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My best friend and I like the same guy. The thing is, he is dating my best friend. But she and he both know that he likes me also. He wants to be with both of us, but I don't want to hurt my best friend so I think I should back off. What should I do?? Thanks!

I'm very sorry babe, but since he's already with your best friend.. you're gunna have to let him go.. UNLESS you liked him before she did and SHE knew you liked him.. then that would be a different story.. but yeah.. if she liked him first.. then you've got to let them be.. i know how bad it will hurt because i was in the same exact situation well.. a little different because this girl wasn't my BEST friend and the guy was my boyfriend first.. then she stole him.. and in the end.. I got him back.. so yeah.. IM me if you need anymore adivce.

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Ok, in school I'm in the "popular group" and my friends are really nice and everything but sometimes they really annoy me. Here's why. Whenever a guy asks them out they'll like automaticlly say yes (even if they don't like them), and when a guy dumps them or they dump a guy they'll be going out with someone else within an hour. Anyway, for some reason this really bugs me. I don't really no why either. Now a guy asked me out and I said no because I don't like him and now they keep calling me too picky. What do I do?

say fuck them because if you don't like a guy WHY GO OUT WITH HIM.. that's the stupiest thing i've ever heard.. going out with a guy just because he asks you out.. whether you like him or not! EW! lol.. Sounds to me that your the only smart one in your group.. and it also sounds to me that all your other girlfriends are ditzy cheerleader type girls sorry lol but that's how those kind of girls act (going out with whoever) You are smart for saying no to that guy because you didn't like him.. there's NOTHING wrong with being picky about who you date.. nothing at all! lol

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Will a yeast infection go away on its own or what can you do to get rid of it?

go to the store and get monistat it works great. it's specially for yeast infections.. ick gerL i kno how you feel.. yeast infections itch and burn like a mother fucker!!

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Last night I did my washing but I was really tired so I just dumped it all in without looking to see what went in. Then when I checked this morning, I had found that I had slipped a fur coat into the mix.

Things happen and bada bing bada boom,

The coat feel apart,

Well I'm not that upset about the coat falling apart (a bit but not much) but now all my other clothes that went in that wash have fur all over them. I have tried shaking them off but they are still covered- what would be the best way to get all the fur off easily?

get a lint roller and roll it over all your clothes it will get annoying but hay.. it works!

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Hey everybody! I am kinda deppressed. I cant figure out what i'm good at. I used to skateboard and that was my life. It is what made me happy. But i got really bad at it and only get mad when i do it now. So i cant do that anymore. I like to make rap lyrics but also suck at that. Those were the only two things that made me truely happy, and i cant do either one of them. So i realized that there is nothing i am good at. And if thats the case, what is my point in living? And how can i figure out what i'm good at? Ive tried so many things like different sports, activities, just all sorts of things and i cant seem to be good at anything. Please help. Thank you all.

oh wow. i felt the same exact way for the longest time.. and i felt like i had no reason to live because i would look at my sister and brother and all my friends and they all had talents and i could do NOTHING good like I CAN do things good but im not AWESOME at them like my friends or siblings were.. but i eventually found out that i'm an amazing cheerleading and dancer.. don't worry you'll find something soon TRUST me everyone does!

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My house smells really bad.. like dogs. How do i get the smell to go away? I've tried air fresheners like NeutraAir and Febreeze and Oust but none of them seem to work. Is there an INEXPENSIVE way to get my house clean- and fresh-smelling? I'll rate 5's for everyone who tries 2 answer!

Well.. you have to vaccuum a lot.. and put like.. that powder stuff on your floor that smells good that you vaccuum up.. and then use.. air fresheners.. and spray febreeze all over your pillows and couches and things like that.. if that doesn't work.. then.. the smell is never gunna go away.. sorry gerL!

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What color eyeshadow would compliment someone with light blue eyes? (I normally wear pink eyeshadow.) Does eyeliner look good? I have light tan skin and light brown hair with highlights if that helps. THANKS!

Yeah.. brown or black eyeliner would look good on you.. try using white eyeshadows or even browns.. my best friend has gorgeouse blue eyes and wears browns, whites, blues, and blacks a lot..

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I'e been going out with this guy for about 1 month. My best friend and 2 guy friends say i should break up with him because he treats me like crap. He is always on other girls and every now and then he cusses me out for stupid reasons. What should I do??

babe. i think you should get rid of him and move on. no girl deserves to be treated like you are being treated. i know it might be hard cuz ive done it like 1,000 times haha. but you've got to try your hardest. be confident. break up with him and say to yourself.. im pretty, i can get another boyfriend.. ugh.. i can't stand guys that are assholes to their ladies!! you need to get you a hott ass boyfriend that treats you like gold.. GO OUT AND FIND OUT! LoL IM me if you ever need any other advice! Peace oUt!

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My brother is gay and a lot of people will always mention about it. They make fun of me because he's gay.. They keeps sayin Ohhh Your brothers GaY!!! and sometime's it doesn't bother me.. but other times it does. Surprisingly, most people are cool with it and say he's the coolest person they ever met.. what should i do!?

Well if I were you I'd tell them to shut the f*ck up and get a life.. say that they have no reason to be making fun of you.. when it's your own brother's choice.. and tell them that their just jealous because he doesn't like them haha..

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I never get this kid. I really like this boy and I have liked him for over a year now. We have went out before and things happen on and off. Well I have been talking to him recently and he told me he loved me and all, and I didn't know if he was just saying that to get some lol but then he was like I am being serious I really like you a lot still. He said he wants to have sex with me, but the thing is we aren't going out and I brought that up and he's like fine we will go out and then do it. I told him if we did that I was afraid he would 'hump me and dump me' you know. But I told him that I guess I would so he wouldn't keep asking and I was afraid he would get mad. He was happy and all. Then he told me he had to go and he would call me back in 45 minutes and he was like I love you Ryah, just like he would usually do. He never called me back and usually he would call me the next day, but he didn't and he hasn't called me yet today either. I don't know what is up, I saw him today in school and I smiled and said hey and he smiled back (we don't have enough time to stop and talk). He never really acts like he so called 'loves me' in school but we do act like friends, but on the phone it's different. I don't know why he hasn't called and I don't know why he only acts like that on the phone! Anyone have any ideas?

He's not worth your time.. and I think your right about the humping and dumping part.. if you say.. well we aren't even going out so.. no I don't want to have sex with you.. then he says.. Well fine! We will go out.. Then do it! That's BuLL sHiT!~ I'm sorry hun.. but he doesn't want nothin' but.. well.. u know.. don't hurt yourself.. forget this loser!

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Okay, about two weeks ago, I told one of my really close guy friends that I liked him. I thought I did because I knew he liked me ALOT too.. He would do anything for me, etc, so I thought that I liked him too. So I told him. But now Im seeing that I really dont have those kind of feelings for him at all. I feel horrible because he seems so happy now because he thinks I like him back... I dont know what to do :-/ I really dont want to talk to him about it because its really messed up.. any advice on how to handle it without talking to him? Thanks in advice.

Well babe.. I'm srry but the only way to get through this without hurting him really bad.. is just.. telling him the truth.. tell him you thought you had feelings for him.. but the feelings have gone away because you realized you don't wanna mess up your friendship.. be really nice about it and just be like.. I think it's better that we are friends.. and let's just ignore this and not let it interfere with our friendship and tell him not to act different around you at all.. things like that!! I hope I helped! Rate me high!! lol Please!

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ok. the other day my one friend went and sent me a link that said xanga and a couple other links that said buddy4uprofile and all so i thought they were all her info stuff. so i clicked on them alll and it came up that they were a bunch of porno sites and 3 of em i think were lesbian sites. I clicked outta them as soon as i realized wut they were and yelled at her for it. Well, today my mom woke up and yelled at me for them becuz she gets emails telling her what i go on. Well, now she thinks i am a lesbian even tho she says she believe me i kno neither of my parents do becuz my dad always. and i mean always says he loves me when he leaves to take her to work and he didnt until i said i love you too. I know they think im a lesbian and that they hate me even tho im not. i hate this and i dont want them thinking this. I told them a hundred times what happened and theyre like, "wut did the advicenato people tell u to say that." what do i do to make them believe me?

Try talking to your friend and see if she will tell your parents what really happend.. if she's a true friend.. she will help you out.. otherwise.. she's not.. I would do it for you!!

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i put a crap load of deoderant on every day before i go to school. i'm never hot or anything, but i always sweat in my arm pits, and i don't know how to cover it up. i can't wear a sweatshirt anymore, i get even hotter and it feels more gross. i don't know what to do! somebody help!

Go to the doctor and tell them about it.. my friend had the same problem and she was a girl.. so like.. of course she had to do something lol.. The doctors will give you a prescription deodorant thingy.. and it works really well!!

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Hi, I have a few dark freckles on my face that I would like to hide. Do you know of anything that would cover them up well? Thank you in advance.

Try using a light foundation on your face.. like.. ivory..

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does anyone know a good website for cute quotes?? thx

www.firehotquotes.com
^^ its cool!! lol

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I met this guy back in September over the computer.He is from the same state as me and he lives pretty close too.I'm really in love with him,and he loves me too.He is the sweetest guy I've ever met.He treats me so right.Yet I get upset with him alot and we fight.He calls me every day and we talk online.The only thing I hate is that he has a girlfriend from another state who lives like 4 1/2 hours away and they never see each other.I'm always getting mad at him over that.He told me he wants to marry me in 2009.I don't know what I'm suppose to do.Should I get over the fact he has a girlfriend,and that I probably won't have a chance with him? Please help me,I'm not sure about what I should do.

I'd appreciate the help...Thank you!

First off.. if you have never met this dude.. FORGET HIM! Well no.. I can't say that.. because true love can happen over the internet.. just like in.. *A Cinderella Story* haha! with Hilary Duff.. haha.. Great cute movie.. but yeah.. I'm sure you will have a chance with him.. but if you've never seen the dude before.. how do you know if he's cute or not? haha just wondering.. anyways.. why i said that you will prolly have a chance is because.. your dude will realize well hay! my girlfriend lives almost 5 hours away.. and i'm never gunna see her.. and of course guys are horny.. and he'll think well i have this wonderful girl that actually lives in the same state as me.. and like CLOSE to me.. soo ill break it off with this girl that lives 5 hours away and start a relationship with this AWESOME chick that lives so close to me.. lol GOOD LUCK!!! Trust me.. this dude will realize UR THE ONE..

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I just moved to a new school and I'm finding it really hard to make some friends (i'm in 9th). and it just gets really lonley on the weekends because I don't like do anything. And my friends from my old school, I don't talk to them anymore. I don't know if there is any advice you can give me (besides that whole join a sport because I am doing a sport in the spring) and join a club because I am already in some and they arent very helpful with meeting people. Any advice??

Oh wow!! I was just talking to one of my friends about this.. You might not be as outgoing as me.. *sounded soo conceided but it makes a good point!! LOL* Like.. just be crazy!! When you go into school.. just talk to people.. go in there with confidence.. When your in class just start talking to people.. laugh a lot.. be stupid.. everyone loves stupid girls lol.. just be outgoing.. if you want to make friends.. you can't be a shy, quiet girl and expect people to talk to you.. it just.. doesn't work like that.. you've got to get some confidence and just be like.. HAY WHATS UP!! Be Crazy! Be You! It's fun meeting new people!!!

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What are some good ways to make your girlfriend feel special, like make her feel like you are the best guy in the world (well I know that's probably around impossible. So I am exaggerating a bit, haha.)? What do you girls think would make you special if your guy said them to you or things like that?

Something a guy would do that would totally make me feel so special.. is just.. looots of cuddling and I love yous.. and telling me how good of a girlfriend i was.. and just holding eachother and kissing.. awwe.. how cute! lol.. I would definitely love if my boyfriend bragged about me to his friends.. like.. my girlfriend is the best ever.. and stuff like that.. Girls feel loved when we get to cuddle!!

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I told a guy I would go to the fall homecomming with him but a week before I got caught sneeking out and got grounded. I told him I couldn't go with him anymore, then a couple days later my parents said I could go with him still. So I call him and and I asked him if he still wanted to go I could go with him, if not it was cool. But by that time he had another date. I really feel bad b/c I couldn't go with him and yes, I know it was really immature of my to sneak out. One of my friends said he thought it was rude of me to tell him I could still go with him...I don't get it, but should I appologize to him about not bieng able to go with him? I havn't talked to him in 2 months...thanks

-Zero

No! You should have no reason to apologize! This isn't your fault at all.. your parents grounded you and are the ones that made you make the decision to tell him that you weren't allowed to go to the dance with him.. then of course.. your parents changed their minds.. so this isn't your fault at all.. Ask him why he thinks it was rude to tell him you could go with him again.. Tell him that it wasn't your fault and you seriously weren't allowed to go anymore.. but your parents decided your were allowed to go again.. and tell him that YOU wanted to go with him so you told him that if he didn't have another date already that you could still go because your parents changed their minds.. Ugh.. Boys.. boys.. boys.. I HATE THEM!!! lol

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I lost the love of my life because he faught somtimes, but the real issue is- my parents won't let him be around me- i can't even talk to him!.... what do i do? He loves me so much and i love him too, we want to be together but my parents won't let us..?! help me please

well.. this is sneaky but.. u can't help true love.. BE WITH HIM.. i'm sure you can think of ways to hang out with him without your parents knowing.. it might be hard but.. its love.. you can still talk to eachother on the phone.. its YOUR parents that won't let you talk to him.. so you can still call him.. just don't let him call you.. and if he wants to call you.. tell him to dial *67 when he calls your house because it makes his number private.. go over to your friends houses on the weekends.. and invite him over there or something.. babe.. i hope things work out for you.. this is the reason i don't tell my parents when i have a boyfriend.. even when i ask if i can have him over.. i still don't tell them he's my man.. lol.. I am a sneeky little girl though!!

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