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Q: Im not very positive about myself. If im at the mall with my best friend or something (shes SUPER pretty) and guys are like all over her I feel really bad. I try everything to make myself prettier. I have some acne and im really skinny but not aneroxic. Im going up to west virgina to see this guy next week.. What can I do to make myself more prettier?
well if your acne makes you less confident, i suggest getting something like proactiv. being really skinny isn't too bad. mostly, be confident in yourself. guys notice you when you're confident. don't feel bad about the way you look. just do things that would boost your confidence. good personality is a major plus.
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Q: whats the site adress where you can get your music for your adicve column its like from remi or something
i use http://www.starlightmks.com

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Q: i asked a question before about my hair and so i got it cut. the lady cut it too short! i have dark brown hair- shoulder length- layered. what should i do with it?
wear a headband and but the front layers in front of the headband. also a messy bun, like put up the hair that's long enough to be in the bun, then leave the rest hanging down. also half pony tail with the front layers hanging down. no worries, it'll grow back.
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Q: Ok well im trying to make icons does anyone know if there is anywere that i can put words on the the icon like if its a picture of something how can i add words to it for free and not have to down load anything
i'll rate high on good answers
write back asap
thx
go to http://www.jasc.com and register. then go to downloads and find animation shop 3 and download. you said you don't want to download, but it's free and trust me it's worth it. check out some of my icons if you want. http://photobucket.com/albums/v634/x3KaTiELyNn/icons/

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Q: Hey well im the guy from last time...and i have just got a random hint that this girl also likes my friend, one of my good friends, but if it want for me my friends wouldnt have a clue who she is....i could be wrong about her liking him but now i dont know what to do... tell her my feeling and get busted or just waits and sees what happends with them....
Wow this is really gettin confusing
well you need to make a decision. honestly if i were you, i would get to know her and hang out with her first. because if you just come up and tell her how you feel, it might scare her away. don't get upset about anything until you know the facts.
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Q: okay im 14 and i still havent gotten my perios is that something i should be worried about .... or just wait?
no don't worry about it. some people just mature later than others. but, if you don't get it by the time you're 15, i wuold suggest that you go see a doctor.
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Q: well there is this girl at my school that i really lke but she would be (too cool for me) what should i do about it. and what if her friends dont accept me i know i shuldnt care about it but i mean i really like this girl but i want what is best for here
What should i do???
well you never know if you don't try. don't worry about being accepted. just be yourself. maybe you're what's best for her. you never really know unless you try. just try to talk to her and after a while, tell her how you feel. mostly be confident-girls notice that.
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Q: my aim is so weird..when im on usually about after 5 minutes it wont let me look @ anyones profiles like it would say "please wait..." except it would never go..and like it doesnt send me any messages my friends send..and then it says that ive sent a message but the other person doesnt get it..then after like another minute it wont let me send anything.then it signs me off and then back on again
but then i look @ how long ive been on and it says that ive been on the whole time...its so weird
how do i make it go away
ok. i used to have that problem too. the only thing i know to tell you to do is to reconfigure it. what you do is go to the sign in window. click setup. it will take you to the sign on/sign off portion. find where it says connection and click on it. click auto-configure. let it configure and sign back on with the new connection. it should work. if not, uninstall and reinstall it.
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Q:
okay..i am really into god, as my family is also..you know..we dont believe in abortion and stuff...but latley my friends are kind of like..what ever when it comes to god..like they will say his name in vein and such..well you see i have this one friend..and we were fighting becasuse she told this girl that i used to be friends with that i was having a birthday party..but i didnt invite her..now my friend said that my old friend kept bugging her and asking her if i was having a party then one day my friend cracked and said yes that i was..now i was really mad at her..but then decided to forgive her becasue it was the Christian thing to do, and because i was hurting God. Noe i forgave her and told her it was the christan thing, and the right thing to do...but here is the problem: she didnt except it because i was only doing it to please god..was this the wrong reason to forgive her? im very confused now..

thanks.. signed,
forgiving friend
no it wasn't the wrong reason to forgive her. it is definitely the right thing to do. Christians do things to please God. if your friend is going to be against God in that way, you have to make a decision. 1.stop hanging out with her or 2.witness to her. it's easier for someone to pull you down, than for you to pull them up.
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Q: I like my old girlfriend's best friend should i ask her out
no! well if you like someone else more than your girlfriend, you should break up with her. and if you want to go out with her best friend, wait a while. don't ask her out like the next day, because you don't want everyone to think you're a jerk.
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Q: Hey everyone, um, i have a really bad problem with looking at porn. the longest i have gone without looking at porn is 1 week. I really honestly think i am losing my faith. I am afraid that i am getting further and futher from God. A lot of bad things have been happening to me and my friends. I cuss a lot more. I do stuff, I look at porn more and more and i cannot stop. Please dont tell me that what i am doing is wrong cuz i know that. I need some really good advice
i used to have that problem too. porn is lust. and lust will pull you away from God. think about it this way, if God was sitting by you while you were looking at porn, what would He think? also if Jesus were to come back right now, would you go with Him? what you need to do is pray about it. get on your knees right now and confess and pray that God will remove that spirit of lust from you right now in the name of Jesus.

"You have heard that it was said, 'Do not commit adultery.' But I tell you, that anyone who looks at a woman lustfully has already committed adultery with her in his heart." Matthew 5:27-28

IM me if you need someone to help you through this.
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Q: when you go to get a physical.. sumtimes yoou have to pee in a cup right? well can they tell by ur urin if you have smoked weed.. cuz i thought that when you go they get a urin sample to see if you have done drugs?? or maybe im thinking of sumthing else.?? PLEASE I RATE HIGH

if you are not dumb about this i will rate you a 5..
it actually depends on which tests they conduct. i'm not sure if your doctor will check for that. they can tell by your urine if you have been smoking weed, but only if they run the right test.
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Q: ok, i need songs to put on a cd that can get me really pumped for my games-the sports i play are football and basketball. i dont care what kind of music it is, as long as its not classical...lol
the best kind of music to get you pumped is rap and hip-hop. i don't really like either, but we would play it over the speakers during warm-ups for basketball and it wuld really pump us up.
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Q: I have a friend you always says she's really depressed. At first i really was worried and i belived her to the fullest, but now its like she does it only for attention!! I hate it! She wont even eat anymore! I try to get her too but she refuses to! I dont know how to act around her anymore, cause she always takes everything the wrong way, Please please please help!! I'll rate high i promise!! I just dont know what to do!
i know exactly what she's going through, and exactly what you're going through. most likely she is doing it for attention, because when you're depressed, you just want someone to be there. be as good of a friend as you can be. sit down with her and tell her how much she is worrying you and how much you love her. even if she does annoy you, don't leave her side. what she needs more than anything is a great friend. but if it gets really bad, tell her parents or a teacher or something. she wil probably be mad at you for a while, but sooner or later she'll thank you for it.
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Q: if you really dont care what people think of you then why do you wear all that make-up like eyeliner hmm?
i don't wear make-up for anyone else. i wear it for me. it makes me feel better about myself.
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Q: Is abortion really murder? Does it really kill the baby??
yes. it is. they do kill the baby.
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Q: I get sick very often. If something is "going around" i KNOW i will catch it. Is there anything i can do or take (like maybe vitamins or something) to help my imune system so i wont get sick so often?
Thanks
take a multi-vitamin. like if you're a teen take a vitamin specifically made for teenagers. also, this may suond crazy, but eat breakfast. i have the same problem and it really does help.
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Q: Well today i was in school it was the end of the day and my friend grabbed my backback and pulled it down so it hurts my shoulder then she ran away so i ran after her and i tryed to grab her backpack and she moved and my hand slipped and i accidentally touched a bit of this girl in front of me butt! and this other girl saw it and she told like 2 other ppl i think she said something something somethign then there like who and she said my name and i dont know what to do tommorrow how am i goonna face the embarassment if there is any?
seriously most people aren't going to remember by tomorrow. don't make a big deal out of it. if someone does say something, just tell them what happened. unless you're in like 5th grade, most people shouldn't care.
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Q: what is abortion?
are yous serious? ok. abortion is the expulsion of an embryo or of a fetus. like when a woman is pregnant, they will go in and use one of several methods to remove the baby. one method is the vaccuum method, where they suck the baby out. it's sick and wrong. what is abortion? it's murder.
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Q: Ok my teeth weren't that screwed but I got braces anyway for a cosmetic reason..anyway, I only get them on for 5 months..it's been 2 months and I don't notice any difference..is this normal or is it just a waste of time..please tell me when I should notice a difference!
most likely it's just that you can't tell a difference because there are braces on your teeth. when i look in the mirror i can't tell that my teeth have changed at all but when my orthodontist shows me the x-rays it's obvious. just don't worry about it. if you really are worried, ask the orthodontist next time you go.
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I'm Katelyn. Not Katie Lynn.

PERSONALITY:
-God comes first.
-I am Pro-Life.
-I put others before myself.
-I'm usually nice.
-I don't cuss and I don't gossip.
-I'm not perfect, but I know God is.

APPEARANCE:
-I'm short.
-I have a mullet.
-I have freckles.
-I change my hair often.
-I have green eyes, not blue.
-I'm usually considered cute.


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