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friday night.


Question Posted Tuesday July 19 2005, 4:04 pm

Ok so on Friday i am going to my freinds house for a "movie night" we're going to paly volleyball outside earlier and then later we're going to watch hide and seek. well no big deal. she invited 4 guys and 3 girls (shes the 4th girl). well its kinda like a paired off thing. she invited couples. except for me. she invited this guy. i kind of like him i guess. same with him. he told my freind he kind of likes me. well i dont know i thnk it's goign to br really weird. because all the other people are goign ot be with their girl/boyfreind and then there will be me and this guy. i like him and all but i dont know i think it will be weird.and im kind of worried that he's gonna like try something, because thats just the the kind of guy he is...so i guess i dont know what to do.
((14/f))


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ElmosBrightStar answered Friday July 22 2005, 2:37 am:
Well, if you want it to happen, let it. If not, just talk, and if he tries something you don't want, tell him you're not even going out, but you would eventually like for that to happen (if you want it to). Just be upfront about what you do and don't want if he tries to pull stuff. Hope it all workes out.

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xdinGyxbaBex answered Friday July 22 2005, 1:20 am:
Just go and have fun get to kno this guy a little more and have fun watchinq the movie !!
Hope i helps you out !!



kaitlyn jO*

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vanna04 answered Thursday July 21 2005, 11:56 am:
if you don't want to do anything with this guy don't do it. push him away when he trys to make a move. or if you like him just go with it. but if you don't like him then don't let him try anything.

hope i helped a little :)
x0x0-vanna :)

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karenR answered Wednesday July 20 2005, 4:50 pm:
You go and have fun. You don't have to do any more than watch a movie and get to know the guy. Don't be pressured into doing anything you don't want to do. Let him no in no uncertain terms that you don't make out with a guy you just met. You'll do alright. Just go and have fun. :)

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CFWLOVESYOU answered Wednesday July 20 2005, 11:40 am:
awww. juss call him and tell him how you feel and then umm... well see if he feels teh same.. HOPED THAT I HELPED !*CAROLINE*!

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Dr_Joseph answered Wednesday July 20 2005, 2:53 am:
I guess you have two choices here.

1. Go to the party,just relax and enjoy yourself,if you just want to be friends with this guy and nothing else then i'm sure he will respect that choice. I'm sure he'd rather know you than a friend than not know you at all.

2.Don't go to the party.Sit at home and think about what is happening at the party and if you regret not being at it.Watch a movie and have some pop corn. Take it easy. Life is to much fun to be stressed about what other people are thinking. Live your life for you.

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craZlilchelC152 answered Tuesday July 19 2005, 6:20 pm:
don*t worry too much about it, it might be awkward @ first but just talk to him and maybe try cuddling a lil bit during hide n seek (great movie by the way haha) You*ll be fine, people prolly won*t mess around til the movie so you*ll have time b4 that to get to know him a lil better!! hope i helped <3 chelsea

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X0C0URT answered Tuesday July 19 2005, 5:23 pm:
Don't worry about it too much. Just hang out with him as if you guys were friends. If you need to, say "I know this is kind of a couple thing, but we're just friends right?" Or something like that. If you really feel weird about it, maybe you should tell your friend to invite someone else because you don't feel comfortable with him. But who knows, it might be really fun. Get to know the guy, but don't feel pressured to jump into anything.

X0C0URT

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x0xMrSm answered Tuesday July 19 2005, 5:15 pm:
woah this sounds like a familiar situation...haha.

but umm, since you kind of like him and you think that he kind of likes you, you shouldn't be worried if he would try something, right? so like, don't get stressed over it because everything will just happen naturally...

so yeah...or just talk to him about the situation.

good luck and hope i helped.

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MummuM answered Tuesday July 19 2005, 5:04 pm:
Go to your friends and have fun with this guy. You guys could do some talking to get to know eachother a little better. Maybe there will be a spark and you'll like eachother a hole lot more. If he try's anything on you and you don't feel comfortable with it just tell him. If he respects you and likes you enough, he'll back off and understand.
&hearts; Krissy

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notmissperfect7 answered Tuesday July 19 2005, 4:56 pm:
umm just trii and get to know him.dont make him force you into wat you dont wanna do.if you get uncomfy just leave.talk to him and keep his mind off of bad thingz.

hope i helped
megz

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t0xicParadiSe answered Tuesday July 19 2005, 4:44 pm:
just talk to him and get to know him if he trys something and you dont feel awkward go along with it
but if you dont feel comfortable with what hes doing tell him
hope i helped if you need anything drop one in my inbox &hearts;

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boricuachik answered Tuesday July 19 2005, 4:42 pm:
i know how you feel you thinkk he is going to try and talk to you aor touch you and i bet youcant stop thinking about it just go with the flow dont stress it too much because if nothing does happes you probably going to feel disapointed cause you thought something was gonna happen just keep it real and you probably get him nervous just chill dont stress anything you to young to be stressing

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LoViny0ux914 answered Tuesday July 19 2005, 4:41 pm:
you should just see how it goes and just have fun and stuff. if he tries something and youre comfortable, just go along with it, maybe you guys will end up getting together! if he tries something and your not comfortable just tell him. he should understand! gl i hope you have fun!

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