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Okay, well I just got mine, tonight...and I am NOT telling my mom. At least, not yet. I just have a few questions about periods....

1. How often should I change them?
2. Should I wear them to bed?
3. How many should I carry with me?
4. Where should I put them? I don't carry a backpack...or a purse.

That's it. Thank you! =D

Well you change then when ever it starts feeling uncofterble to you, or mainly every 2 hrs unless its light.
Yes wear then to bed. Just so you dont leak.
Depending on how heavy it is carry maybe 1 or 2. Start carrien purses... or put them in you locker or something where its hidden where you can get ahold of it eady.

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I went out with this kid name Matt and About a month ago I dumped him. The kid is like obsessed with me he's alway just staring at me, at lunch, during classes, in the halls. If i walk across the room he watches me. He seriously watches like everything I do. I have a new boyfriend, named Jon, now and both him and i are really uncomfortable with him staring at me. Its so weird im like afraid to be myself sometimes. Like people come up to me and are like Matt is staring at you. It creeps me out and makes me so uncomfortable. Some of my friends have been telling him he needs to move on and get a new girlfriend and they've suggested hooking him up with people but he's obsessed. I dont like him that way at all. What should I do about it?!?!?

well it does seem like he really REALLY likes you. But maybe you could talk to him nicly, so you dont hurt him. Tell him that it bugs you when he keeps staring at you non stop... Just talk to him.

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IM 14 yrs old and i have a pretty bad life. Im not suicidal or anything. Ive had a pretty bad past. My brother andrew hurts me he will kick me in the stomach and ribs and yell at me and it got so bad my mom called the cops. He threatend me and my moms life. I called him in detention (kids jail) and he said there was nothing to be said to me and he wants nothing to do with me and he will never find away to forgive me or forget. Now he is being senet away. my mom is never home. I told her we need some serious talking to do and we need to talk It took a long time to come out of that shell and tell her that. She just told me she has to go to her boyfriends house. I was shocked. She leaves me for her BOYFRIEND. When her own daughter needs help! I was in treatment i was sent away for 5 months. Nothing really changed over that. Im not a virgin the only reason why is because i feel thats the only thing that makes me feel wanted. Just to be "loved" for that period of time. I was thinking of the long run. Now my friend offered me to live with her for as long as i needed. To sort things out. Me and my friend had some pretty ruff times we actually we're best friends but i screwed up and that ended it but she was still there for me. So she offered a home for me. Shes not into that stuff sex, drugs, or drinking. Im trying to get away from that but its hard. Like i said... i feel like i belong then. SO how do i tell my mom that i want to just not leave her but i need a break. For a bit. my friend said that we could get both of our moms together and me and her would sit down and we would talk it out. I dont want my mom to think she is a bad mother i just need a "mother" figure there for me that i can talk to. And wont leave on me when i need help. So help me please. This is and maybe a change of life.

I think that you taking a 'break' from the family would be a good idea. And what you said about you and ur friends mom and her having a sit down talk with your moms good too. It seems like you need someone to talk about your problems with. Well if you do deside to do that, make sure you mention it at the right time, but soon enough where you can stay away for a while.
Hope everything works out good!
If u needa talk about it or anything else feel free to IM me when ever.
-Nat

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Ok..I have to go get a root canal sometime this week I think..and I guess there going to give me laughing gas. or whatever its called..i havent had it before so can anyone tell me what its like..and if you can still feel anything they're doing? and if they've had laughin gas with a root canal..and if it hurt! Thanks..im really scared =(

well i never had a root canal taken out b4 but the laughing gas is just to make the pain go away. It kinda feels refreshing when they use the gas, you just sorta drift away. Prbably more a pain reliever.
Good Luck!

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im still pondering about what to get my boyfriend for valentines day before I put it off until the last minute...any cute suggestions?

a box of chocolate or a fav CD of his. maybe a kiss...and a hug, or a little bear with candy... make him a card or something that he will never forget. Maybe even take him out for lunch or dinner...
Good Luck

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ok so i dont know what to get my guy for valentines day but i am thinking that i should just like kiss him on the cheek (or lips) and say like "that's my valentines day gift to you" i mean we are only 13 so it would be big not like nothing. do you think that i should?

maybe you could give him a box of chocolate and give him a kiss... that would be cute :D
or like maybe something that he would enjoy, with a kiss like a CD or something
Nat

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What are some good switchfoot songs?

"Dare You To Move"
"Meant To Live"
"This Is Your Life"
"More Than Fine"
"Gone"
"The Beautiful Letdown"

CD: Switchfoot, the beautiful letdown

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How do I wish upon a star if the only thing i wish is you?
=him

awww! thats S000 sweet! who is this cute creator of poems for me? Shane? is it u?

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ok..theres this guy and he was dating one of my good friends but they arent anymore and me and him are really close and he tells me everything. hes still not over her completely and i try as best i can to help him with it..but i think im starting to develop a crush on him. she doesnt give him any feedback about whether she likes him still or not. so i dont know what to do about my crush..its not big yet..please help!

Well u can flirt with him alittle or try to talk to ur friend about him to see if she still likes him.

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I tend to overeat when I snack...I make it into more of a meal than a snack. What are some nutritious, low-cal items that fill you up?

crackers, yogurt, maybe a sandwitch, or some fruit...
H.I.H.

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does anyone know ways to get over boys that you really LOVE?

Well... hurm i have the same probalem, but what i did was just forget about them and think that theres other fish in the sea. But it would also help concentraiting on something other then boys.. but if u really miss him try talking to him... maybe even tell him how u feel.
H.I.H.

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im a 14/f...im still a virgin..i have masterbated before(fingering myself) and i do use tampons, but if i were to have sex, would the guy feel me as being tight? or loose?

tight, but i dont recomend having sex at 14... isn't it to early...?

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(16/f) what do/can you get your b/f for valentines day?

Well you two could go out for dinner or lunch... or buy him something sweet, something that he may like, or you could always make him something.
H.I.H.

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hey, does anyone have any good ideas for a band name? theres like 4-5 s in it and all i thought of is "strength in scars" but it sounds kind of like my firends band so i dont think were gunna use it.. thanks so much [i'll give you credit or whatever if we do use it lol just give me your first name of somthing]

Well you could maybe choose something that relates to ur band or see if the initias of ur names make a word... lol
if i randomly think of any band names ill tell ya!
H.T.H.
-*%nat%*-

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i'm 16/f. is it okay to date a guy that's younger than me? i like this guy but hes 2 years younger than me, i'm a junior...hes a freshman. Thanks guys!

Its fine! As long as it doesnt bug you the go for it! There's always girls out there that date younger guys. It's totally normal.

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ya my friend all of a sudden ignores me and barely talks to me anymore..and she ditched me and ditches me in the halls..and forgets bout me..and we use to be bffs till xmas break..and then she talked behind my back..what should i do..

Well try to talk to her... thats about all i can say, but shes probably trying to become popular (unless she is already) or maybe she doesnt wanna hang with you ne more...
I had a friend do that to me last year and i just got over it... theres better friends out there, but i do hope that you guys get back as bff! Good Luck and hope everything works out with her.
Natily-

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Does anyone have any good quotes or lyrics from songs that I can use to put in my profile for AIM. I'm looking for some sad like emo kinda songs or breaking up quotes :-/ Thanx in advance! xoxo - KrIsSy*

You can check some of Green Days new songs. Or maybe Kelly Clarkson, well thats not really ema but theres some rocky songs. If i think of anymore ill let ya no.

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i'm a freshman in high school. so is my friend, kendra. she's dating a senior at our school. they have been dating since the day after christmas.. i talk to kendra almost day, and all she talks about is her boyfriend. my friends and i can't take her talking about him all the time - like them having sex, and all this other worthless crap. we want to talk to her, but we don't know what to say.. ya mind helpin?

You can either just tell her to cool down on the bf chat or bring up something like going to the mall or getting a manicure... maybe things that you all used to talk about before she got her bf...
H.I.H.
Natally-

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Hello, I'm new. sorta! I used to have a old column but my new column username is "Cheer!Advice" and I was wondering if anyone knew of cheer icons, or graphics I could put on my site? I tried to google but I didn't get much. Thank you!

well theres this icon site that probably has some.
go here: http://www.iconator.com/

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ok.....there is a school dance coming up and I really wanna go sooooo bad!!!!!!!!I totally skipped the last dance because i had a track meet to go to. i want to go to this one but i have almost no friends, so if i go, it will be really awkward because i dont have a whole crowd around me. I'm in 7th grade, and most of my friends are 9th grade boys, but they dont usually go to the dances. and i thought about bringing my stepsister but I know she'll get all the attention from the boys because shes in 11th grade and she dances like shes all that just because she got a fatty and a big chest size-----and she always rubs it in my face.(not literally) What should I do??????

Well ask some of your 7th grade girls... evem if its only like 2 or 3. Just go and enjoy the fun. Your only in 7th grade once. (unless u have to repeat a grade, which rairly happens.)
hope you have fun if u do go!
nat~

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