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Hey there (: I'm Bryttnii ♥ I'm a Senior. I'm 17 and I seem to have been through a lot in my seventeen years. I love giving advice & recieving advice. I'm here to give you my honest opinion & responses to your questions. I don't give the answers you want to hear, I give the answers you need to hear. I've had an advice column since I was 14. But of course, I made a new one that I stay on constantly! I take Cosmetology in school and I love it. I get my Cosmetology license in 9 months. I'd like to go to college for Criminal Justice and be a Detective ;] Speak to me about anything.




Some things I love are: Music, Writing, Cosmetology, Photography, Reading, Secondhand Serenade, The Beach, Roller Coasters, Singing, Scrapbooking, Tanning, Flowers, My teacup Yorkshire Terrior named Daisy, and the wonderful gift of Love.




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When my boyfriend fingers me, eats me out or we have sex, I always end up having a really intense orgasm where my legs shake and it's the whole arched back thing. Though... afterwards, I get like... after shivers? Is that normal?

It's normal! It just means you're having an intense orgasm. :] ♥

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how do i tell a guy i really like him but need to take it slow?

Just let him know that you're into him and all, but you just want to take things slow and not rush into things. Let him know that you don't want to regret anything later & that you'd like to get to know him better before you go rushing into things. If he cares about you, he'll agree with you. ♥

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what are some new rap songs.
some good ones.
they can be old too but still good.

Here ya go!

A Milli - Lil Wayne
Get Silly
She Got It - 2 Pistols & T-Pain
Falsetto - The Dream
I Run This - Lil Wayne & Birdman
I'm Me - Lil Wayne
Bust It Baby - Plies & Ne-Yo
Murkin Season - Plies


Those are some of my favs. ♥

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So if there are any guys to answer this that'd be great. Girls can attempt too. Do guys actually enjoy going down on a girl? I know they get enjoy making a girl feel good... but do they actually enjoy doing it? haha thanks

Well it all depends on the guy I suppose. If a guy does it often to a girl then they must like it. Some guys have different opinions on that. Some like it, some don't. Same thing with a girl & giving head. Some girls like it & some girls don't. ♥

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What is the best hair straightener? I don't mind if its really expensive.

I had a CHI once. You can get them at Sally's Beauty Supply. They are the best really, but they are really expensive! I have a wet-to-straight now, and it is probably the best one I've had in a LONG time! ♥

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when does sex stop hurting?

Normally, after the first few times it begins to feel good I suppose. When I lost my virginity, I didn't have sex again until a year later. So, it was kind of like being a virgin all over again. But after the first two or three times it doesn't hurt so bad! ♥

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14/female, almost 15 in 4 months! :) .. Well, how do i get my mom to trust me with my guy friends. Which by the way are all like 16, 17, 18. Thanks! (:

Well, have your mom meet all of them & tell her things about them so she knows what kind of boys they are. The more she gets to know them and trust them, the more she'll trust you around them more. All moms are like this! ♥

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My fiance and i are really considering trying anal. Im sooo scared of this because ive heard different things from different people. I really want to do it to show him that i love him more then he already knows. Whats the best way to approach this. Is there anything i can do to make it hurt less? Any stories? Experiences?

Please Help? :(

Well in my opinion I don't think you should have to do anal sex to show your fiance that you love him more. Having anal sex doesn't prove anything like that. From experiece, It hurts REALLY bad. My boyfriend and I tried it a few times because I just wanted to see what it was like doing it and if it hurt as bad as everyone said it does. Well the truth is, it hurt 10 times worse than what I thought it would. Still to this day, he has never been able to go all the way in with it because it hurts so bad. I guess using KY and other lubs could help but it's not my cup of tea if you know what I mean. ♥

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How bad does waxing hurt? Would you say it's worth it?

Well, it all depends on what your getting waxed exactly. Also, it just depends on how well you can handle pain. For me, it hurts but it is worth it because then you don't have to worry about your hair growing back for a couple weeks! I think personally it's a lot easier than shaving! ♥

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so this is a random question but about how often does a normal pretty girl get looked at from guys? (the answer doesnt have to be perfect and dont tell me it depends on the type or smth :P )
i dont mean girls who look like supermodels though.

Honestly, if your a pretty girl or even halfway decent looking; any guy will look at you & probably look twice. That's just male's natural reaction when they see a pretty girl. Just like when a girl sees a really cute guy, she can't help but look at him. Guys do the same thing & sometimes you may not notice them doing it but they are looking. That's just a typical guy. ♥

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im 16 years old.
and a female.

i have been with the same guy for about two years now. and yes, we are sexually active. i was just wonderin if i was supose to douche and how often.

Well, I don't use one and I never have & I'm sexually active. But a lot of females in my family said they use them everytime after they have sex. I guess it's up to you. I've heard that they're good to use but I've also heard that they can cause infections. Next time you go to your doctor ask them what the best thing to do is. ♥

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my hair is really damaged. It drives me nuts! I hate that I have to dry and straighten it for it to look half way decent. I know the blow dryer and straightener damage my hair a lot, but i can't not use them, you know? so i guess my question is, whats a really effective shampoo (and conditioner, of course) to repair the damage?

also, is there anything I can put in my hair after i take a shower to make dry a little smoother? you know, less of a giant frizz ball.

tall order, i know. but i appreciate any help you guys can give me!

Oh jeez, I have the SAME problem. I'm addicted to straightening my hair everyday haha. But I started using Tresseme [spelling] Heat Recovery shampoo & conditioner. It works really good to get your hair healthy again from heat damage. Also, they have a spray that you spray on your hair when it's damp and you spray it on before you straighten it & it makes it really soft & shiney! ♥

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I'm 16 & on the pill, and I was just on Tri-cyclen lo, but I was majorly having breakthrough bleeding, so my doctor just switched me on Alesse. I just started it 2 nights ago, and tonight I realized I've started to spot again!!
I've been dating my boyfriend for a few months, and I was having him over friday night.
Thing is, for the past few weeks we've been fooling around, but over-top clothing. Well friday, he was gonna go under them. But I can't let him go down my pants if I'm spotting!!
And my doctor told me I'll probably spot for a 2-3 months. I DON'T WANT TO WAIT THAT LONG!!!
PLEASE HELP

Well, it normally takes your body a full month to get use to birth control including a new one that you haven't taken before. Give it a few days & I'm sure it should start clearing up. If it doesn't when your boyfriend is over, just let him know what's going on. Most guys are completely understanding about those deals! ♥

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Ok, I got my hair cut the other day, and I finally got the lady to understand I wanted the ends of my hair razored lol. Unfortunately, she did not do it as much as I wanted :/. So, the question being, is there a store you can buy a razor comb from? I'd prefer not to order it, but I will if I need to. I just want to be able to make it as "wispy" as I want, and I don't have the time to go to the hair salon all the time. :) Thanks!

Well I got mine from my cosmetology class, but the teacher ordered it. I'm not sure if you have a Sally's Beauty Supply near you, but if you do I know they sell them there! ♥

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Okay, so I really really want to know how to smell good all the time, to have a strong normal smell. My friend has this particular smell, and it smells so clean and fresh. You can smell it immediately even if you just walk by her. Whenever I start sweating even a little, my armpits smell and it's so annoying to think about it. Generally I smell good because of my clothes and I don't have B.O., but I want a really good, clean smell, all the time. I want the clean smell to be on my clothes all the time, I want that good washed smell a lot. Most of the time I have it on my clothes, but how do I keep it. I want this guy to notice that I smell really nice..and it's just good for me. Also, is there a way for your sweat not to smell so bad? Or become less prone to sweat?

Okay, well first thing is buy a good body wash that smells really good. When you use it and get out of the shower, you can smell it on your skin for a while. Then buy a strong deodorant. I'd reccomend the gel clear type, that way you can put on a little extra of it and it won't show up on your clothes! Carry it in your purse so you can apply it throughout the day when you go to the bathroom. I'd also buy a body spray something like what Victoria Secret sells, and spray it all over you hair & all have you get out of the shower.

As for your clothes, after their washed and hung up, spray febreeze all over your room and spray your closet and drawars with it. You're clothes will have that clean smell all day & you'll smell good yourself ;) ♥

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When its comes to parents snooping around in their kid's business, how far is too far?

A few months ago I found out my own mom had searched/read my diary, any school notes from friends hidden in drawers, snooped onto my Myspace, Facebook, and Xanga, and even talked to some loose lipped friends about things I had done when I had given her no previous reason to not trust me. It has even gone as far as her texting my boyfriend and asking how far we've gone.

For a while, I wanted to appear more bad ass so I faked things on my Myspace and Xanga lying about sneaking out, drinking, sexual experiences, smoking etc. to fit in with friends. Well my mom found these and grounded me for weeks when in reality I hadn't actually done anything wrong. Of course she didn't believe that since she thought she had found her proof.

Anyways, how do I get her to stop. I've asked and asked and she doesn't care to quit. Has she gone too far?

Well most parents are nosey in that area. They just want to make sure their kid isn't doing bad things & getting into trouble behind their backs. And she was probably just checking on you & making sure you were safe. I know a lot of parents have been checking kids myspaces & other accounts due to all the rapist and all of that. But if it is really bothering you, sit down and talk to her about it. Let her know that you know she was just trying to make sure you were safe but also let her know that she can't cross them lines of teenage privacy. Just tell her that everything on there was a joke so that you looked cooler because you wanted to fit in. Most moms understand that. Just gain her trust back little by little & it'll sort everything out! ♥

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15/f

is there anything you can do to make your hair grow? my hair will not grow, it's been the same length for months. i'm a vegetarian and ever since i became one a year and a half ago my hair turned to crap. it got thin and damaged really easily. anything i can do?

Well, I know meat has a lot of protein in it and that's good for your body & hair. So just eat more things with protein in it like peanut butter. My hair didn't grow for like a year because I fryed it from bleaching it for two years! But I bought this cream that you rub in your hair when it's wet to make it thicker when it drys & it worked good for me. I don't use it anymore but if you go to Walmart or anything that sells hair products they have different items that you can use to make your hair thicker & healthier! ♥

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Age 16- Female- 5'2"
Just wondering what you guys thought a good weight would be to fit that discription?

Also, I know I'm not fat but I have baby fat (i guess?) on my stomach. I'm looking for an easy way to tone it or get rid of it- besides just sit ups and crunches. Any ideas?

Thanks!

Well for your height I'd say anywhere from 110 - 140. There isn't anyone that can tell you really what you need to weigh, just the healthy weight for your age & stuff. My friend had some baby fat on her tummy & she started jogging and it made her slim down some & lose her love handles. Jogging also builds good muscles & help you lose weight everywhere! ♥

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aside from the title.. i seem to be having some relationship problems... after 8 months of fun..it seems my bf and I get really mad with eachother very easily.. we've both grown very sensitive..and both love eachother.. but summer is here.. he lives about two hours away from me..and i feel this might break our relationship.. we wont get to see eachother often.. until school starts ( late august).. and this whole problem looks like we're growing tired of eachother when in reality Im NOT... do you think he is? he says he's not, but he has a tendancy of not wanting to hurt my feelings sometimes... =/ please help... if i'm going to lose him.. i'd rather not but if i do i'd rather end my misery than be even more devastated. thanks in advance

I'm going through kind of the same thing myself. My boyfriend & I have been dating for almost 7 months and it seems like we argue and fight over the dumbest things now. We both love each other also, but something just kind of changed with us. What I'm trying to say, is that when your with your boyfriend or talking to him 24/7 the love starts to die. Because you're both probably getting annoyed with eachother & want some space. Just take time to yourself for a while & talk to him a couple times throughout the day. Trust me on this one, because the next time you see him you'll get along & have a wonderful time together. I learned that my boyfriend needs space & I'm the clingy type but just because I love my boyfriend & I love being around him. But I know after a while he gets kinda sick of me being there haha. So I now know my limits. But I hope it goes okay for you! ♥

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Its summer vacation and I believe its too late to start a summer school I'm not sure. I'm 17 I'm supposed to be a senior next year. I only completed one full quarter of my junior year. Although I missed alot of school due to personal reasons I wasn't behind. The only thing I need to complete for this year is my requiered English and History. I got half credits for both. I want to be able to be a senior next year. Any advice on what I can do?

All schools are different but me & you have the exact SAME problem! I'm suppose to be a senior next year too, but I failed 11th grade due to my attendance for personal reasons also. Weird, I know. Well it does depend on your school. My school hasn't started summer school yet, but summer school here, doesn't count for a passing class. Just to bring a grade up. My school also allows you to double classes. We have 4 classes a semester & 8 classes a year. So next year, I'll be able to take the classes I failed this year, then the second semester I'll be considered a Senior since I'll be taking the rest of my classes. The best thing to do, is talk to a guidance counsler at your school because their always willing to help you out and work with you if your graduating next year. I wish the best to you! ♥

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