is it bad to ask a guy out i mean does it hurt there self of steam?
thx candi
no, actually i have had so many guys say "WHY CAN' THE GIRL JUST ASK!?" i think it would be a good idea ofr a girl to ask a guy out, and the guy would appreciate it. After all, it is a big stress reliever when the girl just steps up.
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can you please help me, i'm about 5'7 130ish pounds, i guess you can say i'm skinny, people tell me i am skinny & pretty but i have no self-confidence, i always feel so ugly! please help!! i rate high thanks
i can't give you self confidence, but i can help you give yourself some.
- if somebody says something mean about you, brush it off. they are wrong and girls are just bitches out to hurt the girls they are jealous of. don't let it effect you.
- look in the mirror, fully made-up and pretty, and compliment yourself. like, "wow my hair looks good today!" or "ya know, my nose is completely semetrical!" that helps.
- spend some time in the morning getting ready. style your hair and make-up. i found that when i take pride in what i look like i am more ready to show myself off.
- eat right, and any body insecurities will take care of themselves. working out is amazing for self-esteem
hope i helped
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how can you keep a tan tan?
continue to go tanning once or twice a week, if you miss a session spray a little mystic tanner. salon solate is the absolute best instant tanner, looks so natural. but those are the only ways.
hope i helped
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Okay so the other night me and my boyfriend snuck out to meet at the park. We had sex but my quetsion is can I get pregnant from this... The first time we did it we used a condom and he came. Then the second time he came again in a new condom. The Thrid time he didnt come but he didnt use a condom. Is there enough sperm cells on his penis left from when he came in the other condoms enough to get me pregnant?? Im not sure.
Please be honest and I dont care tell me how stupid I am too for askin this.
Bye
that's not a stupid question at all. If he didn't come then i sincerely doubt you will get pregnant. I know girls who hardly use condoms and still do not get pregnant. But in the end, it all depends on the power of his lil men. My advice, wait for your next period and if it doesn't come, then worry. In the meantime, keep your boyfriend ;)
hope i helped
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ok the other day i was a t home (i live with my freind and her fiance temporarily) and we werw all at home when a friend of her fiance's came over. and later that night he tried to kiss me when we were alone (my freind had went upstairs to get soem cards and her fiance went to the bathroom) and he tried to kiss me. now mind you i have a boyfreind alreay, and what the guy did made me really uncomfortable. now mind you he didnt ACTUALLY kiss me, but he tried. i was able to "get away" if you will before he atually kissed me. but my question is, should i tell my boyfriend and if so how? i mean i know he is gonna wanna kill the guy for laying his hands on me, adn then he is gonna be upset b/c he wasnt there to protect me. how should i handle this i dont know what to do. i mean i dont want to tell him b/c i dont want to get him upset. and i dont want to not tell him, becuase omissions are betrayals. help me please!!!
he didn't actually kiss you, and it sounds like you made it clear that you didn't want it. in that case he probably won't do it again. so in the end, what your boyfriend doesn't know doesn't hurt him hunnie* just don't go making big deals of small incidents. if you do decide to tell, don't make it an epidemic, alrighty*
xoxo, pinklady4863
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why are some girls flirting even they have theyr bf?
girls flirt, boyfriend or not, they do. why? because honestly, we like the attention. I am being completely blunt here, and maybe insulting alot of girls, but the truth is we are flattered when we flirt and others flirt back. we love the attention!
also, many girls are just natural flirts. I know that i am very friendly, and me just talking to another person would probably be considered flirting. but sometimes you have just got to let the little incidents go.
Although, if the girl flirts WAY too much by not only a friendly conversation but giving that "wink and smile" reply when a guy says something dirty or sexual, then she is losing interest in her boyfriend and is trying to make him work a little bit harder. in the end, when a girl ignores you and pays more attention to another guy, she is just screaming for you to try harder. Because, girls like attention, the guy who gives the most will be the one she flirts with.
in the end, attention is why girls love to flirt so much.
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Well i got my girlfriend a really nice gift for her birthday...well not gift....more like gifts....they were pretty expensive all together....but its her first birthday since weve been going out....and weve been going out for about 4 months now....do u think really expensive is a bad or good thing?
expensive all depends. did the gifts mean anything? any sentimental value? if so, then you are quite romantic and it was a sweet idea.
or did you buy them because they were expensive and you wanted to impress her? If so, then she might feel like she owes you the same for your birthday and that can lead to some trouble.
All in all, price doesnt matter, as long as what you give her is something that means something to her. Something she cherishes, not something too flashy.
hope i helped.
sincerely, pinklady4863
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my boyfriend is going to go to a diffrent school next year, i am scared of him leaving me at the new school. i am jealous type. i don't know how to control it. i wish i knew how to let my guard down and trust my boyfriend. how do i bring it up to him in a good way?
hi trina, your sexy. don't worry bout him, there is no way he can resist your sexiness. he wouldnt cheat because no1 could compare to your sexiness! and if he did... i'd put a baseball bat to his head and that would be the end of it. lots of love.
rate me a five bizatch! lol lyl
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what do i do, my girlfriend is geting hi on by her ex, but im not the violent type, or the type o confront, so how do i handle it? it really messes with me, cse it seems like she isnt making it clear to him that her and i are together and there is no chance for him... i dont know. but i really love her and this kind of stuff it aggrovating to try and handle...
first of all, if she isn't making it clear and they are both flirting then (from a girl...) she is leading him on. she probably even said something to him online or something to make him think he has a chance.
if you truely believe that is NOT the case then talk to her ex, say that you love her or w/e and that he needs to know when to back off. do not be violent or critisize him or oyu will come off the jealous type. good luck
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hey i have pretty straight hair. How do I make it wavy like you see in magazines????
thanks
take a shower at night and spread mouse throughout your hair whil wet. braid your whole head of hair in three braids while it is fairly wet. go to sleep and when you wake up take the braids out and voila, wavy beautiful hair.
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me and this guy almost went out about 7 months ago and i basically got myheart broken. then about 2 weeks ago he e-mailed me saying he was sorry for leading me on and stuff and he wants to prove to me that hes nicer then that. so i emailed him back bascially saying don't worry about it and he'll have to prove it to me. so he said he was going to camp for a week but then when he gets back we'll hang out for sure. well hes been back for 2 days now and he hasn't IMed me or anything and i sent him an email about this drink he told me about saying it was good and he was like haha yeah thats why i love it. so yeah, should i bring up that we should hang out? i'm nervous to IM him or bring it up, especially since he isn't too shy of a guy and i think he woulda brought it up if he wanted to. i leave on thursday and won't be back for 2 weeks so time is pretty limited. what should i do!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
yes ask to hang! you realize that he might be shy as well, and he might be worried about what you think of him. if he didn't want to hang he would have blocked you and never IMed you, good luck hunnie
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So I’m engaged to be married in one year. I was raised Christian and although I don’t go to church or anything any more my I do still believe. My fiancé is an atheist. It’s really important to me (and to my family) to get married in the church but he says that would be ‘compromising his beliefs’ and doesn’t want to. I don’t care if we never step foot in a church again but my uncle is a priest and I can’t tell him that he can’t preside over my wedding! I’ve always known and respected that we don’t feel the same way about religion but I want to spend the rest of my life with this guy but I don’t know what to do about the wedding. Any advice?
explain to him that this is extremely important to you and that if he loved you he would give it a chance.
if you already tried this then you can get legally married wherever he wants and then have a "vow renual" at the church. that seems like a fair deal and i'm sure your future husband won't mind compromising alittle bit.
good luck and best wishes.
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Ok. I'm going on vacation to Brazil in less than a week and I'm gonna pierce my belly button there. I heard that salt water is good for the piercing. But I also heard that it's not good to go swimming ANYWHERE b/c it might get infected. I need to know if I could go swimming in the ocean while I'm Brazil (since the ocean is salt water you know)? Please answer! So important for me to know. I'll rate good!
do not go swimming, although the ocean is salt water it is not the same salt water you have ayt home. it has much bacteria and living organisms that you can't even see, it will get infected and it will hurt badly. my advice, get it pierced after vacation, you can waitrather then have a rash and infection all vacation can't you?
good luck hunnie, xoxo
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hey everyone, cheerleading just started for me,becuase we start in the summer, well were trying to find 3 songs to use for our competition dances. they can be ANY kind of music, well that is possible to do a dance that would be cute too and the song should be one to get us in a winning mood. well if anyone can give me ANY song suggestions it would ABSOLUTELY GREAT && APPRETIATED. thankss sooo much!!!
a CD called Jock Jams has MANY versions of dance mixes used in cheer and dance competions. they are unique and really great music. my squad used Jock Jams for nearly every competition, they are amazing and there are many differant versions so you have a wide variety to choose from. good luck at competition!
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14 yrs old. 180 lbs, im a girl. I'm 5 foot 7, and have a big build to begin with, like i have broad shoulders. Im a major tomboy too, so all my clothes r kinda baggy, and i wear long shorts and football jerseys. Will guys EVER like me? Why is everything based on looks?I rate high
yes, there are MANY guys who actually like dating tom boys because they are mroe confrotable with you and feel like you have stuf in common with them. they fele like they can be themselves, in fact being a girly girl can turn a guy off, they want to have fun now worry about a broken nail! even if it doesn't happen soon, it will happen. just be yourself, i know that sounds lame but it's the best way to fall in love.
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ok... when ever i go on vacations i meet/see really cute guys but im really shy so we barely talk. Then the day to leave comes and i get all emotional about it and i barely even know them. But im really hard on myself over it and i get mad that i didnt get any contact information and stuff. So how do i over come the shyness and get the courage to go talk to them more???
shyness is insecurity. look in the mirror wearing your best clothes and concentrate on your good looks, the things that make you beautiful, and there is always something about everybody that makes them beautiful. start working out, it makes you appreciate your body more. and style and groom your hair and make up before going out, it amkes you feel beautiful. realize that you are funny and sociable with your friends, bring that out more. once you start to be very confident and okay with yourself, you will feel better talking to guys knowing that you are beautiful and intelligent and they want you as much as you want them , so flirt!
hope i helped
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ok so me and my best friend both like a guy and it so happens these guys are best friends but were going into highschool and we dont know if we will end up likeing somebody new..and they want to ask us out but we keep saying we dont know if we want a boyfriend rite now..so should we tell them we want a boyfriend and go out with them or just leave it be and wait for highschool or what?
you don't know what you have until it's gone my dear. if you say no now then they will most likely move on, and if you don't that makes for a sad situation. my opinion, say yes and date them, live it up. if you find you have feelings for somebody else in high school then there is always the choice of being "just friends" with them for a while. and with all the variety in high school, i don't think they will spend too long crying over it. good luck and have fun!
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hey i have really long hair and i wanna highlight it or lowlight it before school starts im in highschool...what colors should i do and should it be chunky or non?
streaks are completely out of fashion now, a blended in highlight (non chunky) throughout your hair of not one but two differant colors (usually one highlight one low light of differant shades) acccording to your hair color will give your hair the radianxce it deserves. blended in color also gives the look of naturally beautiful hair and is easier to grow out if you decide to go in a differant direction. whatever you do, carmel colored streaks are NOT the way to go, remmeber that.
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Tomorrow I am going to a late audition for Cinderella. It's a musical. I have no fear of being onstage at all. The only thing that is scaring me is that I'm sick. My throat has crap all down that back of it so I have to constantly clear my throat. It was generous of Mrs.Jane to let me have a second chance to audition but my voice is far from it's best. I have been told that I can sing well, but I'm worried I will sound really bad tomorrow. Does anybody know of any way/remedy for my throat/voice? I know it's kind of stupid to ask, but I really want a part. Should I just tell Mrs.Jane that I'm sick or what? Any help or suggestions would be appreciated!
hot peppermint tea! this is a full-proof way to clear your throat before an audition, it also soothes the voice box for a more flexible range as my voice teacher tells me.
break a leg
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ok... well i thought i had my period on like the 29-2. but then i got it again on the 9th - 11th. could this mean that my cherry popped?
well this is a possibility with or without sex. in some occasions such as horseback riding, dirt bikes, and anything else that can jolt your body continueously can "pop your cherry". i know this because my cherry was popped and i am still a virgin. also, masturbation could have popped the cherry as well.
if not, the most probable case would be that you are still quite irregular. still, i do not have set dates for my period and it comes and goes as it peases. if it was your first period it would not be a shockl att all to find they were so far apart, irregular periods are a normal and natural thing, nothing to worry about. most woman have irregular periods at first then they even out, and some never have a continuous pattern. i don't see any reason to worry darling even if your cherry did pop (which it is most likely your period is irregular) then it is still something that can happen, it is normal.
hope i helped, xoxo
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