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Okay, my mom has a friend who has a son. They came over one night and this was the first time I have met him before, he kept on staring at me or just looking at me in the eyes a lot. That night he asked his mom for my e-mail adress and I got an e-mail from him saying " you looked amazing the other night and I think ur really cool, I want to get to know you better," or "do you have a boyfriend" or "what are you most like? Calm and collective, or wild and crazy?"
and stuff like that and I just dont know... is he interested in me?? He's a senior in High School and I am a freshman. What should I do?!?!

Well yea he probably is interested if hes asking you those kinds of things . . . i think that you should reply to the email and start to get to know him better and see if hes a nice guy!!!
hope i helped out

kaitlyn jo

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okay, so this guy i am "together with" which means we are pretty much going out without the label. anyway, he says he likes me alot, but doesnt think we would be able to have a relationship because he doesnt think i would want him to finger me, or i wont give him head. and the truth is, i just think it would be akward.. but ive gone out with him before.. and i really want a relationship with him.. he doesnt want to have sex with me.. just do everything else. but ive never given anyone head, and ive never been fingered.. im 14.. and i didnt think i should be doing that stuff.. what should i do?

Tell him that you like him alot and that your not ready for that kind of stuff yet .. hopefully he will understand !!

kaitlyn j0*

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OK well im a 13/f and when I was little and still now if like i do somthing "bad"..or i get my dad mad...he'll like hit me...and like i dont know if thats really considered abuse..well see this all came up because my friend jessica was tellin us how she stayed out late and her dad got really mad and she called her mom and was like i think dads gunna hit me cuz hes really mad but if he lays a hand on me ill call the cops...so that just got me thinkin to myself...is what my dad does considered abuse or just a way of him "punishing" me.
plz answer
thanks

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Well for some people it isnt abuse .. it is just their way of punishing their child or just their way of doing things for punishment but if their is any marks like bruises or scars that are left then its mostly likely gonna be considered abuse by some people !! Hope it helped !!

kaitlyn jo*

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Okay so the guy I like, I was with him today and he was talking to his friend and he was saying how he'd f*cked this girl and whatever and the way he said it totally put me off him.

But like, my friend said he could've said it just to make himself sound cool which is what alot of guys do but I dunno.

I really like him but I don't want to TRY to get involved if all he wants is to get in my jeans, you know?
So, what should I do?

Well he prolly did that just so that you would like him more but give him a chance and if he trys to do somethin talk to him or try to stay away from him .. idk what to tell ya !!

kaitlyn jo *

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kayy well i was going out with a really cool guy and this girl that used to be my best friend asked him out when we just broke up and she told him she asked me that it was ok to go out with him but she never asked me. so im really mad at her. but now the guy wants to go out with me again but he doesnt like to say no to people like the other girl but i hate her now so i feel like getting back at her so this is the best thing i can think of. is it ok???

Well if you still like him then go out with him .. but you shouldnt do it just to get back at her .. what you need to do is ask her why she lied and didnt ask you !!

kaitlyn jo *

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I'm 13/f and i have strech markd on my thieghs and weigh 113 lbs so am i fat and if so what are some tips to get trim.

either your losing weight or your gaining weight it would be one of those or you are just getting wider and gaining wieght

kaitlyn jo*

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is there anyway to flatten my hair?
if i straighten it, it just straightens.
and it doesn't flatten, it's still poofy.
also, it curves in at the end.
is there anything i can do about this?

Yepp .. you can use a iron like you iron your clothes with and it should works!!

kaitlyn jo *

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Well Okay .. Theres this boy i have liked since i met him he was like one of my best friends and stuff i mean i really really love him more than anything and i mean he keeps confusing me like one min he acts like he likes me and stuff and the next i dont know i mean my friend asked him if he likes me and he said i dont know and i mean really this is confusing me and i really really like him.. LOVE / but see thers this other guy i like u kno alot .. and he lieks me alot and he asked me out should i go out with him and try to move on or wait for tha other guy ?!?! please help!!

Well if you really like him then why dont you talk to him and see what the deal is .. .. but if he said that he dont kno then i would go out with the other guy that you really like becoz atleast you kno that he really likes you .. but you can im me and talk to me more about it on
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kAiTLyN jO*

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how long does it usually take for something ordered off the grattan website to get to you? because i ordered some clothes and i would like to get the before i go on holiday (on the 14th august).

Probably between 7 - 10 days !

kaitlyn jo*

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Okay I’m 15 and I weigh 110 and I’m 5’6 is that to skinny? I don’t think it is but some people say that is and I wanna gain some pounds. And I want it to show I just maybe wanna get to like 120 at least. If anyone knows any good ways of gaining some pounds please let me know what they are. Also will you tell me from the information I gave you up top does that sound like I’m skinny or is it fine? Thank you so much!!

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Well atleast you kno that you can eat whatever you want really but just eat things that are still healthy for you though .. Hope that helps you !!

kaitlyn jO*

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I am 5'1 and 140 lbs. I am really wanting to loose at least 15 lbs. before school starts back because I feel that I am a lil chubby..if anyone knows of any kind of excercises or tips so make this much easier or of a quick weight loss thing that has worked for you..let me know, please?!

I walk about a mile everynight .. that works you can do about 100 crunches a night and that works


kaitlyn jO*

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Ok so me and my girlfriend have been going out for almost 8 months. We havent really done n e thing but kissed except for once but i didnt finish so she didnt enjoy it as much as i think she could have. She says she wants to but i dont know if she really wants to do n e thing else and i really do. What should i do?

Talk to her about but dont force or presure her to do sumthinq ..


kaitlyn jO*

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Ok so on Friday i am going to my freinds house for a "movie night" we're going to paly volleyball outside earlier and then later we're going to watch hide and seek. well no big deal. she invited 4 guys and 3 girls (shes the 4th girl). well its kinda like a paired off thing. she invited couples. except for me. she invited this guy. i kind of like him i guess. same with him. he told my freind he kind of likes me. well i dont know i thnk it's goign to br really weird. because all the other people are goign ot be with their girl/boyfreind and then there will be me and this guy. i like him and all but i dont know i think it will be weird.and im kind of worried that he's gonna like try something, because thats just the the kind of guy he is...so i guess i dont know what to do.
((14/f))

Just go and have fun get to kno this guy a little more and have fun watchinq the movie !!
Hope i helps you out !!



kaitlyn jO*

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Hey Everyone. Well i went to someone with this same question on a different site.. but i wanted to see what others thought too.Um before i start..My name is Katie,im a girl lol, & im 14. Okay, well..My boyfriend and I have been dating on and off for a little over a year now. Well i have a friend we used to be like best friends, but kinda grew apart. Somewhere along the way.. my friend lets say her name isssss..um..Jane.Anyway like i was saying, somewhere along the way Jane & my boyfriend started being "best friends". Well he calls her everyday & stuff. It sorta makes me feel bad. Now i duno whats the real story behind this.. but ive asked them before if they had a little more something going on.. but they both said no. i wana believe them.. i really do. But for some reason i have a little bit of doubt.And once i even heard he asked her out when we broke up but of course we got back together. I feel like a jealous girlfriend. Am i over-reacting? Soo what do you guys think.. do they like each other & if you think so..what should i do?? im so confused.PLEASE HELP!Thanks so much!!!

Nooo your not jealous most girlfriends are kinda like that becoz they actually trust their boyfriends but if he pays more attention to her then you and talks to her mor than you then i wouldnt even go out with him!

kaitlyn jO*

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yeah I know the slogan is really cheesy (oragami is the art of folding paper hairagami is the art of folding hair) but the product is really cool. where can you get it (not online)???? I can't seem to find it anywhere! It's not at longs of safeway! pleez someone help me!!!

Go to a sallys beauty shop ( if you have one ) or walmart .. or some kind of hair store near you !!


kaitlyn jO*

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I liked this guy in the 5th grade... I was the first girl to like him in our school. (He was new then) I got over it even though I still liked him. He didnt even know me. In the 6th grade we were hanging out alot because we had a friend that both us hung out with. After two months of hanging out and talking, he asked me out. I said yes. We were going out for 2 months. During that time I got my first kiss. And I was just so happy. Well after two months I broke up with him because I got a note from a girl who was like stay away from my boyfriend. (No one knew about our relationship) And I was threatened and everything I was so heartbroken. I broke up with him and we moved on. Even though I still liked him. Then in the 7th grade he asked me out again. I said yes but he made me promise that I wouldnt tell anyone because he was going to surprise everyone on Friday and tell them, in a special way. Well I told my best friend and the next day during lunch she told like his whole table. A guy that sat with him said he is going to break up with you and I believed him. I couldnt have my heart broken I have a reputation as a tough girl. So I broke up with him again. My heart was broken but I still loved him. About 2 months later, I was sleeping over a friends house and someone was staying at his. We were on the phone from 8pm until 2:15am. My friend fell asleep and so did his so from 1:30am until 2:15 we spent talking and saying I love you and and all this sweet stuff. But he never asked me out again. We stayed like that for a long time. We still are close but no more sweet stuff. I miss him and I read his profile online and reminded me so much of how I feel and how much time we spent togehter it was almost like he was writing it for me. I am still in love and I was before I read it but now that I read it I fell. I fell so fast that after I finished the last word I hit the ground. I love him so much. What do you think I should do? Should I tell him or leave it bee?
PLEASE TELL ME!!! NEED HELP! ANY THING!

You should ask him if that is about you and if it is then tell him how you felt becoz it seems like it would be sweet and you both would make a good couple .. If you really like him why dont you just ask him out ?!?! .. Hope i helped !!


kaitlyn jO * screename - - » xdingyxbabex

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Well i broke up with my bf after we dated for 7 months i felt like i wanted to experience more things so i broke up with him.. and now im dating him again and i dunno if i rly love him in my heart i see us starting a family together but i kinda feel like i want some1 new but im not for sure.. wat should i do??

You should date around with other guys to see if you feel the same way that you do with this guy tyhat your with now but atleast you kno that you could go baq to your b/f !!

kaitlyn jO*

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Ive had problems with my friends..whenever i tell one of them something it doesnt seem like they care too much..how can i tell them?

Well dont tell them what is going on if they are gonan be like that and just talk to the ones that actually listen to you becoz they arent really your true friend if they dont listen to you !! Hope i helped !!

kaitlyn jo*

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im 14/f...i feel like i sleep a LOT! like here's an average day: wake up around 10...take a nap from like 1 to 3 30...then get up and do whatever...then take another nap from like 5 to 6 30...then stay up until like 1 in the morning and go to bed and do it all over again the next day...is this normal or is there something wrong???

Well maybe its becoz you arent doing enough instead of takinq naps go out and swim and run hang with your friends !!

kaitlyn jO*

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OK so there's thig guy I like. I've liked him for like3 or 4 years. Now he met this girl whos like completley gorgeous and they make out and stuff like all the time. I think he might like her. I think he knows I like him, but what do I do?

Talk to him and find out if he really does like you but if all he wants to do is make out with grls then he prolly isnt worth your time !!

kaitlyn jo*

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