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is it bad if u dont know how to kiss???

Not really. Of course it depends on how old you are. If say you are 14, then its fine, but if your 21, thats a bit sad, but everyone is different. When i had my first kiss I had no idea how to do it, but I just relaxed and let him lead, and it was fine.

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Okai will my friend she asked me about her clothes like she can NEVER find any store that has clothes that will fit her n shes skinney and around the world we have the same kinda stores so shes about 5'1 and she wears like size 0 in pants n like xs in shirts so if you can help me with that like if you knwo where she can get clothes that fit her! The other thing is her hair she has black hair n red streaks which are fading away now n her hairs medium length n if you know how she can cut her hair so it looks cute on her lol n plus she has a babi face n I was thinking like layer but would that look good?

Well, it sounds like she might need to put on a bit of weight, or look at her eating habits, for a start. As for clothes, try serching the 'net for specialist clothing shops, as most shops these days have websites.

As for the hair, maybe she should talk to her hairdresser about what would suit her, but layering can look nice on some people.

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my mom said if i eat vegtables i will have better bone but i beleve my bone has good calceum does taht me that i should eat the vegtable i have problem once vegtable in mouth vegtable come out hole how do i use this but plug to keep the vegtable in the bone i am not too old so please tell me the vegtable story

Vegtables don't nessisarily promate good bone growth, however they are essential to ones overall health, so I suggest you eat them.
As for the rest of your question, I really don't know why you are going on about.

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me and my boyfriend are 13, he has these 2 friends who i am also friends with and i get on with them really well and i am good friends with them. is it ok to be close friends with my bf's mates? i don't fancy them or anything so is it ok?

Why shouldn't it be okay? I mess about with my b/fs mates all the time, and they aren't just 'his' mates, they are mine too.
Go for it :)

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Do you know of any sites where I can post my pictures for free?

I guess it depends on why you want to. If you just want people to see what you look like, you could always get a free website. But if you want people to rate you, then try http://www.hotornot.com/

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is it possible to snog without tongues? just using your lips? if so, how?

Of course! you can purs your lips and just peck your partner on the lips as well, or you can kiss exactly like a french kiss, sans tounges. Its quite easy, just realax and it'll happen :)

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What should I do to make a cake?

A basic Victoria Sponge:
http://thefoody.com/baking/victoriasponge.html
CupCakes:
http://thefoody.com/baking/cupcakes.html.
This site has tonnes of cool recipes:
http://thefoody.com/baking/index.html

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ok if your a lord of the rings fan you might get this but you might anyway.

into the south

int othe south we go
through danger we do not know
we'll give it our best
to finish our quest
with only a sword and bow

to mordor we must fly
where darkness fills the sky
throught dark shadows and mirk meadows
the end of all comes nigh

--- ok i know thats not that good but how do yall like it?---

Its a bit sing-songy, like a ballard. The rhyming is really dull, and its kinda short for how long the books are.
But its a good start.

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hey im the one who wrote the poem about the girl who ran away, heres another one:

Your eyes are the color of the sky,after days of rain, hollow and empty, just to cover up the pain.

I want to scream and I want to know, what terrible thing has made you so.....

You hide inside as you let your body take the blame, youre to weak to handle all the shame.

Maybe all could be better , all of this could be through, if youd take the time to listen when I say that I love you.

how was it?

Its not to bad, but again, you could work on your structre a little and maybe expand parts, like the middle two lines. I love the imagery of the first line:
'Your eyes are the color of the sky after rain;
hollow and empty,
just to cover up the pain.'
Kepp working on your poems :)

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hey, i heard this song on the radio that i love. but i don't know who wrote/performed it (it was a woman though).
some of the lyrics go..
"i held your hand through all of these years"
Anybody know?
i rate

Evanescence, My Immortal. Lyrics can be found here:
http://www.lyrics007.com/Evanescence%20Lyrics/My%20Immortal%20Lyrics.html

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Hi, my names liza im 14... i have this guy lets call him *Bob* and we were goin out for like 16 months, and then yesterday he calls me sayin "yeah liez i have a gurl her name is kelly and laughs and says i know its gonna piss you off, oh well bye" and i cryed for hours, im still crying right now. i know it was stupid and i dont know what love is... but i really did i was seriously in love with this boy and i cut my like my whole arm up, and did a bunch of stupid things. i really dont know what to do anymore with my life i dont wanna live, i wish i was dead. does anyone have any ideas for me to get him backk or something cause i REALLY wanna get him back... and i dont know how to. s0o pleaseeeeee pretty please someone anyone please help!!!!! :( ill rate you, just please help me... xo liza

Okay, this guy sounds like a total jackass. I know you say you were in love, and trust me, I know how it feels to love someone and then have them calously turn you aside, but you really have to get over this guy. Your 14, you have loads of timew to meet someone who is worthy of you. Please stop wasting your tears over this insensitive fcukwit. Go out, have some fun with your girlfriends, forget about the loser.
*hugs*

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When you bowl a full game , you bowl 30 times , am i right ? ( not counting the second time you bowl if you don't get a strike on your first bowl ) So , a perfect game would be 300 , right ?

Well in the /Simpsons/ episode where Homer bowls a perfect game, all the balloons have 300 written on them, but I don't know if that is 10 pins or 9 pins.

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i have been having some problems with my friend. we were best friends but we could never trust each other and she is annoying. so her sis has a s/n on this site and i asked her a couple of questions to her about my friend. so later on my friend thought my site was cool and she wanted me to fix up hers so she let me and then she is like lemme answer questions on yours and i said ok but that is all you can do dont look at ne thing else and dont touch ne thing and i am really trusting you. (no clue how i could) and she looked at my freaking questions and one was about her and it was to her sister! and i was so mad and then she told me she found out and i was like idk because i trusted you 4 once and you lied to (thats normal) and then she is like well is this what you think about me?? all i said was is that somedays i dont wanna be friends with her because she is annoying sometimes and she never listens to me when i tell her to stop doing something and she is hyper active like always!. and i meant every word of it. and i dont no what i should do because i want to be her friend still.
jonelle

Well, if I were you I wouldn't bother trying to be mates with her as it sounds like you too really don't get on.

However you do, so I would give her a little time to cool off then approch her with peace ovetures and ask if she still wants to remain mates.

Good luck.

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Hi see well I have this Boyfriend who cares for me tomuch!!! I mean love him and all but he gets to protective!!!! what should i do , I dont want to be mean to him either what should I do????????????

I think you should sit down and talk with your b/f. tell him the times he gets to protective, and ask him gently to stop doing it so much. Assure him, that you like to know you are protected, but he doesn't have to go overboard.

good luck

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After being on the computer for only a little while, every page instantly reads "Page cannot be displayed", everything is as though I was offline. I think someone sent me a virus, or something to that affect. It gets in the way of everything. I can't send people my bands songs, download much off the internet, and most importantly school work (In college, a lot of assignments are online). I can't even give or ask for advice, this is the second time I tried. My family isn't extremely poor, but we are in debt. We can't afford to buy another computer, this one is new anyway. I have downloaded ad-aware, but it can't seem to find the problem. I also downloaded something with the word "spy" in it, and that froze everything. I can't buy anything to help, my mother refuses to let my buy anything through the internet. It gets worse all the time, now it freezes every once in a while, preventing me from even getting online. I clean it often, and defrag it every onece in a while. Any solution to this problem would be much appreciated.

Not all bad things that get on a comp are viruses. Try running Spybot S&D as well [http://www.safer-networking.org/en/index.html]

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ok i have been dating my boyfriend for 2 years on and off....i am 16 years old..we really love eachother...are parents know and everything...today i went to a physic and she said we have no future wat so ever together...and it was so weird cause he told me not to go cause i will start basing my life on her...and hes right cause now its making me think am i wasting my time...but me n him always plan r future together even though we r young...do u belive in physics wat should i do? how can i overcome this

Ignore the physic. So what if you have no future together, you can always have fun in the mean time. Your only 16, you have loads of time before you settle down.
And besides, this sort of thing is all down to interpritaion. there are no hard and fast rules about things, and what she sees one way, you might see a different way. Its all down to personal perception.
I keep an open mind about this sort of thing, and take it with a grain of salt.
Also, talk to your b/f about it, that might help you get over your doubts.
Good luck :)

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Okay, I'm 14 and I have a boyfriend that I've only been with for like around a month. But when I'm around him I don't really feel comfortable with him anymore and a few days ago he tried to get me to smoke with him by saying if you loved me you would... and i was really mad cuz im not big on drugs. I don't really want to be with him anymore, But he likes me alot. If you were me what would u do?

I would tell him that that if he loved me then he would respect me and not force me to do somthing I don't want to, like do drugs.
It also sounds like he could be really bad for you, so I would get him alone so he wasn't distracted, and tell him basically what you said here, that you don't feel comfortable around him, and you don't really like him romantically either, so you think it would be best to break it off.

Good luck

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umm....why do pplz like t0 be rated?? like wat d0es it d0?? thNx!!

The ratings for columists helps the admin decide who is a good advice giver. For example, is someone constantly got 1s, she would know that coloumist is really bad, and she might decide to suspend them.

It also helps those who need advice to chose a columist who is very good.

Oh, and I gues the feeling appriciated thing is true too.

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whats that song on the titanic that i think her name is rose sings or w/e and i think it goes "wherever you are...." or something

That would be Celine Dion's 'My heart will go on'

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if you were talking about your skin and spots and all that, what would you're 't-zone' be?

This is your forehead, nose and chin; the area of the face that collects most grease and dirt.

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