because i really really suck at dancing too.It's alright ot laugh at yourself every once and a while.hope i helped.

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i really like my best friend but i dont know how to tell him cuz i dont want to ruin wat we alreadii have...hes like my goofy brother but ive liked him for soo long! what do i do! thanks!

If your really worried about ruining your friendship try to talk to some of his other friends and see if they know anything about who he likes.That way if he likes you , you can go and tell him because you know he feels the same way.Hope i helped.

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ok theres this guy that i met online ad we talked and stuff and i sorta like him and he likes me and we talk on the phone everynight now he wants to meet me do u think i should meet him

If you want to meet him , you should but go with a group of friends because you nebver know what can happen.hope i helped.

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I'm 13/f with long blonde hair. I'm getting my hair highlighted (a lighter blonde) in a few days and i was just wondering is it really really bad for your hair? Can highlighting it do permenant damage? I'm not sure if i still want it highlighted if it's gunna ruin my hair.

Highlighting wont ruin your hair unless you do it all the time other then that your fine your hair wont get damaged .hope i helped.

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I have a horrible problem with my face getting red anytime i read in front of the class or do a speach. TOmorrow, i have to give a speach in english & I was wondering, if anyone had any ideas to yhelp me stop that... i odnt want stuff like " just be confident".. things like, is there anything you can take or if makeup or things like that would work. pleeease answer.. anyone who answer, i`ll give a 5

I have the same problem except i usually suddar too.I"m not sure if this is what your looking for but try practicing in front of your mirror , parents or friends.It usually helps me.Hope i helped, sorry if i didnt.

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ok, recently i jus started being a columnist (yea, and i need advice!!)Anyway, i dunno wats wrong wit me. But i started this on.... Aug. 16th i think, and since then only OnE person dropped a question in my inbox. I know i give good advice cuz my average rating wuz a 4.57, but then how cum i'm not gettin any questions?? Is it that i'm not being patient enuff, or wat? Cuz i'm thinking about quiting being a columnist. Help me out please. thanx

I think it's just because there's so many columnists, dont worry i've only gotten one too.I guess we both just have to be patient.Hope i helped.

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ok..i really like this song and ive tried to search it but i dont really know what its called or who sings it...could u help me out please? the corus kinda goess:
shoo shoo shakin'...shoo shakin up
shoo shoo shakin'...shoo shakin up
and its pretty recent bc i saw it on MTV couple of months ago...please helppp! :)

its called "I'm Shakin" by Rooney.hope i helped

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I like this new kid at school a lot its taken forever to have new people come and hes really hott! We have a lot of fun together and he is my neighbors best freind... so i talk to him wenever i talk to my neighbor n stuff... and hes soo funny and nice, but i dont think he really likes me "that way" like when we're around eachother hes soo funnny and sweet... but i think that he likes one of my other friends and i think she sorta likes him and that makes really mad as happy as i should be for the two of them it makes me mad especially considering im the one that intorduced them... if i would have known they were gonna swoon i would have never done it! But what do u think i should do about him should just continue talking to him or should i like tell him or what? please help!

I would let him know how you feel to get it out in the open.Tell him it's ok if he doesnt feel the same but you just wanted to let him know and you still wanna be friends.hope i helped.

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