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Ok so I'm a year older then all of my friends. And I don't want them to know. I didn't get left back or anything. I have my reasons why I don't want them to know. So I'm scared that if one of them sees my school I.D. They will see that I wasn't born the same year they were. I'm so scared. I really can't tell them the truth don't ask why please. So I was wondering if someone can help me make up a lie. I kniw lying is bad but I'm desperate. This tortures me so much!. I need a lie to tell them why it says that I'm a year older. Like I don't know maybe my passport did that when I came here I seriously need help please! (link)
If they're your friends, then they won't care. Age is just a number.


I'm trying to watch videos on YouTube and for some reason it's not working. It's saying 'you either have JavaScript turned off or an old version of Macromedia's Flash Player' but I've done what it says to turn JavaScript on (it already was on) and downloaded the new version of Flash but it's still not working.
It's never done this before.
Any ideas? (link)
Since it isnt letting you watch YouTube videos, try watching Google Videos. It might not have the exact same things that YouTube has, but its worth a try.

The link for google videos is: www.video.google.com


What are some ways I can become more outgoing? I'm SO shy, and get embarressed over EVERYTHING. It's really bad, actually. =( I can't stand it. So is there any way I can be more outgoing and not so shy? Is there any way I can not be so embarressed all the time? Here's an example. My ex wanted to go on a roller coaster, but I told him no because I was embarressed. I didn't tell him I was embarressed but yea. I mean, I like roller coaters! I don't know what's wrong with me. =( PLEASE HELP! (link)
When you get embarrassed, feel your face turning red, or anything, just take a couple deep breaths. Really think about what is going on and speak your mind. Nobody can fault you for that, so don't be embarrassed!


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For my birthday, I'm going to a fair with a lot of friends. Then friday's for dinner. It should be really fun. The boy I like is coming and it makes me a little nervous. I really want him to like me and I'm starting to think he does. What can I do? (link)
Just be yourself, don't act differently, OR overdo the makeup. Most boys just like natural girls, believe it or not. He should like the real you, so show it!


So my cousin lives with me.But she's jealous of me - saying how get all this stuff when she has it.I've never done anything to her.She touches my stuff like all little sisters and siblings do.She's very rude and gets into trouble at school.But no Im so upset that Im crying because she took some of my jewellery and broke it and then took something of mine which has sentamental value,put it under the wheel of bed and started scraping my REAL jewells of and everything and she dont know whats it like for me -sharing a room and being the girl whos being hated.How do i control my stress because all I want to do is runaway and everything i own - really nice stuff i ALL GONE - and she denies it well shes admitted to it but she still lies (link)
Talk to your parents! She really shouldn't be doing that, she has no right to.


I've had my laptop for about two months now and it has a total memory of 31.9 GB of memory. The problem is that I only have 5.20 GB left. I'm always getting new music/videos which I put on my laptop and it eats the memory. I've done the whole disk clean-up thing to free up some memory but there's still not a lot left and I doubt it will last much longer. My Dad says because it's a laptop it's harder to get more memory on it because it's all built in so I need to know if there is a way to get more memory and whether or not it's likely to be expensive. (link)
I'm not sure if there's a way to get new memory, but if you're willing to spend $10 on a carton of blank cd's, you can save everything. Just download your music [random, by category, by band, whatever] onto one of those blank cd's, and get some jewel cases, [you can probably find those at Circuit City]and delete the file off of your laptop. You can keep all of your music, but you have more storage on your laptop for new music that you can put on cd's too. You can also put videos on cd's. You can save money, and keep all of your music!


okay...so this might be long but i really need help with this....i really like this guy, we'll call him H. he is a really good friend of mine and we talk all the time about all kinds of thing, but he likes one of my bff, lets call her S. they have had some problems and other things and whatever problem H has with S is expected to be fixed by me. H is one of my bff so i cant just say no, and he knows i like him, but he asks me to do these things anyway. they are my bff so i try my best to fix things between them and get them back together even though it kills me. i just want to be able to stop liking him and just be friends. anyone wanna help me? (link)
He really shouldn't expect you to fix things between him and your other friend. Just say no. But if you want to stop liking him, focus on other things. Get into something after school to look forward to, like a sports team. Hang out with other friends, flirt with other guys, just get your mind off of him. That should work.


if i were to go on a diet and eat only cellary and drink only water for a few weeks,[*and take daily vitamins] would there be any health problems?
thnx. (link)
You would definately need to eat more than celery and water since you wouldn't be getting any carbs from that. Try more fruits and vegetables, with lean meats and water.


My goal weight is 135-140
My weight now is 161

I swim 2 and 1/2 hours everyday and lift weights everyother day. My diet thing is basically just eating healthier. If i keep eating healthy and eating low fat stuff about how long will it tak eme to reach my goal wieght? (link)
Eating healthier and excersizing is great when you want to be overall healthier, but since you want to lose weight, you might want to do something other than lifting weights because lifting weight helps you to gain muscle, which might make your weight go up since muscle weighs more than fat. If your goal to be healthy isn't focused on the number you see on the scale then you are on the right track. If not, substitute lifting weights with other excersize, like running, to lose the extra pounds.


13/F

Ok so there is this guy... and I like REALLY REALLY like him. The problem is my bff likes him too. He flirts with me all the time and stuff and I have a class with him where shes not in it and we flirt there too. But then today for the first time ever he was flirting with both of us. But I really like him more than I have ever liked anyone. I dont know if he likes me or not but im pretty sure he doesnt like her.

So What should I do since we both like the same guy?

P.S. Should I tell him i like him? (link)
You should definately talk to your friend about it and find out if she would be okay with you dating him if it comes to that. You shouldn't make a move without asking her how she feels first though, because you could end up without a friend if she cares that much. Think about who would be there for you in the long run. The answer would most likely be your friend, so you should take her feelings into consideration before doing something you may later regret.


14/F
i am a little confused, what exactly is LOVE between a boy and a girl???..u know like a couple. (link)
Love is the "spark" that you feel when your with someone you care about; the feeling that you want to spend the rest or your life with this person, and that your life is "complete" now that you've found each other.


would running up and down stairs repeatedly be good exercise? how long should i go for? & how many calories would that burn? (link)
It would definately be a good excersize, as long as you don't fall. A good investment would be a stairstepper machine if you don't want to risk falling, or want to multitask. They are small and can be used anywhere. And the next time you need to excersize but need to see the next episode of House, pull out that machine and start stepping.


this is mainly a question for guys to answer.. but there are some girls who have had same previous experience!

okay so....

me and this guy at school know of each other and we see each other all the time in the hallways.. and we both always "eye" each other.. but we never really talk.. i'm interested and i think he is too but i'm not sure.... how can i be sure of it and how can i get him to be the first one to start a conversation with me? (link)
Who says the guy has to be the one to start a conversation? Go get him, girl! Talk to him, get to know him a little bit. You never know what might come out of it ;]


Well im only 14 as you can tell.
I want a baby because they are soo adoriable.
I have a boyfriend we have had protected sex a few times already.
And would do it again.
We have been together for 2 years.
I love him and he loves me.
He is 3 years older.
My parents know and have known his family our whole lives, blah blah blah blah blahh.
So i keep telling him how much i want one but like he says i know you do but i am not ready to be a father and think about how much it would hurt and we dont have enough money.
So i need someone to try and convince me not to want one.
Because you have no idea how badly i want one.
Please help :\ (link)
You should know that a baby is a HUGE responsibility. It is also painful, and costly. If you can't convince yourself that you don't want a baby, then think about the baby. Do you really want it to grow up with a mother that is young enough to be his/her sister, and without enough money to get by? Wait until you're older, for the baby's sake, your boyfriend's sake, and for yours.


hey i'm going to middle school next yer and i'm freaking what's going to happen between me and my friends. Are boys going to start likeing me and those school dances. I can't take it i'm so scared what's going to happen to me help please. (link)
Middle school is just like elementary school, basically. The classes you take will probably get a little harder, but thats what usually happens when you move to a higher grade. If you really don't want to go to school dances, then don't. But those are a lot of fun. Boys might start liking you, but you shouldn't feel pressured to have a boyfriend if you don't want to. Don't sweat it, middle school is a breeze.


I did 1 thing in my past that I regret...lets just say im not really a virgin. But It wasn't my fault. And I wasn't raped, so. When my friends ask me "are you a virgin?"...I'm like stuck because I don't know what to say. If I tell them I am a virgin i would be lying, and if they find out i don't want them to get mad. But if I say I'm not they will think I'm some kind of slut and they will ask what happened, and I do not want to tell them....its personal.So? (link)
Tell them the truth, because if they are real friends they won't care, and you don't have to tell them what happened if you don't want to; they should understand.


It has been about a month since my ex-boyfriend and I broke up after being off and on for a year. Since the week after, my ex and I have still been talking to each other everyday. He has made it clear he still loves me in at least some way, but I've hidden my feelings, telling him I don't want to be with him and I love him platonically. But theres a problem. He has had a girlfriend since the day after we broke up, and he has cheated on me at least three times when we were together. Should I confess how I really feel before its too late? (link)
I would just get over him. Don't tell him you still have feelings for him because if you get back together with him he may cheat on you again. Being with him would probably make things worse between you two. Stick to just being friends and find a nice guy.


i asked a question about wieght loosing and i got an answer about eating 6 meals a day (PS thanks for answering anyone who did, I APPERICATE IT). can someone give me an example of 6 healthy meals i can eat a day.


perferabally something that i won't have to go out and by like "slim fast".


THANKS (link)
1st meal - some cereal or fresh fruit

2nd meal - a breakfast bar or fruit and veggies with dip

3rd meal - a sandwich with wheat bread and fresh vegetable like lettuce, with lunch meat or sliced meat, like leftover chicken, turkey, etc.

4th meal - nuts or yogurt [yogurt with fruit and nuts mixed together makes a yummy parfait]

5th meal - fish [like salmon or swordfish]with rice and broccoli is very good, lean meats, wheat pasta

6th meal - 100 calorie packs are very good.

These meals can be mixed around for variety, but the general idea is to get all your vitamins. :]


Please help, my period came on today, and my first track meet is on Wednesday. It is possible that it might still be on. If it is, will it be uncomfortable, what will it feel like? Just PLEASE GIVE ME SUM past experiences. Please (link)
Running while on my period made me feel better. Excersizing during your period usually does that. If your period is heavy, I would wear a very absorbent pad or tampon so you don't leak, and carry a spare around just in case, but if it is relatively light, you should be just fine. Good luck at your meet!


i got my eyebrows waxed earlier today and they always stay red for so long[like a whole day] but i have a dance tommorrow and i was wondering if i put neosporin on it would that help? (link)
If your eyebrows only stay red for a whole day, then they probably wont be red tomorrow. put ice on them for now if you want the redness gone soon. Have fun at your dance!




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