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Hello. My name Is Solemnstar.
I'm a fifteen year old (assumed) male-to-female Transexual.
I want to help, plain and simple.
I like plain and simple, I like to catergorize people, ptu them into nice little boxes in my head.
and I LOVE figuring out the ones that don't fit.

Chatspeak annoys me, It takes an extra two seconds to type the real words.


I don't anwser advice as often as I should. Mainly because of School.

advice

Do you think there's such thing as ouija boards? Because my boyfriend has told me he's seen a few ghosts. He went outside and yelled "If any ghosts are out there, give me a sign!" And his brother has had some wierd things happening to him. He was listening to his CD's and all of a sudden he just started floating in midair! Is his house haunted?

first off WHAT THE HECK WAS HE THINKING.NEVER ASK A GHOST FOR A SING IT COULD BE A DEMON OR A DARK SPIRT.
Second always use a banishing spell after using an ouija board
(if you dont know what the hell im saying got to http://www.spellsandmagic.com)
third yes it exists and never dabble or mess in what you dont understand

Solemnstar

p.s you can ask me questions like this often i study and follow Wicca

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i have a question for the guys:

do you like it better when a girl just straight up says i like you? or would you rather just ask the girl out yourself because i really like this guy and he knows who i am and everything but im afraid that if i tell him that there will be an awkard vibe and he wont like me back and things wont be the same. what should i do?

i prefer striaght up.

Solemnstar.

P.s alot of guys dont care eaither way as long as its a home run

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is it posible to prove that you exist? and i mean "exist" not "are alive".

if yes please do so couze this dam question is anoying me, its stuck in my head

and yes i know its a philosophical question that may not have a right or wrong answer but still

are you loved?

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ok this is more of a question for the guys...but mabe the girls can answer it too

why do guys lie?!?!

i have a guy friend and hes awesome! but he ALWAYS tell me he loves me and i KNO hes lieing...he tells every girl he loves her...and he goes out with every girl...and cheats on every girl

i kno ALL guys dont do this...but i just wanna know why some do

they lie when they are shallow or feel it will keep them safe

Solemnstar

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ok here is the deal. I went out with this guy like 2 months or less ago. and well he asked a personal question behind my back to my friend. like at the time i thought how much of an ass hole could he be. but know i think how much of an ass hole could i be for breaking up with him over that. I wanna tell him im sorry for over reacting. But I think I hurt his feelings. what can i say/do to show him im sorry and i never really ment to break up with him? And how can I convince his heart that I still want to be with him?

p.s. im a 14 female

i think you need to talk to him about that and remember why you felt that way if you want to get together agian you need to tell him so he knows how you feel.i really hope you 2 get back together and everythng works out

Solemnstar

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My friend weighs like 70lbs and she can't gain weight and she just turned 12!!! Is this normal? ( oh yea and she eats like a PIG)

yeah im 14 and ive wieghed 135 for 2 years no matter how musch or little i eat so its normal.

maybe she'll be a model?

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does anyone know any good friedship quotes, and i kind of want to be like 5 lines? about no more. or does nayone know any good xangas with friendship quotes?
-thanks

love is friendship set on fire

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can somebody give me some good country songs please? :)

Live like you were dting by Tim Mcgraw

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I am getting closed to 18 and I have never had a boyfriend. Now, it seems kind of weird, but I have no problem with it. I've had plenty of shots, but I'm not rushing anything and dont plan to waste time with the wrong guy. {I'm very picky.) My family, on the other hand, makes it seem like a big deal, when it's not. They are always asking me why I haven't brought any guys home, etc. My younger sister, who happens to be a huge slut, made this ridiculous remark that I am a lesbian. Now her and my parents joke about it. And sometimes I think they really think that. (Which I'm not. I'm totally against that stuff and they know it.) Whenever my sister and I get in fights she's always like "Atleast I've had a boyfriend." I know I'm not experienced and stuff..but there's no one I'd want to go out with at the moment. I've already explained this to my family, but they still get on my case about it. I used to be able to ignore it easily, but now it's hard. I already have a low self esteem, and they arent making it any easier for me. Any suggestions?

why are you against homosexuals?
i think you should talk to a counselur about this problem with your family

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i put lemon juice in my hair

its all dry

may i brush it and put it up?

why did you freaking put lemon juice in your hair

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Ummmmmm ok this is really weird. I have had these strange dreams for about a week about my friend Nick. The only problem is its like in my dream we are going out. I used to only see him as a friend but now I think I am starting to like him because of all these dreams. What should I do? What do these dreams mean?

my dream interpitation book says that a short but meaningful relation ship would come from dating him

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I hate it when I lose teeth, and then it just feels so empty, my tongue is touching a hole in my mouth that's never been there, and it just feels so weird! I'm asking this because i just lost another tooth and it's pissin me off so much: what can I do about this?

its called phantom limbs and your body rembers it being there but you know its not. just ignore it

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ok heres the problem. Salem wolf's bin sad alot latly.(she's my girl friend) And well i dont know what to do for her. she wont tell me whats wrong. how can i get her tell me. should i give her a gift? please help im so confused.

my ex huh.she might be sad because she tried to go out with me for 2 years and may be sad that i ened it so disrespectfully.and i know she watches her wieght so chocolates are bad and all other sweets.i think you should ask her whats wrong and if she says its nothing remind her that you 2 are GFs and need to be able to tell each other when somethings wrong.

Solemnstar

i think shed like a ring or something

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Like many people I bought the new Harry Potter book a few days ago. Mine was the first out of the box( and therefore obviously a first edition) and it looks perfectly normal.

However there is a fault on page 109/110. The pages have been ripped and glued together and then printed oddly. If it was a stamp then it would be instantly valuable. As Harry Potter is collectable I was wondering if anyone knows anything about a faulty print. Is it at all possible that this will become valuable? Should I look after the book especially or just treat it normally?

i dunno i had an error on page 345..a spelling but ther was no prob

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how can i get over my stage fright so i can be can go on canadian idle?

p.s. im 14/female
location: winnipeg
stlyle of life:gothic

well you can sing the song to just one peron in the audience that you know or like.....theres the usless monkeys,underwear,monkeys in under wear.

just practice singing in front of crowds and it should get better

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Hey guys!! Okay I have a really confusing conflict! I am going out with this guy and I like him a lot and he is a great kisser! but I just found out he cheated on me. and he is the kinda guy that doesnt seem like he cares so I dont know if he cares about me. ok I like his friend, we have talked a lot and I know he cares and I know he wouldnt cheat on me....I dont know if I want to break up with My boyfriend and go out with his friend or if I should stay with my boyfriend and see how things go?! PLEASE HELP!! I need all the help I can get!!

is his name shawn hunter?

all moronicness aside
yes dump him... regaardless of wheather hes good or not he should be loyal to you

Solemnstar

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what kind of music is this grateful dead, frank zappa, little feet, the who, rolling stones, led zepplin, pat b., santana, weird al, rage against the machine, jimmy hendrix ??

classic rock

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is it such a turn off when girls are sorta shy but really pretty...or do guys like confidence and don't care about looks....or do u have to be confidente and pretty....I think i am pretty but the confidence idk....i am courious...what do guys like?

guys almost always start conversations because of looks or to insult a person.personality always is second in thier books

Solemnstar

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Ok, so... I have a regular body. I'm pretty skinny, and just... well... regular. I dont have huge boobs or anything like that. I'm just a typical young teen. But I would consider myself more "pretty" than "hott". I'm not trying to sound conceided... but I have a prettier face than anything. But, it seems like all guys care about is "hottness". It's like they could like some of the most ugly girls just because they have a "hott body". Does anyone think... or know if guys will ever grow out of this and start actually looking at girls faces and caring more about beauty than hottness? please let me know

thank you

about the same time they reilize smooth talking wont get them through life.akak when they are bums.you have to change guys like that.

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I can be pretty shy. When it comes to guys and sometimes even making new friends. I am going into a new school now, and I just want to be able to have as many friends as possible. And I don't want to be standing there seeing all of these girls talking to guys just because they look confident and walk a certain way. Do you think that makes a big difference? Being confident in yourself and showing it? Or am i just hopeless? Let me know. How can I fix this?

thanks

first off its a good mix of confidice trust and suspicion when your new.find a group of nice people that are friends and see if you can be their friend.then from them learn whos good friends and not.work from there.

Solemnstar

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